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Dream of Me Pt 1. - San
Ft: Ex Hongjoong
Tags: Angst, Mentions of Dream Sequences, Mentions of Future, Mentions of Cheating, Mentions of killing, Mentions of Marriage, Strong Language, San x Reader (Gender Neutral)
Time Traveler San Au
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Part 2 - Final
You were walking around the park when a man approached you, he told you his name. San explained your life story. No one else knew what you went through, someone who you barely knew told you all this. He was a stranger who you met mere minutes ago. He even spoke of your plans for a secret marriage to your boyfriend Hongjoong. No one knew, not even Hongjoong's friends. He even spoke of how you met Hongjoong as a kid. You both were in kindergarten, he even spoke of how you and Hongjoong got engaged. You were frightened, yet you felt like you knew San.
"I'll prove that I'm right, I'll show you your future." San looked at you dead in the eye, as he spoke to you.
"I believe you." The words came out of your mouth without hesitation.
"Do you want to know more? I'm warning you, it's all very hard to deal with. Are you sure you would want to know more?" San asked you, as he was sure to speak to you in a secluded area.
"I should, there's a reason as to why I met you. I should have listened to you if by chance I met you in the future." You nodded, as you only spoke the confirmation that San needed.
"If I stand corrected, your parents are opposed to this marriage, they don't believe that Hongjoong should be the one you marry. Well, you marry him, but you're only miserable. You believe that you know all of him, you even trusted him. For proof, I'll leave a detail out of how we met and something else, if you see it then you'll know that you were meant to know. As a result of your marriage, you were condemned." San waited for your response to what he saw you go through.
"What if I make a different choice? Can you see that other path I would choose?" You waited for San to respond to your visibly shaking hands. You started questioning your love really meaning something to Hongjoong.
"I cannot see any other alternatives, I'm a time traveler, I can only see what you went through when I met you. I loved you then, even when you dismissed my opinions on Hongjoong. You said that I was only jealous of him. I never wanted to see you suffer. You never even invited your parents because they opposed it, it was wrong. I am only given a chance to time travel in this time for now to stop you." San sadly glanced at you. You didn't know why your heart was aching for San.
"I'm sorry." You got up to hug San even if it's for a mere moment. You forgot about Hongjoong at the moment.
"I created a time machine, so I'm here. You both married in my presence, we had already met at the time. You also won't be able to wake up until you see your future, it's an effect to seeing your future. Y/n, he even cheated on you before the wedding. That sick in the head dared to." San looked at you in the eye with tears threatening to fall out.
Hongjoong cheated on you, yet San was the most affected. He saw you go through that. You approached San and wiped his eyes.
"Don't, I'm still not over you." San sadly backed away from you. You didn't know how to respond. You couldn't find another way to break the silence.
"San, tell me more." You worried more and more about what situation you got yourself into.
"Y/n, he had a baby. You married him without knowing that he had a son with a woman. You found out and wanted to get divorced. Hongjoong refused to let you go, even when you applied for a divorce. He was controlling. He even had the kid and the woman living with you." San looked down in sadness.
"You one day had enough and decided to kill him for taking away your youth. You told him that you both wouldn't divorce if he came to the apartment building rooftop. Everyone was living in that apartment building, you pushed Hongjoong off the rooftop. You were taken to prison for First-degree murder. Even after his death, you were tormented. My advice for you now, follow him today at night to prove my point." He finally spoke about what he could tell you.
"Thank you, I wish I would've listened to you before. I also hope that I could meet you at this point of my life." You started crying because there was someone who truly cared. You were determined to take the bind off your eyes.
"In two days, at 9 am was the moment we met. I have to go now." San hugged you until he disappeared.
You finally took off to your place while taking a fresh breath of air. The day became sad after San left. You didn't want to believe what you were told, but you shouldn't be fooled any longer. You would finally know who was lying. Hours passed and you finally got in touch with your fiancee. He called you to make sure you were okay.
"By the way babe, my friends are coming over tonight, I can't go see you. I'm sorry, I'll make it up to you." Hongjoong apologized over the phone. He seemed nervous, and you were apprehensive.
"It's fine babe, see you tomorrow." You responded in the usual manner.
You decided to use an excuse to go to his place. There was still light in the sky for you to go observe him. You took your car and waited at a stop that was out of sight to watch Hongjoong. You grew bored, but you needed to know. Good thing you didn't confront Hongjoong without proof when he called you. You waited until it was nighttime. The night stars beamed, you wanted to shine bright like those stars. You hoped to meet San again, you didn't want him to dissipate from your life. Then all of a sudden, you found your answer. Hongjoong ran out of his place to come to get a woman who was as young as you both. You never even met her before. To take away any doubts, Hongjoong even ran to her arms and kissed her on the lips. He was holding hands with her. That was your cue, you got out of your car. You approached both of them from behind and tapped on Hongjoong's shoulder.
"What the fuck, are you doing Hongjoong?" You were now mad that you were betrayed.
"Were you stalking me? Y/n, you're a psycho!!!" Hongjoong screamed even in front of that woman.
"You're a psycho for wanting to marry me even while having an affair, I don't deserve this. Now here's your stupid ring!!!" You finally threw your engagement ring on the street.
"No, you're not doing this to me!!!" Hongjoong gripped onto your wrist so tight.
"I called the police, now let her go!!!" A man came to your rescue and led you out of the situation. You recognized him immediately, it was San. Times changed, you were supposed to meet him in two days. You guessed that events changed since you caught Hongjoong cheating.
"Are you okay? Did he hurt you?" This present time San was just as kind as future time San. You stared at San in awe, he was right.
"I'm okay, thank you." You thanked San and asked for his number just in case Hongjoong came by again.
You drove home and called your parents to apologize. If San was right about this, then it's only right to reconcile with your parents. Now all you needed to do was go to sleep. You snuggled on your bed and slept.
You had dreamt about that future life. You met San at the grocery store when you went to go buy cereal and he was in that same aisle. He helped you reach the cereal you wanted. You both started meeting more and more until he found out you were getting married. He even told you that was walking to his house at night and saw Hongjoong with another woman kissing. Just as you saw them when you confronted them in this time because you changed time, but you dismissed San even when he told you what he saw. You even said that he was jealous and never wanted you to be happy. That same moment, he confessed his love for you, and you told him that you didn't want his worthless love because you loved Hongjoong. You couldn't recognize yourself, you became a monster. You didn't believe San and that led you to your doom at that time. You also saw how San created the time machine and wanted to use it the day of your wedding, but it failed. You committed a crime and were thrown in prison, you would refuse to see San. You also saw every single detail that future time San told you. That was all you could see.
You finally woke up, two days later. It was 6 am when you realized that there would be another encounter. You got ready even if there was still time. You realized the true meaning of love, Hongjoong only made you suffer in the long run. You tried to make things the same to not alter too much. You still dressed in the time you did before when you had to go for groceries. You finally drove to the groceries and went inside and went in just a bit before 9 am. He only said you both saw each other at 9 am. You approached the cereal aisle at exactly 9 am and there he was. He was with another woman, you thought that you should just leave. Then all of a sudden, he called out to you.
"Excuse me, I saw you yesterday. Don't go." San called out to you. You stopped for a moment before turning around.
"Oh hi, thank you for yesterday." You nervously replied as you approached him.
"No worries, but meet my sister Ha Neul." He grinned ear to ear as he introduced his sister and looked at you. You forgot that he didn't tell you his name even when he gave you his number. He only said his name in the future time, but at present time San didn't even have your name.
"I'm Y/n, what's your name?" You grinned as well as you asked San. You forgot that he never told you his name at present time.
"Omg, I'm sorry I didn't tell you my name. My name is San." He was soon told by his sister that he should've introduced himself before. She is pretty just like him.
"I didn't call you because I lost your number. You didn't put a contact name and I accidentally saved it without having your name." You replied. It was indeed true, but you also had been asleep for 2 days. It was all a supernatural experience that you wouldn't forget.
"Y/n, do you have a boyfriend?" Ha Neul asked you and San whispered to his sister to not ask such things.
"No, I got out of a relationship with someone who I realized that I no longer loved because they were bad to me." Both San and Ha Neul apologized.
"I'm over it, San actually saved me. And I took pictures of my arms." You told both of them. You also explained to Ha Neul what happened yesterday.
"Well I have to go now, thank you both." You smiled and said your farewells to the siblings. They both waved and you noticed that San was blushing. It seems like his sister was teasing him about you from the way his sister was looking in your direction.
You decided that you weren't going to break San's heart. As soon as you walked out of the grocery store, you felt like a weight was taken off your shoulders. The sun was shining bright today and you had no regrets. You walked out and embraced the sun rays that blinded your sight at the moment. The fact that San loved you all throughout the future time was comforting, you only wished that you chose him instead of Hongjoong. He loved you enough to save you from your doom, he never intended to make you fall for him. He even respected your decision to not accept his feelings in the alternate future. You planned to change your future.
