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A Place to Lay our Heads, and a Long Journey Back to the Beginning

December 21, 2022

I am having trouble keeping track of the days. I keep thinking it’s Sunday today (and it’s Wednesday), I’m a bit astonished that we’ve been in India a week, and the fact that Christmas is four days away is mind-blowing. Anyone who knows me knows I love this holiday- and I’m getting a little misty thinking about not being with family this year. But this was a conscious choice (in order to meet with my students at Khalsa College and give them an “activity”—I’ve been advised NOT to call it an “assignment”--for over their winter break) and I will relish the chance to experience what Christmas is like in the Punjab. There are certainly signs of the holiday: our hotel is advertising that we can “satiate our Christmas cravings with luscious indulgences, handcrafted by our culinarians”—and for a mere 599 INR (about $7.00) we can have a “Jagermeister Bomb” (don’t know what that is—but yuck.) And there’s an old Anglican church near here from British times with a Christmas Eve service and Christmas day service- so we’ll attend one of those. There are artificial trees for sale in local stalls, along with Santa hats and some other silly stuff—and our hotel has some nice jazz versions of Christmas carols playing (the same playlist over and over…but at least it’s pleasant.) We’ll make our own unique Christmas tradition this year. But I’ll miss the Christmas House in Brookfield, MA where my sister-in-law Margo goes all out in their 18th century home.

The big news since last I wrote is that we found a place to live! David and I were all set to commit to an apartment that was darling—and very comfortable—but in a neighborhood I had some concerns about. In the meanwhile, I reached out to people I met when I was here in 2018—desperately seeking a recommendation for a real estate broker who might help us in our search. One of those people was an astonishing young woman named Aashna Sachdeva whom I had connected with in 2018.

Aashna and me in 2018

Aashna wrote to me Monday morning that her father, whose family had experienced Partition, was touched by the subject of my project, and wanted to help. Within an hour we were visiting a property he owns in a great part of town—and invited to make that our home for the next six months. The place is shared during the day by his partner and crew who are working on developing an app for film editing (it feels like we are in an episode of Silicon Valley minus the obnoxious characters)- but we have a spacious area upstairs. It was pretty sparse when we saw it, but Aashna’s mom Jasmina met me there the next day and made a list of things she could loan us for our stay: a couch, a table, a small frig, some rugs, etc. The generosity of this couple- who were complete strangers to us a week ago-is overwhelming. We move in on Friday- and we’re planning to treat ourselves to a little shopping spree at Home Centre and Fabindia (the temple of my familiar) to make the place feel homey.

This city is fascinating… and intense. Having an oasis of peace will be crucial.

Our new place:

Today, David and I headed to the old city with the plan of visiting the Golden Temple.

On our way

But when we got there, it was teeming with pilgrims, worshippers, and tourists—and we thought it wise to return early one morning or after dark—the times recommended by many. After stopping in at The Partition Museum (the place I visited in 2018 that prompted the whole idea for this Fulbright project),

Outside of the Partition Museum, housed in the old town hall

we made our way to the Jallianwala Bagh Memorial. If you don’t know or have forgotten: on April 13, 1919, a group of soldiers commanded by British Brigadier General R.E.H. Dyer entered an enclosed courtyard where a large group of peaceful protesters (men, women, and children) were gathered. He ordered the soldiers (sadly, all Indians serving in the British army) to fire into the crowd. No warning was made to disperse (such gatherings were forbidden)—they just fired –1650 rounds—and killed approximately 1500 men, women, and children. 120 of them jumped into the well in the courtyard to escape the bullets—and all drowned. I’m giving the barest of facts here. But see the scene the scene from “Gandhi” on YouTube below for a pretty accurate (and harrowing) seven-minute depiction (if, perhaps, a little kind to the panel that questioned Dyer later.) You'll see the Town Hall that now houses the Partition Museum in the clip. The space is now a memorial park to the victims and very well done, although the cheery music piped in makes for a bizarre counterpoint to the weight of what took place there.

Jallianwala Bagh

We were tired after that- and ready to head back to the hotel for a rest. That was not as simple as anticipated. We got ourselves lost in the warren of narrow streets that make up the old city- and my Fitbit knock-off alerted me that I had reached 10,000 steps long before we made it to a main road where we could call an Uber. And that was right back where we’d started. We had walked in a huge, confusing circle—past countless tiny shops, tea stalls and rickshaw drivers all offering to take us where we were going (but none knowing where our hotel was.) Although I had some nervousness that we might get robbed (pick pocketing and other theft are a big problem here)- we both sort of enjoyed the journey. The weather was cool and not unpleasant. There were lots of interesting things to see.

And we knew eventually we’d have to come to something familiar, which we did. It did feel incredibly good to finally climbed into an Uber and sit back as our driver made his way through unimaginable traffic to finally deposit us at our hotel (how does anyone drive in this city?) The Uber cost: 140 INR (about $1.75.) We tipped him more than the ride cost: that price might have been acceptable (for here) if it had been a clear shot—but that poor driver made no money on that ride.

Off to sleep- with the hopes that tonight I don’t wake up at my new time of 1 AM to lie and obsess for an hour before falling back to sleep.

Oh! My funny story of the day: mid-morning I went down to the lobby to ask about extending our stay by one night (the house isn’t quite ready for us.) There was a woman in the lobby impatiently asking for something from the staff. She had on her flannel plaid pajamas and slippers, was holding a cup of chai in each hand, and coughing non-stop. No mask. Not even an attempt to cover her mouth. She then went over to the elevator to head back to her room. I decided to take the stairs. This is a four-star hotel, folks.

And for a little laugh:

Until the next…

[outstationcabsindelhi]

Chennai to Puducherry Taxi Service | Online Taxi Booking | Solocabs

The journey by taxi from Chennai to Puducherry is one that many travelers eagerly anticipate, whether for a peaceful weekend retreat, a cultural exploration, or a business trip. Nestled along the Bay of Bengal, Puducherry is a serene town known for its colonial architecture, scenic beaches, and rich cultural heritage.

Why Choose Solo Cabs for Your Chennai to Puducherry Trip? Whether you're a solo traveler, a couple, or a family, our services are tailored to ensure a hassle-free experience from the moment you book your ride to the moment you reach your destination.

Convenient Online Taxi Booking Booking a taxi with Solo Cabs is incredibly easy and convenient. Our user-friendly online platform allows you to book a cab from the comfort of your home, office, or on the go. Simply visit our website or download the Solo Cabs app, enter your pickup and drop-off locations, select your preferred vehicle type, and confirm your booking.

Affordable Pricing At Solo Cabs, we offer budget-friendly taxi services without compromising on quality.

Wide Range of Vehicle Options Solo Cabs offers a diverse fleet of vehicles to cater to different travel needs and preferences. From compact sedans for solo travelers or couples to spacious SUVs for families or groups, we have the perfect vehicle to suit your requirements. All our vehicles are well-maintained, ensuring a comfortable and safe ride throughout your journey.

Experienced and Professional Drivers Safety and comfort are our top priorities at Solo Cabs. Our drivers are not only experienced and well-trained but also courteous and professional. They are familiar with the Chennai to Puducherry route, ensuring a smooth and efficient journey. Whether you need to make a quick stop along the way or have specific travel requests, our drivers are more than happy to accommodate.

Flexible Travel Options Solo Cabs offers both one-way and round-trip options for your taxi from Chennai to Puducherry journey. Whether you need a quick drop-off or plan to return to Chennai after your stay in Puducherry, we’ve got you covered.

The Chennai to Puducherry Route: What to Expect The road trip by taxi from Chennai to Puducherry is not just a journey; it’s an experience. Covering a distance of approximately 150 kilometers, the drive offers picturesque views of the East Coast Road (ECR), known for its scenic beauty.

Scenic East Coast Road (ECR) The ECR is one of the most beautiful coastal routes in India, running parallel to the Bay of Bengal. As you drive along this road, you’ll be treated to stunning views of the coastline, lush greenery, and charming villages.

Quick and Comfortable Journey With Solo Cabs, you can expect a quick and comfortable journey. Our drivers take the most efficient routes to ensure you reach your destination on time, without any unnecessary delays.

Stopovers and Sightseeing One of the advantages of booking a cab with Solo Cabs is the flexibility to make stopovers along the way. If you wish to explore the attractions on the ECR or take a break at a roadside café, our drivers will accommodate your requests.

Exploring Puducherry: What Awaits You Upon reaching Puducherry, you’ll find yourself in a town that beautifully blends French colonial heritage with Indian culture.

The French Quarter The French Quarter, also known as White Town, is the heart of Puducherry’s colonial charm. With its tree-lined streets, mustard-colored colonial buildings, and charming cafés, it’s a perfect place to explore on foot.

Auroville Located just a short drive from Puducherry, Auroville is an experimental township that attracts visitors from around the world. Known for its spiritual and cultural significance, Auroville is home to the iconic Matrimandir, a meditation center surrounded by lush gardens.

Serenity Beach If you’re looking for a peaceful escape, head to Serenity Beach. This lesser-known gem offers pristine sands, gentle waves, and a tranquil atmosphere, making it an ideal spot for relaxation and reflection.

