#IT TAKES MORE ENERGY TO HARRASS THAT GUY YOU DONT LIKE THAN TO NOT GIVE A FUCK

[swag-system]

can i be honest. being an "anti-" of literally anything sounds soo fucking exhausting. ur expending energy that could be used on literally anything else on hating people.. for literally zero gain? just for the sake of being hateful? you could use that energy to love. why would you ever want to hate?

[blackpilljesus]

I saw this from the female separatism subreddit & the responses are some of the biggest reasons for separatism et al (or extinction if I'm being candid here). Moids cant be reformed they are fully aware of the hell they force women to live in. MaIe achievement & happiness is rooted in female exploitation & life. Their glory days are based on our horrific days. No amount of love, kindness or facts will change maIes and we cannot happily or even neutrally coexist with them.

Main points across answers:

Many want to experiment but not permanently be women

They dont want to be in constant danger or lose their autonomy at the hands of maIes for merely existing

They dont want to deal with childbirth (& periods)

They dont want to have to share spaces with species much stronger than them with ulterior motives

It makes me go crazy seeing people give moids benefit of doubt for their evil like "maIes just dont understand", "we need to teach maIes", or claiming that maIe violence is a result of maIes struggling with (expressing) their feelings. I get that women love maIes and it can be hard to imagine that people can intentionally be so evil but it is what it is. MaIes have no problems expressing themselves, abusing women is what maIes choose to do because they enjoy & benefit from it - that is their expression.

MaIes see the same news of women being abused, raped, and killed like we do except rather than be disheartened or alarmed they're either apathetic or satisfied. It isn't aliens that's committing GBV it's maIes & maIes have no problem reminding women of this when women anger them (such as rape threats & threatening women they'll end up on the news/true crime). The victim blaming, denial, and derailment of misogyny is part of the game to keep the system alive, they know the events occured & are a systemic occurence they just dont care. Hell not only do they not care, they rejoice in it or get off on it.

MaIes set up environments that work in their favour which simultaneously ensures that women will lose. They know women are set up to live in damn near impossible conditions for us. It's normalised for women to defenselessly share personal & private spaces with beings much more stronger than them with ulterior motives for us, it's trap. It's interesting how these moids aren't saying that they'll just cover up and *poof* harrassment gone, or they'll just pick a nice guy & they'll be okay. MaIes know the net negative they are towards women.

MaIes know that childbirth is a painful process & what do they do? Demand it happens and make it even MORE painful for women. MaIes that impregnate women do not love or care for them. Pregnancy itself is dangerous & sometimes lethal, often comes with a range of health issues, to cause someone to be in that condition especially in a environment where abortions are illegal is reckless & unloving. Now imagine how sinister & full of hatred one has to be to impregnate someone and abuse them on top of that. Many women risk their health & lives to reproduce with a Y and they get abused by said Y instead of being taken care of. Deranged.

Realising that maIes are aware of the evil they inflict is one of the things that radicalised me. It isn't a miscommunication or ignorance issue, their violence is intended. They want control. The cruelty is the point. Instead of wasting time & energy trying to change maIes or hope that they "understand" one day, focus on yourself & other women (who prioritise women). Moids aren't oblivious to female pain they enjoy it. A lot of women treat maIe evil like it's a mistake on maIes part but it's calculated terrorism. I know that this will go over many womens heads as they refuse to hold strong negative sentiments about moids as a collective so if you're not a woman like that, take this post as a sanity check. You aren't crazy, it isn't all in your head.

[natures-marvel]

Alright, everybody! Since its the time of the year again, here's the post of 2024 in which, I wanna thank the moots who made this year amazing!

Right off, the bat (and in no particular order) :

@dormarunt @puduhegepa @marqenobi @misalpav and @maraudersbitchesassemble we didn't talk much this year but for whatever time we did, I am so glad to have talked with you all!

Hoping to do so and more next year! 😁

To @orgasming-caterpillar, my dearest, you never fail to amaze me with your strength and amuse me with your antics!

@prettykittytanjiro @shinchansbitch @randomx123 @jeahreading @im-on-crack-send-help I am so glad to have known you this year and I hope to know you more in the coming year

@aru-loves-krishnaxarjuna @tothemoonandbacklove you guys are absolute sweeties. No arguments here.

@akidev @budugu @voidsteffy I love you guys so so much! Y'all radiate such warm energy and aura its difficult to stay away from you all! 😭

@ae-dil-ae-saudaai (raman yeh kya url hai 😭) @meow-merchant-mf @milady-motherfucker Pijon (derogatory) (someone tell me his url) for being the bestest boys here and for being such lovely guys!

@desigurlie and @rhysaka the work you guys are doing for hindublr is fan fucking tastic and takes a lot of balls to do it! My salute to you both (and also to all the other members who actively work for this!)

