#I don’t want to go to thanksgiving
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getting overstimulated in the club (thanksgiving dinner table)
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looking at my life it IS crazy i’ve never missed a family thanksgiving. lots of people never miss family christmas like that’s easy but the fact that ive lived across the country from my family for 9 years and somehow ive ALWAYS managed to get home for both thanksgiving and christmas
#i don’t even like my family really????? it’s just never occurred to me to not go????#those are like the only holidays my family celebrates#bloggers who wants to do thanksgiving 2025 together
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Feeling bad. Family stuff.
#cb writing stuff#i don’t want to go to thanksgiving with my dad’s family#because i always end up not talking to anyone anyway#and i don’t have anywhere i belong#but they want me to go anyway because my extended family “misses me”#but it’s not really me they miss. it’s just my body#since no one ever talks to me much anyway#and maybe that’s my fault#but i can’t hold a conversation#and i hate talking#so#yeah…
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i do not like thanksgiving (week)
#1. late november? it’s Dark. all the time. pure darkness#also my dad is neurotic for no reason about the electricity bill despite how much money he spends on random other crap#and he will get really nasty with you if you leave a light on for one nanosecond longer than it needs to be on#so like only if you’re in the room which means the house is dark all the time and you’re expected to just walk around like that#even though having a light on at your destination if you’re moving back and forth helps#like sorry i don’t want to feel depressed and sleepy all the time#2. family over means i have to socialize even though i straight up have nothing to say#i think this one is self explanatory i think we all know the feeling of having to perform around relatives and to be friendly#i really do try my best i’m not like a hardcore introvert i’m just boring and easily bored#if i have nothing to say but i am expected by law to be present at the gathering#i will cope with looking awkward by constantly snacking on whatever food is present#so i just eat like a ton of crackers or whatever over several hours#and i feel like absolute crap#like blehhh wdym peanut m&ms will make your body annoyed at you#3. i can’t cook i’ll be so real so i can’t even feel like i’m being helpful#i would gladly help out i’ll just always need someone to hold my hand and i’ll be in the way#so it’s better for me to stay away#but then it looks like i’m just lazy#or again antisocial#and then that means i gotta do cleanup and dishes#4. going back to the Darkness and sleepiness. all of the above things are bad enough over say christmas#but at least then i can relax bc the semester is over it’s a real break#but thanksgiving? man i am still busy. i have to work from home. i am stressed#my instinct is to hibernate and relax bc of the darkness and holiday vibe#however i’m not allowed to#but it’s hard to be productive#harder still when you have to operate under someone else’s rules#peach rambles
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With all the Missing Numbers Doodles popping up today, I finally found it in me to actually doodle and not care about how it looked. Anyways—
Here is Aster’s Halloween Costume! I didn’t color it, but Aster is Little Red Riding Hood and Del is the Werewolf. He’s not trick-or-treating, by the way—he’s just handing out king-sized chocolate bars to everyone he passes while walking around!
It’s not much- Just a goofy little thing to celebrate the holiday. Happy Halloween, everyone!
(Psst-! Hey, @100nebulas ! Starry! I know it’s not a lot, but I promised! Here’s your small dose of Aster content :])
#Yippee!! I did a thing!#FINALLY-#A part of me is wondering if I should ramble about the Sanctuary AU a little bit…#Screw it why not?-#SO-! In Sanctuary all of the major holidays exist and are celebrated (Ex: Thanksgiving Christmas Fourth of July Halloween etc etc)#However because my AU is essentially set up to be one massive town/city/community#EVERYBODY celebrates things together in the form of what I can only call gigantic festivals#The denizens of Sanctuary (Yes the town is called Sanctuary too- I’m not good at naming things but it was what I wanted the place to be)#go ALLLL out on holidays- especially Christmas where they decorate the city centre like something straight out of a Disney Christmas film#Other holidays don’t slack though- There are games and vendor stalls and fresh food being made and just all around a community-#coming together to make something special and beautiful. Friends. Found Family. Coworkers. Neighbors. Everybody cares about everybody—#The people who live in Sanctuary didn’t always have the best lives#So most go out of their way to ensure that the newcomers really feel that sense of hope and belonging that Sanctuary was built to provide.#Hence why Aster doesn’t do tricks on Halloween—he just goes around giving out the best candy he can find to everyone he sees!#Even on spooky holidays everyone deserves to smile—that’s what he thinks. He especially likes to give out candy to people he’s never seen-#before (which is rare mind you-) so that he can make sure that they know someone cares about them.#Thats all for now though- maybe I’ll write more another time haha#Hopefully my rambling isn’t too nonsensical-
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Happy Thanksgiving everyone!! I hope everyone who celebrates is having a lovely one!