Local Cuisine Puducherry’s culinary scene is a delightful blend of French and South Indian flavors. Be sure to try the local cuisine, including dishes like coq au vin, baguettes, and seafood specialties. The town’s quaint cafés and restaurants offer a unique dining experience that you won’t want to miss.

How to Book Your Chennai to Puducherry Taxi with Solo Cabs Booking your taxi from Chennai to Puducherry with Solo Cabs is quick and straightforward. Here’s how you can do it: Visit the Solo Cabs Website or App: Go to our official website or download the Solo Cabs app from the App Store or Google Play. Enter Your Travel Details: Input your pickup location (Chennai) and drop-off location (Puducherry). Select Your Vehicle: Browse through our range of vehicles and select the one that best suits your needs. Confirm Your Booking: Review your booking details and confirm your ride. You will receive an instant confirmation with all the necessary information. Enjoy Your Ride: Sit back, relax, and enjoy a comfortable ride with Solo Cabs.

Conclusion.

Traveling by taxi from Chennai to Puducherry has never been easier or more enjoyable, thanks to Solo Cabs. With our reliable, affordable, and convenient taxi service, you can focus on making the most of your trip while we take care of the rest. Whether it’s a weekend getaway, a business trip, or a spontaneous adventure, Solo Cabs is your trusted partner for a smooth and memorable journey. Book your cab today and experience the best of travel with Solo Cabs!

[palak-shah-21]

Bonjour Paris 2024! A Huge Kintree Welcome to Our Olympic Stars!

The magic of the Olympics returns, and this time, the City of Lights, Paris, takes center stage! We at Kintree are bursting with pride as we celebrate the incredible Indian athletes who qualified for the 2024 Games.

Their dedication, passion, and relentless pursuit of excellence are truly inspiring. From badminton smashes to wrestling takedowns and perfect shots on the shooting range, these athletes are ready to showcase their talent on the world's biggest sporting stage.

A Big Kintree Salute to Our Olympians!

Let's meet some of the incredible athletes representing India in Paris:

Lakshya Sen: Prepare to be mesmerized by his finesse and agility on the badminton court! Lakshya, go for the gold in the Men's Singles competition.

Harmanpreet Singh: We know you'll lead the Indian Men's Field Hockey team with strategic brilliance!

Vinesh Phogat: A true powerhouse! We're excited to see your versatility shine in both Women's Freestyle Wrestling and the Women's 50m Rifle 3-Positions.

Sift Kaur Samra: Sharpshooter alert! We're rooting for you in the Women's 50m Rifle 3-Positions, Sift Kaur!

Antim Panghal: Your agility and determination on the wrestling mat are awe-inspiring! Go, dominate the Women's Freestyle 53kg competition.

Lovlina Borgohain & Nikhat Zareen: We know the boxing ring will witness some powerful punches! Give it your all in the Women's 75kg and 50kg categories, Lovlina and Nikhat.

Satwiksairaj Rankireddy & Chirag Shetty: The dynamic duo – "Satwik-Chirag"! We can't wait to see your incredible teamwork in Men's Doubles Badminton.

PV Sindhu: The badminton queen returns! Bring your magic to the court and bring home the gold once again!

Neeraj Chopra: Tokyo's golden hero is back! We have no doubt you'll aim for the gold again in the Men's Javelin Throw, Neeraj!

The Olympics: A Celebration of Family, Sport, and Legacy

The Olympics is a culmination of years of family support and sacrifice. Many of these athletes have families who have been their guiding lights throughout their journeys. Kintree, the family tree app, empowers you to connect with your own family and celebrate the legacies that inspire you.

Uncover Your Family's Story with Kintree

As these Olympians compete for glory in Paris, remember that Kintree is here to help you explore your own family's story. With our user-friendly family tree maker app, you can:

Build a beautiful family tree that spans generations

Add photos, stories, and memories to bring your family history to life

Discover hidden branches of your ancestry through engaging genealogy research

Connect with relatives near and far, fostering a stronger sense of family

Ensure your family legacy thrives for generations to come

We hope the 2024 Paris Olympics will be an unforgettable experience for our Indian athletes and all those watching. Remember, Kintree is always here to help you celebrate the champions in your own family!

Merçi and Bon courage to all our Olympians!

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Accoland Guwahati Ticket Price: 2024

Nestled in the vibrant city of Guwahati, Assam, Accoland stands as a thrilling oasis for adventure seekers and families alike. Renowned for its exhilarating rides, serene surroundings, and warm hospitality, Accoland promises a day filled with excitement and memorable experiences.

Why visit Accoland, Guwahati:

Accoland is more than just an amusement park; it’s a gateway to fun and relaxation in the heart of Assam. Here’s why it’s a must-visit destination:

Adventurous Rides: From spine-tingling roller coasters to refreshing water slides, Accoland offers a diverse range of rides suitable for all ages and adrenaline levels. Whether you seek a rush of excitement or prefer a leisurely float down a lazy river, there’s something here for everyone.

Scenic Beauty: Situated amidst lush greenery and picturesque landscapes, Accoland provides a serene escape from the hustle and bustle of city life. The park’s tranquil surroundings enhance the overall experience, making it an ideal spot for relaxation and rejuvenation.

Family-Friendly Atmosphere: Accoland prides itself on being a family-friendly destination. With dedicated areas for children, safe and well-maintained facilities, and a welcoming atmosphere, it ensures that families can bond and create cherished memories together.

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How To Reach Accoland Park

By Car:

Accoland is around an hour’s drive from Guwahati city centre. You can hire a car or use ride-hailing services like Uber or Ola to get there. Here’s a route you can follow:

Start your navigation app and enter “Accoland Guwahati” as your destination.

Head south out of Guwahati city centre. Continue reading…

Happy weekend🤞 with your children👨‍���‍👧‍👧👨‍👩‍👧‍👧 and lovely partner.

Please stay tuned with itinerary plans.

Best Regards

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the supposed last days in england

16 july 2014

We do not have breakfast together today. You cycled to Will's to prepare for the busking festival in Edinburgh. I wanted to sleep a bit more but after replying to my friend's email about meeting up in Denmark, I was a quite awake. Felt a bit lonely, I opened Youtube watching videos about health and beauty care by a Canadian girl. Tried to check how much internet data I have left out of the 100MB but the password for the app did not work. Felt bad about lying in bed using the internet, though it is less than one hour. When I could hear some sounds from the birds, I decided to wake up. I peed, cleaned my tongue and washed my throat with warm salt water. Rinsed the kettle and put some cold water in the boil. We run out of lemon so I have artichoke herbal tea from Vietnam. Washed a pure light green granny smith's apple, put the red blanket over the table outside, I was happy to enjoy another breakfast outdoor since we moved here, in the sun, looking up to the sky.

Looking straight now is the fence that divides our small rented stoned garden and the big grass garden of the land-lord that we go to the end most of the time to stay on the wooden floor next to the little stream, my favourite plum tree, few other trees and Andrew's cabin. You said it was a very girl, which you actually mean 'woman', thing of Magaret to ask her husband to put up the fence that was not there. Magaret happens to be a white woman that can make me put her in the category of those irritated British women. One day she was on the phone with someone and all I could hear was a lot of 'She' - she was talking about some girl or woman; and a lot of 'She was ridiculous'. Though she did have a few words with her for a few times and did smile and ask me about our recent holiday in Budapest, all could be just 'diplomatic'. I have learned myself not to be close with housemates because it's easier like that so I should understand why she behaves so. Women are more possessive of their men because historically since there was no contraception, women could get pregnant when being with a guy so they have to be careful and cannot just play around with different girls like guys.

It's just a 'women' thing. They might have a period, they might have been wanted by any guy. You said guys go get the girls so all the girls have to try to attract guys, that's why girls are more jealous to each other.

I have learned myself that when a white person is not nice to someone, it's not always 'racism', it's more 'discrimination' most of the time that can happen not just between races but between the same race from different places in one country. The people from the capital take for granted that their accent is standard; the rest is 'countryside', 'southern', or 'northern' for the case of the U.K.

When I think about almost four years that I have lived in England, I think about the people I have encountered, the people who have made me smile, laugh, cry, and think.

The formal manager of the scholarship office of the university. Big size middle age English man, some white hair, big belly.

When I met him in Vietnam before applying for the scholarship for the second time, he was friendly, helpful, understanding with the situation in Vietnam, my family situation. He told me he helped an Indian girl from a slum to study in England. I told him Westminster had been ranked first in the UK for giving our scholarship to international student. He smiled quite proudly 'It's good to be first in something'. He ordered the second coffee when I asked him about his degree in Archaeology before. Looking at my CV, he asked me why I do not study Film.

He seems like a different man in England. When people live in their own country, they can be nationalist. In the first meeting with all the international scholarship students, after telling everyone about the bad stereotypes of each nationality that has scholarship students - now I can only remember he said Indians, don't be on the phone all the time. He then said 'York is the most English town in England' then smile proudly, 'Guess where I am from'. At the end of his speech when he said, 'Be careful with me. I'm the man with the money and power.' is when my tears rolled down and I could not stop it. I looked around, some African faces, some Indians, some Asians - all seem too nervous and worried to smile or laugh at his supposedly joke. No one applauded either.

