#I would be absolutely willing to have an open respectful conversation w ya

[onelinemanytimes]

To all people who enjoy content:

There is a HUGE issue that needs to be addressed in how people react to things online and how they decide to deal with perceived issues. Specifically, in regards to content creators online, and the content they create.

I want to clarify, this post is talking for the most part about creators who did something multiple years ago that they currently don’t agree with. I’m not talking about people who are CURRENTLY horrible people, but if you want to know please do ask.

Basic synopsis: Purity culture is being used to shame people for their interests and to actively control and manipulate what people are “allowed” to like, which is often harmful and toxic; it is also being used to condemn people for the entire rest of their lives over doing something in their past, with no regards to if an apology was offered- which is harmful to people trying to unlearn toxic mindsets and be better people in the present day.

So, let’s talk about Purity Culture. I don’t know what else to call it, so if someone has a better name for it go ahead and say it- but, essentially, “The idea that every piece of media you consume must itself be good, AND has to have been made by a “good person”,” with no exceptions. This belief means that if a creator is seen as a bad person, or the media itself has a troubling aspect, you are NOT allowed to like it, DO NOT INTERACT, YOU’RE PROBLEMATIC AS HELL TOO IF YOU LIKE IT!!!!

That may sound like an exaggeration, but it’s only mildly so. There is, however, a much more harmful part to this mentality: Judging people for things they did years ago, and not allowing them to apologize and be forgiven, and USING this purity culture ideal against THEM as well. The idea that people can’t be forgiven, can’t change, and have to have been perfect always to be valid is extremely, extremely toxic and harmful, full stop. There are so many underlying issues that can both lead to someone being “problematic,” but that is so much less the issue than the fact doing this discourages real change.

People DO change over time. And if you find out someone did something in their past, you ARE allowed to not forgive them! However; That does NOT mean you should condemn them and everything they do as problematic horrible and unforgivable, and ATTACK other people and make WARNING posts in the tone of them STILL being “””Problematic”””! That is in some cases, BLATANT MISINFORMATION, and in most cases, encouraging the mentality that people don’t change.

Now, who is this a problem for? Because someone saying horrible things about minorities of any kind is legitimately harmful in its own right, and can hurt people who find it, which deserves to be addressed. (Again, YOU are not required to forgive them, and you have the freedom to not engage.) Purity Culture hurts People with RSD (Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria), and people who cannot control what they hyperfixate on. It can ALSO harm people who are struggling to get past toxic mentalities for any reason, and people who are trying to improve themselves and be better., and people who HAVE improved themselves and gotten better after being a person with (arguably) horrible views.

For people who experience RSD, seeing people denounce a piece of media for “””Something problematic””” (creator or otherwise), and in some cases seeing people ATTACK those who enjoy that media, can be physically painful and extremely, extremely stressful. Especially with the prevalence of this mentality right now, it makes engaging with anything a VERY stressful experience, because if what you enjoy isn’t perfect in every way you will be shamed for it, and rejected for it, and actively hated for it, and there is NO compromise on that point.

This is twice as volatile an issue when you ALSO cannot wholly control what your brain hyperfixates on. Hyperfixation (the word) has two main uses; in regards to a single task/activity (in which you’re unable to pull yourself out of said task and cannot switch focus to anything else), and in regards to media consumption (having an intense, very focused interest in media or a character, that can feel very consuming and intense in some cases. This extends even MORE so to special interests).

 Hyperfixations in those who are neurodivergent (don’t think the same as the wider population- such as people with ADHD and Autism, amongst other things) are NOT typically something they can control. Not without exceptional effort and potential detriment- one of the fairly unfortunate coping mechanisms I have for this (speaking, yes, as someone with ADHD) is to Completely ignore new media, wholesale, to avoid gaining a hyperfixation in relation to that media. Even still, I obviously still SEE things because I exist in the world and things are everywhere- and while I can enjoy content normally, it is MUCH different when I see something and feel unable to focus on ANYTHING else for WEEKS on end.

