#IM HAVING A MENTAL BREAKDOWN OVER HERE
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#hmap#bg3#im having a mental breakdown over here#i was just talking with bullbae about my current and old files in harvest moon animal parade and such#and then i brought up how oh i think id just had a baby with---...wizard..........#and then i realized his real name is gale and i'm#im losing it
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oh em gee fuck me
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using the tags to vent my current emotional state into the void bc ig story feels like a bad plan for this, read at your own risk.
#but jesus christ coming back home while already knee deep in a suicidal episode was an awful idea#like i was maybe on the verge of improving and then i came back to all of this family bullshit#and the place as well like it’s so. i don’t want to say isolated necessarily. but so much it’s own little bubble#and i spent the last eight or nine years i lived here depressed and the last six suicidal#and being back here feels like the actual place is telling me to die#and i don’t think it helps that every place i go i know or know of someone who successfully committed suicide#like. oh this person drowned themself here. or that person hung themself in these woods. or several people jumped off the side of this clif#like. it all feels like reminders of my failures. and it’s like. cmon. wouldn’t it be easy. all you need to do is jump. is slit your throat#is find a decent piece of rope. idk. but everything is so much and i just want it to stop and it feels like the ground itself#is giving me a way to do it.#i genuinely feel like i’m like 16 or 17 again. and everything that isn’t within these hills#feels like a haze and not actually real. like the concept of buxton doesn’t actually exist and my friends do not actually exist and nothing#actually exists except the place i’m in and my family and the pub#i think going back to work at the pub was a mistake; i think it’s making this worse. especially because it’s henry’s dad’s local#and where henry’s wake was. and nothing there has changed at all. it’s like the whole last year never happened.#and i only need to get through two more days but it feels like an impossible task and i keep thinking being back in york will fix me but id#if that even true like. i was suicidal before i left. and it’s going to be intense and stressful and then i have to leave again.#come back here and do three full weeks of this all over again. i haven’t even managed two yet this time around. and i feel like#such a failure and such a drain on my friends (and on one in particular) because it just#is so much and has been so long and everything is complicated and awful and i think if i hadn’t come back i’d be in a normal mental state#by now. that’s the worst fucking part. and also the whole thing of i know how to be suicidal here. i know how to not give a shit about#living here. i know how to do that. but ive never had to try before. like im trying to improve and im trying to hold on and hold off the#urges to kill myself or self harm or whatever because i said i would and because i KNOW it can be better than this and bc i love my friends#and they love me and i don’t want to upset them or make them anxious or anything like that and kat made me promise to try and im trying so#fucking hard and it feels like it’s not even worth the effort because it’s so much effort and everything is so overwhelming and awful and i#hate the way my family interacts and i just want everything to stop and idc if suicide is the cowards way out or selfish or whatever#bullshit people say it feels like the only option i can actually withstand because everything is so much pain and so much effort and so muc#everything and i can’t deal with it anymore. and also i forgot just how much i have to fucking mask in front of my parents and especially m#father and it’s so exhausting and i can’t sleep and there’s so much yelling and i just need it all to stop#i’ve had major breakdowns the last 3 nights about wanting to die so much & trying so hard to not let myself & idk how much longer i can tak
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guys my mom apologized to me today for being harsh and asked why im always sad and whats wrong, and that i can talk to her.
i honestly cried because i have so many mixed feelings; i know she loves me and she wants the best for me, but everything she's said...all those horrible things that only crawl in my brain and the main reason i have severe anxiety and depression...they won't leave me alone.
i wanted to run back to her, back into her arms and cry and tell her everything...but i didn't. my instinct was telling me not to trust her. to keep everything bottled in. and the worst part? i couldn't tell if it was my anxiety or my brain telling me this.
i avoided every question, she asked me why i don't talk to her...i just said i was sick and a little tired.
she also asked why i was so irritable all the time. the truth is...i really don't know. i don't. i'm rude to everyone in my family who tries to know more, who tries to break that barrier.
i feel like i'm becoming my parents. nobody wants to know more. i have no true friends, merely acquaintances in my life. i never get too close...i can't. i'm unable to be close with anyone.
and i can't tell them...anything.