Everything you saw in the alternate future took place in a span of years, but you fell for San in a span of days. All you needed to do was make him fall for you, he must not love you at the moment. If nothing happens, then it's not meant to happen. You will always be grateful for San since he saved you in both worlds. You refused to go down without trying even once. San said that you hurt him, your heart must have ached for a reason. You must have realized your faults too late and only pushed San away. You refused to make the same mistakes, you were almost involved in a poisonous marriage. There were small details that changed like the first time you both met and you even met his sister when you didn't do so in your alternate future.
You walked to your car as you felt the trees rustle on the shade your car was parked on. You were afraid that San wouldn't love you in this life. If he has no meaning for a time machine, there probably won't be one in the life you changed. All throughout the drive home, you worried that the changes could make it impossible to be with San. It may seem ridiculous, but you were going to go to the end of your newfound love for San. After all, he made so many sacrifices for you and you only hurt him in your alternate future. You finally rolled down your car windows because you felt overwhelmed already. The drive home felt like an eternity, then you noticed that it seemed like you would be getting new neighbors. The moving trucks were parked in the next-door neighbor's driveway.
You felt quite sad these days. You decided to just lounge around your house, you had nothing to do. You were laying down on your couch and were watching a series. Your doorbell rung, you don't have anyone to visit you which only makes you nervous. You look through the peephole and notice Ha Neul and San. Why are they here, could they be the new neighbors? You wondered if what you changed, had an effect on San's life.
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Assalamualaikum sis , Someone left me .I can't focus on myself. Pls advise me
Walaikum Assalaam
The best remedy is to keep yourself busy and to be in His rememberace. When you get thought of him seek refuge in Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Fix your prayers and make your relationship stronger with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Think of ways how you can improve your relation with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Help your mother in the house. Be good to your family members. Do activities in your free time. Do dhikr all the time. It will help you in shaa Allah
First we need to attach ourselves to Allah then we can easily detach from others. We need to balance the love of Creator and the Creation. Keep the love of the creation in your hand and the love of Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala in your heart that’s difficult to do but with time you will learn. For this we need to make dua and love for the sake of Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala
“Call on your Lord when your heart is brittle, that is a time when it’s in pieces and the Light of Allah can fill the gaps. That is why Allāh is with the broken hearted.”
-Shaykh Hamza Yusuf
“The fastest way to heal a broken heart is to find someone better to love, and love more. Know that sometimes heartbreak happens just to push you to Allah.”
-Yasmin Mogahed
Fix your prayers and ask Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala for the help. Always remember that Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala plans are better than our wishes. Make lots of dua and while asking Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala always say “if it’s good for me” because we don’t know what’s good for us only Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala knows.
“But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah Knows, while you know not.” (Quran 2:216)
Advice from Hadia Alia on moving from a ex boyfriend
“Moving on from an ex-boyfriend can sometimes be very complex. Every situation is uniqe and will require different actions. Here are a few tips to get over him:
Cry. It is ok to cry if you want as it feels better when you let all the emotions out instead of keeping them bottled up inside you forever.Talk to someone you trust. Sometimes you just need someone to listen rather than offer advice. Even you cannot understand why it happened, talking about it can help you accept that the relationship is over.Get the help you need. A breakup can have serious negative effects on your mental and physical well-being, especially if you find that you are still dwelling on it months later. Breakups have been associated with weakened immune systems and an increased risk of illness. People who have not gotten over a breakup within 16 weeks can even experience physical changes in their brains that reduce their motivation, concentration, and emotions. A therapist can help by listening to you, encouraging you to confront your feelings, and teaching you new ways to do with your pain.Remind yourself to let go. There are variety of behavioral techniques you can try to stop thinking about your ex. All of these techniques rely on your ability to recognize when a thought about your ex enters your mind and to take a specific action to stop that thought from coming back. Remember that these techniques are to be used for obsessive thoughts only! If you have not yet dealt with your feelings and taken the time to grieve, you should not try to suppress your thoughts.
– You can try wearing a rubber band around your wrist and snapping it each time you think about your ex.
– You can write down the thoughts you are having about your ex on a piece of paper and then throw it away.
– You can try a visualization exercise, which requires you to visualize a specific scene whenever a thought of your ex occurs to you. For example, you could think of a stop sign in order to remind yourself that you need to stop what you are doing. If you do this consistently, the association should become automatic.
Focus on taking care of yourself. In order to boost your mood, it’s important to practice healthy habits. Make sure you exercise regularly and get plenty of sleep. Committing yourself to a healthy lifestyle will not only make you feel good, but it may just offer you the escape you need from thoughts about your ex
– Start praying five times. It will help you to regain your positivity and let go of the stress associated with your breakup.
Remember, you are strong and can get over him if you really want to.”
Always remember this:
“No amount of guilt can change the past and no amount of worrying can change the future. Go easy on yourself for the outcome of all affairs is determined by the decree of Allah. If something is meant to go elsewhere, it will never come on your way, but if it is yours by destiny, from you it cannot flee.”
-Umar ibn al Khattab (Radi Allahu Ta’ala Anhu)
On healing broken hearts:
If you are trying to get over a person you can’t be with, treat it like an addiction:
1. Cut yourself off from the drug completely: Cut off all communication and reminders–even if that means blocking numbers, emails, a Facebook profile, and stop checking their Facebook! This is your detox.
2. Replace it with something better: Increase in your thikr (remembrance of Allah) and get closer to Allah. If you aren’t praying your daily prayers, fix that. Pray all and pray on time. Pray qiyam in the last third of the night (just before fajr). Make duaa, tawbah (repentance), cry, plead to Allah. This is your treatment.
(Yasmin Mogahed)
Unlawlful love before marriage…
Ibn al Qayyim al Jawziyyah (rahimahullah) mentions in regards to unlawful love before marriage (i.e. haram sexual relations, or love for someone who you are unable to marry).
“And the cure for this deadly illness (i.e. unlawful love before marriage) is for the person that is afflicted to realise that this love is only due to his/her own delusions and ignorance.
So upon such a person is to first and foremost strengthen their Tawheed and reliance upon Allah, and secondly to increase in worship and busy themselves with it, so much so that they do not have any spare time letting their minds wander and think about their beloved.
And they should call upon Allah to protect them and save them from this evil, just as Prophet Yusuf called upon Allah and he was saved. And they should do as he did, be as he was, in terms of ikhlaas (sincerity) and remembering Allah in abundance.
This is because if the heart is filled with ikhlaas for the sake of Allah, there will be no space left for any unlawful love to be present, rather this only happens to a heart that is empty and has no ikhlaas whatsoever.
And let such people remind themselves that whatever Allah has decreed for them is only in their own best interests, and when Allah commands something it is never to cause harm or misery to His slaves.
And let them also remind themselves that their unlawful love does not benefit them, neither in this world or the hereafter! As for this world then they will be so preoccupied with their love that it will cripple them and will cause them to live in a fantasy world. And as for the hereafter then it will cause them to be preoccupied with the love of the creation instead of love for the Creator!
These people need to be reminded, that the one who is submerged in something will never see it’s ill effects, neither will the person who has never experienced such things. The only people who will be able to relate to them are those who have experienced the same thing but have been saved. Such people can look back and realise how evil it is.”
I hope it will be helpful. May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala guide us all to the straight path. May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala grant you a righteous spouse who will be the coolness of your eyes.
Allahumma Ameen
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700 Followers Celebration Writing Challenge!!!
Hi. Hello. Hi! Excuse me, but there are over 700 of you following me? First of all, why? Please explain, I’m a dumbass, I don’t deserve you. Second of all, thank you so much???? I never even dreamt that there would be so many of you that would even want to read my nonsense. I love you so so so much, you’re all precious beans and I don’t know what I did to deserve having you here!
So, guess what? I’m doing a writing challenge! It’s the first one I’m doing so ya know, go crazy, my babies, I cannot wait to read your works!!!
Here are some rules and whatever:
You don’t have to follow me, but I would obviously love you forever if you did
Due date: let’s make it July 2, 2020 so my birthday can be extra sweet
The tag: #yikes700challenge but please feel free to send me the link as well or tag me in the post, just to be sure Tumblr won’t mess this up
Send me an ask if you wanna participate, let me know which prompt you want and the character/ship you wanna write for
Anything Marvel is obviously a priority, anything Charlie Hunnam related is more than welcome, and everything Henry Cavill in general
Please no noncon/dubcon, underage, incest and all that jazz, we’re here to have a good time
One person per prompt for now, but we’ll see how this goes I suppose
No word limit, but please please please add a keep reading break if it’s over 500 words bc we don’t want to flood people’s dashes!
That’s it, I think! Have fun! Stay safe, wash your hands and happy writing!
Prompts after the break!