You can hyperfixate on something before learning about “X problematic thing,” and then when you’ve already gotten very attached and deep into the media people will start attacking you with it! And saying “Oh, you like THAT??? That was made by a super problematic person, you can’t like that!!!” It’s EXTREMELY difficult to explain how harmful that is when I A: Can’t control it, B: Didn’t know, and C: Suffer from RSD in the first place. It DOES NOT stop you from engaging with the content, because you are hyperfixated on it and you literally can’t avoid it, but it DOES overwhelm you with guilt and make you withdraw from the people around you because now YOU must be problematic and horrible and you’re a horrible person for liking this media and everyone must HATE you.

The above was not an exaggeration. That is legitimately how it feels.

People are talking about how “Cringe Culture is dead,” but it being replaced by a MUCH more insidious “Purity Culture” that is MUCH MORE toxic, MUCH MORE manipulative, and also inherently flawed to begin with!!! You CAN’T and SHOULDN’T be a perfect person, that is why you CHANGE AND GROW. You should ALSO be judging a piece of media on its OWN merits, NOT on the merits of what’s behind it (not wholesale like people are intent on doing).

Now, all things in moderation. If a piece of media was created with malicious or biased opinions in its core: It IS important to address that, and to acknowledge that this aspect is not something you should support, and something to be mindful of when thinking about the content. It’s also good to be aware of how people currently are when participating in media spaces- you don’t have to be perfect at this, but if you don’t want to engage with things made by people who have horrible current views that is absolutely your choice.

However, this doesn’t excuse constantly shaming and attacking people, ESPECIALLY people who are aware of a media’s flaws and able to both recognize that and amend that in a respectful, understanding way. You can enjoy a story about a murderer without also being a murderer and knowing that murder is wrong. This extends to other actions as well by the way (and the desensitization of people to murder in modern day media is also a wild topic for another day because wow some people really be out here like “yeah literally ending someone’s life in fiction is fine but x is absolutely abhorrent and unforgivable,” like what??). 

The real thing here is, this: If you don’t like content, or you cannot in good conscience enjoy that content knowing about something that happened relating to it: Don’t interact! If you are for some reason, stuck participating in and interacting with something you personally feel is horrible, don’t shame and hurt other people for more honestly enjoying it, especially the good parts. What you CAN do is inform people, respectfully!

And with ALL the details please. Because I see a lot of times, especially with creators: Someone will dig up something the creator said years ago and say, “THIS CREATOR IS (X) YOU CAN’T SUPPORT THEM OR ENJOY WHAT THEY MAKE BECAUSE IT’S PROBLEMATIC!!!” And, actually: They have since apologized for what they said, and actively made efforts to change. “But they did it in the past” Is NOT a valid argument, and honestly?? If you’re the same person you were even two years ago, that’s wild, and I hope you’ll understand that some people can change drastically in that time after being properly informed about issues.

Again: If you don’t want to interact with a piece of media, okie dokie! It’s up to us to respect that, and to tag our stuff and not shove it down your throat, y’know? But maybe, if you don’t like something, you shouldn’t decide to hurt the people who do like it, because I think that’s pretty harmful, and man imagine someone digging into your life 3 years ago and finding one sentence you said to judge your entire life on and force people to hate you with. Haha that’d suck, right?

If you read all this wow thanks, and also I’m well aware most my fellows with ADHD probably skimmed it because yeah it is a lot man whoops- I’ve just been thinking about it for a while because yeah. Yeah. “I do not control the hyperfixation” is not just a funny meme y’all it’s a thing and it’s legitimately exhausting and painful to see everything you enjoy be hated and be told you’re wrong for liking it in any way, shape, or form.

