#I just bleh it makes me feel gross when other people say stuff akin to that like oh that's like SWERF rhetoric even if unintentional jeez 😓 | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

r0semultiverse · 4 months ago

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I don’t know, me personally, I just think two adults playing pretend & pretending being gross together with full open communication & consent between them is harmless, but maybe that’s just me.

#this is very much a vague post if there ever was one & I’m absolutely vagueing #again; pay attention to the wording & reread if you need to #I think adults playing pretend on its own is harmless as long as everyone involved consents to it #idk how much more simply I can put this tbh but had to unfollow someone over saying certain kinks are harmful #like wow okay if they knew my other blog they’d be saying I’m an absolute freak probably tbh #always seems to be younger folks who have the unhealthy takes about kink but in this case i cant say nothing yknow?#idk this person & they're going through some stuff so i can't really say anything without it sounding tone policing plus parasocial #but just because bad people like a kink doesn't make a kink bad; trauma too doesn't make a kink bad; uncomfortable maybe but not harmful #just like in general yknow? its only as harmful as you make it between yourself & others. Everyone has to communicate or the whole thing #will fall apart. In this case there was absolutely some communication issues which lead to trauma but also just seeing someone agree that #a kink I like is harmful is like idk made me super uncomfortable even if the person is traumatized & going through it still just yeesh #idk seeing someone you follow for a while be like 'yeah this kink you like is bad' when by itself its actually harmless just leaves a #bad taste in your mouth if that makes sense. it just really rubbed me the wrong way so mmm 😕#I hope that person gets all the help & support they need; I'm just uncomfy with the rhetoric of 'certain kink bad' when its just like not #you're traumatized actually is what's going on & that person who hurt you was into said kinks so now in your brain those r bad #absolutely fair way to feel; but adults playing pretend with these specific ones is absolutely not inherently harmful #& pushing that kind of mindset is also coincidentally something right wingers especially want right now & commonly so yeah no #I just bleh it makes me feel gross when other people say stuff akin to that like oh that's like SWERF rhetoric even if unintentional jeez 😓#mine #op

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