Movies:
1. Breakfast at Tiffany’s
2. Bridget Jones’s Diary
3. 10 Things I Hate About You
4. When Harry Met Sally
5. You’ve Got Mail
6. Pretty Woman
7. How to Lose a Girl in 10 Days
8. Legally Blonde
9. Four Weddings and a Funeral
10. Notting Hill
AUs & Tropes:
1. Coffee shop
2. College/ University
3. Royal
4. Roommates/ Neighbours
5. Soulmates
6. Bookshop
7. CEO
8. Mafia
9. One bed
10. Fake dating
11. Accidental marriage
12. In vino veritas
13. Blind Date
14. Enemies to Lovers
15. Friends to Lovers
Songs:
1. Hozier – Movement
2. Harry Styles – Adore you
3. Florence + the Machine – Moderation
4. One Direction – Little Things
5. Leon Bridges – River
6. Billie Eilish – party favor
7. Lizzo – Boys
8. Dua Lipa – IDGAF
9. Nelly Furtado – Maneater
10. Charlie Puth – How Long
11. Steppenwolf – Born to be Wild
12. Queen – It’s a Hard Life
13. Bon Jovi – You Give Love a Bad Name
14. Nancy Sinatra – These Boots Are Made for Walkin
15. Blondie – One Way or Another
16. Rosenfeld – Do It For Me - @your-persephone-writes with Bucky
17. Zara Larsson – WOW
18. Marian Hill – One Time
19. ZAYN – wRoNg
20. Hozier – Toxic
Books:
1. Pride and Prejudice
2. Wuthering Heights
3. The Lord of the Rings AU
4. Hogwarts AU
5. A Discovery of Witches AU
Dialogue:
1. “Behave.”
2. “Do not say I told you so.”
3. “You really shouldn’t trust me this much.”
4. “Can I kiss you now?”
5. “Is that my t-shirt?”
6. “You’re staring.” - @chaoticarson with Raymond
7. “Are you flirting or starting a fight?”
8. “Oh, you’re still alive.” “Don’t sound so disappointed, I might start thinking you like me.”
9. “Damn right I’m pretty.” “I said petty.” - @nekoannie-chan with Steve or Rumlow
10. “You! You are – ” “Beautiful? Smart? An inspiration?” “An idiot.”
11. “What’s the plan?” “The what?” “Are you serious right now? Do you want us to die?”
12. “How do you remember that? You were very much knocked out at the time.”
13. “Can someone explain to me, in very small words, why I’m being paired with her?”
14. “That’s my ex. Would you mind if you’d pretend to be my boyfriend for the next few hours?”
15. “Bite me.” “Where?”
16. “I’m sorry but it’s very hard to focus when you’re not wearing a shirt.”
17. “Fuck you.” “Not with that attitude.”
18. “That’s my good girl.”
19. “Stop biting your fucking lip already!”
20. “Oh, fuck off with your stupid eyes and your stupid face and your stupid mouth.”
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JOANNA BRAGANZA // CHALLENGE 002
a series of songs that i think suit joanna’s character and lifestyle.. songs i may be found listening to when writing her voice, her mood, her actions.. some are based around relationships whereas others are simply self-monologues.
oh sweet nuthin’ — the velvet underground // say a word for polly may, she can’t tell the night from the day, they threw her out in the street, but just like a cat she landed on her feet.
the tune itself has a joanna-vibe to it, and the song oozes her troublesome nature but she has luck, and luck is one of the most important things to behold in the florentine courts.
i know (feat. fiona apple) — king princess // and you can use my skin, to bury secrets in and i will settle you down.
a sketch of an affair with a man who is in a committed relationship, joanna and her ambition to step on another person’s head just to get a title, recognition and at the least of it, stardom.
like a girl — lizzo // woke up feelin’ like i just might run for president, even if there ain’t no precedent, switchin’ up the messaging.
joanna is a rebellious girl in the year of 1455, a streak lost on history and covered by marriages and children. joanna isn’t about to let anyone stand on her.
want you in my room — carly rae jepsen // on the bed, on the floor ( i want you in my room ) i don’t care anymore, i wanna do bad things to you.
any empowering song can suit joanna, in a modern-day setting she would be the girl who’s all up in pop princesses, too.
if you could know — shannon and the clams // where am i goin’? are we here? my brain’s overflowing, is filling with fear, i am not ready.
a declaration of joanna’s immaturity and inexperience which may cause her to fail at the tasks she so badly wants to finish.
harry — kelsy karter // i’ll treat you better than the girls you’re hangin’ out with, take you to heaven, and i’ll show you all around it, i’ll never ever let you down.
immature as she is, joanna would also be the girl who begs for chances. to put her heart on the line, though everyone should know that her heart is beaten black and blue to protect it from heartbreak.
motivation — normani // i’ma break you off, let me be your motivation, to stay and give it tonight, and, baby, turn around, let me give you innovation.
the same as above and the must is certainly something modern-day joanna would listen to.
mother’s daughter — miley cyrus // must be something in the water or that i’m my mother’s daughter, don’t fuck with my freedom.
one, she would be a cyrus fan. two, her mother is extremely important and will be famous throughout the coming years for her role in bearing many children for portugal, and supporting the country throughout it’s trials. joanna is proud to be her mother’s daughter.
boyfriend — ariana grande // i know we be so complicated, but we be so smitten it’s crazy, i can’t have what i want, but neither can you.
when joanna set her sights on the second prince of england she didn’t think about her family nor the relationship between england and portugal. the only thing she cares about, in all cases, is herself and so she only thought of how good they’d be together... rather than the case that’d bring both countries unsatisfied looks from the pope himself.
don’t start now — dua lipa // if you don’t wanna see me dancing with somebody if you wanna believe that anything could stop me.
no one can stop joanna’s path of destruction or ambition. that’s the message.
now i’m in it — haim // i, i ‘can’t get a hold of myself. i can’t get outta this situation.
everyone has times of doubt and joanna is no different despite her outward persona. for she sometimes finds herself wondering how to get out of bad mistakes.
patricia — florence + the machine // you only take as much as you can grab with two hands, with your big heart, you praise go above. but how’s it working out for you, honey? do you feel loved?
a letter to a lover who acts in moderation and practises chastity and charity. the differences between joanna and others.
good looking — suki waterhouse // the skyline falls as i try to make sense of it all, i thought i’d uncovered your secrets but turns out there’s more.
joanna finds love interests easy, for there is no secret to loving someone or becoming adored. though sometimes she finds it hard to unmask boys who pretend to be something they are not, and this is a song mixed in with confusion and a curious need.
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olá vocês, tudo bem??? eu sou a mar e estou aqui humildemente fazendo minha entrada (oficial) na comunidade de 1x1! demorei pelo que? vergonha mesmo kfjands estou em busca de partners e plots gostosinhos para jogar e comemorar que estou praticamente de férias da faculdade. abaixo do readmore eu vou deixar ideias de plots que quero muito jogar, mas estou 100% aberta a sugestões e combinarmos plots juntxs e também saber o que vocês querem jogar, ou só conversar mesmo ué fkajds gosto de tagarelar!!! deixem um likezinho que chamo no chat ou já me chamem direto, tanto faz! enfim, let’s que let’s mores <3
observações: eu jogo smp com female muse, não sei bem explicar porque mas eu só me sinto mais confortável mesmo e consigo desenvolver melhor, espero que tudo bem <3 sou super tranquila quanto a fc, pode vir o que quiser! posso jogar com sideblog, no twitter ou telegram e adorooo musing inspo e conversar sobre ship, podem me encher fajsdnfaf ah, os plots q eu escrevi sao bem “real life” eu diria??? mas gosto de jogar em determinados universos também, só nao tive ideias para agora KKKKK
FROM PRADA TO NADA: basicamente é de uma fanfic de mcfly que eu li faz um tempão e eu ainda amo a história! A família de MUSE A perde todo o seu dinheiro após um golpe e o pai dela pede para que uma amiga acolha sua filha em sua casa simples no interior para que ela não faça parte de toda aquela bagunça. Essa amiga é mãe de MUSE B que já julga MUSE A pelo primeiro olhar quando a vê chegando com milhares de malas. Mais uma patricinha, diria ele. Para MUSE A ele não passa de um babaca sem classe. Um love/hate bem gostosinho e que não fica velho, né? (ja tenho char praticamente pronta fkasnd)
MONDLER VIBES: MUSE A e B são melhores amigos since always e nunca pensaram em ficar até o momento em que passam uma drunk night juntos! O mais estranho de tudo é que aquilo não parece estranho, mas os dois costumavam ser tão ruins em relacionamentos que preferiram deixar escondidos dos outros amigos do grupo. quero demaisss (quem me conhece sabe como friends crazy fan eu sou)
OUR LAST SUMMER: Inspirado lá no filme mesmo, MUSE B tem queda abismo em MUSE A desde que a viu pela primeira vez no colégio e aquele é o último verão antes de saírem da cidade para a faculdade. É a única chance dele conseguir alguma coisa com ela, então cria coragem para chamá-la para um encontro e poderem aproveitar o restante do verão juntos. CUTEEE
UNTIL IT STICKS: “how many times jug? how many times are we gonna push each other away?” “until it sticks.” MUSE A e B se amam, mas sempre acontece alguma coisa que os separa. MUSE B acredita estar protegendo MUSE A agindo dessa forma, mas apenas a faz sofrer. Enquanto isso MUSE A quer mostrar que está ao lado dele para o que der e vier. MTTT angst
MY MIDNIGHT KISS: Festa de ano novo, todo mundo tem quem beijar, menos a recém solteira MUSE A que está irritada por isso. No desespero da contagem, então, ela beija MUSE B que estava ao lado dela sem hesitar. Acaba sendo um beijo mais intenso do que o esperado. Após aquele contato MUSE A agradece e se despede constrangida, deixando MUSE B sozinho ali. É claro, porém, que o destino não vai deixar fácil né? Quem vai estar em x lugar no dia seguinte? Ele mesmo, o beijo de meia noite.