[spidersbane]

Hello! Can I get MCU, The Hobbit, and The Man From U.N.C.L.E. ship? 💚

Appearance: She/her. 179,5cm tall, rectangle body shape. Fair skin complexion with quite a few birthmarks. Dyed brown with honey-red highlights, shoulder-length, straight hair with bangs. The left eye is a mix of two colors – a smaller portion of (darker) greyish-blue and a larger portion of hazel; while the right eye is just a (lighter) greyish-blue. Heptagon face shape with two dimples on the left cheek and one on the right cheek (only visible while smiling). A gap between the upper front teeth.

Personality (good and bad traits): Ever since I was a kid, I was always quite mature for my age – I identify myself as an old soul. I come off as polite and well-mannered to strangers, yet I tend to keep it to myself by being reserved. But, that’s because I have social anxiety and I’m nervous and shy when meeting/talking to people. The only people I’m comfortable with being with my inner circle – closest friends and family. I am usually more “open” with my friends than with my family. With my friends I can be my “truest-self” – I smile more, I laugh more, I feel more accepted and understood. I am the mom and the fashionista of the group. Don’t get me wrong, I am fiercely protective of my family, especially of my mother and younger sister. But, lately, I’ve been feeling like the “black sheep” of the family, Cinderella who’s been taken advantage of. I express my affection for the people I care about in little, but practical, ways. I can be a little stiff when it comes to open, gushy displays of affection. Others turn to me for help and advice. I’m kind-hearted and generous, always ready to help a person in need. Always have been motherly towards children. Very awkward at keeping small talk (usually with people that I’m not that close with). Absolutely, hate speaking in front of a public, and if I do, because of my nervousness, I tend to mess up my words and/or I practice whatever I’m about to say in my head at first. I appreciate the simplicity and am often most comfortable when I’m not getting too much attention from the world. I am sensitive – both to criticism and to others’ feelings (I sponge up the feelings and moods of people and the environment around me). Have a hard time saying no or expressing my true thoughts, feelings. I get influenced by other people’s opinions/thoughts quite hard (I take everything to the heart), that is why I tend to keep a lot to myself (may come off as a little bit tense, secretive, mysterious). I avoid the harsh reality by daydreaming (almost every day) – imagining myself in situations far from my current circumstances. Sort of like a self-escape. I worry a lot and overthink almost everything. I am easily distracted and my attention span can be quite short. I have an internal struggle between my needs and wants. I can lack focus and be indecisive as a result – when I decide on one route, I am pulled in another direction at the same time (“But what if…”, “on the other hand...”). That is why I’m having a bit of a struggle with deciding what I want to do in the future (career-wise). I am easily overwhelmed by pressure and stress. There is a self-destructive side to me (self-critical, lack of self-confidence) that I’m working on by confronting my fears (coming out of my shell). Don’t like taking pictures, or other people taking pictures of me. I feel most content when I’ve straightened out all the details of everyday life. I have a routine, that I follow by mostly every day, and if something small changes in that routine, I start to have a small internal anxiety attack. Also, I like to do things my own way, like, when it comes to cleaning the house or organizing stuff, etc. I get triggered even if people don’t do the laundry the way I do. I guess you could describe me as a perfectionist, clean/control freak. In triggering situations I can be impulsive, spontaneous, quick to act. Quick flare-ups of anger/annoyance when being provoked on my patience. Even when I’m feeling low, I manage to find humor in life and have fun with whatever I do have. Although I tend to bottle things up, I am an emotional person and my emotions are genuine – I love and care deeply and passionately and wish no ill will upon anyone, yet it hards for me to imagine someone falling in love with me or just liking me.

Hobbies, likes: My hobbies are cleaning, writing (re-writing song lyrics, making small notes, writing stories), listening to any type of music, catching up on my favorite films and TV shows, hanging out with friends, going to the cinema, or the club, being out in nature, reading, traveling. I like history, cooking, fashion magazines (or fashion in general), road trips, spirituality, mythology, books, orange juice, previous decades, cottage-core, dark academia.

