#K*** that man in general I hate misogyny and sexism!

[rotzaprachim]

I know we’re in a new era of livetweeted misogyny but Elon musk threatening to impregnate Taylor swift on live social media feels like a new degree change in the air

[hezzydaddy]

I have a bone to pick with men.

Growing up, “men” were not around in abundance.

Just Dad, two estranged uncles and older cousins but they were just boys.

Dad and I relationship was strained so boom; me and men/boys didn’t mesh well as I was weird to them and they made sure I knew it and I wasn’t invited around.

I became attached and in tune to the black, Christian, southern moraled, New Yorker women in my family and that, lead to female friends.

I learned a lot things from these women but since they had been abused and oppressed (as most women of the past (and present) were), they thought me what they knew; tolerance, getting more bees with honey vs sugar, tact, a respect they weren’t afforded and misplaced humility. These blessing/curse further separated me from the average male.

By the time I was dating I felt I truly understood women. I was young and naive but well intended.

MY RELATIONSHIPS ALL FAILED.

Why? I did what I was taught; I loved and respected women. Why didn’t it work?

A lot of reasons:

Emotions are weird.

-duh

The experience of the women I dated was not that of my family

-no one told me of the RAMPANT SEXUAL abuse 9.5/10 women (my numbers) experience BEFORE 18

-the boys/men in their lives have are giving them poor information or abusive or absent or the women are grooming their child with the intent of making a more moral clone

Many they saw day to day and like or are attracted to denounce the things I like sbd stand for and made women self conscious about being with me

It was a lot.

That drove me to figure out why women were no responding to me as I figured.

Shortly after, I immediately realized I knew nothing about women.

Pt 2

So I’m researching about women and why they are as they are.

To my dismay, everything seems to lead to men. The Mandate of Heaven superiority style complex that men are just better than women coupled with and inferiority complex as the system we have created makes us work and work for rewards and we outrageously made ourselves believe that enough hard work SHOULD GUARANTEE US THE RIGHT TO SOMEONE ELSES BODY/BEING.

So now, so now recounting my youth:

that tolerance? Teaching to tolerate abuse

getting more bees with honey vs sugar?

To avoid abuse or mistreatment with undue niceness as a defense mechanism

tact?

See above

But “a respect they weren’t afforded and misplaced humility”? I knew you that was fishy but I did it then learned later that you respect everyone but those that disrespect you, all bets are off but misplaced humility? Being modest unnecessarily? Not speaking on your skill or proficiency as your afraid of being seen as self-centered or not voicing your opinions/feeling/emotions/thoughts so people don’t feel like your being a bitch/asshole? A 100% dub.

Men have created a world we hate and women are watching us do it to ourselves and to them.

Now, women with sense or emotional intelligence are starting to not just be leery or afraid but are to the post of truly hating men for their either crimes against women/the world or their standing idly or even cheerin while other men wreak havoc yet claim to be different or well intended.

I didn’t even know I WAS AFFECTED. I didn’t realize I was taught homophobia, sexism, self loathing and so on; all this by subverted misogyny instilled in the women/girls by generations of abuse and DIRECTLY from men/boys

Now. I try to truly “be the change” and this shit is W A C K. Men don’t want shit to do with me as I’m either a simp or secretly gay and the women are on the same wave (some even say I like hoes since I’m for sexual equality)

The part that truly broke me was an unrelated post about dating. Men will take a woman out cause they like her or they want to try to see where it goes (yes men/people just want to fuck too but that not what I’m speaking on) and women just won’t cause they don’t like us.

Not in a personal way though. That’s what the surface answers said. It was a ringing agreement that “we don’t like y’all”. Not even personally, just men in general.

We. Don’t. Like. Men.

Do you realize how messed up you have to be to be a straight woman attracted to men? It’s really crazy. And the fact that I understand that now HURTS.

Outside of my immediate family, a woman “loving” ame?

Maybe. Depending on how fucked up men have been and if I’m smart enough not to be one of the causes of pain in her life, maybe.

“In love” with a me? Nah. You’d either have to be an idiot or “in love” to be in love with a man and if you are “in love” omg. I’m sorry for you cause based on our track record , we suck.

Men have so rarely been a real reputable source of love to the women in my life and those I’ve met and listened to that I just don’t like MOST men.

Like, idk here’s a analogy as a close.

Even if out of 1000 grapes 10 ARENT poison, to go grab a random grape and assume it’s not is poison is just not wisdom.

As a man, men suck.