#I had a habit of placing a ton of furniture outside to free up space in my house bc i was Drowning in my storage for a bit there

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fuck yes i got my island up to 3 stars two hours before saturday KKS COMIN HERE TOMORROW BAYBEEEEE

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you’d break your heart to make it bigger, so why not crack your skull (steve/tony)

Steve Rogers/Tony Stark, mature, post-Winter Soldier & Iron Man 3 | on ao3 , artwork by @pineapplebread here & @clarksteve here

thank you @duckmoles for doing such a great job beta reading this, and @captainstevns @suitofhumour and athletiger for listening to me and helping me while i was brainstorming all the way back in september. 

*** 

Steve wakes up and keeps his eyes closed as he takes in his surroundings. It’s a habit formed from the war, and Steve relaxes as he concludes that he’s in a hospital or something similar. Steve opens his eyes to confirm, and they land immediately upon a familiar shock of dark hair by his bedside.

“Hi,” Steve says, experimentally. 

Tony flinches, then looks up quickly. “Hey, hi, you’re awake, that’s good, how are you feeling?”

Steve considers this question and notices the dull pain, everywhere. “Like a bruise,” he says. 

There are two bags attached to his IV, and wires coming out from under his chest that are attached to a big machine that beeps periodically. The rest of the room is sparse and the TV is an old one, the muted newscast coming out grainy. Outside, through the blinds, doctors and nurses putter about in the hallway. So: a civilian hospital. 

Tony reaches over to a small desk to hand Steve a glass of water. 

“Where’d you come from?” Steve asks after having a drink. All other questions are moot, at this point; it’s Tony. Steve thinks that Tony probably has JARVIS monitor the team, alert him on big enough crises. He’s probably here because he saw the helicarriers explode, and came to check on Natasha, then dropped by to check in on Steve, since he was already in the area. It’s probably just a coincidence he was here when Steve woke up.

“New York,” Tony says, tilting his head a little as he regards Steve. “How’d you get out of the water?”

“I—” Steve starts, stops. “That’s a good question,” he finishes, smiling sheepishly. He remembers the fight, the explosion, but that’s it. He didn’t even know about the water.

What settles in his mind, now that he’s fully awake, is the memory of Bucky looming over him, wailing down punches. This is the first time since he’d seen Bucky on the highway that Steve has had time to breathe and really think about the newest reality in his life: Bucky is alive. 

Bucky is alive, and Bucky wanted to kill him.

Bucky, the one person in the world who had stayed with Steve through everything. Bucky, who had fallen all those years (decades, he reminds himself) ago. Who Steve had believed to be dead. But he was never dead, and Steve had abandoned him, and maybe Steve did deserve to be punched to unconsciousness. But he also deserved to talk to Bucky, at the very least. He needed to talk to Bucky.

Lying on those white sheets, the smell of antiseptic making Steve feel dizzy, he knows, deep in his bones, that he’d be dead before he ever stopped looking for his best friend.

“Don’t do that again,” Tony says, cutting in to Steve’s thoughts as he leans back into his seat. Tony’s hand rises to his chest to rub at it.

Steve is familiar with the motion, and that’s the only time he realizes: “What happened to your—” he says, as he gestures to his own sternum. 

Tony lets out a small huff of laughter. “Oh, you know. Got tired of it.” 

Steve furrows his brow, expecting more of an answer, and chiding himself for not noticing the entirety of the man seated beside him. Gone is the bright light that emanated from his chest, and Steve wants to know why, and how, and when? But he doesn’t know if he can ask those questions, or if he did, if Tony would answer them. It’s a strange thing that Tony is here at all, really.

So instead, Steve says, “Oh, sure. Don’t fall into bodies of water, Steve, but I’ll go right ahead and remove my life-preserving tech.”

Tony shakes his head, a small smile on his lips. “How about we reserve story time for when you’ve fully recovered, huh?” 

Steve grunts, but nods anyway: “Fine.”