BEHIND THE SCENES: Esse é clichezão, mas eu amo e quero demais! Uma vez eu tive uma personagem que era atriz e iria viver um relacionamento fake com um boy par romântico dela nos filmes mas que apesar de aparentarem serem os melhores amigos nas entrevistas ela o odiava, porque ela era atriz responsável perfeita, enquanto ele um completo preguiçoso, irresponsável, sem dar valor para nada!, nas palavras dela. é basicamente essa loucura que eu quero reviver!
APARTMENT PLOTS: Vi as inspos aqui e tem várias que me interessam muito!! Pensei muito nessa ideia de exes de escola ou faculdade idk e agora algum deles se muda e o vizinho é quem??? eitcha! ooou a simples ideia de minha personagem estar bêbada e chorando no corredor do bloco e seu personagem não sabe bem oque faz? nessa lista tem muita coisa legal galere, vamos que vamos
HIGH SCHOOL REUNION: Basicamente MUSE A e B estudaram juntos no colégio e nunca mais se viram depois dessa época. Agora acabaram de receber um convite para uma reunião de turma e se reencontram. Eles teriam alguma backstory no colégio. Podiam ter sido high school sweethearts, inimigos, se pegavam as escondidas dos outros amigos, idk, vemos isso <3
SUMMER CAMP: Meio super clichê básico, mas todos vêem que eu amo? Todos os anos essas duas escolas se unem em um acampamento de férias. MUSE A e B são de escolas diferentes e todas as férias entram em um nível de competitividade altíssimo. Estão agora no último ano do colégio e querem muito ganhar para fecharem aquela época com chave de ouro. Aparentemente se odeiam, vivem discutindo, se ameaçando, acusando o outro de trapaça, mas a verdade é que sentem uma super crush um no outro.
SUMMER CAMP 2.0: Ainda de escolas diferentes, MUSE A e B ficaram durante o primeiro ano de acampamento. Parecia tudo bem até que um dos outros chegou no segundo ano com um namoradx. Aí ferrou tudo. Ciúmes, brigas, discussões, pegação, etc etc durante esses 3 meses
KEEP ME CLOSE: MUSE A é atriz desde criança e ficou extremamente famosa. durante a premiere de seu filme ela surta e sai correndo, tromba com MUSE B e implora para que ele a leve dali. MUSE B a carrega para sua casa em um bairro simples de classe média e lá a atriz implora para que a deixe passar a noite. Minha ideia é que um se surpreenda com o outro. MUSE A com a vida simples e animada e MUSE B com a humildade de uma garota tão famosa. Simpleszinho né?
E MAISSSSS
clicando na frase você encontra gifsets que eu rebloguei e acho que dão bons plotss!
high school cliché, líder de tocida e jogador de futebol. siM KKKKK aaaa e gosto de plots com bebês tb aaaaaa
messy exes plot where they can’t get over one another no matter what they do and they always tell themselves they’re not gonna go back to them yet every time they get done with a date they end up knocking on the other person’s door and just jealousy and angst and heartbreak and crying because they don’t know if this is ever going to work out but they can’t walk away because this person is still their whole fucking world and they don’t know how to move on CREDIT
“i slept with you the other day and i didnt know we had a mutual friend and now we’re sitting across each other for brunch and it’s awkward because i ran out when you were asleep” CREDIT
“i met you when you stayed in my little beach town almost the entire summer when we were 15/16 and we had a summer fling and i’m pretty sure we were a little bit in love but then you left and we just kinda stopped talking and now i’m well into college and holy shit i ran into someone at a party that looks like an older version of you–wait that IS you??? and we’ve been going the same college the entire time?? and now i feel like i see you everywhere??? what the hell is this you’re even hotter than you were back then what the HELL” CREDIT
we dated once in college and i never got over you. now i’m a single parent because my ex didn’t want a kid, and holy fuck you’re my kid’s kindergarten teacher. (tenho uma char pronta para esse aaaa) CREDIT
“you broke my little sisters heart so i’m going to make your sister fall in love with me and do the same” plot??? CREDIT
“you’re my best friend but please be my fake boyfriend for my family Christmas party you’ll get free food and we’ll be at a nice cabin but my family always asks why I don’t have a boyfriend and I need this from you shit we slept together this is awkward” CREDIT
childhood best friends slash roommates who get immensely drunk one night and have sex and then just continue to keep doing it because that’s the only way they think they can have each other. spoiler: they’re both in love with each other and have been for years, but don’t wanna say shit about it because they’re afraid of losing each other. cue angst. CREDIT eu perdi o link oficial </3 mas vi aqui
‘we’re broken up but i never changed my emergency contact and now i’m in hospital and ?? why are you here first at my side you didn’t have to come’ CREDIT
also like … royal plots ?? yes please ?? someone give me an actress meeting a royal and falling in love ?? a royal falling in love with a commoner ?? arranged marriages between two royals ?? GOD pls (tenho char pronta tb fkansdkjfns) CREDIT
muse a and muse b work together at a cafe/restaurant but do not like each other at all and all they ever do is bicker and yell + curse at each other pls then one day muse a messes up the others order on purpose and muse bconfronts them angrily about it and there’s a screaming fight so they get so close to each others faces and breathe heavily AND THEN BAM THEY’RE MAKING OUT CREDIT
i just want a i have a famous boyfriend but i cannot tell anyone plot cause cute like going out at night and dressing him up so that people won’t recognize him, secret meetings at the closet and FUCKING inside the bus. until one day he starts dating some hot celeb and the other muse finds out online or on tv… CREDIT
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pairing: Namjoon x Reader (ft. Taehyung) genre: angst, poss future smut, future fluff word count:
song: Scared to be Lonely - Martin Garrix & Dua Lipa playlist
summary: When your marriage to Kim Namjoon hits a wall you can’t help but wish you could go back and redo everything. All the way back to the moment just before you dumped your high school boyfriend… the only other person you had ever loved. But waking up in your childhood bedroom was definitely a shock. Is this your chance to make a new life for yourself or have you made a horrible mistake?
You saw his jaw visibly lock. His eyes swelled with tears, yet to fall, at your harsh words.
‘why do we even bother any more’ you had spat at him. You stood frozen, your own face flushed as your adrenaline spiked. Fighting with Namjoon wasn’t a surprise anymore. You had both grown increasingly intolerant of each other but today was different. Not in the subject of the argument - which you couldn’t even remember anymore. It had since morphed into something toxic and so ugly that you were both simply throwing hatred at each other for no reason other then to incite more rage.
Today was different for another reason, one you couldn’t put your finger on but you could feel it vibrating in the air around you as you couldn’t tae your eyes away from the tears in your husbands eyes.
Namjoon never cried. Happy or sad he had never cried in front of you. But here you stood, staring at him feeling the uneasy change in the air. You couldn’t help but think back to the last time the two of you had been truly happy together… it seemed so far away. A feeling that had been lost to the simple passage of time and an unwillingness to try… on both your parts.
A deep shuddering breath brought you out of your distressed reverie.
“Maybe you’re right. It’s not even the fact that I don’t recognise you anymore” he laughed spitefully tears finally rolling down his cheeks. “I don’t know who I am anymore. This… this isn’t who I want to be… this isn’t who I was”. Namjoon spoke in a small voice and sadness twinged your heart. “I’m going to stay at my parents tonight… we’ll speak tomorrow”.
A part of you longed to comfort him, to apologise over and over and wrap your arms around his waist, burying your head into his neck like you’d done so many times before… but you couldn’t.
Today was different. So that small part of you watched in horror from the inside when you scoffed, eyes devoid of any emotion as Namjoon left your marital home with an unspoken finality settling between the two of you.
You just stood there… in the foyer of your home. The wicked part of you remained unfeeling but the part of you that still loved your husband, uneasy as the tense air failed to dissipate.
You couldn’t take it anymore… if he wasn’t going to stay in this home. This cursed place which had, for a long time, been completely devoid of any joy or love. Why should you?
Ignoring the cold night air hitting your bare arms, you got into your car, not bothering to do up your seatbelt. Namjoon and you had this nasty habit of walking out on each other when things got tough…when arguments would get particularly bad… as counterproductive as you realised it was - escaping always made you feel better. And it always took you to the same place.
Hygge. A small coffee shop turned bar that had been around since you were a teenager. You used to come here all the time when you were in high school and college… these days it was one of your few comforts as you fought through your marriage.