7 September 2014

I feel a bit lost but a new life is waiting ahead. It is not as if I am suffering from cancer and dying, even if there might be a next life, who knows how it would be. In my case now, I know it would taste like heaven on earth when I have several kinds of Vietnamese food a day, long time no see friends and family and the weather would warm me up after four years of wind and cold, come and go sun in England.

The last 39 days with London, England and BB. More than a month of traveling in between will make it easier. I have not felt good from yesterday since you told me you are going to teach that woman today. It just sounds like a prostitute getting client from the street for what happened. You will be very mad if I tell you this comparison. In Vietnamese culture, being a musician or a typical performing 'artist' could be considered as one kind of 'prostitute' who pleases different people. That is why my mum would not want me to go into singing, learning music instrument or any other kind of art, besides the fact that we could not afford it. I was surprised to hear from the mixed Dutch and French woman that her Dutch father did not want her to pursue ballet because for him, it is like dancing naked in front of lots of people.

[mallikarjuns]

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[crowdvscritic]

round up // NOVEMBER 20

Hi, I’m tired. Actually, my friend Celeste created a piece of art that puts the emphasis needed on that sentiment:

I’m very tired. November felt like it was three years and also felt like it went by in a blink and also I’m not sure where October ended and November began—how does time work like that? (I’ve yet to see Tenet, but maybe that will explain it.) But like Michael Scott, somehow I manage, and lately it’s been like this:

Late-night Etsy scrolling. Browsing beautiful, non-big-box-store artwork is very calming just before I go to bed. I’d recommend Etsy stores like Celeste’s chr paperie shop, which I know from experience is full of great Christmas gift ideas. 

Taking a day off of work to do laundry. I’m not sure if it’s more #adulting that I did that or that I was excited to do that.

Eating Ghiradelli chocolate chips straight from the bag. I actually don’t recommend this as a healthy option, but this is also not a health blog.

Watching lots and lots of ‘80s movies. One day I’ll ask a therapist why this decade of films is so comforting for me despite its many flaws, but for now I’m just rolling with it.

Reading. Have you heard of this? It’s a form of entertainment but doesn’t require screens—wild!

Memes. All good Pippin “Fool of a” Took jokes are welcome here.

Leaning into the Christmas spirit by ordering that Starbucks peppermint mocha, making plans to watch everything in that TCM Christmas book I haven’t seen, and keeping the lights on my hot pink tinsel tree on all day as I work from home.

This month’s Round Up is full of stuff that made me smile and stuff that sucked me into its world—I think they’ll do the same for you, too.

November Crowd-Pleasers

Sister Act (1992)

If in four years you aren’t in an emotional state to watch election results roll in, I recommend watching Whoopi Goldberg pretend to be a nun for 100 minutes. (Though, incidentally, if you want to watch that clip edited to specifically depict how the results came in this year, you’ll need to watch Sister Act 2.) This musical-comedy is about as feel-good as it gets, meaning there’s no reason you should wait four more years to watch it. Crowd: 9/10 // Critic: 7.5/10

Nevada Memes

Speaking of election results, Nevada memes. That’s it—that’s the tweet. Vulture has a round up of some of the best.

SNL Round Up

Laugh and enjoy!

“Cinema Classics: The Birds” (4605 with John Mulaney)

“Uncle Ben” (4606 with Dave Chappelle)

RoboCop (1987)

I’m not surprised I liked RoboCop, but I am surprised at why I liked RoboCop. Not only is this a boss action blockbuster, it’s an investigation into consumerism and the commodification of the human body. It’s also a critique of institutions that treat crime like statistics instead of actions done by people that impact people. That said, it’s also movie about a guy who’s fused with a robot and melts another guy’s face off with toxic sludge, so there’s a reason I’m not listing this under the Critic section. Crowd: 9/10 // Critic: 8/10

Double Feature – ‘80s Comedies: National Lampoon’s Vacation (1983) + Major League (1989)

The ‘80s-palooza is in full swing! In Vacation (Crowd: 9.5/10 // Critic: 8/10), Chevy Chase just wants to spend time with his family on a vacation to Wally World, but wouldn’t you know it, Murphy’s Law kicks into gear as soon as the Griswold family shifts from out of Park. The brilliance of the movie is that every one of these terrible things is plausible, but the Griswolds create the biggest problems themselves. In Major League (Crowd: 8.5/10 // Critic: 6.5/10), Tom Berenger, Charlie Sheen, and Wesley Snipes are Cleveland’s last hope for a winning baseball team. Like the Griswolds, mishaps and hijinks ensue in their attempt to prevent their greedy owner from moving the Indians to Miami, but the real win is this movie totally gets baseball fans. Like most ‘80s movies, not everything in this pair has aged well, but they brought some laughs when I needed them most.

This Time Next Year by Sophie Cousens (2020)

They’re born a minute apart in the same hospital, but they don’t meet until their 30th birthday on New Year’s Day. So, yes, it’s a little bit Serendipity, and it’s a little bit sappy, but those are both marks in this book’s favor. This Time Next Year is a time-hopping rom-com with lots of almost-meet-cutes that will have you laughing, believing in romantic twists of fate, and finding hope for the new year.

Double Feature – ‘80s Angsty Teens: Teen Wolf (1985) + Uncle Buck (1989)

In the ‘80s, Hollywood finally understood the angsty teen, and this pair of comedies isn’t interested in the melodrama earlier movies like Rebel Without a Cause were depicting. (I’d recommend Rebel, but not if you want to look back on your teen years with any sense of humor.) In Teen Wolf (Crowd: 8/10 // Critic: 5/10), Michael J. Fox discovers he’s a werewolf.one that looks more like the kid in Jumanji than any other portrayal of a werewolf you’ve seen. It’s a plot so ‘80s and so bizarre you won’t believe this movie was greenlit.

In Uncle Buck (Crowd: 8/10 // Critic: 7.5/10), John Candy is attempting to connect with the nieces and nephew he hasn’t seen in years, including one moody high schooler. (Plus, baby Gaby Hoffman and pre-Home Alone Macauley Culkin!) This is my second pick from one of my all-time fave filmmakers, John Hughes (along with National Lampoon’s Vacation, above), and it’s one more entry that balances heart and humor in a way only he could do. You can see where I rank this movie in Hughes’s pantheon on Letterboxd.

Lord of the Rings memes

This month on SO IT’S A SHOW?, Kyla and I revisited The Lord of the Rings, a trilogy we love almost as much as we love Gilmore Girls. You can listen to our episode about the series on your fave podcast app, and you can laugh through hundreds of memes like I did for “research” on Twitter.

Nothing to See Here by Kevin Wilson (2019)

Most adults are afraid of children’s temper tantrums, but can you imagine how terrified you’d be if they caught on fire in their fits of rage? That’s the premise of this novel, which begins when an aimless twentysomething becomes the nanny of a Tennessee politician’s twins who burst into flames when they get emotional. The book is filled with laugh-out-loud moments but never leaves behind the human emotion you need to make a magical realistic story.

An Officer and a Gentlemen (1982)

Speaking of aimless twentysomethings and emotion, feel free to laugh, cry, and swoon through this melodrama in the ‘80s canon. Richard Gere meanders his way into the Navy when he has nowhere else to go, and he tries to survive basic training, work through his family issues, and figure out his future as he also falls in love with Debra Winger. So, yeah, it’s a schamltzier version of Top Gun, but it’s schmaltz at its finest. Crowd: 8.5/10 // Critic: 7.5/10

November Critic Picks

Double Feature – ‘40s Amensia Romances: Random Harvest (1942) + The Ghost and Mrs. Muir (1947)

Speaking of schmaltz at its finest, let me share a few more titles fitting that description. In Random Harvest (Crowd: 8/10 // Critic: 8.5/10), Greer Garson falls in love with a veteran who can’t remember his life before he left for war. In The Ghost and Mrs. Muir (Crowd: 8.5/10 // Critic: 8.5/10), Gene Tierney discovers a ghost played by a crotchety Rex Harrison in her new home. Mild spoiler: Both feature amnesiac plot developments, and while amnesia has become a cliché in the long history of romance films, Harvest is moving enough and Mr. Muir is charming enough that you won’t roll your eyes. You can see these and more romances complicated by forced forgetfulness in this Letterboxd round up.

