#IS NOT HEALTHY
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Question for the artist, whats the parameters for drawing fusion fanart? Because a lot of people see it as a romanic thing, but it isnt always that. For example, are you okay with fans drawing steven fused the crystal gems? Are you okay with fans drawing any fusions including CG, or is that an ick?
Okay, SO. I apologize for answering this late - I was trying to find the correct way to reply to this ask without coming off as someone extremely senile and jaded.
First things first - I really appreciate you taking my feelings into consideration on this! I can tell it comes from a place of genuine kindness and caring, and I think that's awesome.
I'm not unfamiliar with the fact that some artists feel very protective of their characters, and sometimes try to lay down rules about how they are to be viewed, how they are to be drawn by others, etc. So I don't blame you at all for assuming this is something that needs to be done, given the current fandom environment in certain spaces.
That all being said.
This idea that drawing characters in Situations Which May Be Uncomfortable To Someone With A Specific Interpretation Of The Media (which is not at all supported by canon text) is transgressive is..... boy...... that's not a good one.
It is..... Extremely Evangelical in its conception.
Guys. GUYS. Thought crime isn't a crime. ART isn't a crime.
But to answer your question -
Yes, you can absolutely draw Steven - WD!AU Steven - fusing with the gems or CG.
Yes, you can absolutely draw CG fusing with Steven or the Crystal Gems, etc.
Because
Even if someone DID assume fusion was romantic primarily, that doesn't mean it should be the default, and in fact it ISN'T. Many, MANY fusions in the show are not representative of romantic relationships.
Canon Steven, in the Canon show, fused with TONS of people he didn't have romantic feelings for. Most of the people, outside of Connie, for a start.
Even if imagining CG in a romantic relationship with the Crystal Gems DOES give me the 'ick' (which, actually, yeah, it kinda does I guess, given that I can't really see that thing happening given that she's effectively (not LITERALLY) a child) that doesn't mean YOUR art has to be limited by my presumptions of what fusion means in this context, if we disagree on it
And not to put too fine a point on it but
Fusion ISN'T inherently about romance.
Fusion ISN'T inherently sexual!
No part of the show supports either of these ideas. Fusion is and always has been explicitly about various types of RELATIONSHIPS - including things like sibling bonds (Smokey Quartz), parent-child relationships (Steg, Steven and ANY of the CGs), friendships, Unhealthy Control-Seeking (Malachite) and just straight up collaborative murder (a la Aquamarine and Ruby).
Yes, some fusions ARE inherently romantic in nature, but that does not mean ALL fusions adhere to these rules. In fact, MOST fusions aren't even about that.
And even if they were.............we're all allowed to express our OWN interpretation of things using art. That's not an Ungood Thought that you should be shamed for.
thank you for coming to my ted talk
#chekhov answers#this ask made me a little feral sorry#nothing against the OP#just this attitude that has become Normalized in fandom#is NOT healthy
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While I do agree with the general principles of the Anti-Brainwashed Callie Movement (her s2 arc is more complicated than “she was kidnapped by the octarians,” she was struggling mentally and sought the octarians as an escape), I really don’t like how it forces One True interpretation of canon that isn’t 100% fully backed by in game evidence. Like, they often use real world hypnosis as an explanation for how the hypnoshades work (aka they just make Callie more obedient to suggestions) when like, there’s no evidence in the game to suggest they work like that. And ultimately, I think it’s possible to have a more nuanced Callie arc with brainwashing involved because it’s about the execution of the trope, not the trope itself. I think a lot of people who adhere strictly to this interpretation don’t understand that and thus balk at the mere implication that Callie is brainwashed without even considering there may be more nuance to it.
#splatoon#one of the things I like about this fandom#is how much creative freedom you get#so ppl trying to shove a One True Interpretation like this bothers me#and like idk#there is One Person largely responsible for spreading this and from reading some of their posts I…#Think They Need to Go Outside#and I mean this kindly not in an internet condescending way#staking so much of your self worth and identity on a fictional character to the point where u get rlly upset when ppl disagree w u#Is Not Healthy#and so is trapping urself in shame around those feelings#it’s okay. You Are Okay
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Guys, Coldplay's "Fix You" is in Sand's official playlist. We will suffer. We're gonna suffer so much. Why are you doing this to us Jojo.
#ofts#only friends series#only friends the series#only friends#Im not a fan of the “fixing someone”-trope. But maybe im rooting for it this time bc the amount of love i feel for sand and ray as a couple#is not healthy#or normal#khaotung thanawat
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License to Kitty.
#dungeon meshi#izutsumi#marcille donato#chilchuk tims#I still stand by my tags on the Izutsumi character study piece I did in January - but I will repeat myself on a few lines here:#I *really* love this character. I love that all of the dungeon meshi crew are complicated and have difficult to love components.#But Izutsumi is a particular kind of hard to love. I foresee a lot of people being turned off by her abrasiveness and lack of teamwork.#She is very self-centered and openly goes against what the party agrees on.#She's a picky eater in a story that is 50% about eating good and healthy food!#It is in part about her growth but admittedly even *then* she remains rather true to her self-centeredness.#Even though she isn't as nice or funny or compassionate as the others...Izutsumi is still someone worth loving.#Even the more difficult people are someone worth loving.#And those people in turn are people who have something and someone they love.#She may be a girlcat but she is the most human of them all.#I hope that if you are an anime only watcher and are feeling put off by her at the moment; you'll give her a chance.#By the way: *yes* I worked very hard to draw that skateboard pose. It was worth it.#EDIT: HAPPY 500th POST OF POORLY-DRAW-MDZS!!! What a comic to commemorate the milestone with!