As a special Thanksgiving surprise, because it’s been about a week since voting was first opened, I have decided to release all of the prompts for Geneuary!! 🥳
@drawthethingdoppelganger made me an absolutely gorgeous graphic, and I couldn’t be more grateful. Everyone show her some love for making it!!
I want to give a very special thank you to everyone who voted! Here are the prompts all written out:
Day 1: Dream/Imagination
Day 2: Family/Alternate Universe
Day 3: Slumber Party/Jealousy
Day 4: Sunshine/Rainbow
Day 5: Mermaid/Magical
Day 6: Fashion/Secret
Day 7: Feast/Empathy
Day 8: Crush/Birthday
Day 9: Robot/Jingle
Day 10: School/Musical
Day 11: Keyboard/Candy
And because Thanksgiving is Bob’s favorite Holiday, I knew I had to make a silly lil’ sketch of him:
Plus a bonus Gene!:
Someone needs to keep me away from color palettes because I’m getting way too obsessed with slapping them on my sketches.
#thanksgiving#Geneuary2024#i’ve been so excited to share these prompts ever since dt sent the beautiful graphic to me#i don’t want to reveal all of the poll results but it seems y’all were really excited about dream/imagination 👀#let me know which prompts you’re most excited about!!#january can’t come soon enough—y’all are going to do AMAZING i know it
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r/regretfulparents is my hellscape. i know most of them are just going through hard times and venting and probably don't actually regret it but like. i genuinely think motherhood would be my most awful prison. the whole sub is like the scariest horror game the internet has to offer for me.
#im just already exhausted of being a mother and i dont even have kids 😭#(i do. hes fifteen and dyslexic and ADHD and my little brother)#(yes mom i did take care of him a shit ton i am not exaggerating it)#(there is a reason he tells people i basically raised him and he asks ME for things before asking our father who is your coparent)#(there is a reason you sigh in relief when i come home from break and ask me to 'whip [my dad and brother] into shape')#(there is a reason i spent my thanksgiving day being bitched at to do everything)#(even though you have a husband!)#(and another grown adult kid!)#(who's actually older than me but hasn't lifted a finger to help the family)#(she always said she'd be like fiona gallagher if anything happened to our mom"#(NEWS FLASH. YOU WOULDN'T BE. YOU DISAPPEARED. I STAYED.)#(even before you disappeared you weren’t allowed to be a caretaker)#(you couldn’t care for him. you were banned for being violent)#(I shouldn’t have been putting someone else’s kid to bed most nights of the week)#(then when quarantine hits and my mom has the time to be a mom again)#(she gets mad at ME for being overly involved and acting out of pocket)#(girl. this is how things work around here you just didn’t notice)#(whenever I come home from school now she completely checks out)#(she makes comments about how she’s glad I’m home so she doesn’t have to make all the decisions anymore)#(because im so bossy! and then I get made fun of for being bossy! you made me like this! you want me like this!)#(I am not your partner I am your daughter)#(my dad is more of a dad and husband in recent years but it quite honestly didn’t seem like it happened until I moved out)#(because he didn’t have to step up and do that shit it was just dumped onto me)#(and no I don’t want to have a kid to be better or something. im done raising kids. im going to be better for myself)#(I know I could do a hell of a lot better. but. im. not. going. to.)#(my childhood was for them. my adulthood is for me.)#(my students will be the only kids I have and that’s for damn certain.)#mattie gets personal
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definitely feeling overdramatic right now, but i am SO overwhelmed from the stress of that trip and everything that happened before it and everything i have going on between now and the end of the year, that i would like to not interact with a single nother person for two weeks minimum.