Overall: Hufflepuff. INFP-T. Bi-sexual. Pisces-Aries cusp sign. “Looks like could kill you, but is actually a cinnamon roll.” A feminist, support LGBTQ+ community. That’s it, thank you!

hey @pataim ! thanks so much for sending in your request, and thank you so much for your honesty about yourself. like it takes a lot to air yourself out like that, and I admire your strength for it. but also fINALLY a 'Man from U.N.C.L.E' ship! I love that movie and attempt Illya's accent all the time, so this will be fun :)

For the MCU/Marvel - I ship you with Steve Rogers/Captain America ! 

no one can tell me that Steve doesn’t have a set routine honestly, so let me just get that out there 

he seems intimidating at first, esp as a public figure and Avenger, but Steve is nothing but passionate about what he does. so it may clash w your lack of direction, but I could honestly see him envying that a lil bit, like it’s not that you don’t have direction, it’s the fact that you still have a choice in the matter. 

your love of history put you in a museum, here you bumped into Steve in a horrible disguise. he struck up the conversation first, and once you got past the whole “holy crap that’s Captain America”, you could actually engage with him in the material and boi was he smitten 

he would love to join you when your rewatched your fave things, bc not only is he catching up on more media he missed out on, he’s also getting to know your interests in a way that’s comfortable with you. it avoids all the small talk, but leaves room for discussion after the film/show ! 

since you tend to sponge up a lot of what other people believe, it’s totally Steve who actually tries to question what you think and what you feel about things. he’s someone who encourages you to have your own opinions and to stay true to those thoughts. so while with him, you can rely on him to learn about yourself, you also gain skills for independence

overall, Steve is super patient, and despite his chaotic job as Cap, he takes comfort in his routine, and would find comfort incorporating a partner’s routine into his life. and as you grow in a relationship with him, he’s patient about teaching you how to be your own person, and helping you learn more about yourself. and while it’s uncomfortable, you grow stronger throughout being with him :) 

For The Hobbit - I ship you with Bilbo Baggins !

Bilbo is the definition of introvert, and you're right there with him

not that introversion is ever a bad thing, bc it isn't. but Bilbo is quite content to sit in his little hobbit hole and vibe. like Gandalf had to come find him, ya know. dude disappeared from his own bday.

but anyways. it's not that Bilbo lacks purpose, it's just that he's more content with a quieter life. and it seems like his quiet life would balance you out well! like the Shire is so so chill, and there doesn't really seem to be a lot of pressure on the hobbits to pick a profession. like they just genuinely do what needs to get done.

similarly, Bilbo is the type who seems a little bothered by mushy displays of affection. exhibit a: disappearing from his own bday. like he's much more the type to refill your tea when y'all are reading by the fireplace, which he would totally do w you

it will probs take you a little while to warm up to each, given just how introverted you both are. but when he explains that he has set ways of doing things, then if they're compatible w your ways of doing things, then it doesn't take you long to open up to him

like it'll be a little jarring, but he takes comfort in his routines too. and it'll be an event trying to incorporate both of your ways of life together, but he's willing to do it

overall, yours is a very quaint partnership, built on deep respect for one another. neither of you are going to push the other to do things you aren't into. and y'all just live your best lives together tbh :)

For The Man From U.N.C.L.E - I ship you with Illya Kuryakin !

I love my big Russian spy so much, so this is fun for me

so Illya is the epitome of reserved and generally quiet, so it might take a while to really break down his walls and talk to him. and he's not quite sure what to do with you once you join the team

but, he's playing his game of chess alone, and when you sit down and ask to play with him, he opens up a little more after that

if you're one who get sent out on mission with the team, get ready, bc sometimes those missions require a lot of improvising. but you'd probably be at whatever 'base' was, helping run operations from a more secure place. but Illya and Napoleon improvise a lot, leading to a lot of headaches for you and Waverly

Illya has small bursts of anger, but similar to Gaby, most times, you can intervene and he doesn't get violent. or when he does, he tries to make sure it isn't in front of you. but bc you care so deeply for him, you're there for him in the aftermath. and that's how you show your love for him.

by patching him up if he gets cut, by talking him down when he's angry. and just generally trying to take care of him. and he totally does the same for you, especially if you get sent out into the field

and much to Illya's dismay, Solo doesn't refrain form making jokes about you. but if you can take them in stride, then Solo welcomes you into the team just as well :)

[hockeybabestars]

New Year, Same Us - Auston Matthews - Four

a/n: well this took longer to upload than expected. i just got back to college after going back home to dallas during fall break, so i was spending time w/ my fam and forgot to upload. hopefully yall will enjoy this chapter! sorry about the wait! 