#sana's rants#sana's vents#this was so sudden im so sorry#i just had so much to say and i filled six pages of my diary plus my hand hurt#but fun fact about me#i haven't had a day where i HAVENT cried in over four years#mental breakdowns and panic attacks here and there#a few days ago#my family got into a fight with me#and my mom said she was ashamed to have me as a daughter#yet today she turns right around and i dont know.#i don't know what mood she'll be in tomorrow#will she be disappointed in me?#will she dash my happiness?#or will she leave me alone for once?#who knows...
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i love gwen and kevin all silent and fucked up over dying and coming back to life and bens just like 'teehee same shit as always right guys???'
#the king of 'if i dont think about the horrible fucked up shit that just happened its like nothing happened'#<- he thinks this is normal and healthy#and im just over here like damn bitch you really live like this 😬#its honestly a miracle babyboy has never had a full blown mental breakdown#anyway the next episode i have to watch is the stockholm syndrome one ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ#puppy noises#micks big ben 10 rewatch liveblog
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Oh this is kind of banging
#siffrin over here having his twentieth mental breakdown in a row and im over here vibing to tje house music#i would say im sorry but uhhhhh this is really good so im not#mb plays a game#isat
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#dude last night i had an actual mental breakdown over how ass my art has been lately and i was like NOOOO NOOO I HAVE TO GET BETTER NO W!!!#so i ended up drawing this thing and if it does not look like the prettiest thing ive drawn in my life im blowing this place up#i actually cant stand being static with my art if im not improving every second of my life why r we even here!! punches air
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experiencing my bimonthly (every two months) morality spiral of "it's bad that i like men, why am i not as attracted to women, i must be a misogynist if I personally am not as often attracted to women as i am men"
i would say i need to go touch grass to get over it but unfortunately I do that at least once a day and it does not seem to help 😔 (this second paragraph is half joke)
#the ocd is OCD'ing !!!!!! get me OUTTA here !!!!#what actually would help is getting out and being around real life ppl more but. i am so tired fsdjkl that is so difficult#also i am afraid bc my immune system is so fucked up and i really cannot afford physically or mentally to get sick#if i was a man or man-adjacent i wouldn't feel bad about being attracted to men i think#bc then i'd ''at least be gay''#but when i am nonbinary and transneutral then i feel like everyone is just going to see me as girl-lite in a straight relationship#and if i am not attracted to women then surely i MUST be a misogynist! because women are wonderful so why am i not as attracted to them!#its funny bc we have a lesbian in the system and also a gay man and then a few other ppl across the span of sexualities#and im just over here being the only one having mental breakdowns about my sexuality HFDSJGKL#everyone else is like. it literally does not matter the way u seem to think it does. ur fine. wtf are u on about.#and im over here spiralling out into crying breakdowns bc i convince myself i must be a terrible person for not being as attracted to women#i need to figure out how to stop going through this spiral every couple of months bc it is exhausting and so so so stupid oh my god#vent //#dandy.cmd
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never think of ichi getting a haircut and being upset with the result while getting your own hair cut lest you also be cursed with a cut You Did Not Want
#snap chats#everyone was here the last time i had a mental breakdown over a haircut i got right#part two baby !!!!!!#II WANT TO DIE SO BAD#i didnt have money to get it cut properly so i just had my mom do it since shes cut our hair for years#and she cut it too short and now i just feel dysphoric and ugly and i want to scream and die#‘snap youre making a mountain out of a mole hill’ LET ME BE UPSET#ITS MY HAIR MY FACE MY FEELINGS so if i wanna cry like a baby let me#esp since im going back to school this week like UGH I WANTED TO LOOK NICE THE FIRST DAY#i guess this is better than having my hair longer but still.... day ruined#at least ichi’s hair looked great.... i dont wanna look in the mirror for the next half year#ok im done being dramatic bye. im gonna cry on the couch <- exagerrating. hopefully.#ill probably judt try to draw to distract the fact my self consciousness is worse now LMAO WE’LL COPE SOMEHOW WE ALWAYS DO
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my dad totally has a stomach bug and just got a call from his doctor he needs to take antibiotics for a couple days to see if that finally nips it in the bud for him because apparently this has been Ongoing for a bit and i'm being really not normal about this, thanks