The African Queen (1951)

It’s Humphrey Bogart and Katharine Hepburn directed by John Huston—I mean, I don’t feel like I need to explain why this is a winner. Bogart (in his Oscar-winning role) and Hepburn star in a two-hander script, dominating the screen time except for a select few scenes with supporting cast. The pair fight for survival while cruising on a small boat called The African Queen during World War I (in Africa, natch), and the two make this small story feel grand and epic. Crowd: 8.5/10 // Critic: 9/10

Kind Hearts and Coronets (1949)

A young man’s (Dennis Price) mother is disowned from their wealthy family because she marries for love. After her death, he seeks vengeance by killing all of the family members ahead of him in line to be the Duke D'Ascoyne. The twist? All of his victims are played by Sir Alec Guinness! Almost every character in this black comedy is a terrible person, so you won’t be too sorry to see them go—you can just enjoy the creative “accidents” he stages and stay in suspense on whether our “hero” gets his comeuppance. Crowd: 8/10 // Critic: 8.5/10

Bluebeard’s Eighth Wife (1937)

What would you do if you found out you were to be someone’s eighth wife? Well, it’s probably not what Claudette Colbert does in this screwball comedy that reminds me a bit of Love Crazy. This isn’t the first time I’ve recommended Colbert, Gary Cooper, or Ernst Lubitsch films, so it’s no surprise these stars and this director can make magic together in this hilarious battle of the wills. Crowd: 9/10 // Critic: 8.5/10

The Red Shoes (1948)

I love stories about the competition between your life and your art, and The Red Shoes makes that competition literal. Moira Shearer plays a ballerina who feels life is meaningless without dancing—then she falls in love. That’s an oversimplification of a rich character study and some of the most beautiful ballet on film, but I can’t do it justice in a short paragraph. Just watch (perhaps while you’re putting up your hot pink tinsel tree?) and soak in all the goodness. Crowd: 8/10 // Critic: 10/10

The Third Man (1949)

Everybody loves to talk about Citizen Kane, and with the release of Mank on Netflix, it’s newsworthy again. But don’t miss this other ‘40s team up of Joseph Cotten and Orson Welles. Cotten is a writer digging for the truth of his friend’s (Welles) death in a mysterious car accident. Eyewitness accounts differ on what happened, and who was the third man at the scene only one witness remembers? 71 years later, this movie is still tense, and this actor pairing is still electric. Crowd: 8.5/10 // Critic: 9/10

The Untouchables (1987)

At the end of October, we lost Sean Connery. I looked back on his career first by writing a remembrance for ZekeFilm and then by watching The Untouchables. (In a perfect world I would’ve reversed that order, but c’est la vie.) In my last selection from the ‘80s, Connery and Kevin Costner attempt to convict Robert De Niro’s Al Capone of anything that will stick and end his reign of crime in Chicago. Directed by Brian De Palma and set to an Ennio Morricone soundtrack, this film is both an exciting action flick and an artistic achievement that we literally discussed in one of my college film classes. Connery won his Oscar, and K. Cos is giving one of the best of his career, too. Crowd: 9/10 // Critic: 9.5/10

Remember the Night (1940)

Fred MacMurray and Barbara Stanwyck in my favorite team up yet! Double Indemnity may be the bona fide classic in the canon, but this Christmas story—with MacMurray as a district attorney prosecuting shoplifter Stanwyck— is a charmer. I’ve added it to my list of must-watch Christmas movies—watch for some holiday cheer and rom-com feels. Crowd: 8.5/10 // Critic: 8.5/10

Photo credits: chr paperie. Books my own. All others IMDb.com.

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Friday, September 3, 2021

US faith groups unite to help Afghanistan refugees after war (AP) America’s major religions and denominations, often divided on other big issues, have united behind the effort to help receive an influx of refugees from Afghanistan following the end of the United States’ longest war and one of the largest airlifts in history. Among those gearing up to help are Jewish refugee resettlement agencies and Islamic groups; conservative and liberal Protestant churches; and prominent Catholic relief organizations, providing everything from food and clothes to legal assistance and housing. “It’s incredible. It’s an interfaith effort that involved Catholic, Lutheran, Muslim, Jews, Episcopalians ... Hindus ... as well as nonfaith communities who just believe that maybe it’s not a matter of faith, but it’s just a matter of who we are as a nation,” said Krish O��Mara Vignarajah, president and CEO of Lutheran Immigration and Refugee Service. The U.S. and its coalition partners have evacuated more than 100,000 people from Afghanistan since the airlift began Aug. 14, including more than 5,400 American citizens and many Afghans who helped the U.S. during the 20-year war.

Hurricane Ida’s aftermath, recovery uneven across Louisiana (AP) In New Orleans, an ongoing power outage after Hurricane Ida is making the sweltering summer unbearable. But in some areas outside the city, that misery is compounded by a lack of water, flooded neighborhoods and severely damaged homes. Four days after Hurricane Ida struck, the storm’s aftermath—and progress in recovering from it—are being felt unevenly across affected communities in Louisiana. In New Orleans, power was restored Wednesday to a small number of homes and businesses, city crews had some streets almost completely cleared of fallen trees and debris and a few corner stores reopened. Outside New Orleans, neighborhoods remained flooded and residents were still reeling from damage to their homes and property. More than 1,200 people were walking through some of Ida’s hardest-hit communities to look for those needing help, according to the Louisiana Fire Marshal’s office.

More than 45 dead after Ida’s remnants blindside Northeast (AP) A stunned U.S. East Coast faced a rising death toll, surging rivers and tornado damage Thursday after the remnants of Hurricane Ida walloped the region with record-breaking rain, drowning more than 40 people in their homes and cars. In a region that had been warned about potentially deadly flash flooding but hadn’t braced for such a blow from the no-longer-hurricane, the storm killed at least 46 people from Maryland to Connecticut on Wednesday night and Thursday morning. In New York, nearly 500 vehicles were abandoned on flooded highways, garbage bobbed in streaming streets and water cascaded into the city’s subway tunnels, trapping at least 17 trains and disrupting service all day. Videos online showed riders standing on seats in swamped cars. All were safely evacuated, with police aiding 835 riders and scores of people elsewhere. The National Weather Service said the ferocious storm also spawned at least 10 tornadoes from Maryland to Massachusetts, including a 150-mph (241 kph) twister that splintered homes and toppled silos in Mullica Hill, New Jersey, south of Philadelphia.

President’s murder inquiry slow amid Haiti’s multiple crises (AP) In the nearly two months since President Jovenel Moïse was assassinated, Haiti has suffered a devastating earthquake and a drenching tropical storm, the twin natural disasters deflecting attention from the man-made one that preceded them. Add the constant worry over deteriorating security at the hands of gangs that by some estimates control territory that’s home to about a fifth of Haiti’s 11 million citizens, and the investigation into Moïse’s killing is fast fading from the public consciousness. Even those still paying attention, demanding accountability and pressuring for a thorough investigation give no chance to the crime’s masterminds being brought to justice in a country where impunity reigns. It doesn’t help that Moïse was despised by a large portion of the population. “The hope for finding justice for Jovenel is zero,” said Pierre Esperance, executive director of the National Human Rights Defense Network.

Fancy a beer in Britain? In some pubs, supplies are running low. (Washington Post) Fears are brewing among pint-loving Brits amid reports of a national beer shortage. Some pubs say they are running low on pints of Carling and Coors—the latest victims of the United Kingdom’s supply chain crisis, sparked by Brexit and exacerbated by the coronavirus pandemic, that has led to headline-grabbing scarcities of items including McDonald’s milkshakes, beloved Nando’s chicken and the polarizing breakfast spread Marmite. “We are experiencing some supply problems,” a spokesman for pub chain Wetherspoons said Tuesday, apologizing for any inconvenience caused to customers. The lack of beer has been attributed to the ongoing shortage of truck drivers to transport goods, a problem sparked by Britain’s decision to leave the European Union following a 2016 referendum that divided the country. The driver shortage has not been helped by the country’s “pingdemic,” in which tens of thousands of workers were forced to self-isolate after being contacted by the National Health Service app for coming into contact with someone who tested positive for coronavirus.

Merkel steps down with legacy dominated by tackling crises (AP) Angela Merkel will leave office as one of modern Germany’s longest-serving leaders and a global diplomatic heavyweight, with a legacy defined by her management of a succession of crises that shook a fragile Europe rather than any grand visions for her own country. In 16 years at the helm of Europe’s biggest economy, Merkel did end military conscription, set Germany on course for a future without nuclear and fossil-fueled power, and introduce a national minimum wage and benefits encouraging fathers to look after young children, among other things. But a senior ally recently summed up what many view as her main service: as an anchor of stability in stormy times. He told Merkel: “You protected our country well.”

India locks down Kashmir after top separatist leader’s death (AP) Indian authorities cracked down on public movement and imposed a near-total communications blackout Thursday in disputed Kashmir after the death of Syed Ali Geelani, a top separatist leader who became the emblem of the region’s defiance against New Delhi. Geelani, who died late Wednesday at age 92, was buried in a quiet funeral at a local graveyard organized by authorities under harsh restrictions, his son Naseem Geelani told The Associated Press. “They snatched his body and forcibly buried him. Nobody from the family was present for his burial. We tried to resist but they overpowered us and even scuffled with women,” said Naseem Geelani. As most Kashmiris remained locked inside their homes, armed police and soldiers patrolled the tense region. Government forces placed steel barricades and razor wire across many roads, bridges and intersections and set up additional checkpoints across towns and villages in the Kashmir Valley. Authorities cut most of cellphone networks and mobile internet service in a common tactic employed by India in anticipation of mass protests.