They sink into a comfortable silence, waiting for the doctor to arrive. Steve’s itching to go, though—to tell Tony about Bucky, because if anyone would be able to help him, Tony seems like the best option.

Steve flexes his hand with the IV on it, and Tony’s hand covers his to stop the motion. 

“Don’t,” Tony says, so Steve doesn’t, mostly surprised by the gesture and the tingle of electricity that races up his arm.

*

Steve expects a lot of things. It’s in his nature to be prepared. There’s nothing he can do in Washington, what with Natasha spilling everything on the internet and journalists requesting interviews at every turn. So he packs up his things, pre-terminates his apartment lease, and tells Sam that he plans on looking for Bucky.

He doesn’t expect Tony to offer him a place in Stark Tower, but he recalibrates and accepts pretty quickly; besides, New York was always home, anyway. Steve didn’t think Tony took their conversation at the hospital too seriously, but Tony’s text reads: Just stay in the tower, Cap. You owe me a story.

Tony isn’t home when Steve arrives, so Steve feels free to gape at how the space has changed from the last time he was there. Gone is the dark wood, now replaced by steel and glass. It’s like nothing happened. That’s the nature of the world nowadays, Steve has noticed.

Steve unpacks his bag efficiently and settles into what JARVIS had told him was his floor by rearranging some of the furniture (one couch, two settees, a desk and chair), then eventually putting them back. 

From here, Steve can see all the way to Brooklyn, and he feels a bit funny, to be standing in a high rise with all this expensive furniture, when a few years ago, his apartment could’ve fit inside his current bedroom. Steve scrunches up his face and looks around the room again.

He feels antsy, but doesn’t want to go exploring alone. He looks over the tablet on his bedside, but doesn’t know what to do with it. There are no reports to be written, and it seems preemptive to use Tony’s tech to look for Bucky without Tony even knowing about it (or at least, knowing about it from Steve—he’s under no allusions that Tony doesn’t know about what happened in DC, but. There are probably parts only Steve can tell). 

“JARVIS?” Steve says, looking around his room.

“How may I help, Captain Rogers?”

“Is there anyone else in the tower?” Steve asks. “Or, uh, would you know when Tony’ll be here?” He adds.

“Currently Dr. Banner is in India, Agent Romanoff in Washington, Thor remains off-world, and Agent Barton has requested that his location not be disclosed unless completely necessary. Sir should be arriving shortly.”

“Thank you, JARVIS,” Steve says, taking a turn about the room.

“Always a pleasure, Captain.”

Steve picks up the tablet again and heads to the communal floor, hoping to catch Tony as soon as he arrives. He sits on one of the plush white leather couches and looks through the news about the information Natasha had dumped. Seems like a good a starting point as any.

*

“Glad to see you’ve settled in.” Steve starts up from his reading at the sound of Tony’s voice.

“Tony,” Steve sets the tablet aside to stand up. “Thank you,” he says. Tony waves him off and heads towards the kitchen.

Steve follows and leans against the marble counter as Tony presses some buttons on what Steve assumes to be the coffee machine. The rest of the kitchen is done in light wood and acrylic. It looks, in Steve’s opinion, too clean to be a kitchen. 

“How was your flight?”

“It was fine,” Steve says. “Look, Tony, I wanted to talk about DC,” he adds quickly. 

Steve doesn’t want to waste any more time than he already has. Every minute, Bucky slips deeper and deeper into obscurity, and Steve has had enough time to prepare himself to ask for Tony’s help (not that he didn’t want it, or think he needed it, it’s just—). 

“Okay, cutting to the chase, all right,” Tony says, smiling as he pours himself a cup of coffee. “Lay it on me.” 

So Steve does. Tells him about Fury, his apartment, about seeing Bucky, the fights, finding out about Hydra. Tony plays the perfect audience, listening in rapt attention and asking questions when Steve pauses. Steve isn’t used to this, at least not from Tony, who barely gives conversations enough attention to finish a sentence. Steve talks, and talks, and talks, and Tony nods along as he reaches into a cupboard to pull out a bag of chips or pour cups of coffee for them both. 

