#I still can't belive that is my most popular post...

[charvos]

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about jin yes i do agree that it somehow gets pushed at back how he's such a big support to BTS as a elder member. We call hobi as sunshine but it's also jin who keeps the environment of the grp Pretty much positive with his own positivity and confidence. I remember jimin saying he kinda learned how to be happy in moments from jin. even tho he's elder than the ml he still indulges himself in whatever things they're doing he doesn't let anyone feel that age gap or that hyung dongsaeng.

Now some might think I'm being bias here or anti or whatever but i personally belive that tae and jk are more emotionally dependent on jimin than they're on eachother. I always got those vibes from them that yes they're partners in crime but they're also not someone who will talk more emotional stuff with eachother that often.

Jimin did spend more time with hobi nd yg because their schedules were colliding but he still did hungout with them till last of them enlsiting. I remember yg and jm going out at restaurant some 2-3 days before yg's enlistment and jm had dinner with yg on his birthday or a day before his birthday too so i think they do hungout alot more than we knows and whenever they talk about eachother it's always "i just met or had drink with yg/jm yesterday" or "i had a call with yg/jm" so yeah. Same for hobi they were hanging out till hoba enlisted.

again about jikook i stole my words that just because these two doens't post does not mean they don't hangout together. Jm said his best place for vacation is his sofa (he said it multiple times during face) whereas jungkook is also not much found of going to different places like the only time he was seen at places was with tae nd his friends but on the other hand it's just him going out to eat food be it alone or his 97 liners so both jm and jk atm doesn't fancy places where they can play or anything. They would have hungout at eachother's homes simply and we wouldn't know. Both of them don't share pictures so we can't know anything unless they tell us. Like remember jk's b'day last yr jm was there with hobi at jk's home which we wouldn't have known for sure if it wasn't for jin. That time when vmin were going to his place and jm was adamant on asking tae to turn off the lives so it's hard to tell with these two Cause they simply don't share much. Look at jk the only times he mentions hangouts is with his 97 but hardly ever with BTS members we wouldn't know unless the other members tell they met jk and in jikook's case both of them simply doens't tell much.

It's funny to me when people goes "jikook are not even friends, they're coworkers and this solo era taught us" like babe jikook are the only two members who are together the most since their debut and not even military could keep them apart. these people just never understood jikook's friendship and they'll never ever if not after 10+ yrs.

In general, I agree with you.

Jungkook's undoubtedly more emotionally dependent on Jimin, and, until recently, Jimin was the glue that kept Vminkook together. Now Jungkook and V are much closer, but Jimin and V's friendship is still special. Jimin definitely chose to hang out a lot with Yoongi, even when their schedules weren't so aligned, and they're very close, but I think part of that perceived closeness is due to them talking about hanging out a lot. Jimin was always closer to Hobi than Suga, and he's also very close to RM, but we heard of him and Suga the most. I don't think that's necessarily indicative of anything.

Jikook are always the same. They can be very loud and talk about the other a lot, but, in general, they are very private. Theirs is the number one most overlooked and downplayed relationship in BTS imo. Since Taekook, Vmin and Yoonmin are so popular, even outside of shipping, I think Jikook are underrated. Fans also seem to value Namkook and Yoonkook more than Jikook, because they love the idea of Jungkook having had a "crush" on RM, and because Suga is so soft on JK and they love the baby brother/older brother angle. If Army stopped looking at BTS with so much bias - there are all these clichés fans take as the truth and it's like some Army think BTS live in fics - they'd see Jikook are incredibly close and there's no one in the group they cherish more than each other. Jimin in particular has been so loud about that - "I'd take Jungkook to a desert island", "The best part of waking up is seeing Jungkook", etc. etc.

Anyway, thanks for the ask!

[stormblessed95]

I know this is a stupid question to ask, but I need to know your opinion .

Jk and JM , including all our boys are the top In game now , among that Jk are jm are arguably 2 of most hottest members in bangtan. Jk is the most popular idol in korea , jm is topping reputation charts for 33 months now.

In some recent polls, Jk is the male idol who's most famous among female idols to have a date with and jm is the male idol who's most famous among male idols wanting to date.