Things with Namjoon hadn’t always been so hopeless. You had gone to high school together… though you didn’t actually know him until you met ‘officially’ in college at orientation. Things had happened quickly for the two of you, marrying almost immediately after graduation. You had fallen fast and deep for Namjoon. He liked to joke he’d been in love with you since high school but you knew that was just him buttering you up. Neither of you had ever spoken a word to the other during high school. He was… socially challenged and you had been hopelessly in love with Taehyung. The most popular guy in your very small high school inside an even smaller town.
Taehyung.
You had been so sure you’d spend the rest of your life with him. Until senior year… when you broke up with him. He was moving away to go to university in New York City. You didn’t want to be tied to someone so far away. Last you heard he had successfully launched his first clothing line.
You couldn’t help but wonder what would have happened if you hadn’t broken up with him? Would you have given in and followed him to New York? Would you be married right now? Children? So many what ifs… it was torture.
Pulling up to Hygge you parked in your usual spot. Sat in your usual booth and ordered your usual rum and coke before pulling out your phone… 3 missed calls and 1 text from Namjoon.
You couldn’t bring yourself to read them or call him back, crippled by the fear of what you’d be confronted with. If Namjoon had told you he was sorry you would, without a doubt, return home to him. But if he was announcing that it was truly over… your heart clenched at the thought. You weren’t sure which reality would be worse… and so, ignoring the messages, you scrolled aimlessly, trying to find anything that would distract you.
Maybe what happened next was destiny. Maybe it was second chance. Or maybe it was just the universe’s fucked up way of confronting you with the reality you had always feared most.
No matter which, the events that follow this inexplicable occurrence would only end one way…
Ughhh.
Your head was throbbing, your throat was raw and your tongue felt fuzzy in your mouth.
Ahh familiarity. You knew this feeling too well. You were well and truly hungover.
If it weren’t for the smell of pancakes wafting into your room you wouldn’t have bothered opening your eyes… if it weren’t for the smell you would have remained in blissful ignorance for a little while longer. But temptation, and curiosity at the thought of Namjoon cooking - he who couldn’t boil water, got the better of you.
The smell was familiar, cinnamon and honey.
You could have sworn it smelt exactly like the pancakes your mother would make for you every Wednesday before school.
Opening your eyes, you blinked until the blurry sleep left and you were faced with, in all of its glory, your childhood bedroom.
Last you remembered your dad had told you he cleared most of your old belongings from the cramped room but as you sat up and looked around you found yourself face to face with all of your old posters, of celebrities you had worshipped and pictures of you and your high school friends. Confusion clouded your mind as you set off downstairs, looking for answers.
“Good morning sleepy head. You’re gonna have to eat these quick or you’ll be late”
. Your mothers soprano voice filled the space as you entered the kitchen and took a seat at the table. Thats when you knew something was very wrong… dread gripped your heart as you realised you were dreaming. You had to be dreaming.
Your mother had lived in a care home for the past 2 years… and she barely recognised you anymore. When shutting your eyes and willing yourself to wake up didn’t work you took a closer look at the woman in front of you, as she placed a stack of oddly familiar fluffy pancakes in front of you. It was definitely your mother. But younger. Less weathered. Her eyes were bright, shining and full of love… not the hopeless loneliness you had become accustomed to recently.
“Mom?” You spluttered. “Come on silly! Eat up and stop looking at me like I’m a complete stranger! Whats going on?” Her beautiful face contorted into concerned frown, her youthful hand reaching across the table to touch yours but you pulled back… afraid.
This was a dream. You had already grieved the loss of your mother… don’t get attached.
It’s. Just. A. Dream.
You coughed, finally finding your voice again.
“Late?” You asked.
“Gosh, I knew you were never a morning person but really, Y/N, you need to wake up!”
Your mother paused before letting out an exasperated sigh.
“You know, late for school, that thing you have to do five times a week!! So eat and get dressed before I send you off in your pyjamas!” She playfully jibed and you allowed yourself to take a second to bask in her warmth… something you had missed.
The atmosphere she had always created was something you had cried about many times at night, longing to feelagain, while Namjoon tried to soothe you in his arms.
Namjoon.
You were almost thankful for this long dream… you didn’t want to wake up and face reality just yet.
Your mother stood, leaving you to eat but you stood too, abandoning the pancakes you hadn’t tasted in years, following your mother - tapping her lightly on the shoulder to get her attention.
You couldn’t believe how real she felt…
“Whats wrong hunnie pie? Do you not feel well? I told you to put on a coat before going out last night but did you listen to me? No. You’re too busy chasing that boy arou-”. You wrapped your arms around her suddenly, unable and unwilling to stop yourself.
Your head fit just under her chin and as she began to rub your back in soothing circles you breathed in deeply. Vanilla and blossoms… a smell so sweet and familiar but… it made your heart break for your mother all over again.
“I missed you mom…” your voice was thick with emotion as you clung to your mother even harder. “Oh baby… What do you mean?”
. You shook your head.
“Y/N… whatever it is… you can tell me? Is it school? Is it Taehyung? Did he?”
“No” you croaked out “I just… I love you mom”.
She gently laughed and rocked you gently, side to side, in her arms.
“I love you too Y/N. Now. Lets stop this nonsense and get you to school okay? I’ll even give you a ride”
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You nodded, eyes clenched shut, preparing for the dream to end yet still unable let go of her, arms wrapped around her like a vice.
God, you missed this.
You were in disbelief. The car journey from your house to the high school was not a short one by any means and you had fully expected to have woken up by now. Instead you listened as your mother filled the silence with meaningless chatter about your upcoming exams and your plans for college.
None of this mattered. You had already lived this. You had finished high school. Gone to university and graduated already. But you stayed quiet.
You’d never experienced ‘lucid dreaming’ but you could assume that thats what this was.
Everything was so real. The way your childhood home looked new, no sign of paint cracking or floorboards coming up. The smell of your moms car was overwhelming with the cotton scent diffusers she always loved. Little things that you had even forgotten about like your dad slipping some money into your rucksack that morning, while your moms back was turned.
How your subconscious managed to conjure up these details and memories that you had long since forgotten about you had no idea. But in the moment it had made you happy. The warm comfort of your parents had faded away as you’d gotten older. You had made less of an effort to see them - even more so when your mother began to deteriorate.
At the time you had told yourself it was because you couldn’t bare to see them like that. You mother lost and your father lonely without her but living in your dreams reality had made you realise that while that may have been the goal - you had failed to remember the parts of them that you had longed to hold onto anyway.
You made a silent pact that when you awoke you would make it right… you only hoped it would be possible.
Ahh high school.
It’s funny how the thing you used to loathe so much as an adolescent had become the part of your life you wished to reclaim. Much like your parents home, the unkempt school was born again. As your mom parked the car you stared ahead at the bright red bricks with white and purple school banners adorning them. Everything was exactly the way you remember from your past. Nothing was broken or ruined. It was all shiny and new.
“Have a good day sweetie” You felt your moms hand squeeze your shoulder lovingly as she prompted you out of the car.
Well, you thought, if this dream is going to go on for much longer… better take advantage of it.
At least, before you wake up and have to face reality.
“Bye mom” you hesitated as you stepped out of the car “I love you”.
“So, did you do it?” Ade asked.
It had, at first, taken you by surprise to see your lifelong best friend standing at your side, 18 years old again. But you reminded yourself not to freak out like you had with your mom. This was just a dream. A fucking long one but a dream nonetheless.
Now you were standing at your locker - which Ade opened for you as she told you off for forgetting your code again. Apparently it was your birth year and the adult inside of you cursed your 18 year old self for being so naive. Everyone knows you don’t use your own birthday.
“Do what?” You replied, studying the timetable stuck to the inside of your locker… you had math first. You hated math. Maybe you’ll wake up soon… you could only hope.
But just in case you didn’t, you pulled your math book out of your locker.
“You know?” She pressed vehemently under her breath “Did you break up with Tae? You did meet him before school right?”
“Ah fuck! Watch it Y/N”.
You had dropped the book onto Ades foot.
“I’m sorry” you mumbled, picking it up again and shaking your head trying to clear your mind “What did you say?”.
“Did you do it?”
“No…”
“What!” She shouted before looking around the hall sheepishly and returning to a hushed whisper “Did you change your mind? He’s still moving away after graduation right?”
Thats when you remembered. Today was the day you broke up with Tae. Ade and you had planned it so thoroughly on Friday the week previous. You had decided to do it on Wednesday for a number of reasons. It would give you a few days to come to terms with losing him and you could use Monday and Tuesday to distance yourself from him in school to lessen the blow. Wednesday was the day you had the least classes with him…just math. | So you had decided you would meet him in the morning and skip first period so neither of you would be faced with seeing the other for at least a day.
And in your real life that had worked. The break was clean and easy. Tae understood your reasons and although you didn’t remain friends there was never anything malicious between the two of you.