#irl… online… anything#i honestly think that would fix me#i just don’t wanna see ANYone#i am soooooooo unhappy#like. not to be a huge baby but i really need support rn and instead i’m supporting everybody else#i am completely at the end of my rope though#i didn’t know it was possible to be THIS done#just completely burnt out… i finally got there!#but instead i have to do fucking Thanksgiving tomorrow#and then work and do TWO programs on Friday#and then drive to North Carolina for the concert. and drive back#and it’s just like. Man.#i REALLY can’t live like this#and do you KNOW how much i still need to get done before the end of the year?????#and i’m going to another concert next Thursday#and then i have a bird walk on Friday#and a Christmas party on Saturday#and ANOTHER bird walk on Sunday#just AHHHHHH. UGH UGH UGH#and that’s not even discussing regular work and SCHOOLWORK and volunteer shit#just fuck#i’m so done#don’t wanna do anything… don’t wanna see anybody#i just want to move away and never speak to anyone again#fuck
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I’m currently very upset about the American healthcare system. Like I hope they know that they are making people actively sicker 🫶
#don’t read the tags if you don’t like skin related stuff although I’m not going into major detail but I felt like I should warn people an#anyway*#autumn rambles#so basically I had a regurlar cyst on my lower back which isn’t abnormal for me and wasn’t causing me any pain until like a week ago when I#say down on my bed but I did it in a way that I think made this minor cyst burst inside my skin and now it’s definitely infected because#the skin around it is swollen and red but my cat also recently got put down so I felt like such a burden that I didn’t want to tell my#parents but eventually the pain got so bad I caved and told my mom on Sunday night and today she called to try and figure out if I could go#to my primary care this week but since I haven’t been in three years (which I know sounds bad but I see my other two doctor every six#months PLUS I have my double infusion every month so I’m fucking burnt out on seeing doctors so yeah I’m not going to go to my yearly#appointment like I’m supposed to because I’m fucking tired of it PLUS my primary care goes through doctors like crazy and I was tired of#having to explain my life story every time I go to get a regular check up)#but anyway since it’s been 3 years I have to fill out a new patient form in their office before they can even let me know if they have an#appointment available this week like how fucked is that??? why can’t I fill it out before my appointment???#also they had the audacity to say to go to urgent care when the whole reason I called my doctors office is because my info is all there in#the system where as the urgent care people are likely going to have no access to my medical history and they won’t know anything about my#chronic conditions#I’m just so mad because the cyst hurts so fucking bad right now#I had to put a bandaid on it because it’s slightly beginning to burst and I’m terrified of taking the bandaid off#I’m just so torn on what I want to do#like I need to suck it up and go to urgent care but we need the car to get there and my dad has plans tomorrow night and Wednesday is#thanksgiving prep and I hate feeling like this huge burden#it’s the middle of the night rn so I can’t do anything about it and I’m just sad#like I should have stopped being a baby and went after supper but the cyst didn’t hurt as bad then
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Remembering stuff SUCKS like can I go back. I don’t want to get your stupid ‘memory unlocked’ achievement. Put it back
#I don’t want to remember getting locked out of my room for my daydreaming. I don’t want to remember being made to change in the living room#I don’t wanna remember not being able to close the curtains#I don’t wanna remember grandma making me stay in her room whenever my parents needed her to watch us#I have to go home over Thanksgiving break#I don’t want to know this shit when I have to see them#can we please just put it all back#j me#vent
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i love my mom but i always want to spend the least amount of time with her as is possible. and one day i think i might regret it. but i have been in her presence for 26 years and she’s damaged me a lot. so i can’t really stand her anymore. and i know it hurts her but like. she makes me want to kms so.