#like what do you MEAAAAAAAAN you 'keep going to the bathroom' and have been for days!!! what do you MEAN!!!!!!#My own tummy is very not happy 2day and i feel like im being insane like there are multiple reasons this could be happening but who knows :#<- multiple reasons that are Not stomach bug related.#still .ugh. UGH. my therapist and i were literally talking earlier today!!! about how if i could just hurl and get that over with maybe my#phobia wouldnt be so bad! i literally TOLD HER IM LESS SCARED ATP OF PUKING FROM A STOMACH BUG THEN I AM OF PUKING FROM A PANIC ATTACK#AND NOW. HERE I AM. STARING GASTROENTERITIS IN THE EYE. AND IM LIKE UMMM NEVER MIND ACTUALLYYYYY :D :D :D :D :D#i hate my life. lmfao.#summer's text tag#ocd is so stupid emetophobia is so stupid i need to be NORMAL BRAINED ABOUT THIS!!! I CANNOT LET THIS RUIN MY LIFE ANYMORE!!! RAAAAAGGHHHHH#<- <- <- deleting this post later btw. sorry to mental breakdown on ur dash. will be back to normal shortly (maybe)
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#having a bit of a breakdown bc i keep fucking everything up bc of how bad my mental heath is rn#and im so tired of feeling like this useless burden#i keep fucking up in the exact same ways and its expensive and frustrating and stressful#and it sucks to be losing my mind over these mistakes while also just aggressively not wanting to be alive#like what does it matter if my bike is dead bc i ruined it and now cant go to my friends wedding? what does anything even matter?#being alive is too fucking hard#and i am very alone and dont want to burden anyone w my mental health anyway#but i am just. completely falling apart at the moment#and im so fucking tired all the time#hhhhhHHHHHH#struggling here pals.#post
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feeling misery and despair about going back to work btw. im trying to suppress it and i did a good job but the inevitable is inevitable
#purrs#i had like 3 massive breakdowns at the end of the week incl one on friday when i was off. and then i was like ok. i am literally weak and sh#shaking from all of that let me just pretend none of it happened. and i did!!! i pretended so well that i have felt basicslly normal all#weekend. i played a lot of video games and i even went out twice.. once to a chorus concert on campus (which is big bc being on campus ummmm#is deeply agitating to me rn ♥️) and today to home depot w my family to wander around the plants and hear the birds. i am suppressing things#and i know i am but if i don’t think about thst i feel so normal. except now it’s 11:16 on a sunday night and i have work tomorrow. and i#know most of the horrors are over but there are still so many more fucking horrors ahead. saying goodbye to people i love and anniversaries#of things happening including today being the 4 year anniversary of a certain email lol. and i can FEEL the difference. the way my stomach#is in knots bc weekends are only so long (even long ones) and i can only hold back the horrors for a little while. it’s all temporary. augh.#i literally need like a whole month off i think. idk. work stuff has fucked up my mental health beyond belief this year and it’s so sad bc t#this is my dream job but im in so much mental pain and physical exhaustion constantly and they beget themselves and by the end of the week#im miserable. but the semester is about to end. but what if it doesn’t get better bc EVERY single god damn time we talk about how it’s gonna#get better it quite literally gets worse lol 💖 i can’t im not strong enough. coming up on 5 years here and im not fucking strong enough!#but i will heal eventually i think. i just need the horrors to cease for long enough for me to catch my breath (and other redacted things ♥️
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u ever have to back out of a drama explained video bc ur like. i agree that that person was in the wrong but the way youre presenting them is just unsettling
#like theres a difference between 'hey heres a breakdown of who waid what and what happened' and#'look at this zoo animal and what a freak they are for this freak thing they did‚ everyone point and laugh at them wherever they go forever#specifically if you put quirky music and a dramatic voiceover over a clip of someone having a screaming#breakdown in their car telling people to leave them alone i think thats uhhhhhh fucked up no matter what they did#and ppl will always be like 'well they could just log off so its fine' and its like a) didnt we learn in like elementary school that#cyberbullying is still real bullying#like to me that gives the same vibe as 'why didnt they just leave' irt abusive relationship if that makes sense?