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the intimacy of sleeping together, but not in a sexual way. the intimacy of feeling the warmth of their body in a cool room. their hands hugging you tightly. the intimacy of synchronized breathing. sleepy half-kisses. feeling safe. feeling warm. waking up and realizing how much you love them. how precious this is. finding the happiness on the tip of your fingers, brushing their hair. closing your eyes again. pulling closer. falling asleep.
#being in love#love love love#love#lovers#relationship#i love him#healthy relationships#relationship goals#marriage#i love my boyfriend#boyfriend#in love#sleep
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UTRH AU - (before revelation) Jason tries to kill Dick but can’t keep his emotions under control. Loosely inspired by this.
#dick grayson#jason todd#batman#batfamily#batfam#dc comics#dc#under the red hood#my art#healthy sibling relationships#can’t figure out my art style HELP
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Here's to every pet-related worker who has to deal with "Her name is BELLA you've seen her before just look her up." You're a real one. May you grow in power for every Bella in your system.
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a big lesson for me was learning that most things are not as fragile as I’d believed. missing a class, or turning in a bad assignment, won’t instantly destroy your professor’s opinion of you. accidentally saying something harsh won’t make your friend want to end the friendship. it takes work to repair these things - it takes effort and research and sometimes a sincere apology - but you can do that because they’re not irreparably broken. what you’ve worked to build, in academia and in relationships and in life, is stronger and more enduring that your mind may teach you to believe. don’t let imagined fragility lead you to giving up
#in some rare cases someone will react dramatically to a small failure#it’s very very important to understand that that is about them#it is not about you#and environments that condition you to fear small missteps are neither healthy nor productive#but in most cases things are not so fragile#also this is a follow up to the credibility post#because your credibility will not break if you miss a day#it’s all stronger than you think#academia#study tips#studyblr#study inspo#study motivation#productivity#personal#text post
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#love#to be loved like this#partner goals#relationship goals#relationship#couple goals#healthy relationships#obsessive love#high standards#princess treatment
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I painted over my Halsin portrait with his hair down for science and
oh my fucking god
somebody call me an ambulance
#halsin#bg3#baldur's gate 3#asdfghjkl#I Have many MANY IDEAS#somebody take this man away from me this isnt healthy
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i cant even properly explain how it emotionally affects me when my cat comes up to me for cuddles. small creature walks up to me, a giant, in search of a gentle touch, because he trusts me completely. that is what love is. that is what the universe is built for. i want to cry
#i've been really sick for a week and haven't had the energy to play with navid for a while#and i feel like he's been so understanding about it??#like he gets it that im not well so he's not being pushy to play as he usually is when im healthy#i love him so so so much#jamble ramble#navid#my cat
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found out about the existence of this pairing like a month ago and im already in love with these two <33
#transformers#tf#tf g1#starscream#jetfire#skyfire#jetstar#skystar#my art#genuinely funny that i knew about starscreams existence all my life but i NEVER heard of skyfire#so it was insane to find out that scream all this time had a big kind bf😭😭#i thought people shipped scream only with megs but oh my god... scream can actually have a healthy relationship with someone🥺#its not a diss on megastar from time to time i kinda shipped them xd (i didnt know about the possibility of other ships)#but yeah ive known about skystar only for like a month and they already destroyed me with how cute theyre while still having SO much angst
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ok but what if we normalize having a party where you dress up & are the center of attention & all your friends congratulate you on your divorce. more unhappy couples would hurry up and pull the plug, i will bet you
#kinda crazy how our wedding-obsessed capitalist culture pressures couples to over-commit & marry before building healthy foundations#'putting on a fancy dress and being celebrated on your special day' sounds so harmless but we teach young girls that it's#something you have to 'earn' by marrying some guy. ANY guy. by an arbitrary deadline of like 27 or whatever#and if you don't get married or get married too late? no party for you!!!#that's insane and we should talk about it more#babe you don't want a wedding you want a quinceañera
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Came back wrong this, came back monstrous that
What if they came back loving? What if they came back in love. What if the necromancy worked and you cheated death and it's everything you've ever wanted, but now they love you in a way they never did before and you cannot know if that is because they finally know the lengths you are willing to go for them, or because something in this deathless magic bound their soul to yours to guide them home and it left them no. choice.
#a rare sprinkling of angst from me#call that necromantic~#laura tumbles#the solution of course is lots of healthy communication and maybe therapy#as it so very often is#necromancer#necromancy
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hugging until we smell like each other. that's it. that's the whole point.
#being in love#love love love#love#lovers#relationship#healthy relationships#i love him#relationship goals#marriage#hugging#physical touch
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