Steve is wrapping up his story, and Tony, who had removed his jacket sometime earlier, now loosens his tie, and begins to roll up his sleeves. Steve’s eyes track the movement of Tony’s hands, and Steve only realizes he's stopped talking when Tony looks up at Steve from under his lashes, hand still on a partially rolled sleeve. “And then?” he prompts. Steve starts, then looks away, clearing his throat.

“And then I woke up in the hospital, and you know the rest,” Steve finishes. 

Tony nods gravely. “That’s a fuck ton to process, Cap,” he says. “So, I guess you want my help finding Barnes?”

Steve feels something warm pool in his stomach at Tony’s choice of words: want, not need; Barnes, not Bucky.

“Yeah, if you could,” Steve says.

“If? If?” Tony scoffs and pulls out his phone, tapping on the screen quickly. Steve takes this opportunity to take a quick survey of what’s in the kitchen—outside, the sun is beginning to set and he wants dinner now, not just snacks.

“There. I’ve set up a tracker and I’m having JARVIS filter through everything Natasha sent out to the world,” Tony says. “That should be a start.”

Steve lets out a small, relieved sigh. “Thank you, Tony. Really.”

“Yeah, no, it’s fine, of course, anything,” Tony says quickly, averting his gaze and fidgeting with his phone again.

Steve has assembled ingredients for spaghetti on the kitchen counter, which Tony notices.

“Oh, Cap, no. We can get take out. Where did you even find these—” he holds up a mushroom and looks at it dubiously.

“Come on, it’s your turn. You talk, I cook. Should be easy enough,” he says, unpeeling a shallot.

“If you’re sure,” Tony says, making a face. “You really don’t have to.”

“You really want to talk to me about things we did or didn’t have to do?”

“Okay, fine. At least let me help—” Steve swats away Tony’s hand. 

“You talk. I’ll cook.”

“Okay, okay,” Tony says, sounding annoyed. But Steve’s looking directly at Tony, and that’s the only reason he sees the small upwards curl of Tony’s lips, so Steve smiles back at him before he begins chopping.

*

Steve flips through the consolidated reports on Winter Soldier sightings again, checking to see if he’d missed anything. For two months now, all Steve had done was read and wait for updates. Slowly, the rest of the Avengers had found their way into the tower; still, only Steve and Tony remained permanent fixtures while everyone else filtered in and out. 

“I just don’t understand how we haven’t found him,” Steve says. Sam is puttering around the communal floor somewhere, and Steve feels… he feels tired. Impatient. Put out.

“He has literally kept himself in the shadows for decades, man,” Sam says, from the kitchen. “If It were easy then I don’t think he’d be such a good assassin, you know?”

It took a while for Steve to really accept that was Bucky (not is). But for Steve to remain willfully ignorant of the things Bucky had done while being brainwashed was idiotic, so he stopped wringing his hands about it and decided to focus his energy on finding Bucky, instead. He tells himself that he’ll read all of the SHIELD/HYDRA files JARVIS has tagged as Winter Soldier related once they finally find him—if it wasn’t all in the file Natasha had given him, already.

Steve makes a small, whiny sound, just for himself. He hates not being able to do anything, hates waiting. He’s always been a man of action, and to be forced into a state of inaction makes him antsy. 

All he wants is to find Bucky.

“I hate not being able to do anything,” Steve says, simply.

“I hear you,” Sam says, a laugh in his voice. “But you are, though. You’re looking. You’re reading up about everything that we know about him, what HYDRA knows. I think that’s something,” Sam says, his voice shifting to a more soothing tone. Steve clicks his tongue in response, doesn’t correct Sam, and keeps reading.

*

Sam can always tell when something’s off. Not to discredit the rest of the team; they know too, after everything, it’s impossible not to know. But Sam, Sam’s just about as stubborn as Steve, and he won’t stop until Steve’s acknowledged that thinking and feeling about something for an hour isn’t enough to fully deal with the issue.