#justine rambles#personal#i am going to nyc for thanksgiving#and she wants to go too#so she wants us to travel together#and i said ‘i want to travel alone’#but mostly i meant ‘i don’t want to travel with you’#and she’s going on about logic and efficiency for whoever has to pick us up from the airport#but i don’t caaaaaare
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anyway my best friend and i have the kinda relationship where we don’t have to see each other or talk all the time to be friends but we haven’t heard a lot from or about each other in like 2 years because my life kinda crumbled and his kinda went the other way but we just spoke on the phone for a bit and he was so shocked and excited bc my voice is so different and deep (he didn’t know i was on T now)
#and we’re both jealous of each other lmao he’s a banker settling down with a nice girl. they’re going to the US to have thanksgiving w her#parents in a few weeks#he wishes he did further study and got a phd like I am and he desperately wants to give a speech at my wedding lmao#I don’t rly know how to tell him I’m not the type of guy people want like that 😭#but I’m happy for him#mrow.org
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I hate feeling pressured and guilted into things so much :(
#kasey grumbles#I’m like feeling pressured into going to my moms for thanksgiving as well as guilted into it cause of being told my brother really wants me#there and everything and I just ugh I don’t want to I just wanna stay home
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do you guys think it’s time to send my parents the audhd symptom master doc i made a month ago
#woke up to my mom on the phone arguing with my dad over whose week it was to have my brother and then bc they’re both going to the states#for thanksgiving who’ll keep him & somehow the convo seemed to shift to where i would be (stay at home or go to the states) bc we talked to#my dad about it the other night and he said i wouldn’t go with him so obviously my mom wants me to go with her#and then she got quiet and then kind of defensive and started saying shit like ‘of course she doesn’t have a job you would know about that’#and more stuff alluding to my lack of employment and inability to drive & im assuming he said something like i don’t deserve to go away ig#bc she was like ‘i don’t have those thoughts or use that language’ and i just know how he thinks so i assume that’s where he was at ugh#and i’m just so done with both of them like no matter how much i explain it to them they don’t understand#why i can’t drive or work and a month ago they both yelled at me for those & other things i do that are common symptoms#so i made a doc with the symptoms with cited sources and everything and then an explanation but i’ve been sitting on it#bc i don’t want them to think i’m just trying to excuse my way out of getting a job but they just don’t get#how much the thought of a mon-fri 9-5 that i have to drive to would kill me. ugh#anyway sorry for the rant i think i’ll send it#stop talking abbie
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saturday is almost over
#can i rest can i please rest like properly rest#angel.txt#i don’t want to go to school again so soon aagghhh#i don’t want to worry about hw :(#by the end of this week i have a project a discussion post and my essay to work on#such is the college life but i just want a break 😭#just gotta get through two more weeks… gghhn#then thanksgiving break :/#but then it’s like what#i don’t even remember maybe like 1-2 weeks until the semester ends after that#man.
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#gosh i hate family dinners#this weekend is canadian thanksgiving and i usually never celebrate it#because fuck thanksgiving honestly#i usually limit my interaction with extended family to two dinners a year: easter and christmas#but i was moving over easter this year so i skipped it so i decided to go this weekend instead bc it’d been a while#fuck if i regret that decision now#especially since my brother is away this weekend ao it was just me 🙃#dinner on my dad’s side yesterday was a hot mess#everyone is so awkward around me since my parents got a divorce#i hate it#and then tonight on my mom’s side was basically a fest of homophobic comments#but that’s the norm nowadays#and my grandma is finally starting to go through my grandpa’s things after he died almost two years ago#and she asked if i wanted one of his watches or shirt or something#and apparently my brain decided the appropriate response was to burst into tears#so that was fun#anyways i left early#i’m really looking forward to christmas dinners now 🙃🥲🙃#anyways don’t mind me just complaining#i know lots of people have it a lot worse#i’m just fucking tired
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