December 5, 2017

The bar was a little too crowded for my liking, but it was nice to get out with some of the guys and Steph to just have a good time. The Christmas lights added a nice touch to the atmosphere and made the open floor plan of the place seem a little more cozy.

Auston was already drunk, more so on the good buzz side than absolutely slammered, and it made him more clingy than usual. Which was fine by me. My cheeks blazed as we walked up to the bar. He leaned into my side with an arm casually slung around me, his hair mused a little from fussing with it before we left. He looked pretty content. 

Mitch and Steph had grabbed us a table, but they were kind of wrapped around each other at the moment and I wasn’t willing to stick around for the action. Willy and Kappy disappeared, but I think that was to be expected. Which is why I was dragging Auston up to the bar for another drink. “What are we drinking this time?” He grinned lazily, leaning close to my face as his hand tightened around my waist pulling me closer to him. I savored the feeling, leaning into his touch before I playfully put a hand on his chest and pushed him back a bit. “You mean what am I getting to drink, not you.”

“You’re no fun.” He pouted, “I’ll just sip on yours.” 

“I can take that.” I laughed pulling his frown into a smile by dragging the corners up. “You’ve already had 2 tall boys, and a shot of who knows what. I think sipping on mine is your best bet buddy.” I rested my palms flat against his cheeks as he beamed, the alcohol in his system making him extra smiley tonight. Quit being cute damn it.

He grabbed my wrists and peeled himself from my side, bringing my hands down and grabbing his card out of his wallet. “I have to go to the bathroom, please don’t get a vodka cranberry it’s too sour. Not good.”

 I laughed at his pestering. “What if I want a vodka cranberry?”

He already started in the direction of the men’s room, calling out over the loud music of the bar, “Don’t worry! You don’t!!”

I laughed, turning around and pushing my way up to the front of the bar. Luckily for Auston I wanted a spicy margarita. 

I called for the bartender to come over after he was done ringing up the last guy, but I wasn’t expecting him to be so cute. He couldn’t have been but a few years older than me and was the definition of tall, dark and handsome.

“What can I get for ya tonight?” He licked his lips as he smiled, eyes gliding over my figure and I blushed.

“Spicy Margarita please.”

“One Spicy Marg coming right up.” He he got a cup out to start making my drink, slowly looking back at me, “That guy your boyfriend?” 

“What?” I was a little taken aback, I wasn’t expecting him to be so blunt.

“Was that guy your boyfriend? You guys looked pretty cozy.” He raised a brow.

“Uh no. Just my best friend.” I wrapped my arms around myself as he finished my drink, ringing up my tab. I handed him Austons card, feeling confused, “Why do you ask?”

He frowned, his gaze going behind me, “You sure about that?”

“Sure about what?” Austons voice was gravely as he wrapped his arms around me from behind, surely giving the hot bartender a protective glare. Butterfly’s alight in my stomach at his touch. Stupid protective brotherly instincts.

The bartender gave me the card back, ignoring Auston. I elbowed him slightly, just enough so that he would remove his arms and back off. “I’m positive.”

“Then go out with me next Saturday.” He offered, writing his number down on the back of the receipt.

“I don’t even know your name.” I blushed. Auston came swiveling back around as I said that, clearly pissed off for whatever reason. “(Y/N)...” he put a hand on my shoulder, turning me to look at him as he whisper yelled. “You don’t even know this guy’s name! What if he’s a serial killer or something?”