#like yeah physically they are capable of just logging off. physically they can choose to leave. but theres a lot more#that goes into it than just 'can i physically leave'#like. ppl who do abuse over the internet know how the internet works and know how to use#means other than ohysical strength to keep targets under their control#'if you dont respond to my messages whenever i send them ill kill myself. no i didnt directly say that but#i repeatedly messaged you at times i knew you had just gone to sleep faking suicide attempts making you feel#like its your fault for not being available to respond 24/7'#its 'youre the only person i can talk to about these things no one understands me like you. you are my whole support system and therefore#wholly responsible for my mental health#if you leave me ill have no one so you will be dooming me to fall apart on my own when i need support the most so you can never leave me'#its 'how can you break up with me right now knowing im feeling suicidal‚ its like you want me to kill myself‚ you did this deliberately bc#youre a bad person. my life depends on you staying with me and i will never not be suicidal#and even if i was you saying that would make me feel that way so you can never break up with me or youre responsible for me kmsing#im not saying thats at all the same as ppl taking drama too far and freaking out abiut stuff however i feel like a good portion of it#carries over specifically the fact that. they probably feel like they /have/ to stay logged in‚ to keep their drama public#they have to keep defending themselves and keep reading responses and keep going and going#plus like. of course its the big freakouts that get lots of attention and therefore get even worse#good or bad people like spectacle‚ you never see people calmly resovling disagreements because they.#get calmly resolved then everyone moves on and forgets it. so you only remember the wild ones#like esp for like. kids on tiktok#we all had meltdowns about petty shit at one point or another we just were lucky enough to grow up just before#social medias jumped over to video content so it doesnt have our faces tied to it#idk. i just think ppl should ask themselves 'how would i feel if an audience of thousands was watching my lowest moment like this'
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Week 3 of nursing school and still questioning why I put myself up to this
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#*chanting to myself*#I want to be a nurse I want to be a nurse#I love my teachers and I love my class#everyone is so nice and enthusias and helpful#but my god#I am. so exhausted#I am already nearing the academic mental breakdown and holy shit I am so unprepared for this#my notes are a mess and I am so stressed about the upcoming exams in the next few days#ironically the math is the easiest part here#it’s the actual ‘nursing’ that’s stressful#I feel like I’m perpetually playing catch up at the last minute#maybe I would have felt more comfortable taking a lpn class instead of an rn to be honest#like over half of our class is already IN the medical field#so all this stuff? already familiar with it#im chugging through!#but ohhhh my god#*stares into the distance*#I feel so unprepared and 5 seconds away from a malpractice suit#it’s the anxiety but knowing doesn’t really help 💀
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tbh i feel like we're all maybe forgetting that 6A was kind of destined to be a little bit boring or slow-paced from the get-go because of how 5B ended so *perfectly* with everything tied up in a neat little bow. i mean 5x18 was literally called "starting over," and this is a show that (for better or for worse, this specific post is not pro-911s-pacing or anti-911s-pacing but a secret third thing, confused-and-trying-to-make-sense-of 911s-pacing) routinely and consistently takes right around ~10 episodes to cash in on big narrative plot points. not situational or episode specific or more technical plot points, like madney going from unsuccessful house hunting to finding a place within 2 episodes, or buck agreeing to be a sperm donor inside of 1 episode- those are typically resolved pretty quickly, within an episode or two. the show scaffolds these more-quickly-resolved plot points together into larger, more character driven arcs that typically always take around ten episodes for the full emotional fallout and significance to play out. 911 has always been a show where what happens matters a hell of a lot less to the story than how the characters feel about what happens, so because this is such a character driven show, inside of those ten set-up, pawns-on-the-chessboard episodes, it can be pretty difficult at times to figure out what they're angling at, or where they're planning on going (buck! where the hell are you going!), or how any of the plots are going to coalesce into something useful, profound, and cohesive. typically, the B season ends with at least a *couple* of loose threads that carry over into the arc-resolution-conclusion phase in the following A season, giving us an A season that's like 70% setup for new arcs and 30% wrapup of old arcs- but 5B ended on a true blank slate, so almost *everything* in 6A (with the exception of the conclusion to hen's super-drawn-out-but-very-realistically-paced med school arc) has been... scaffolding from the ground up.