So, Sam can always tell, and this is probably why he ambushes Steve after dinner. Steve is in the kitchen boiling a pot of tea for the rest of the team as they settle in to watch a movie.

“How are you?” 

Steve would’ve prickled at the earnestness of the tone if it were anyone else, but it’s Sam, so he just sighs and says, “I’m fine, Sam.”

“Okay,” Sam says, leaning against the kitchen counter and scrolling through his phone. Steve frowns, noting Sam’s feigned indifference.

“I don’t really know what to talk about, if that’s what you want to hear,” Steve grumbles.

“Man,” Sam looks up from his phone to give Steve a once over, “I don’t want to hear anything, if you don’t wanna talk about it,” he says, looking back at his phone.

“There really isn’t—I don’t know, okay? I think I’m managing. I’ve been trying to write about it like you told me, but I can’t get anything out of my head.”

Sure, they’d all been working together and living together, but there was only so much anyone could do to address all the trust issues that had calcified through the years. At least, that’s what Sam had observed and told Steve; Steve was inclined to agree, but wouldn’t ever say it out loud. 

Captain America, Steve Rogers, bastions of truth, loyalty, and justice. It wasn’t an expectation that Captain America trusted inherently in the goodness of people and are nothing but open and kind—it was a fact. One Steve felt the burden of maintaining more heavily on some days. 

Sam shrugs. “Okay. I hope you keep trying.”

“I will,” Steve says, and means it. He turns back to the kettle that’s beginning to sing, and they both walk back to the team together. Steve feels the beginnings of doubt (fear) niggling somewhere below his heart. So, maybe, fine: write about your feelings, he thinks. Couldn’t hurt. There are worse ways to deal with your feelings.

(read the rest on ao3)

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Here Are 5 Ways Spring-Cleaning Can cause you to Healthier

Experts say doing a radical spring-cleaning of your home features a number of health benefits.

For starters, a clean home can strengthen your system and assist you to avoid illnesses.

A decluttered house also can reduce stress and depression also helps avoid injuries.

Spring-cleaning this year has taken on greater importance than simply beginning the season of renewal with a clean, decluttered space.

Many communities are already stemming from the COVID-19 outbreak by upping their hygiene and cleaning regimens — and spending longer in their homes.

Cleaning and organizing the space you spend most of some time it can keep your system strong, boost your mood, and offer a task that promotes focus and reflection during a trying time.

“When we envision spring-cleaning as a time to rejuvenate our inner and outer world, the cleanup process is often incredibly enlivening instead of being a tiresome chore,” Carla Marie Manly, Ph.D., a psychotherapist, told Healthline.

Here are five ways you'll enjoy spring-cleaning this year and expert guidance on what tasks to prioritize.

1. Strengthen your system

The blossoming of plants outdoors may be a celebration of renewal — of seasonal allergies, that is.

Beyond keeping allergies cornered, a houseclean can assist you to breathe better by preventing respiratory issues and supporting a healthy system.

“Dust, mold, mildew, pet dander, and other things like this will be system triggers for people susceptible to allergies. When your house isn’t clean, it can gather pollutants — especially during the winter months,” Dr. Adrian Cotton, chief of medical operations at Loma Linda University Health in California, told Healthline.

How to clean for immune health While you ought to aim to wash regularly to avoid system triggers, spring-cleaning is often a chance for a deep clean, consistent with Wendy Bazilian, DrPH, RD, an expert publicly health and nutrition. “Dust the legs of furniture, tops of frames and mirrors, tops of lamps and lights, floor baseboards, railings, and window sills which will be more out of reach,” she said. Vacuum all rugs, floors, carpets, ceiling cobwebs, and curtains well to eliminate dust and keep the air filter. Wash all bedding and blankets. Put pillows into the dryer on high heat for 10 minutes to kill any dust mites. Take off your shoes at the door to avoid carrying in dirt and mud from the outside throughout your home.

2. Decrease stress and depression

Whether you’re temporarily stuck indoors, work from home, or are having a troublesome time going to sleep, your psychological state can enjoy keeping your space tidy.

