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#I just bleh it makes me feel gross when other people say stuff akin to that like oh that's like SWERF rhetoric even if unintentional jeez π
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I donβt know, me personally, I just think two adults playing pretend & pretending being gross together with full open communication & consent between them is harmless, but maybe thatβs just me.
#this is very much a vague post if there ever was one & Iβm absolutely vagueing
#again; pay attention to the wording & reread if you need to
#I think adults playing pretend on its own is harmless as long as everyone involved consents to it
#idk how much more simply I can put this tbh but had to unfollow someone over saying certain kinks are harmful
#like wow okay if they knew my other blog theyβd be saying Iβm an absolute freak probably tbh
#always seems to be younger folks who have the unhealthy takes about kink but in this case i cant say nothing yknow?
#idk this person & they're going through some stuff so i can't really say anything without it sounding tone policing plus parasocial
#but just because bad people like a kink doesn't make a kink bad; trauma too doesn't make a kink bad; uncomfortable maybe but not harmful
#just like in general yknow? its only as harmful as you make it between yourself & others. Everyone has to communicate or the whole thing
#will fall apart. In this case there was absolutely some communication issues which lead to trauma but also just seeing someone agree that
#a kink I like is harmful is like idk made me super uncomfortable even if the person is traumatized & going through it still just yeesh
#idk seeing someone you follow for a while be like 'yeah this kink you like is bad' when by itself its actually harmless just leaves a
#bad taste in your mouth if that makes sense. it just really rubbed me the wrong way so mmm π
#I hope that person gets all the help & support they need; I'm just uncomfy with the rhetoric of 'certain kink bad' when its just like not
#you're traumatized actually is what's going on & that person who hurt you was into said kinks so now in your brain those r bad
#absolutely fair way to feel; but adults playing pretend with these specific ones is absolutely not inherently harmful
#& pushing that kind of mindset is also coincidentally something right wingers especially want right now & commonly so yeah no
#I just bleh it makes me feel gross when other people say stuff akin to that like oh that's like SWERF rhetoric even if unintentional jeez π
#mine
#op
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