and scaffolding looks pretty unimpressive and odd and boring on its own, like a big pile of ugly junk getting in the way of everything, but put it alongside the Sistine chapel ceiling it was built to accomplish, and suddenly it seems a little more worthwhile.
#this is just some food for thought! I've felt that 6a was good but kinda boring at times#thinking about how much of a blank slate starting over gave us was rather illuminating#911#911 meta#again! this is just me making sense of things it's not me trying to throw stones in any particular direction or make any kind of assertion#this is just my hunch#here's hoping 6B delivers and i have a feeling it will!!!#6A being 9 episodes really just feels like edging lmfao nyfxtnrnsbtd like cutting us off right when things are about to get crazy#which makes me think 6x10 is like. A Big Pivot Episode that couldn't hang on its own for 4 months with no followup#bucks leg injury -> tsunami -> lawsuit -> rejoining the 118 was like 7 or 8 episodes#eddies panic attacks -> ana breakup -> quitting the 118 -> therapy -> breakdown arc was like 11 or 12 eps#(also can we talk about how that arc started with him lying to buck about his mental health and ended with buck helping him with it)#there's more examples but im tired and need to go make dinner so. anyway#a 9 episode A-half coming on the heels of a wrapping-everything-up B finale#just kind of left them with. very minimal runway in which they could pull off any real satisfying conclusions to narrative arcs#while staying true to this 10-episode rhythm they seem to have settled on!#again: for better or for worse! like it or not this show is consistent in *how* it is written. when it comes to like. methodology
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#somethings gotta give. bc the way i exist now is not sustainable. i mean. it is but like at what cost ya kno#i just want to clean my apartment and go to the dentist. thats all i want. and that makes me so sad#my mum texted me today like pls work on a xmas list and literally i dont want anything i just wanna clean my apartment#and like not hate everything i have to do on a regular basis. and to b able to concentrate and not be paralyzed by everything#which is to say i need to be medicated but that's just another thing on a growing list of things that needs to happen so like cool great#mayne itll be better once i start taking measures. it wont. i know it wont but maybe it'll at least b terrible in a different way#bc im tired of this way. and im pretty sure my boss thinks im having a breakdown and like shes not really wrong but its still annoying#i should also get tickets home for winter break. but the mental math i have to do to convince myself i can take time off is exhausting#i should probably go for like a full 2 weeks. and hope it heals me even tho none of the breaks ive had this year have healed me#just take 2 weeks and get a game on steam and just not do anything as i agonize over all my applications#and agonize over the fact i probably have to be here doing this for at least another 7 or 8 months#i should have left last year. ugh. i should have done a lot of things. i should b working on my manuscripts right now#or doing something productive. im just tired. and i dont want to meet with ppl tomorrow. i just wanna sleep#unrelated
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