UPDATE: A REASON FOR MY ABSENCE, A BRIEF SUMMARY
Normally I don't make posts about my life but I think I need to give an update to all the peeps out there about my random absences. I don't talk about my life a lot due to the amount of dysfunction and heartache that goes on behind the scenes that drain my will to be creative, to interact with everyone, to even live. It's like every year that goes on, there was something in the background that disrupted my life and mental state further.
First and foremost I've grown up a parentified child taking on responsibilities not mine to bear with no say in the matter. Being forced to give up my own childhood for my own parent's selfish decisions. Then I moved away from my mother's to my father's. Which wasn't even better from 2014-2019 living with him was very terrifying due to his anger issues and violence whenever I didn't do things his way. He had this expectation for me to go to college full time while working full time and expected me to pay for my own college and pay him rent. When I stopped going to school to focus on working, he would verbally and sometimes physically hurt me. I had lost a severe amount of weight due to the stress and decided to move back in with my mother in 2019.
Fast forward 2021 my father died of cancer and my mom is in a custody battle with one of her many baby daddies and looked to me for financial support since she hadn't worked in nearly a decade. I had started a new job around that time but my mental health was drained at that point.
Now in 2024 my mother has decided to bring my elderly and sick grandmother into the household where we don't have a lot of resources and we really aren't equipped to give her proper care. But now the table has turned where she has finally got a new job a month ago and I am not working currently. She decided to dump the task of taking care of a confused, incontinent, elderly grandmother onto. Even though my own mother never had anything good to say about her own mother and I don't have great experiences with my grandma either. But we have to take care of her because "we're family." Gimme a break.
So right now I'm a bit pissed, sad, tired, and a myriad of other unpleasant emotions. If you ever want to know why Koji is gone all the time. Here is your answer. Family life bullshit.
But not to worry, I've been working on trying to get myself out of this hole I've seemed to find myself in again. Because I do want to interact with all my new followers and old ones. It's just that I've been recovering from deep wounds.
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This shot, though.
This shot is so good. At this exact moment, he’s staring at his reflection on the tokijin and says, “Useless”. They didn’t have to time it that way or have him staring at his reflection on his beaten down very worn sword as he said it, but they freaking did.
*goes feral* *gnaws through metal* *claws at the screen*
I freaking love this moment.
Are they using tokijin as a representation of his mental state? It feels like they’re using tokijin as a representation of his mental state. Which makes him using tenseiga to protect himself and his brother after even better, because tenseiga is a sword of healing.
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was thinking about arthur secretly removing the bullets from tommy's gun and then letting him walk into the field and how fucked up that was & how this is a reason why tommy seemingly avoided arthur for most of these four years & how this also contributed to arthur's downward spiral of guilt and shame & how he tried to rectify this by actively confronting tommy about the tuberculoma diagnosis ... and THEN right at the end he does the same fucking thing again by remaining absent from the feast and getting that suicide note to tommy through linda. truly character of all time
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Yknow Karkat passing out after seeing Tavros's legs being saw off is a pretty normal reaction to the situation but it could also had been his body shutting down at the slightlest scare because he hadnt been sleeping for a whole fucking month
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My body is just serotonin deprived, even with medication, and I just really want to have Stan here to get me through this. I just keep scrolling anything of him, and holding my plush, and trying not to miss him, but I do. July is just a nightmare, and I feel catatonic. I miss Stan, I miss my best friend, I don't want to be home, but I do, and I just need a hug from Stan, and him to just be here.
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