“You may alright find you think that feel, and sleep better with a clean, less cluttered space. Also, the method of sorting through items, reorganizing, and getting obviate the surplus by tossing, donating, or recycling them are often mentally refreshing and liberating,” Bazilian told Healthline.

StudiesTrusted Source has found that a soothing and clutter-free home features a positive effect on people’s daily mood and skill to focusTrusted Source.

“When we clear clutter, it's the potential to clear our mental space and a spotlight span,” noted Tricia Wolanin, PsyD, a psychotherapist and organizing expert.

“I have had many purchasers mention that if there's a mess within the house, they're going to still ruminate on the disarray that requires to be sorted versus that specialize in a conversation or concentrating on anything. once they clean their house, it begins to attenuate their stress and sleep issues,” Wolanin told Healthline.

How to declutter for psychological state Don’t just stack your magazines into piles or hide unworn clothes under your bed. Sort through clothing, toiletries, and paperwork. Get obviate things that not serve you to form room for things that bring pleasure and joy, Wolanin says. To promote good sleep and relaxation, keep only essentials on your bedside table, says Bazilian. Embrace cleaning itself as to how to de-stress. “Cleaning can provide a chance to practice being mindful of the tasks you’re doing, promote a positive attitude and clear mindset,” Cotton said.

3. Prevent illness

Cleaning belongings you touch tons — or several people use often — can assist you to avoid illness and minimize the spread of viruses and bacteria.

Thwarting foodborne illness should even be a priority within the home.

“There may be a more constant patrol of keeping things clean now [with coronavirus concerns], but it's also an excellent thing to tackle all those major contact points and deep-clean during spring,” Bazilian said.

“Keeping surfaces and sinks and items like cutting boards clean can improve food safety, which helps minimize foodborne symptoms or illness,” she said.

How to clean to stop illness “Clean the things you employ most, or items that would are available contact together with your mouth, eyes, or nose. which will include your cellphone, keyboard, bedding, and towels,” Cotton said, adding that to guard against the novel coronavirus, sanitize surfaces with alcohol-based cleaners. “It is vital to tackle several different areas within the kitchen, like the fridge and freezer, pantry, counters, cupboards. It is often overwhelming to try to all directions, so schedule each task separately for a deeper cleaning,” Bazilian said. Deep-clean the sink a day, because it can harbor more bacteria than a restroom. Wash all of your products to stop foodborne illness and promote healthiness. Clean bathrooms and other places that are shared with relations more frequently.

4. More healthy eating, physical activity

Your physical home can set you up for a lively life and healthy food choices — or make movement and sticking to nutritious meals harder.

Studies show there’s a correlation between keeping a clean home and being active and selecting healthier food options.

Spring-cleaning also can motivate us to reset or try a healthier lifestyle.

“When we filter out within the physical realm, it can inspire to start to chop out what not serves us, like unhealthy relationships, or our relationship to food, technology, or other substances,” Wolanin said.

How to organize for healthy habits Make cooking more appealing by sharpening knives, tidying your rack, and organizing pots, pans, and utensils. Store healthy foods at eye level in clear containers, and place unhealthy foods out of sight. Donate workout clothes you rarely wear and organize your favorite activewear during a separate drawer for straightforward access. Open windows a day to circulate fresh air in and rancid air out, Bazilian recommends.

5. Reduce the risk of injury

More than 1 in 4 adults over age 65 fall annually, resulting in 3 million ER visits, consistent with the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)Trusted Source. Falls are the leading trusted Source explanation for injury-related death for this age bracket.

Spring may be a great time to form adjustments to your home, or an older parent’s home, to scale back the danger of falls.

“A clean home helps prevent injuries like slips, trips, bumps, and falls. Having a transparent path and removing obstacles within the sort of backpacks, purses, shoes, sporting goods, or shopping bags and more can help reduce the danger of accidents,” Bazilian said.