Women and technology in Japan (NYT) Japan is facing a severe shortage of workers in technology and engineering. And in university programs that produce workers in these fields, Japan has some of the lowest percentages of women in the developed world. Up to age 15, Japanese girls and boys perform equally well in math and science on international standardized tests. But at this critical juncture, when students must choose between the science and humanities tracks in high school, girls appear to lose confidence and interest in math and science. In these fields, the higher the educational level, the fewer the women, a phenomenon many blame on cultural expectations. “The sex-based division of labor is deeply rooted,” one young woman said. To help change the trend, two women with science backgrounds co-founded a nonprofit called Waffle, which runs one-day tech camps for middle and high school girls. Asumi Saito and Sayaka Tanaka offer career lectures and hands-on experiences that emphasize problem solving, community, and entrepreneurship to counter the stereotypically geeky image of technology. “Our vision is to close the gender gap by empowering and educating women in technology,” Saito said.

Taiwan Warns China Can ‘Paralyze’ Island’s Defenses in Conflict (Bloomberg) Taiwan warned that China could “paralyze” its defenses in a conflict, a stark new assessment expected to fuel calls in Washington for more support for the democratically ruled island. China is able to neutralize Taiwan’s air-and-sea defenses and counter-attack systems with “soft and hard electronic attacks,” Taiwan’s Ministry of National Defense said in an annual report to lawmakers seen by Bloomberg News. The document offered a more alarming assessment than last year’s report, which had said China still lacked the capability to launch an assault. While Beijing isn’t believed to possess the transport and logistical capacity necessary for an invasion of Taiwan’s large and mountainous main island, the ministry recommended monitoring Chinese efforts to expand training and preparations for complex landing operations. China already has the ability to seize Taiwan’s surrounding islands, it said.

Those left in Afghanistan complain of broken US promises (AP) Even in the final days of Washington’s chaotic airlift in Afghanistan, Javed Habibi was getting phone calls from the U.S. government promising that the green card holder from Richmond, Virginia, his wife and their four daughters would not be left behind. He was told to stay home and not worry, that they would be evacuated. Late Monday, however, his heart sank as he heard that the final U.S. flights had left Kabul’s airport, followed by the blistering staccato sound of Taliban gunfire, celebrating what they saw as their victory over America. “They lied to us,” Habibi said of the U.S. government. He is among hundreds of American citizens and green card holders stranded in the Afghan capital. Victoria Nuland, undersecretary of state for political affairs, would not address individual cases but said all U.S. citizens and lawful permanent residents who could not get evacuation flights or were otherwise stranded had been contacted individually in the past 24 hours and told to expect further information about routes out once those have been arranged.

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Wizards Hearts Recs: Epistolary

Wizards Hearts was a four-month-long Drarry reading fest. Players were given a playing deck of 52 tropes, and were asked to find 52 different fics to read and comment on to fill their decks. To prevent the same few fics from being read, fics were restricted to only being used for the game three times before being considered ineligible for further points. The tropes and submissions list can be found here.

Check out the masterlist of fics for this trope below the cut!

📜 To My Enemy (Secretly Yours) by randoyoyo Rated:  Teen Words:  9757 Tags:  Epistolary, Eighth Year, Roommates, Fluff Summary:  McGonagall has decided on some changes for those returning to Hogwarts for an 8th year. Not only will Houses be abolished, but there will be a shared commonroom and rooms will be assigned to pairs. On top of that, they're all randomly assigned a pen pal within the same year that they have to write to each week. Harry and Draco don't like the way any of this information sounds, but it doesn't set in until they get their room assignments...they're going to be roommates?? ❤️ Read on AO3

📜 Re: Harry's Crush by lettersbyelise Rated:  Teen Words:  3700 Tags:  Epistolary, Bets & Wagers, Aurors, Getting Together, Friends to Lovers, First Kiss, Humor, Banter Summary:  Ever get that feeling you're being talked about behind your back? Harry doesn't, he's too busy being stupidly, obviously besotted with the guy in the lab downstairs. A fic where the interdepartment betting war at the Ministry gets out of hand, Millicent and Hermione get scheming, Harry Potter ends up wearing black eyeliner, and everybody ends up getting more than they bargained for. ❤️ Read on AO3

📜 Misdirection by lea_anberlyn Rated:  Teen and Up Words:  3764 Tags: Humor, Snarky!Malfoy, Epistolary Summary:  Harry buys a new owl after the war – a bird he soon realises is cursed to send letters to the person he hates most. Draco Malfoy finds the whole thing hilarious. ❤️ Read on AO3

📜 Dear Enemy by GingerTodgers Rated:  Teen and Up Words:  69130 Tags: Epistolary, Secret Identity, Orphanage, Harry Potter's School For Squibs, Slow Burn, Swearing, Politics, Ron Weasley is a Good Friend, Minor Luna Lovegood/Ginny Weasley, Minor Pansy Parkinson/Greg Goyle, Light Angst Summary:  An anonymous benefactor makes a generous donation to Harry Potter's School for Squibs in exchange for a weekly letter from the Boy Who Lived. What begins as a chore soon becomes the only outlet Harry has to talk about the war, love, life, hope, redemption, his renewed obsession with a certain blonde nemesis and how he really, honestly, believes that this will be the year Puddlemere United reclaim the Quidditch League Cup. ❤️ Read on AO3

📜 Howlr by partialtopotter Rated:  Explicit Words:  47634 Tags: Texting, text!fic, Sexting, Romance, dating app, Anal Sex, Rimming, they don't know they're falling for each other, Ginny has a personality, THIS IS NOT A NON-MAGICAL AU, Professor Harry, pansy x ginny, LGBTQ Themes, Smut, Mistaken Identity, Phone Sex, Depression, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder - PTSD, Humor, Post-Hogwarts, Not Epilogue Compliant, Switching, Light BDSM, Bisexual Male Character, Spanking, Epistolary, Textfic Summary:  Howlr is the new dating application enchanting Witches, Wizards and Everyone in between. Are you looking for the one or a one-night stand; it’s all here folks. Howlr is sponsored by Weasley Wizard Wheezes, the same team that brought us the Spellular just two years ago. Ginny Weasley, famed chaser for the Hollyhead Harpies, swears by the app, ‘guaranteed to make sparks fly,’ she says. The magic awaits you! ❤️ Read on AO3

📜 Garden War by Cibee (Cibeeeee) Rated:  Teen and Up Words:  4884 Tags: Fluff and Humor, Epistolary, Draco and Harry are neighbors, with a lake between them, and they keep trying to make their garden better than the other's, "one tree? fuck you I'll grow TWO trees", then omg quarantine, Frenemies to friends to lovers, Friends to Lovers, draco has a cat, harry has chickens, Mutual Pining, they both have no chills, Idiots in Love, Dramatic Draco Malfoy Summary:  Harry and Draco are quarantined in their houses, a lake across from one another. What better ways to spend this time than to annoy each other with letters and attempts to prove that their garden is better ? ❤️ Read on AO3

📜 A Series of Neighbourly Epistles by slytherco Rated:  Mature Words:  13671 Tags: Neighbors, Harry Potter Epilogue What Epilogue | EWE, Anonymity, Letters, anonymous notes, Top Draco Malfoy, Bottom Harry Potter, Mutual Masturbation, Blind Date, Unresolved Sexual Tension, Resolved Sexual Tension, Curse Breaker Draco Malfoy, Auror Harry Potter, Draco Malfoy Has Long Hair, and it's glorious, Draco Malfoy in a leather jacket, Brief Draco Malfoy/Other, Redeemed Draco Malfoy, some French food, Bisexual Harry Potter, Dirty Talk, the morning after, Pillow Talk, One Night Stands, that turn out to be possibly-not-so-one-night, Snark, Banter, Sexual Content, Implied Sexual Content, Implied/Referenced Blow Jobs, in general there's sex but it's not graphic ok?? Summary:  Harry finds himself in a very awkward spot when he calls the Aurors on his neighbour… having very loud sex. As in not actually killing anyone. He writes him a disgruntled note and thus begins a very interesting exchange. When they finally decide to meet, Harry’s not quite prepared to find out who his mystery neighbour turns out to be. Or for everything that happens next, for that matter. ❤️ Read on AO3

📜 Texting You by ununquadius Rated:  Teen and Up Words:  6005 Tags: Major Character Death, text fic, draco is dead, Grief/Mourning, Hurt/Comfort, or maybe hurt/no comfort, Everyday Life, Pets, Asexual Harry Potter, Indian Harry Potter, one penis drawing, H/D Hurt!Fest 2020, Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms, Loneliness, Drinking, Terminal Illnesses, blink and you missed them suicidal thoughts Summary:  After Draco's death, Harry can't let go so he keeps texting their private chat, updating him on his life and rambling about everything and anything until it almost feels like there's a possibility that, one day, a reply will come. ❤️ Read on AO3