The bartender rolled his eyes, clearly hearing Auston’s drunken accusations and pointed at the receipt, “I put it on there, but my name’s Wade.” He held his hand out for me to shake. “I can assure you, I’m not a serial killer. You must be (Y/N).” He smirked.

“How’d you guess.” I rolled my eyes as Auston was practically dragging me back to our table, “Sorry about him, he’s a little out of it. I’m sure we can figure something out Wade. It was nice to meet you.” I tucked the receipt into my front pocket, ready kick Auston's ass and trying to slow him down at the same time.

Wade laughed, “you too.”

I halted in my tracks but he could still drag me even half intoxicated. “Aus, stop.” I handed him his card back, nodding at him in thanks.

He accepted it back but his expression was hard, jaw locked. “Why did you do that?” 

“Do what?” I raised my voice because I could barely hear him bast the boom of the bass, partly because I was mad, and partly because I wanted to.

“I’m gone for what? Two minutes and you're making sexy eyes at the bartender.” He growled.

“Sexy eyes?!” I chuckled, “don’t you mean bedroom eyes? You’re more hammered than I thought.” 

“I’m being serious.” He crosses his arms.

“So am I.” I tease, “Sounds to me like someone’s jealous.” 

“Am not.” 

“I’m not playing that game with you.”

He looked frustrated, body tense and face knitted into a slight scowl. It was… kind of hot, not gonna lie. But that didn’t change the fact that he just interfered with my love life. It was nice to have some kind of romantic attention for once. Auston got it all the time, it felt good that maybe someone was interested in me that way.

“I just didn’t like the way he was…” He grumbled looking at the ground. He was swaying slightly now, so I closed the gap and looped his arm in mine.

“Aus, what did you say?” I could feel the muscles in his back tense as I placed a hand there to help slowly guide him back to our table, where Mitch and Steph seemed to be missing. 

“I didn’t like the way he was looking at you. Like he was undressing you with his eyes or something.” I blushed not expecting him to say that and avoiding eye contact. “I don’t know, I just don’t want anyone to look at you that way, you deserve more respect.” His eyes gleamed with such emotion, one I couldn’t place a finger on. Willy and Kappy lingered idly, sipping beers and probably listening to our conversation as we approached. 

I stopped Auston before we got there, looking him in the eyes. “I personally didn’t feel objectified, but I appreciate you defending my honor Prince Matthews.” His face softened and I could tell he knew he was defeated. I didn’t want to talk about it anymore so I pulled him into the booth next to me. The exhaustion kicked in finally and he leaned his head on my shoulder, clasping our hands together as he got comfortable against my side. Auston was rarely sleepy when drunk. The majority of the time, our roles were reversed. I was normally the sleepy one, and he normally knew how to have a good time. 

Kappy quirked a brow. “I thought you two would be about 5 beers deep on the dance floor by now… what gives?” I mused. Kappy had officially broken it off with Annika and Willy happened to be off again with Penny. I figured they would at least try to dance with a pretty girl if not go home with them.

“Just watching the show.” Willy nodded to Auston who had dozed off a little. “What was the fiasco at the bar about.” 

“Let’s just say someone was not happy about a certain bartender giving me his number.”

Kappy looked blank. “That’s it?”

I was confused. “What do you mean ‘that’s it’?” Kappy pulled out a $10 dollar bill and planted it in Willy’s outstretched hand.

“You guys did not place a wager on us.”

Willy smirked mischievously, “oh but we did.”

“What was it even about?” I was intrigued. Confused, but intrigued. “And why was it only $10? Aren’t I worth more to you than that?” the corners of my mouth quirked up as they laughed.

“Can’t tell you. It’s a secret. Leafs honor.” Kappy said, drawing an x across his heart.

“Leafs honor? Is that even a thing?”

“Very serious business woman. We’re sworn to secrecy.” Willy nodded solemnly.

