#I love so many of them

[absolutefilthimsosorry]

in honor of DAPG turning ten, what’s your DAPG video?? Why? What do you love about it, why does it resonate with you so much?

Late to this oops. Happy belated 10 years of dapg!

So I have to say Slime and Sadness Cinnamon Rolls. I’ve always loved their baking videos and I love cinnamon buns so I’d have enjoyed this anyway but with Sister Daniel it became my favourite dapg video so fast I couldn’t even tell you what my favourite was before.

As a more sincere response, I’d say the horny and daring energy of it mixed with the moments of soft domesticity were the perfect mix to be emotionally devastating and I’m still not over it. On a lighter note, Dan flirting and showing sideass and Phil blushing and losing the ability to stand up were hot to watch and I’m not immune to that 🤷‍♀️

Look, I’m not subtle on here about how much I love her. Y’all could have guessed this answer.

(I would like it noted that I considered mukbang, it has a special place in my heart and that’s why my url is from it but then I remembered it’s on ap not dapg anyway)

[wolveria]

I wanna ask you something. What's your 5 (five) favorite star wars resistance characters and why ?

5. Jarek Yeager. He looks like he would give the most amazing hugs.

4. Commander Pyre. Something sexy about that golden tincan.

3. Norath Kev. Wish we got to see more of him.

2. Neeku. He is beloved.

1. Kaz. The greatest himbo in the galaxy.

[shabre-legacy]

If you could only choose one romance and only 3 followers to have in the star wars the old republic from beginning to end (It can any follower/romance from any class!) Who would it be and why?

Seriously! Why are you so mean to me! This is too hard!

I love so many of the romances, but I'd have to go with either Corso or Elara or Torian

and Companions would be Elara, Torian, and Bowdarr or Blizz I don't know, this is mean to make me choose

[a-christmas-fruitcake]

what's your favorite bug?? :0

OOF this is a hard question I love so many

I mean, I do love mosquitoes because I've worked with them the most and I know the most about them. Aedes hendersoni and Aedes cinereus hold special places in my heart since they're local species that are really quite pretty, and it would always make me happy to find them!

I also have a soft spot for bees, wasps, and lots of different beetles. Especially weevils. They have such goofy snoots I love 'em

[almondpiglet]

ppl were drawing mikus from all over so heres habesha miku and her lil twin sibs rin and len!!

[bookwyrminspiration]

if you all could see all the fanart i imagine in my head and never draw it’d blow your tits clean off

[calicorobin]

beanbag chair psychology

[dirty-fucking-pirate]

[stil-lindigo]

lighthearted.

if this comic resonated with you, please consider donating to this palestinian escape fund (vetted by @/nabulsi and @/el-shab-hussein) as it is less than $7,000 away from it's goal.

i turn 24 today. To celebrate, I made this comic to be a spiritual successor to lead balloon, a comic in which I talked about the darkest period of my life so far.

A lot has changed since my 23rd birthday and this one. My priorities have shifted a lot, in ways that I think are mostly good. But i think the best part about today is that suicide has gone back to being a far away notion. I'm really lucky, and I'm grateful for that.

[effemira]

post bath

[ssalballoon]

Mystra showed him the secrets beneath the veils. The gossamer veils first, draped across the Weave. The delicate veils next, draped across her body. 'Chosen One' she whispered, as she slipped them off completely.

poor gale :'(

- the dialogue is from ea gale's explanation about his folly

- i kinda like that she ended up looking like a mother-of-pearl inlay lacquerware!

- oh this was a subconscious choice, but Gale is sitting in seiza which is a posture for showing respect especially to elders. it's also known to be a painful position to sit in for extended periods of time, which is why it was sometimes used as a method of (morally dubious) punishment. however, experienced people can maintain this posture for much longer. food for thought :-)

- (edit: deleted this point bcs it didn't really make sense + detracted from the art a little;;)

[cabinette]

redraw 🌻

[the-phantom-peach]

a handful of miscellaneous domestic zelink for my the soul 💘

[ghosted-jazz]

Species Swap AU! Retired couple gets a fairy godchild to help repair their relationship

[barghest-land]

drawings from paleo expedition to dagestan, done right on the trip. sometimes messy when it was cold and rainy, but i won't correct it. i think it's cool to leave it just the way it was done, and not retouch it after. there will be more drawings later, but those will be done from home

[giantkillerjack]

Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.