📜 More Than Kisses, Letters Mingle Souls by Erin_Riwen, Kristinabird Rated:  Mature Words:  21171 Tags: Epistolary, Professor Harry Potter, Professor Draco Malfoy, Enemies to Friends to Lovers, Slow Burn, Fluff with feelings, Past Child Abuse, Past Suicide Thoughts, Past Alcohol Abuse/Alcoholism, Manipulative Albus Dumbledore Summary:  It's the beginning of the term at Hogwarts and Professor Harry Potter never seems to be able to get close enough to have an actual conversation with Professor Draco Malfoy. When he discovers it's because his colleagues have been intentionally keeping them apart for fear they might have issues, he bristles at the intrusion and decides to send a letter to a very confused Draco Malfoy. ❤️ Read on AO3

📜 Summer's Lease by GallifreyisBurning, xkingofgamesx Rated:  Explicit Words:  74162 Tags: Enemies to Friends to Lovers, Epistolary, Bisexual Harry Potter, Gay Draco Malfoy, Post-War, pre-eighth year, Harry Potter Epilogue What Epilogue | EWE, Angst, Angst with a Happy Ending, Fluff and Angst, Slow Burn, slowest of burns, First Kiss, First Time, Coming Out, Anal Sex, Hand Jobs, Blow Jobs, All of the jobs except employment, Gentlemen of Leisure, Number Twelve Grimmauld Place, Home Renovation, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder - PTSD, Nightmares, Mental Health Issues, Homophobia, Lots of drinking, Happy Ending, Fluff Summary:  It was just a letter. And then another. And then another. And then it was something more. The summer after the war, Harry Potter and Draco Malfoy are both at loose ends, not sure how they fit into a world where both of their roles have been fulfilled, for better or for worse. As the learn to live with surviving, they find, together, an unexpected way forward. ❤️ Read on AO3

📜 Recompense & Reparo by sablier_bloque Rated:  Explicit Words:  48981 Tags: Alternate Universe - Regency, Regency, Slow Burn, Pining, Gay Draco Malfoy, Bisexual Harry Potter, Alternate Universe - Historical, Masturbation, Anal Sex, Frottage, mention of suicide, mention of period-typical racism, Period-Typical Sexism, Mention of Child Abuse, Period-Typical Homophobia, Draco Malfoy tries to redeem himself in a very Slytherin way, Meddling mothers, Magic Rituals, Quidditch, Mention of Minor Character Death, Happy Ending, Letters, Epistolary, Indian Harry Potter, Desi Harry Potter, Austen-inspired, Mention of torture Summary:  It is a truth universally acknowledged that a pureblood wizard in possession of a slandered reputation will do absolutely anything to return to good graces. And Mr. Draco Malfoy, pureblood wizard whose reputation has certainly been slandered by The War (and perhaps even by his own actions in said war) has a plan. A list of five steps to restore the Malfoy family to its proper place in society. That is until Harry Potter comes along and mucks it all. A Regency AU, in which there are ungloved touches, letters, meddling mothers, and hope that love can somehow find a way. ❤️ Read on AO3

📜 Always and Forever by PurePeace Rated:  Teen and Up Words:  35162 Tags: N/A Summary:  An epistolary fic between Harry Potter and Draco Malfoy, taking place after the trials. It starts with irritation and relucant gratitude and ends - hopefully - with romance, always and forever. ❤️ Read on AO3

📜 No Greater Victory by dicta_contrion Rated:  Explicit Words:  26951 Tags: Hogwarts Eighth Year, Bets & Wagers, Diary/Journal, Slytherins Being Slytherins, Scheming, Blackmail, Recreational Drug Use, Casual Sex, Snark, Draco starts out as an angry defensive arse, Personal Growth, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Switching, First Time, Making Love, Fluff and Angst, Eventual Happy Ending Summary:  Back at Hogwarts after the war, a defeated Draco Malfoy is prepared to settle for life's simpler pleasures: snark, sex, and Slytherin scheming. That is until Pansy, newly in possession of Malfoy Manor, offers to return his ancestral home. Just one condition: he has to win, and break, Harry Potter's heart to get it. That's no problem. Draco's got this situation completely under control. Completely. At least until he doesn't. ❤️ Read on AO3

📜 Help Is Always There For Those Who Ask by donnarafiki, orpheous87 Rated:  Mature Words:  12873 Tags: Post-War, Mental Health Issues, Healer Draco Malfoy, Angst, Epistolary, Getting Together, No healer/patient, Depression, Implied/Referenced Homophobia, Therapy, Friendship Summary:  It's been years since the war, and Harry's been doing fine (Not!Auror). But after witnessing a violent incident in muggle London, he feels empty and angry. Eventually, he reaches a breaking point and has an outburst in public. The next day he finds a letter on his desk, the Ministry reaching out to connect him with a mind healer, saying they don’t even have to see each other, and everything can be done privately if Harry wants to keep it anonymous and confidential. He decides to write back. ❤️ Read on AO3

📜 This feeling inside by Andithiel Rated:  Mature Words:  8714 Tags: Harry Potter Epilogue What Epilogue | EWE, Epistolary, Diary/Journal, flatmates, omg they were roomates, lockdown - Freeform, Quarantine, bisexual awakening, Oblivious, As in ridiculously oblivious, Mentions of a fictional pandemic, Friends With Benefits, Friends to Lovers, Cooking, Baking, learning to play the guitar, mentions of:, Hand Jobs, Blow Jobs, Frottage, Kissing, I think it was in that order Summary:  Harry Potter and his flatmate Draco are both straight as nails. But during a lockdown, things start to get a little desperate, and suddenly they’re giving each other friendly handjobs and blowjobs on the regular. But that’s okay. That’s just what friends do. Right? A story about two oblivious idiots, told through the diary of Harry James Potter. ❤️ Read on AO3

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50 Ways to Experience Sensuality

Touch

1. Give yourself a massage with your hands or a tennis ball. (You can sit against a wall and roll the tennis ball up and down your back.)

2. Get a professional massage and experiment with the different options. For example, you might choose to get a Thai foot massage one week, and then a hot stone back massage on another occasion.

3. Buy some silky body lotion or body butter and apply to your body at night. Focus on the sensation of the liquid against your skin.

4. Go outside and roll around on the grass.

5. Sit in the sun and feel the warmth on your face.

6. Experiment with self-pleasure. You don’t necessarily need to build up to an orgasm – you can simply explore what feels nice in different areas of your body.

7. Try stretching different areas of your body and notice which parts experience the most relief.

8. Get your partner or a family member to brush your hair.

9. Cuddle with a pet or loved one in the park or on the couch.

10. Get some putty to play around with from the local $1 store

11. Jump on a trampoline or swing on some swings.

12. Sleep naked in your bed.

13. Wear extra soft, silky clothes (or underwear).

14. Get your partner to softly touch different areas of your body. Notice which areas increase your pulse.

15. Focus on the movement of your stomach as you breathe.

Smell

16. Go to a candle store and pick out your favorite scented candles.

17. Have a hot bath and add herbs and essential oils to the water.

18. Visit a perfume store and sample all the different smells.

19. Apply some essential oils into a diffuser while you work (or before going to bed).

20. Go for a walk outside and notice all the smells that come your way.

21. Create your own scent blends by mixing essential oils.

22. Notice how your partner or parental figure smells (I’m talking natural, clean smell here!).

Taste

23. Focus very carefully on everything you eat. What textures are the most noticeable?

24. Make a dish you’ve never tried before. Periodically taste it as you cook it to get the flavor just right.

25. Bake a delicious dessert for yourself. Then, sit down and enjoy every bite when it’s finished.

26. Go to a restaurant that serves foreign food that you haven’t tried before.

27. Visit your local grocery store and buy something you’ve never tasted before. How does it taste?

28. Chew sugar-free gum after meals – how does it feel?

29. Eat something in total darkness. In what ways is the flavor amplified?

30. Try oil pulling every morning (oil pulling is the ancient practice of using oil to increase oral hygiene). Focus on the feeling of swishing oil around in your mouth.

31. Find something you really enjoy eating and eat it super slowly.

32. Experiment with eating your food in different ways, e.g. try using your hands (Indian style) or learn to use chopsticks (Chinese style).

33. Get your friend or partner to feed you. Does the experience of eating change?

Sight

34. Watch a beautiful sunrise or sunset.

35. Get a lava lamp and watch the colorful bubbles.

36. Create a piece of art with glitter.

37. Visit a church or cathedral and admire the stained glass.

38. Light a candle or fireplace and watch the wick/wood burn.

39. Sit outside in nature and watch the wind blow through the trees.

40. Watch your children or pets play.

41. Light some incense and watch the smoke curl.

Hearing

42. Sit in a quiet spot and listen to all the sounds around you.

43. Watch a movie and listen to the actor’s voices. Which voices do you like listening to the most?

44. Repeat a mantra out loud for ten minutes. What impacts can you notice on your mind and body?

45. Find music from a different culture, e.g. Irish, Spanish, German, Indian. How do you feel when you listen to it?

46. Hum or whistle to yourself.

47. Play a favorite song and sing out loud.

48. Put on classical music while you work or read.

49. Listen to a guided meditation.

50. Explore the quirky world of ASMR.

51. Try floating in a sensory deprivation tank (search “float tank” on google) and enjoy the sound of silence.

52. Use an app like Noisli to immerse yourself in an environment of nature sounds.

53. Practice howling with your dog or canine friend.

[millie86]

Top 5 Places to Visit in Dubai

Dubai is definitely one of the top holiday destinations of the United Arab Emirates. This area, which is full of skyscrapers and shopping malls, has successfully become a popular destination for tourists to shop, enjoy the sunshine and have family fun. Dubai is an awesome place to visit, whether it is a weekend, business trip, luncheon or some other gathering.