“Rigghhhht. You guys are both idiots.” They both giggled. “I’m done with you both. No fun.” They snickered again, but decided they did want to go dance and got up from the table.

I looked at Auston. His eyes were fluttering as if he was about to fall asleep. He looked too pretty. And too peaceful, so I pulled him up. “Tired?”

He nodded as I made him get up, seemingly more awake now. I slid out of the booth ordering an Uber home. He leaned most of his weight on me as we made it outside to the sidewalk. And as we climbed into the backseat of the Uber he made himself comfortable, resting his head in my lap. I ran my fingers through his hair and along his scalp, soothing myself as my heart raced in my chest with the feeling of him near.

Why does he make me feel this way? I don’t think he does it on purpose, make me believe for a second we’re on the same page about things when we’re not. 

I hated how he gave me false hope. I've been fed it for years now.

 It didn’t go down any easier.

[fyrapartnersearch]

MARVEL SEARCH

Hello! Just call me Kiwi! I'm a 22 year old that is currently spending most of my time at home while searching for employment, so I have a lot of free time on my hands when I'm not sleeping! I'm currently located in the Central Time Zone if that helps give an idea of what hours I am working with c: In looking for RP partners, I am looking for a friend as I find things are more fun when you can chat OOC and share memes and funny stuff, plus I love plotting and hearing about all kinds of things. I'm a conversationalist so hey, if ya like to talk I'm your gal! And if you're not someone that enjoys really talking outside of roleplay, I'm probably not the partner for you.

Infinity War left me CRIPPLED and I would personally like to fight the Russo brothers, but thank them for inspiring me to jump back on the bandwagon and do some stuff!

NOTICE AND PREFERENCES

PLEASE BE 18+

DOUBLING IS A MUST. If you're not one for doubling, I'm not the partner for you!

I write in third person.

I write A LOT so if that's not something you're looking for (like paragraphs of story) then I might not be the partner for you.

CanonxOC pairings are my life blood and I'm mostly looking for that at the moment. I don't mind including certain canon pairings within our plot of course c:

Multiple ships within a plot are cool too pls let's make each others dreams come true

Be flexible with with your pairings; Don't contact me if you are strictly MxM or FxF. I welcome all kinds of pairings, but please do not be dead set on one for both of our characters.

As said before, if you're not looking for a friend in OOC then I'm not the partner for you.

Respect my limits; I'm very open and don't have much that bothers me but don't push buttons please!

Please don't contact me to roleplay a fandom that this ad isn't advertising ;w; I cannot stress how frustrating and discouraging it is when no one reads what you are saying before they message you.

Smut is great, I'm all for it but if you're looking for a plot that is strictly smut I'm not the partner for you.

Must be willing to plot with me; gotta be a joint effort!

LIMITS

I'm a very open minded person and am comfortable with most things, including darker themes so long as we discuss it!

No vore

No bathroom stuff pls spare me

Anything with vomit and eye horror are an ABSOLUTE no-no for me!

THE GOODS

As mentioned above, I'm craving that marvel goodness. That being said I am caught up with all of the films with the exception of Ant Man so if you're looking for a Scott Lang I can't really provide him to you as I don't know much about him at the moment. I'm also not up to date with the Marvel TV series that are on Netflix so I apologize in advance. We can work with pre-existing plots and work up to Infinity War if that's something that someone wants with our own twists, or we can do something more original with specific canon plot elements if you so wish! I will say upfront that if you are someone who is obsessed with the Thor movies (where my Norse mythology friends at) I will adore you forever.

Currently I am in search of a Loki to play against my own character. As for whatever you may desire I am familiar with most of the characters and am willing to play whoever you would like (except Scott since I am a sinner and still haven't watched Ant Man).

CONTACT

So I use discord as means of conversing and writing, however if you are down to use google docs for our roleplay(s), then I will be grateful as discord's word limit just loves to get in the way of things! My discord is CosmicKiwii #3774 and we can continue from there! Hope to hear from you!