But you hadn’t broken up with Tae. You spent the morning blissfully unaware and basking in your mothers presence…however real it may have been.
Unless….
“I gotta go” you said to Ade, ignoring your friends protests was you walked away from her, making a beeline for the bathroom and shutting yourself into a stall.
In Hygge you had wished over and over to be returned to this time… and that was the last thing you could remember…
Where you really here? Or is this just a fucked dream fuelled by your weepy bullshit at the café?
You shut your eyes tight and pulled your knees to your chest hoping. Hoping this wasn’t real.
Hoping it was?
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We all have a person whom we loved dearly, but due to certain problems in life, they cannot be with us. If you also have lost love and want to work on getting the affection back, then you should consider taking the help of a vashikaran specialist. You can ask them how to bring a lost love back and get complete information about how you can work on improving the function of someone close to you. Everyone wants to be loved by the person on whom they have a crush on and with the help of an expert you can get specific solutions for it.
Is it really possible to get your love back with just a spell?
This is one of the most asked questions by every client as they wonder whether vashikaran spell can help them. Well, there are thousands of people who got the benefit of these vashikaran mantras and are living a happy married life. You can consult the experts about how to get lost love back by dua, if you want and then take the help of a vashikaran specialist so that he can help in making amend in your relationship.
You can find out about different types of vashikaran mantra that will show you positive results. If you still have questions like how to get a lost love back spell, then an expert can help you to find the perfect results. With the help of a vashikaran specialist, you can enjoy a great time and avoid various major issues.
Can vashikaran mantra make my ex fall in love with me?
If you just got out a serious relationship and wants to get the love of a partner back, then it might take a lot of effort. As you already know that the breakups can be heartbreaking, and some people are just not ready to get back. That is why you have to use something effective and powerful, which can swear them to get in a bad relationship with you. If you want your girlfriend to fall in love with you, then you should use powerful vashikaran mantras.
With the help of vashikaran specialist, you can learn how to get back lost love tips and avoid various major troubles, which can prove quite helpful. This will help you to learn specific things that can make a partner fall in love with you. It is essential that you have some patience as it will depend on your partner’s affection toward you. That is why you should make sure to follow all the methods properly. If you want to see the best results, then you have to use the vashikaran mantra properly.
How horoscope can help in understanding the issues behind your breakup?
To understand how to get back lost love vashikaran, you need to get information about different things. It is essential that you check out all the things that can help you to work on a relationship. As you already know that the vashikaran specialist has a lot of reputation in this field. They can help you to understand the different mantra that can help you to gain the affection of your partner. If you really think that you can get back with your ex-love, then you should talk with an expert and get their help to learn specific mantras.
By comparing your horoscope, an expert can provide you certain details about your life. For this, the position of sun and moon at your birth time will help them to gain specific data. With the help of a horoscope, you will find whether your relationship will remain strong or not. This is one of the reasons why in Indian culture horoscope has a lot of importance as parents compare the horoscope of both the partners to check if they are compatible or not.
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What to do if your partner is in another relationship?
There are multiple methods that you can help you to understand how to get back your lost love in Islam. As you already know that in India marrying a perform from different religions is not acceptable. Sometimes the couples have to cut ties with their family to marry each other. Our society is still hesitant about accepting love marriages and getting married to a girl or boy from another culture is still considered taboo.
Love is one of the things, on which we do not have any control. When you fall in love with someone, then you are ready to sacrifice anything for them. If you want to marry your partner, then you have to convince your parents about it. For this, you can take the help of a vashikaran specialist who can help you to learn various mantras or you can learn how to get lost love back with black magic. By using a specific type of vashikaran mantra can help you to resolve major problems.
How long does a vashikaran mantra take to shows its effect?
By worshipping to Lord Shiva can help you to gain the affection of your partner. In Hindu culture, when a girl worships to Lord Shiva, they can get a suitable partner. Such beliefs are based on Hindu Mythology and you can find millions of women praying to the god. If you also want to marry your lover, then you can follow a specific vashikaran mantra that will help you to gain positive results.
Some people might not know how to worship properly and this can be one of the reasons why you are not getting good results. By taking the help of a vashikaran specialist you can learn how to worship lord shiva to get lost love back. It is essential that you are ready to perform some rigorous steps. If you want to get the blessings of Lord Shiva, then you need to show that you really care. By performing some special mantras enchantment, you can get good results.
Are there any specific precautions for using the vashikaran mantra?
One thing that you need to realize is that the vashikaran mantra also has some drawbacks. If you do not perform the vashikaran mantra properly then it will show you negative results. That is why it is always advised for you to take the help of an expert vashikaran specialist. You need to make sure that you follow all the things mentioned by an expert properly so that there are no issues when you use the vashikaran mantra. It should be enchanted a certain number of times. You should keep the count of the number of times that you can chant the vashikaran mantra.
If you want to get answers for how to lost love back, then you have to talk with a vashikaran specialist. An expert can help you to find all the answers that you’re looking for. Every relationship ends on different terms sometimes the couples end their relationship on mutual terms. There are cases when one might have regrets of breaking up with their partner, and if you want to get the lost love back, then you should consider taking the help of a vashikaran specialist for it.
Get a Desirable Results with the help of a specialist
One thing that you can get complete assurance about when you take the help of a vashikaran specialist is that you will get desirable results. A vashikaran specialist has experience of working on different types of marriage issues. With their experience, you can surely avoid any major issues and work on improving your married life. Some couples might not be happy due to specific problems and a vashikaran specialist can help you to get perfect solutions for it. So you should make sure that you get all the required information from the experts.
What are the services you can get from the vashikaran specialist?
When you contact the vashikaran specialist, then you can ask about all the services offered by them. It will help you to get an idea about how we can help you with your relationship. An expert will always be available to ensure that you resolve any major conflict in your relationship. So here are some of the services that you can expect from a vashikaran specialist.
· Ready to help you with various issues – When you contact an expert to learn how to get a long lost love back, then you do not have to worry about anything. The expert is ready to help you with any type of problems in your relationship. This way you can get the convenient results and ensure that there are no troubles with the help of the vashikaran
· Experienced to deal with any problems –The experts have a lot of experience in dealing with various types of problems in a relationship. You can gain significant knowledge about how to bring your lost love back and then start to walk on making amends with your partner.
· Guide you to work on your marriage –Sometimes all we need is a guide who can help us to make a way to our final destination, and an expert can help you with it. You can get complete information regarding how to get back lost love by prayer and ensure that you do not face any more problems in life.
These are some of the services that you will definitely expect from a professional vashikaran specialist. Nowadays you can contact them over the phone and get their suggestions. If you think that the vashikaran mantra is not showing its effect, then you can learn the reasons for it from the experts.
So these are all the things that can help in resolving your issues with your marriage life. Every person faces troubles in their relationship multiple times. If you want to enjoy a happy and satisfied marriage life, then you should definitely take the help of experts. There are various things that can have an impact on your marriage and with the help of experts, you can resolve them. A vashikaran specialist can provide you a list of all the vashikaran mantra that can help you. It is essential that you perform the best mantra to get perfect result otherwise it can cause a lot of problems.
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Salam, the guy I like is engaged to someone else and I am heartbroken. When Will it be my turn? I am so ugly and fat
Walaikum Assalaam
Marriage is something that will happen when Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala wills. It doesn't matter how you look if Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has written something for you then you will get it. I have seen many beautiful sisters but they are facing problem in getting married. Marriage will happen when Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala wills. It's just matter of time. Pray to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala that He grant you a righteous spouse who will be the coolness of your eyes.
If you are fat but healthy then that's good. Love yourself. But if you are not healthy then better to lose weight because those who have higher BMI; they are at greater risk of having diseases. If you make the intention to lose your weight so you can worship Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in a more better way then you will get the reward as well in shaa Allah.
The best remedy is to keep yourself busy and to be in His rememberace. When you get thought of him seek refuge in Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Fix your prayers and make your relationship stronger with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Think of ways how you can improve your relation with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Help your mother in the house. Be good to your family members. Do activities in your free time. Do dhikr all the time. It will help you in shaa Allah
First we need to attach ourselves to Allah then we can easily detach from others. We need to balance the love of Creator and the Creation. Keep the love of the creation in your hand and the love of Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala in your heart that’s difficult to do but with time you will learn. For this we need to make dua and love for the sake of Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala
“Call on your Lord when your heart is brittle, that is a time when it’s in pieces and the Light of Allah can fill the gaps. That is why Allāh is with the broken hearted.”
-Shaykh Hamza Yusuf
“The fastest way to heal a broken heart is to find someone better to love, and love more. Know that sometimes heartbreak happens just to push you to Allah.”
-Yasmin Mogahed
Fix your prayers and ask Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala for the help. Always remember that Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala plans are better than our wishes. Make lots of dua and while asking Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala always say “if it’s good for me” because we don’t know what’s good for us only Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala knows.