How to clean for a secure home Prioritize cleaning clutter from pathways, hallways, and staircases. Secure rugs and repair the other tripping hazards, like loose floorboards. Cords are a serious tripping hazard — even for the foremost spry folks. Tack cords to baseboards, or reroute them along the wall to eliminate the danger of tripping on one.

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This is our adorable little cottage in the city of Sacramento.  It is 860 square feet with a nice little back yard that I have converted to a playground for the kids, space for the dogs, and a small garden space for me.

Bali had a cashier job making $10 an hour and working 60 hours a week.  We originally lived in Walnut Grove on the river 30 minutes or more from the city in a large ranch style house that was 1600 plus square feet with 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms, 2 living rooms, a huge back yard, front yard, and a screened in back porch and a built on shed on the side.  Yes, it was luxurious and the rent wasn’t too bad.  However, it was an old house without insulation and poor heating vents.  We had to buy a lot of propane and wood.  The cost to heat and keep it warm was something crazy like $600 a month after all the propane and wood cost.  The upkeep on the outside lawns and yards took my husband all day once a week and he only had that one day off.  Cleaning the house and keeping it up was a constant and daily process.  Then there was the issue of getting to town.  We had to plan trips as the nearest town was 30 minutes away.  There was nowhere to walk around as it was all agriculture and river.  We also lived right on the edge with money being that a whole paycheck would go to just rent alone.

When you are bringing home $2,800 a month and rent is $1350, utilities are up to $600 in the cold season, there is not much for savings.  So, too much money and work and not enough saving and fun time.

We had a great time out there though and I made good use of the time with learning to be frugal, bake from scratch, read a lot…that is where I started really learning about frugal living and then downsizing.  I also learned to be content just being at home.  I learned that a day reading out in the yard with Arjan and Sammy playing was pretty pleasant.  I would go out there early in the morning with my coffee just to hear the birds sing and chat.

However, I finally had it with the isolation of country living and we moved into town.  We rented a much smaller and cheaper home, downsized all our belongings, and now save over $600 to $800 a month in rent and utilities.  Bali’s commute is 30 minutes shorter and the boys and I can walk everywhere in town.

We go to the library and we can walk to at least 5 different parks, the grocery store, and our chiropractor.

We still live very frugally and simply.  We could live without the two cars if we needed to.  We hardly drive the one.  Mostly, we walk places and we play and work at home a lot!  The boys spend hours outside in a huge sandbox we built them and I spend my days writing or reading. Now that we aren’t doing yard work and house cleaning all day, I have time to write books and blogs.

To save more money we drink water, cook from scratch, we don’t go out.  I have been to the movies recently twice and that was in 4 or 5 years.  I had to put my foot down as far as getting out a bit.  I have no help with the boys and no time off.  I have finally made it the law that I go to the movies by myself once in awhile.  This is thrilling to me!  It outdoes getting your hair or nails done or date night with the spouse.  I am a movie lover and the theater makes my heart pound…or maybe it’s all the milk duds and soda.

Our coffee, work lunches, and meals are all made at home.  I give in to the frozen Stouffer’s lasagna now and then when I’m just tired of cooking or really into a book I’m writing and the focus is on the laptop and not so much in the kitchen.  It happens.

I do big steps in being frugal and I do tiny things also.  It all adds up.  My dish detergent has lasted for goodness knows how long because I keep watering it down.  I use the same coffee filter for a couple days.  I just add grounds.  It truly adds up, I swear.  Our finances are great right now.

When the tax refund came this year I used it to pay off our tread climber and fill the secured credit cards (mine is not so secured anymore) and savings accounts.  I also used the remainder to stock up on toiletries and stockpile my pantry.  I was able to use some money on gifting others and some thrift store fun.  That is how it goes when you don’t have debt, car payments, or credit cards.  When you get extra money you can divide it between filling up the savings more, stocking up, and fun.

Lately, I don’t even drive much.  I do my grocery shopping once a week or every 10 days.  It’s the fresh produce we run out of fast.