Nevertheless, getting around the city sometimes becomes tricky for foreigners, to save yourself from such problem you can get help from any of the local online ride booking company.

Though things to do during the day are almost endless, there are hardly any shorter places to visit in Dubai during the night as well. A brand-new adventure continues, as day becomes night. The Burj Khalifa (the world’s highest building) and shopping malls with aquariums and indoor ski slopes are well known for their touristic attractions in Dubai.

There are many fantastic attractions, but this article is summed up the top five tourist attractions in Dubai.

1.Burj Khalifa

A beautiful way to begin with your time in Dubai to get a sense of how huge the city is, go to the highest building in the world-the Burj Khalifa. You can enjoy views from here of the whole city, but remember that every day, the view shifts.

There is no bad day to visit the Burj Khalifa; however, it seems extra enchanting when you sight it at twilight while you can observe the city turning into sparkling illuminations. Sometimes the view could be unclear due to fog, but on a clear day, you can see far out.

You can also see sunrise and sunset and get on top of the clouds, just make sure you schedule a visit a couple of weeks before you go on a trip as this tower is reserved each day. Moreover, while keeping everything in schedule always schedule your conveyance rides as well. It can save you from a lot of fuss and confusions. You can easily book a ride using online booking apps in Dubai.

2.Palm Jumeirah Beach

A group of islands containing luxury hotels, residences and resorts is a manmade island shaped in a palm tree. It is a little tricky when it comes to exploring it because you cannot really see the palm shape of the island instead you have to fly to Palm Jumeirah from afar. If you look at it from the Dubai Marina, tower or you fly a seabed, skydiving or helicopter you can experience its exotic palm view.

One of the most iconic experiences you must experience here is a helicopter flight through the city from above to see the Palm. This is a perfect way to see Dubai from above and have a Birdseye panorama of the city.

If you do not want to board a plane, it will be better to visit the summit of Burj Khalifa and hope for clear skies to see this beautifully outlined palm shape. In addition, the best way to travel between all these places is through Dubai taxi booking services.

3.Global Village

Global Village is a multicultural fun and thematic park influenced by numerous cultures and nations is one of Dubai’s finest locations to visit at night. Global Village is better experienced after dark when the sun is over, and outdoors you can be comfortable. To have an unharmed travel to global village utilize the services of Dubai taxi booking online that aims to facilitate all the tourists and locals in the Dubai serving their best.

Shopping is not even the main draw of this world fair, but Global Village is the location for good value equipment for many people. Any of Dubai’s contemporary attractions can be lacking, but Global Village is full of family fun, with tours, booths and performances by foreign entertainers.

The factor “Global,” where each represents one country, refers to its 38 pavilions. Come on and you will find fashion, food, crafts and cultural exhibitions that characterise one specific country. The Persian carpets in the Iran pavilion, Indian gold jewellery and Egyptian cotton articles are especially good for shoppers looking for selection.

In addition, Global Village presents various free shows, concerts and fun for young and old both. Most shows will be free of cost; some will be paid additionally (for example stunt show). Even, you can enjoy exciting rides at the largest funfair of the area as if it were not enough!

4.Dubai Mall

The Dubai Mall is a huge building, situated just a few minutes’ walks from the Burj Khalifa. However, why walk when you can avail luxurious and comfortable ride to Dubai mall. Just book your ride with WOW to get the best experience and view while getting around. WOW Leader will give you complete comfort.

Dubai Mall has a wide array of entertainment, shopping and dining events. The large theatre, the ice-skating rink and the gaming room are some of the favourite locations in the Dubai Mall. Events such as festivals and concerts take place in the mall as well.

The Aquarium and Underwater Zoo are possibly the most impressive feature of the Dubai Mall. It provides visitors with a view of the living underground of 140 marine life species. If you want to be conservative about your practices, you will go into aquarium tunnels in the Aquarium Zoo. Cage snorkelling and shark diving are also possible if you wish to be adventurous.

The Dubai Mall should be the first stop on any shopping list, being the largest supermarket, leisure and entertainment destination in the world. It houses all the major brands in the world with over 1,200 outlets, including clothes and footwear, household products and electronics.

5.Dubai Marina

The Dubai Marina is popular with both visitors and locals and perfect for a night’s walk, or a night out with friends. In the evening, you can even catch a dinner cruise on the canal. Dubai Marina is a 7 km long walkway between stunning manufactured canals that provides a spectacular view of the vibrant skyscrapers.

In addition, in late hours the place is quite safe and draws many tourists and local crowds for an evening walk. Dubai Marina is one of the best places for visiting Dubai free during the night, so you can take a break and use the many benches, and you cannot pay any money.

JBR Marina is another fantastic hangout in Dubai late at night. JBR Marina is the place to enjoy evening activities as the sun goes over the United Arab Emirates. A stunning waters way, nightlife zones, bars, hotels and famous Jumeirah Beach Residences (JBR) is a scenic district surrounded by Dubai Marina.

However, if you want dinner at night in Dubai Marina, you will not really have a lack of good bars, street food and ice cream stalls along the way. Moreover, if you want your day to end smartly, a comfortable dining experience and an outstanding night are provided by the Dhow cruise, Dubai Marina.

The highly decorated Dhow Cruise still offers its guests a festive and enjoyable atmosphere. A tasty meal and traditional Middle East music can be enjoyed onboard. The view from the Dhow cruise ship to the Dubai skyline is also incredible.

[scocialworm]

westernization of indian culture

As our society progresses we can see many changes in our culture too for whether it is for our clothes, way of expressing, eating habits or marriage and family relations. Everything has changed, a noble family is now being seen through the western lens. Requirements have become modern for its basic or general. Students now have teachers who share only professional bonds with them,while in earlier times guruji shared family like relations with students. where the GU stands for darkness and thus guru is a person who removes darkness in the form of ignorance. Our culture is perishing under our ignorance.

Starting with the most basic of all the place you go in the morning inorder to get yourself fresh is the BATHROOM. Many would be having western commodities attached in the bathroom and its to our parody that those things make you a man of wealthy class. So, for westernisation it has creeped deep into your privacy reaching to your bathroom. Western culture brings happiness as well as sadness. Happiness as it gives man a feeling of wealthier class and sadness as your desire for wealth has beeen increasing all this time. The Interpreter of Maladies by Jhumpa Lahiri and A Fine Balance by Rohinton Mistry, I have found these represent most the disintegration of close familial bonds in Indian culture today.

Starting with humanity, people of India are thought of for their humanness and calm sense of being without harshness in their ways of thinking. Tolerance also plays a big part in a traditional Indian. One understands the different races, beliefs, and practices brought into their country and doesn’t step back and judge. Although there are caste systems in India, unity of citizens helps create a strong bond between all people of the country. Despite their religious backgrounds, India is a secular country meaning they are openly willing to share their thoughts and opinions about their religious beliefs. Finally all families are closely knit. Grandfathers, fathers, and their sons all are said to have the same spirit, tradition, and possessions. But these things lived long back in our culture as caste wars are still prevalent and nuclear families have come up in sight.

Arranged marriages play a big part in the roles of children in India. The parents and other family members get to decide who their child marries based on different traits. Divorce is not found often in India and is looked down upon by the Hindu religion. Now in the present scenario we have online hookup's, dating apps, matrimony apps and moreover we have the word SEXTING( texting in a manner where you pour down all you lust ready to be answered with same enthus from the other side). There was a time when people had discussed their sex problems with the doctor and parents only. Now you share it with your colleagues. There was a time when marriage was a familial affair but now it is an individual affair.

As for growing western in social,economical and political manner,I may like to throw light on some cool thoughts:

1) burning a ghee lamp near tulsi plant which gives oxygen 24hrs is superstition whereas decorating a plastic tree with electric lights on 25th december is modernity. The culture has firm grasp over our religion too.Each one should understand that every religion works on its own ideals.

2) Western culture right from the colonial era said INDIANS are a class of poor people with no sense of discipline. Rightfully said, yes we don't. while we are not able to save our own sanskritic values how well disciplined can you be. The one who has seen true values are now practicing sanskritic culture.

A british women operates a youtube channel called "gaiea sanskrit". The women has adopted sanskritic values and she is not the only one there are millions of such examples who believe in sanskritic values except for us. Let us not just get enslaved through the ideals of westernisation. We should work in direction of enriching our sanskritic values too. Westernisation might seem good but it has took our own identities which separated us as INDIANS and gave us the feeling of being someone unique.

Written by- DEEPAK CHAUHAN

[a-wlw-reads]

Theme: WOC in Love!

Representation of women of color in happy, healthy relationships with other women of color is sadly lacking in our world, but here’s four books to at least start you off!