“But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah Knows, while you know not.” (Quran 2:216)
Advice from Hadia Alia on moving from a ex boyfriend
“Moving on from an ex-boyfriend can sometimes be very complex. Every situation is uniqe and will require different actions. Here are a few tips to get over him:
Cry. It is ok to cry if you want as it feels better when you let all the emotions out instead of keeping them bottled up inside you forever.Talk to someone you trust. Sometimes you just need someone to listen rather than offer advice. Even you cannot understand why it happened, talking about it can help you accept that the relationship is over.Get the help you need. A breakup can have serious negative effects on your mental and physical well-being, especially if you find that you are still dwelling on it months later. Breakups have been associated with weakened immune systems and an increased risk of illness. People who have not gotten over a breakup within 16 weeks can even experience physical changes in their brains that reduce their motivation, concentration, and emotions. A therapist can help by listening to you, encouraging you to confront your feelings, and teaching you new ways to do with your pain.Remind yourself to let go. There are variety of behavioral techniques you can try to stop thinking about your ex. All of these techniques rely on your ability to recognize when a thought about your ex enters your mind and to take a specific action to stop that thought from coming back. Remember that these techniques are to be used for obsessive thoughts only! If you have not yet dealt with your feelings and taken the time to grieve, you should not try to suppress your thoughts.
– You can try wearing a rubber band around your wrist and snapping it each time you think about your ex.
– You can write down the thoughts you are having about your ex on a piece of paper and then throw it away.
– You can try a visualization exercise, which requires you to visualize a specific scene whenever a thought of your ex occurs to you. For example, you could think of a stop sign in order to remind yourself that you need to stop what you are doing. If you do this consistently, the association should become automatic.
Focus on taking care of yourself. In order to boost your mood, it’s important to practice healthy habits. Make sure you exercise regularly and get plenty of sleep. Committing yourself to a healthy lifestyle will not only make you feel good, but it may just offer you the escape you need from thoughts about your ex
– Start praying five times. It will help you to regain your positivity and let go of the stress associated with your breakup.
Remember, you are strong and can get over him if you really want to.”
Always remember this:
“No amount of guilt can change the past and no amount of worrying can change the future. Go easy on yourself for the outcome of all affairs is determined by the decree of Allah. If something is meant to go elsewhere, it will never come on your way, but if it is yours by destiny, from you it cannot flee.”
-Umar ibn al Khattab (Radi Allahu Ta’ala Anhu)
On healing broken hearts:
If you are trying to get over a person you can’t be with, treat it like an addiction:
1. Cut yourself off from the drug completely: Cut off all communication and reminders–even if that means blocking numbers, emails, a Facebook profile, and stop checking their Facebook! This is your detox.
2. Replace it with something better: Increase in your thikr (remembrance of Allah) and get closer to Allah. If you aren’t praying your daily prayers, fix that. Pray all and pray on time. Pray qiyam in the last third of the night (just before fajr). Make duaa, tawbah (repentance), cry, plead to Allah. This is your treatment.
(Yasmin Mogahed)
Unlawlful love before marriage…
Ibn al Qayyim al Jawziyyah (rahimahullah) mentions in regards to unlawful love before marriage (i.e. haram sexual relations, or love for someone who you are unable to marry).
“And the cure for this deadly illness (i.e. unlawful love before marriage) is for the person that is afflicted to realise that this love is only due to his/her own delusions and ignorance.
So upon such a person is to first and foremost strengthen their Tawheed and reliance upon Allah, and secondly to increase in worship and busy themselves with it, so much so that they do not have any spare time letting their minds wander and think about their beloved.
And they should call upon Allah to protect them and save them from this evil, just as Prophet Yusuf called upon Allah and he was saved. And they should do as he did, be as he was, in terms of ikhlaas (sincerity) and remembering Allah in abundance.
This is because if the heart is filled with ikhlaas for the sake of Allah, there will be no space left for any unlawful love to be present, rather this only happens to a heart that is empty and has no ikhlaas whatsoever.
And let such people remind themselves that whatever Allah has decreed for them is only in their own best interests, and when Allah commands something it is never to cause harm or misery to His slaves.
And let them also remind themselves that their unlawful love does not benefit them, neither in this world or the hereafter! As for this world then they will be so preoccupied with their love that it will cripple them and will cause them to live in a fantasy world. And as for the hereafter then it will cause them to be preoccupied with the love of the creation instead of love for the Creator!
These people need to be reminded, that the one who is submerged in something will never see it’s ill effects, neither will the person who has never experienced such things. The only people who will be able to relate to them are those who have experienced the same thing but have been saved. Such people can look back and realise how evil it is.”
Recite Astaghfirullah as much you can.
Following are some dua for marriage:
1.“Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.“ (Quran 25:74)
2.”Rabbana aatina fi’d dunya hasana wa fi’l aakhirati hasana wa qina `adhab an-nar.” [O Lord! Grant us good in this life, and good in the next, and save us from the torment of the Fire] (Qur’an, 2: 200). Recite this dua’ with the intention of marriage as it is included in the phrase “fi’d dunya hasana” (good in this life).
3.My Lord, do not leave me alone and You are the best of inheritors. (Surah al-Anbiya` 21:89)
I hope it will be helpful. May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala guide us all to the straight path. May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala grant you a righteous spouse who will be the coolness of your eyes.
Allahumma Ameen
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I’ve been doing this survey on New Year’s Eve for thirteen years, which is HALF MY LIFE, and I need to go sit down now.
1. What did you do in 2017 that you’d never done before?
Officiated a wedding, crocheted a shawl, got a joint membership to something with somebody (the New York Botanical Gardens, truly the highest level of commitment before marriage), marched for my beliefs, called my elected officials on a regular basis, got a promotion, genuinely did not give one shit if my dad’s family figured out my sexuality, etc.
2. Did you keep your new years’ resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
My sole New Year’s resolution, as usual, was about how many books I wanted to read. I chose 100. I read 103.
In the new year, I (please hold on to your hats) want to read less, only so I can write more. It’s been a while now since I graduated from the MFA program. I want to go back to the work I was learning to do and keep doing it. That was the point: to keep doing it.
I always want to learn to be more comfortable with not being in control, which might actually take me the rest of my life, but I might as well start sometime.
3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
No, though I know of lovely people who had equally lovely babies! Just, you know, not babies I know very well.
4. Did anyone close to you die?
No. People got sick but recovered, and I am so grateful for that.
5. What countries did you visit?
I did not leave America for the...fourth year running? It’s a bummer.
6. What would you like to have in 2018 that you lacked in 2017?
Money that I am not actively setting on fire, and more room in this apartment.
7. What date from 2017 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
August 5: my best friend got married. I remember this on account of how I officiated, and also on account of it was one of the loveliest days of my life.
September 9: I had dinner at the American Girl Café, which I will not stop talking about until I am literally dead.
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
I got a therapist!!!
9. What was your biggest failure?
I was a real dick to myself. And I��m still very bad at emailing people back in a timely fashion. As far as society is concerned, the latter is a graver sin.
10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
A bunch of weird bruises and scabs from being too clumsy to live, plus a pretty nasty cold or two. And I guess mental illness more or less constantly. But I think I am okayer now, and was okayer all this year, than I have been for a long time.
11. What was the best thing you bought?
G and I went halvsies on a Nintendo Switch! I’m real bad at Mario Kart 8 Deluxe! But I guess love is being real bad at something in front of someone and not caring.
Also: plane tickets to Cleveland and Chicago, bus tickets home, yarn for my mother’s Christmas shawl, a new phone because that means my dad has inherited my old phone and we can send each other emoji-filled texts now.
12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
Everyone who put up a good fight. The friends who hugged and fed me. G, for riffing off my bad jokes with his own bad jokes for another whole calendar year. My parents, for everything. The McElroy brothers, for making me laugh every time I needed to.
13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
The government? Evangelical Christianity? Lani Sarem? In no particular order?
14. Where did most of your money go?
Transportation to other cities and mental healthcare. Holy hell am I glad that I now see a therapist who does not cost $$$$$.
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Karen’s wedding!! Seeing Welcome to Night Vale live!! Making things to keep people I love warm!! The 5 Boro Bike Tour!! Switching to a shampoo that makes my dry hair less dry and therefore more acceptable in polite society!!
16. What song will always remind you of 2017?
“New Rules” by Dua Lipa, no contest.
17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
i. happier or sadder? Happier. Angrier. More willing to put up a fight.
ii. thinner or fatter? The same, I think, because we can’t afford an animator to redraw my sprite and I guess the series is going to be using this model until further notice.
iii. richer or poorer? Poorer. Woof.
18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
Being honest about what I needed. Wearing a scarf instead of pretending I wasn’t cold. Watching Netflix, because now it’s almost 2018 and I still haven’t seen Stranger Things or Bojack Horseman and the entire zeitgeist has left me behind.
19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
Worrying (about whether I am secretly the most unbearable person alive/about what my face is doing/about spending too much money/about what I should be doing with my life/about whether or not I am literally about to die, which, so far so good), though that is kind of a tall order.