(and now PARTICULARLY in the descending order with the best being at last, cause yeah its ME bitch)

@bandarrrrr for being the best bro ever! Love ya tots! 🫶🏽 And I am so so glad to got to know you this year! Hoping to do so next year as well!

@manujanolavu my wifey, love of my life, sweetheart, sweetieboo....you are the sunshine on a dark day, the rainbow at the end of the hailstorm and overall someone who has a good heart!

@h0bg0blin-meat my basketcase, unhinged tumblr twin, last year I said I wanted to know you better and now idk if i regret it or not 😂

But in all seriousness, you are the friend to be held onto and I KNOW I can come to you to harrass you as well as whine my heart out!

@lavandulacosmos you know whenever a problem arises and you are in need of good vibes or just plain safety, the first place we think of is home. You have become that home for me. I dont need to talk to you everyday but I know if anything happens, you always have something for me to make it better. Whether its a quip that'll make me scowl or a heartfelt advice that would make things better, you always have smth for me.

Bestest for the finale, @wedgeantill you deserved this position like SO LONG back but well, here you are!

I dont know how the fuck we became friends but I am very glad that we did and I am so so grateful for you that I have no words to describe it. Even though we squabble more than half the time and give empty threats to each other, I know theres affection behind it and I am so happy to just see you, even tho you drive me nuts.

Its been 3 years since we met but with you, time feels like its slowed down. From lcdp gifs to personal stories, we have come a long way and I PRAY I get to thank you again next year for being with me and being there for me. Love you so much (/PLAT 😂)

And whoever is not mentioned here and sees this post, I thank you too for making this year lovely for me!

[pettydreamz]

tw+tldr//

i've never rly thought of myself being a doormat. but with each of my friends and past friendships too, when i say the stuff i've have allowed to happen and done for them outloud... maybe i am. i only realised later in life that i always had rose tinted glasses with my friends. i be so proud, and loving for them always wanting better for them (bc they deserve the damned best), i try my best to respect everyone's space (this can be debatable lol). i have tried to defend other friends, like i remember some friends saying why are you still friends with her if she still treats you that way, i would've dropped her by now, but i couldnt bc i loved her, she was my friend!

i used to drop off my friends to the bus or tram and end up coming home late. i bought so many of my friends expensive gifts, whenever they needed me or wanted to hang out despite, my schedule i will make time just for them. even now if any of my friends want to hang out, even on a work day - i'll work hard the day before so i can see them the following day. i'll shout(pay/treat) them out for an outing or to eat. i give them advice and it's their own perogative to take it. if they needed me to build them a bookshelf i would do it. if they needed me to stay up all day or night in a hangout, sleepover or call i will. i'll let some friends ghost me n flake on me multiple times. im sorry that it's my fault some could never fully be open with me no matter how hard i tried, that sometimes i do get frustrated about it but hey i cant force them to do anything especially when sometimes they dont listen. they are their own person, who can form their own thoughts n opinion at the end of the day. i let them peer pressure to do all sorts of things ^^;;;

i let friends be entitled to my time n energy bc i fucking love them. like soo many times i've been fucked over by people it just hurts sometimes when it's a friend. and ofc im not saying im perfect bc ew god no. but it sucks sometimes when you dont feel appreciated, valued or loved the same.

like for 2 years back in high school every friday i will hang with my friend after school and wait an hour after her tutoring was done, and pretend im not with her bc her mother didnt like e bc i wore FAKE GLASSES.

i let many of my friends physically, mentally, emotionally and even sexually abuse me but i thought it's ok bc theyre my friends.

i'll never forget when i was like 13/14 i was on a packed tram and a hobo why dry humping me from behind, and so many saw my uncomfortable face but noone saved me, i called who i thought was my best friend at the time after i managed to escape before it lead to worse and all she could say was LMAOOOO or ROFLLL or LMFAOO. ofc i had been sexually harrassed and assaulted many more times but yeah.. i still let myself trust her and all our other friends, who also hurted me.

i let my most of my gfs - guy friends bully me, when they had the chance.

i always put them on a pedestal bc if youre my friend, then you're already amazing!

you're so much better than all the guys who treated me in my life.

all i ever wanted was a true friend experience where i feel like you have my back n is open with me. so yeah when i start reassessing what a friend means... i will unfortunately vent my frustration n insecurities on a vent blog...

sorry if i dont seem trust worthy or whatever but ig im still subconsciously protecting myself as well, bc they themselves also dont make an environment that i feel safe to share, ironically enough. this mind had always tormented me and sorry i never let you in on it.

i dont expect a transactional friendship, where i do something for them and something expect in return. thats not a friendship. but i wish some saw how much i love and would do anything for them or at least try to..