With the groceries, we have been living off a lot of whole chickens, homemade bread, homemade yogurt, potatoes, rice and beans, and fruits and veggies in season.  I can make a chicken last 3 days or more.

We have no vices. Bali drinks on rare occasion.  We don’t have drug, smoking, or gambling habits and that saves a ton of money.

Actually, we do have some vices; ketchup, ranch dressing, and flavored creamer for coffee.  I have taken to making my own ranch dressing, homemade is so much better.  I love my Heinz ketchup and I love my Lucerne sugar free creamer so that will remain.

When you live a frugal lifestyle and you must be careful with your money because you are a one income household or on a fixed income or military income, you learn to really, really enjoy being at home and doing free activities.

Some of my favorite home-bound activities are rearranging my house.  It’s sort of ridiculous how often I do it.  I love brewing coffee, putting on Pandora music on my computer, and starting a project.  I love reading fiction and researching all sorts of things online.  Looking at other blogs by women keeping homes and raising families is fun.  I get all sorts of ideas.  Watching a movie with the kids.  Taking walks, going to the park and chatting with other parents.  TV is enjoyable in increments.  I actually do love cleaning and thinking, I love cooking big batches of food for the week with my Cuban-Afro music in the background.  I truly enjoy all that is domestic.

My days have a rhythm and routine.  We enjoy being home so much that I have to remind us to go out and about.  Just recently we stayed in Marin with the boy’s Godparents and spent all day playing at this huge and fantastic park in the trees.

Vacations are visiting friends that are one hour to three hours away.  We pack food and groceries to eat on the trip and share with our friends and just hang out.  We cook and clean and play with our friends and take walks, play at the local playgrounds and beaches or whatever natural resources are offered.  Our vacations cost around $100 and that includes gas.

When we are at home the boys play, play, and play inside the house and outside in the yard.  They have a lot of toys, the kind that you can really play with such as dump trucks in the sandbox, blocks and dinosaurs and puzzles in the house, train tracks and even a doll house and dolls.  We love, love toys and most of them are from the thrift store.

And this all may seem so boring but to me, it is the best my life has ever been.  It is simple and secure.  Everything in our life and home has its time and place and there is something so comforting about that.  We have our chores, our meal times, bath times, even certain shows and sitcoms we look forward to.

I don’t go out on the weekends, a Monday and a Friday night are the same thing.  We don’t go out to dine.  Are you kidding? With children, it’s a race to gulp down food and get out before you get 86’d.  I don’t buy lattes at Starbucks every day.  My husband and I don’t drink and party anymore.

Now I have a small home filled with dogs, cat, children, a husband, and my phone rings with family and friends.  Friends and family are what makes our life feel rich and full.  A day with my family, feeding them, loving them…that is true wealth.

I write my homemaking books and my fiction under a pen name and I think about what I really want from it all.  Do I want wealth, success, fame?  I don’t think I really care.  I would like to grocery shop and not care what the prices are…but sometimes I do that any way to splurge so I won’t go nuts.  I’d love to get involved with movies in some way.  I love movies.

Do I mind all of us squeezed into a tiny house?  No, I would like an extra bathroom at times….

We are in the process of buying our first home.  It is only 160 square feet more than this house and decades older.  It will need a lot of work and love.  I’m thrilled.  It’s been years of living way under out means, buying only sale items, and buying furniture and clothes from the thrift store.  Even this house was a thrift find.  By the time we were ready to buy a home, we were priced out of the market.  It looked hopeless and then I found a HUD home up for bid.  I bid on it and no one else did that night so I won the bid at midnight!

We will have to repaint, redo plumbing, fences, insulation, and other work but we have just enough left over in our savings to do it all.

There is something so satisfying about living this way, building and creating a life with hard work and being smart with the money.  I would never have it any other way.

    Downsizing and the joy of a small house and simple living. This is our adorable little cottage in the city of Sacramento.  It is 860 square feet with a nice little back yard that I have converted to a playground for the kids, space for the dogs, and a small garden space for me.