20. How will you be spending Christmas?
I went home and spent December 25th at my grandma’s, where I was very cold and also very happy to be with my family. For Julian calendar Christmas, I think I am going to see family in Connecticut, and I haven’t seen them since I was 12, so this could be great AND/OR very awkward. Say a prayer.
21. Did you fall in love in 2017?
Stayed in it. Bought a time-share in it. Built a house in it.
22. How many one-night stands?
I’ve been having the same one-night stand for two and a half years, am I doing this wrong?
23. What was your favourite TV program?
I watched little to no TV this year, but I did really like the one episode of My Brother, My Brother & Me I saw! If we’re counting Youtube channels, I would like to give an award to Geography Now! for being the glue that bonds my parents and my boyfriend.
24. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
Honestly, I don’t think so. 2017 is the year of smoldering resentment. I’m too tired to hate anybody extra.
25. What was the best book you read?
Oh geez. Lincoln in the Bardo was way up there. And Version Control. Also Shrill, and Her Body and Other Parties, and maybe a dozen more, but I’m trying to finish this before midnight (in five hours), so let’s stop there.
26. What was your greatest musical discovery?
This was not a year in which I listened to much music! That was weird. So I can’t say I really discovered anything; however, I certainly continued to be grateful for Ween.
27. What did you want and get?
A subscription to New York Magazine. Listen, it’s the little things. (Also, a raise.)
28. What was your favourite film of this year?
Thor: Ragnarok is the most profoundly bisexual movie I have ever seen. I would also like to nominate the trailer for A Wrinkle in Time, even though the movie is not out yet. It’s just that the trailer is very important to me.
29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I turned 26! And my birthday just happened to fall on one of the dates of Welcome to Night Vale’s spring tour, so I went to the Bell House with G. There’s a doofy photo of us on Facebook looking pleased with ourselves on the train, and I treasure it.
30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
I’m getting word that everybody else already submitted “a different president,” so how about...a rug in my living room that isn’t white? Come on, Past Nina. Who did you think you were? That kind of hubris is unbecoming, and we’re all paying the price now.
31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2017?
“Thanks, I Love Cardigans.”
32. What kept you sane?
Podcasts, crocheting, calling my mom to vent my spleen, and therapy (if you want the literal answer).
33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
Oscar Isaac is a beautiful man, and St. Vincent is my queen.
34. What political issue stirred you the most?
[tense, angry silence; in the distance, thunder and a horse’s whinny]
35. Who did you miss?
Everyone. All the time. Especially my parents.
36. Who was the best new person you met?
Who did I meet this year? It’s been a decade since January. The new tenants at the office are pretty delightful, and my first bonding activity with my roommate E was going with her and G to the Women’s March. (We three are the best apartment you know.)
37. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2017:
It’s okay if you aren’t okay.
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What kind of dua should I make to forget someone? 1.5 yrs ago someone and I wanted to get married, but his family got in between us because I'm not the same ethnicity. They forced him to marry someone else and he did. Idk if hes actually forced, but what I know is people fight for who they love. Yet even with all this, I can't forget him. I truly loved him from the bottom of my heart and was excited to spend my life by his side. I have one good day and then a million bad ones. What should I do? I know people will say "you shouldn't have gotten attached to someone not mahram" but they forget that people love, it's not always attachment.
Assalamu Alaikum,
The best remedy is to keep yourself busy and to be in His rememberace. When you get thought of him seek refuge in Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Fix your prayers and make your relationship stronger with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Think of ways how you can improve your relation with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Help your mother in the house. Be good to your family members. Do activities in your free time. Do dhikr all the time. It will help you in shaa Allah
First we need to attach ourselves to Allah then we can easily detach from others. We need to balance the love of Creator and the Creation. Keep the love of the creation in your hand and the love of Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala in your heart that’s difficult to do but with time you will learn. For this we need to make dua and love for the sake of Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala
“Call on your Lord when your heart is brittle, that is a time when it’s in pieces and the Light of Allah can fill the gaps. That is why Allāh is with the broken hearted.”
-Shaykh Hamza Yusuf
“The fastest way to heal a broken heart is to find someone better to love, and love more. Know that sometimes heartbreak happens just to push you to Allah.”
-Yasmin Mogahed
Fix your prayers and ask Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala for the help. Always remember that Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala plans are better than our wishes. Make lots of dua and while asking Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala always say “if it’s good for me” because we don’t know what’s good for us only Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala knows.
“But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah Knows, while you know not.” (Quran 2:216)
Advice from Hadia Alia on moving from a ex boyfriend
“Moving on from an ex-boyfriend can sometimes be very complex. Every situation is uniqe and will require different actions. Here are a few tips to get over him:
Cry. It is ok to cry if you want as it feels better when you let all the emotions out instead of keeping them bottled up inside you forever.Talk to someone you trust. Sometimes you just need someone to listen rather than offer advice. Even you cannot understand why it happened, talking about it can help you accept that the relationship is over.Get the help you need. A breakup can have serious negative effects on your mental and physical well-being, especially if you find that you are still dwelling on it months later. Breakups have been associated with weakened immune systems and an increased risk of illness. People who have not gotten over a breakup within 16 weeks can even experience physical changes in their brains that reduce their motivation, concentration, and emotions. A therapist can help by listening to you, encouraging you to confront your feelings, and teaching you new ways to do with your pain.Remind yourself to let go. There are variety of behavioral techniques you can try to stop thinking about your ex. All of these techniques rely on your ability to recognize when a thought about your ex enters your mind and to take a specific action to stop that thought from coming back. Remember that these techniques are to be used for obsessive thoughts only! If you have not yet dealt with your feelings and taken the time to grieve, you should not try to suppress your thoughts.
– You can try wearing a rubber band around your wrist and snapping it each time you think about your ex.
– You can write down the thoughts you are having about your ex on a piece of paper and then throw it away.
– You can try a visualization exercise, which requires you to visualize a specific scene whenever a thought of your ex occurs to you. For example, you could think of a stop sign in order to remind yourself that you need to stop what you are doing. If you do this consistently, the association should become automatic.
Focus on taking care of yourself. In order to boost your mood, it’s important to practice healthy habits. Make sure you exercise regularly and get plenty of sleep. Committing yourself to a healthy lifestyle will not only make you feel good, but it may just offer you the escape you need from thoughts about your ex
– Start praying five times. It will help you to regain your positivity and let go of the stress associated with your breakup.
Remember, you are strong and can get over him if you really want to.”
Always remember this:
“No amount of guilt can change the past and no amount of worrying can change the future. Go easy on yourself for the outcome of all affairs is determined by the decree of Allah. If something is meant to go elsewhere, it will never come on your way, but if it is yours by destiny, from you it cannot flee.”
-Umar ibn al Khattab (Radi Allahu Ta’ala Anhu)
On healing broken hearts:
If you are trying to get over a person you can’t be with, treat it like an addiction:
1. Cut yourself off from the drug completely: Cut off all communication and reminders–even if that means blocking numbers, emails, a Facebook profile, and stop checking their Facebook! This is your detox.
2. Replace it with something better: Increase in your thikr (remembrance of Allah) and get closer to Allah. If you aren’t praying your daily prayers, fix that. Pray all and pray on time. Pray qiyam in the last third of the night (just before fajr). Make duaa, tawbah (repentance), cry, plead to Allah. This is your treatment.
(Yasmin Mogahed)
Unlawlful love before marriage…
Ibn al Qayyim al Jawziyyah (rahimahullah) mentions in regards to unlawful love before marriage (i.e. haram sexual relations, or love for someone who you are unable to marry).
“And the cure for this deadly illness (i.e. unlawful love before marriage) is for the person that is afflicted to realise that this love is only due to his/her own delusions and ignorance.
So upon such a person is to first and foremost strengthen their Tawheed and reliance upon Allah, and secondly to increase in worship and busy themselves with it, so much so that they do not have any spare time letting their minds wander and think about their beloved.
And they should call upon Allah to protect them and save them from this evil, just as Prophet Yusuf called upon Allah and he was saved. And they should do as he did, be as he was, in terms of ikhlaas (sincerity) and remembering Allah in abundance.
This is because if the heart is filled with ikhlaas for the sake of Allah, there will be no space left for any unlawful love to be present, rather this only happens to a heart that is empty and has no ikhlaas whatsoever.
And let such people remind themselves that whatever Allah has decreed for them is only in their own best interests, and when Allah commands something it is never to cause harm or misery to His slaves.
And let them also remind themselves that their unlawful love does not benefit them, neither in this world or the hereafter! As for this world then they will be so preoccupied with their love that it will cripple them and will cause them to live in a fantasy world. And as for the hereafter then it will cause them to be preoccupied with the love of the creation instead of love for the Creator!
These people need to be reminded, that the one who is submerged in something will never see it’s ill effects, neither will the person who has never experienced such things. The only people who will be able to relate to them are those who have experienced the same thing but have been saved. Such people can look back and realise how evil it is.”
I hope it will be helpful. May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala guide us all to the straight path. May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala grant you a righteous spouse who will be the coolness of your eyes.
Allahumma Ameen
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