Whenever they go to shows or public events and gatherings and award shows both of them will be showered with date proposals and love and crush confessions from both male and female idols. Won't they ever consider to have dates with other people or else what they will say to them. Say no , they are already taken ??

It's really hard to belive KM have been dating (if we are correct) this long amidst all these things. But here we are hit with their love lmao.

I'm almost sure other members have dated multiple people throughout their career. Tae himself said in a old interview he can't turn people down when they say they like him and none of his relationships have been serious and not lasted for 20 days lol. Now all of them have matured very much ,have a good view on life so they might be mature partners to their significant other , if they have any.

So won't Kookmin also have this experimenting tendency like most of young people. (I'm also young and I don't want to experiment, I only want one person to love and love me and be with them , still )

Also they can be both gay and in relationship with eachother, but also one of them can be bi or pan , won't be that one have a need to have relationship with opposite sex or explore opposite sex ??

These thoughts are confusing me.

Hello. So... this is a lot. And I decided to answer it because you seem very young and I think it's an important conversation to have and to educate yourself about a little bit. Thank you for trusting me to start this conversation for you. I'm going to cover everything in here bit by bit, so this will probably be on the longer side. I will be separating paragraphs/topics with cute KM photos like I tend to do for this types of posts.

So I'm going to start off sharing some things about me. If you have been around my blog for a little while, you probably already know these things. But I think it will help reiterate the points I'm going to make here. I am 26 years old. I am married. My husband is just under a year younger than I am. I met my husband very young. We met when I was 15 years old. We got married at 19 years old. I will have had him in my life first as my best friend, then as my life partner for 11 years now. We are high-school sweethearts. We now also have a family together. I had very briefly dated other people before I got together with my husband. But I have never been with a woman in a relationship, I met my husband when I was very young and inexperienced and fell in love with him. That does not change or erase my sexuality for what it is though. I am also my husband's first and only relationship.

Queer people are just as capable to commit to a relationship as straight people are. I have never once want to experiment with another gender because I am so in love with my husband. Why would I ever want anything else when I have everything I could ever want or need already? He is my first and only serious relationship. And again, I have never had any desire to experiment or test the waters elsewhere, no matter what the gender. If you love someone and you want to be with them and only them and you have committed to a monogamous relationship with them, it does not matter what you identify as, you are committed to that person. Being attracted to the same or the opposite or all genders does not change that. You need to ask yourself, if this was a male/female typical cisgender heterosexual relationship, would you still be confused by if they feel the need to experiment with other people or experiment with a woman? If the answer is no, there probably needs to be some self reflection on that. Being queer does not really fundamental change how being in a committed relationship works.

Being hot, desirable, famous and wanted also does not detract from the ability to commit to one person either. If someone asks them out, they both have the ability to say "no." And a very good piece of advice that I was given, that I share with everyone whenever I get the chance. "No" is a complete sentence. You do not need to explain to someone WHY you are saying no. If you say no to a date or anything else, no is all the reason they need. They would never need to say that they are already in a relationship if they don't want to. They just have to say no, thank you and that they are not interested. And if they are as happy and in love as they seem, they probably have no desire to ever say yes to anyone else. They are the ones in a relationship, what they want is the only thing that matters. And I've never seen anywhere any indication of them wanting anyone else. It really doesn't matter what other people want or think, only them. It doesn't matter if other idols, celebrities or regular people, male or female, want or desire them or ask them out. The only thing that matters is what Jimin and Jungkook want. And from everything we have seen, what they want... isn't other people, it's each other. So what other people want, why would that matter to them at all?

I don't know what recent polls you are referring to because the only time I remember them mentioning JK being popular with female fans and Jimin with male fans was in 2014, but but if there was a poll saying this from yesterday, it wouldn't matter. I also remember Jimin was voted the idol that female idols most want to see waiting for them at the finish line during ISAC in 2016. They are 2 of the most popular members in Korea and Worldwide. JK was voted the world's sexiest international man. Jimin is considered the King of Kpop. They are popular. Yes. But that has everything to do with who they are as individuals, as people and as artists. It has nothing to do with their relationship with each other.