Once Ghosted, Twice Shy by Alyssa Cole : Last time Likotsi was in New York City, a relationship that was intended to be a quick fling ended up breaking her heart. Now she’s back with a mission to forget Fabiola, a plan that goes haywire when, of all the subway cars in the city, Fabiola walks into her’s. For a book that’s only barely over 100 pages, the chemistry between Likotsi and Fab unfolds so naturally. I feel like I watched a full-length romcom rather than read a quick novella. Unlike a lot of romcoms, however, this book isn’t shy about planting itself fully in 2019. I think it’s the only book I’ve read with two wlw who meet through a dating app. It also touches on the struggles of families who see the current political climate threatening their previously secure immigration status (although a happy end is reached). Lastly, if it’s been a while since you read a book with a snappy-dressing black butch lesbian for a main character, Likotsi may be the one for you.

The World Unseen by Shamim Sarif : I’ve heard people say that it’s unrealistic for books about lesbians in the 1950s to have happy endings, so they must be real mad about this book about two Indian women in 1950s South Africa. Miriam is a woman from a traditional Indian family. She moved to South Africa to do the marriage and babies thing, and now she struggles with controlling in-laws and boredom in the rural outskirts of Pretoria. That’s until she meets Amina, who chooses to defy her community by driving a taxi and running a cafe with a black man under strictly segmented Apartheid conditions. Jacob’s side plot involves a relationship with a white woman, and it’s quite heart breaking to have a side-by-side comparison of the many ways love has been criminalized throughout history. This is one of those books where you can track the characters’ growing confidence and feel like you’re about to cry when they finally learn to stop deferring to others and take a stand for themselves.

Final Draft by Riley Redgate : It’s college decision season right now, so this book might hit a little closer to home than usual. Laila wants to be a writer, and thankfully she’s quite good at it - or so her high school English teacher says, anyway. But with only three months left before Laila leaves high school forever her teacher is replaced by a Pulitzer Prize winning author, a woman who has nothing but criticism for Laila’s stories. She’s facing a sudden crisis of doubt about where her talents and interests lie, right as she’s supposed to be making one of the most major decisions of her life thus far. And also, she might just be falling for her best friend. I remember the stress and panic of having to decide the course of the next four years (minimum) of my life even as I was questioning the major I had declared on the Common App so I can say this book absolutely nails that sense of turmoil. It’s also a nice step away from a lot of the standard YA literature about senior year; I think I can count the number of books I know with a biracial, pansexual, plus-size lead on exactly one finger. It’s a great book with advice on expanding beyond your standard range of experience that I think most of us, writers or not, could take advantage of.

Under the Udala Trees by Chinelo Okparanta : This is one of my favorite books and easily one of the most satisfying endings I’ve read, but I will preface it by saying there is a good amount of very violent homophobia throughout that makes it a difficult read. Beginning with the Nigerian Civil War, Ijeoma is sent away to live with another family where she falls in love with another girl. This book stands as a testament to the futility of trying to change sexuality, set in a country that criminalizes same-sex love. Ijeoma is faced with so much pressure to continue to be a societal success story, even as it’s clear she’s incapable of being fully happy with the man she’s married. It’s also a rarity to see a character come from religious-based disgust of homosexuality to acceptance of a loved one, and it’s part of what made the end of this book so deeply satisfying. Be warned that it doesn’t shy away from the ugly and violent end of homophobia, but it’s a book with a happy ending in an era and region where lesbians often find those hard to come by.

[purplesurveys]

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PHONE

What is the last game you played on your phone? 1010. As far as I know it’s the game that has stayed the longest on my phone.

What kind of phone do you have? iPhone 8.

Do you have it in a case? Yep. I managed to destroy my old Otterbox case, so I just had it replace with a simple, clear one. I tend to break expensive stuff whether I mean to or not, so my parents absolutely never let me get away with a caseless phone haha.

Do you have a screen protector? Also yes. I have all the things that could possibly protect my phone, because I can be super clumsy with my stuff.

Who is the last person you messaged? Gabie.

What’s the last app you downloaded? I haven’t downloaded anything new in a while but I think it was Google Sheets, which I needed so I can edit spreadsheets while on the go.

Who is the first contact in your phone? Gab, but only because I put an ‘Aa’ before her name lmao. The actual first contact is Alex, a friend from high school.

Do you give people personalized ringtones? Only Gab, so that I know if she’s the one texting or calling.

What percentage is your phone battery? Right now it’s attttt 42%.

Does your screen have any cracks? Yup. Like I said, I managed to slowly destroy my old phone case so when that broke, my tempered glass stopped being as protected as before and eventually that cracked, and my actual screen got cracks as well.

LOOKS

What color is your hair? Black.

How tall are you? My 5′1″/5′2″ ass barely counts as tall.

Are you happy with the way you look right now? I’ve been feeling a lot more confident and cute these days because I recently cut my hair a lot shorter and also got bangs, and it turns out the look suits me! So yeah I’m pretty happy.

Describe your outfit: I’ve been stuck at home in the last three weeks so my ‘outfits’ just revolve around the old t-shirts and shorts I have.

What makeup products are you wearing, if any? No makeup.

What tattoos or piercings do you have? I have my earlobes pierced, and that’s it.

How would you describe your skin tone? A bit tan.

Are your nails painted? Never are.

What color eyes do you have? Really dark brown / almost black.

What is your favorite physical feature about yourself? At the moment I really like my bangs, haha.

OUTSIDE

Why were you last outside? Ugh man, I haven’t been outside in literal weeks. I think the last reason was to go to an optometrist to figure out what’s wrong with my left eye. I also had late lunch out with my dad, and it was the last day everyone got to be out because that evening the government announced the suspension of classes until April.

What’s the last outdoors concert you went to? Coldplay, three years ago. The concert was outdoors, we watched it from a parking lot so that we had a better view.

Do you own a tent? It’s not my own tent but we have a family tent, yeah.

What’s the weather like today? It’s summer so it’s a lot warmer, but fortunately I’m not sweating too much right now.

Do you have distinctive seasons where you live? Nope, we only have sunny and rainy lol.

What is your favorite kind of tree? I don’t have a favorite.

Are you allergic to any plants? None that I know of.

Did you play any outdoor sports in school? Mmm no. I played track and table tennis, which you can play indoors.

When’s the last time you got rained on? Friday. I was relaxing at our rooftop when it started drizzling a bit, so I had to go back inside for a few minutes.

Do you go to parks frequently? I would if we actually had a single park here.

FACEBOOK

Do you have your full birth name on there? All but one name. I took out my middle name so I wouldn’t be giving too much away.

Describe your profile picture: It’s a promotional photo as part of our org’s recruitment campaign to invite students to apply for the org. Idk about other countries but org culture is a pretty big deal here and we’ll pull out all the stops to recruit new members; DP blasts are one staple of it.

What’s the last notification you got? I think it was someone reacting to a meme I shared.

Do you ever upload videos? Never. I never upload anything of my own, unless I’m changing my profile picture.

How many friends do you have? Not so sure but it’s in the 600s.

Who is the last person you added? It was someone from high school who migrated to the US. I sent her a friend request like, 5000 months ago lmaoooooo and she only accepted it a couple of days ago. I don’t even remember the time I added her anymore, and I was surprised when I got a notification saying we’re friends on Facebook now.

Do you use Messenger a lot? Yeah it’s the unofficial default chat app here; everyone is on it.

What is the last thing you posted/shared? It’s a cute doodle of two onions wearing hanbok and greeting each other ‘onionhaseyo’ HAHAHAHA

According to your Facebook memories, what did you post last year? It didn’t give me a memory for today.

What groups are you in? Too many – like I said, Facebook is insanely popular here and is used a lot, by everyone, for everything. I’m part of private groups for several of my classes, I’m in a group for my org, and our org also has a group that includes the alumni, and I’m in several interest groups with people sharing photos/videos of their dogs, their lunch for today, etc.

FOOD

What’s the last thing you ate? I’m about to eat instant yakisoba. I’m just waiting for the noodles to be softened by the hot water.

How about drank? Just water. I don’t really drink anything else at home.

Do you have plans for dinner tonight? Nope. I still don’t know which parent is cooking tonight, and what they’ll be making.

Do you have any food allergies? [continued from a few hours earlier, because I managed to fall asleep in the middle of this survey hahaha] Nope. I’d be so disappointed if I turned out allergic to a certain food, because I looooove eating.

Are you on a diet? I am not.

What’s the last fast food place you went to? I think it was Bonchon. My dad and I went there to pick up lunch a few Sundays ago, because he and my mom were both too lazy to cook.

What foreign cuisines do you enjoy? My all-time favorite is Indian, but I also enjoy Middle Eastern, Korean, and Thai. I’d say Japanese but tbh the only thing I really like from their cuisine is sashimi, sushi, and katsu.

What is your least favorite fruit? All of them. I’m also biased against honeydew, but this is more of an influence from BoJack Horseman than anything haha. I love that show :’(

How many meals have you had today, so far? Two. For the entire break so far my family has been eating late breakfast, completely skip lunch, and get together again for dinner.

What side dishes do you love? I don’t really notice them enough to have a favorite, but I do like the shaved cabbage from Yabu.