So in the end, yes. It is possible to be famous, be popular and desired AND to be in a committed relationship. Yes, it is possible to meet the love of your life young and never want to experiment or have anyone else. As someone who married their high-school sweetheart and best friend who is also the first person I ever said "I love you" to seriously and romantically, I can personally confirm that one. And you can be attracted to multiple genders, and have it not affect your current relationship at all, I'll confirm that one as well. It is honestly a little problematic to assume that just because someone might be attracted to more than one gender, they will need to be experimenting more than say a straight or gay person would who is only attracted to one gender. It makes no difference. We don't know what their sexualities actually are. But through their actions and words over their years, we can probably safely assume they are not straight and that they are probably in love with each other. Long term relationships that start young are definitely possible, I'll confirm this too.

Hopefully this helped. Hopefully I explained myself well and you understand. In the end, just trust them like they trust each other. Love them and support them no matter what. Thanks for the ask. Hope everyone has a wonderful day.

[desichameleon]

im sorry for not posting a fic today i will post one soon but i need to say this

Tw racism, racist name calling, a lot of other racist themes

I have seen so many people in the past few months normalise racism towards South Asians, specifically Indians. I have seen so many people mock South asian accents and it has been done to me several times, I have had my dad been called a pedo to.my.face. I have been called a pedo and a curry muncher and my sister ( who is 9! )has been called a brownie and be called mia kalifa on the streets because of her tanned skin and glasses. I have been asked many times if I eat curry and yk what's ironic ? MY FAMILY DOESNT EVEN EAT CURRY ON A DAILY BASIS ! many people who aren't from South Asia have came into my house and said it smelled like curry which I do not belive because we 1. Never cook it and 2. Have candles lit 24/7. In school I have been avoided and called terrorist a few times and guess who called me those things ? Dingdingding ! The popular people who fake tan so much they are my skin tone. They try and look South asian then bully them, I have seen so many girls with skin so dark and dued jet black hair and I have mistaken so many for desi people. They want our eyebrows and this hair, they want our skin and eyes but they bully us for it. I have been bullied so much for body hair and I can't help it. It's just something South Asians have we have dark hair on our head and body and can't do anything about it. And you know another thing ? My 'friend' who is black is openly racist to me l, I genuinely used to love her but she just keeps being racist to me and I am in no way stereotyping her or trying to be racist it's not all black people ! She is the only one who I have seen using her race as an excuse to be racist to me. She will call me names and make fun of my culture and when I confront her she says "I can't be racist I am black" and I honestly disagree. You can be racist to anyone nomatter your race. My teacher will get me and my other desi friends mixed up even though we are all completely different and have different accents and one of us even has glasses but they still mix us up ! One of my teachers even said to my parents that they know I am not from Scotland even thought I have a Scottish accent ???!! And when I got my second vaccine the person doing it was saying how we should go back to our country after we were all vaccinated. And and my teachers refuse to talk about the genocide committed by the British to the Indians where they stole billion from India and sexualised our saris and dances. And I have seen so many people say brown people look bad w nose piercings, like wtf ?? South Asians basically invented them. It's part of most of our traditions. And mocking our bollywood dances and songs isn't funny, it's not like Justin beiber is better.

so in conclusion i think we should recognise racism towards South asians and actually go against it and not normalise it.

[thesleepingnini]

I just reread Annarasumanara for the nth time.

I don't even remember how I felt the previous times I've read it but I do know that I cry every single time. It's still so beautifully and wonderfully written as I remember it. I think as time goes by, I became more and more empathetic towards R. The more I learn about myself, the more I enter the "adult world" the more I understand how he must've felt. To be a kid who's under so much pressure, to be an adult that doesn't fit into society's suffocating standards, to be alone whilst going through all that.

I can't wait for the kdrama(or is it a movie?) adaptation. While I think that the webtoon is too beautifully written and it'll be real hard to reflect the same intensity onto the screen, I still hope that with this, more people will know of R's story. I hope that we stop putting people in standards that feel like cages.

ending this post with R's most popular line and one of my favorite cuts.

Do you belive in magic?

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As a celebration of this being my most popular post, have a sequel to the world's worst double date.

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As a celebration of this being my most popular post, have a sequel to the world's worst double date.