#GET A GRIP PEOPLE
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Heteroesque people entering poly spaces and giving us a bad name by looking for unicorns. -.-" smh
I don't know why this keeps happening but I keep meeting toxic heterosexual couples who experiment with polyamory and are heavily into funko pops, board games, Disney princesses and Burlesque stripping and the man is always a withdrawn bearded dude and the woman is always a passive aggressive control freak with an Etsy shop that sells lawn gnomes styled after Dr Who characters and they don't really even seem to like each other but they're always exactly the same. this has happened four times
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Lin Manuel Miranda: Heâs everywhere but no one really likes him. People think heâs selfish and annoying. A little shit
Hermes: ALSO everywhere but no one really likes him. People think heâs selfish and annoying. A little shit
Everyone: WHY IS LMM IN THE SHOW, NO ONE WANTS HIM HERE
Listen buddy, you wanted accurate casting-
#he fucking ATE okay? him mumbling the song immediately brought me in#iâm gonna say it#that resting scowl in the elevator like heâs not holding Medusaâs head in a box#âyouâre not gonna believe this#JUMP SCARE Melanie calm down#get a grip people#LMM youâre doing amazing sweetie#percy jackson#percy jackon and the olympians#percy jackson and the olympians#pjo#percy jackson the lightning thief#percy jackson tv show#pjo tv show#pjo spoilers#lin manuel miranda
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Oh god even the tiktok girlies have all turned against Oscar lmao
#I open tiktok and get sad song edits of mclaren refusing to implement team orders and shit#get a grip people#untagged
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If the situation had been reversed and sainz had to compromise even one race , these fans would have honored him as the savior for Ferrari, but now that the team principal has come out and said they had to sacrifice one driver 3 times so that the other could get better results obviously , he's evil , that man that everyone is currently talking shit about has brought an actual change in the team for the better , even if isn't perfect yet , we are finally heading in the right direction but some of y'all are too delusional to get that . People are mad at fred because he basically implied that the driver everyone is citing as the next Schumacher has won the last 2 races and a podium because they sacrificed the other driver
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What you clowns look like âum actuallyâing the assault of a gender non-conforming girl
#Donât know about this cause of death business it seems suspicious but either way it doesnât matter lol#being the victim of violence is all fine and dandy unless you die from it#Get a grip people#Getting lost in the sauce of your politics
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How you gonna be gay and transphobic ?
trans people literally started pride and gave us a lot of the rights we have today
#gay#Lesbian#trans#transgender#trans pride#pride#lgbt pride#first pride was a riot#if youâre gay and trans#Grow Tf up#Or if you donât support aces or bis#Or anyone else in the community#Like âweird queersâ or people who microlabel#This community is supposed to be supportive#Not attacking itself from the inside#Get a grip people
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I honestly do not get people getting their knickers in a knot over Prince William and the kids going to see Taylor Swift. Good for them, I bet they had a fab night.
Whether you're a fan of Taylor or not you're really trying to tell me if you had the means to take you kids to something they really wanted to go to you wouldn't do it.
My eight year old niece is a huge Swiftie but there was no chance she was going to get to the concert. So when Taylor was performing in Scotland we watched the concert on Disney + and had our own little party and she had a great time but you can be damn sure if I had been able to take her to it I would have.
Not everything in life is about optics. Let a family who have been having a shit time enjoy themselves.
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baldurs gate 3 has been out for almost 7 months now and there is STILL heavy discourse about ascended astarion LOL
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post itself
false flags
trans/adjacent tags
accessibility features
tumblr live post (thanks for the link, @problemnyatic)
flashing / strobing / lights
unblockable flashing ad
buying ad free
staff @/macmanx guilt trip
list of staff + more issues
#post nuked bc proshippers started insulting people who rbed this and implied partyjockers attempted to Kill staff? it was getting old so#archive links still under the cut if you want and you can rb this from others if you want the og#hint: if you dislike this post or want to debunk parts of it the way to go about it isn't to call people who've rbed it 'disgusting little#fuck ups' that are 'spreading anti shipper lies'#note: this post is and was Not about ship discourse jesus fucking christ proshippers get a grip#also ace discoursers are here too? this isn't about you either?#edit 2: if you send me an anon regarding this post about how im policing discussion or 'don't really want it'#but then stop replying when i answer your ask#maybe that's. not helping discussion?#i nuked this post as people started making up false accusations to smear people staff sniped. aka accusing someone of IRL ATTEMPTED MURDERS.
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if you have to compose a thesis defense before giving your opinion on a song, and preface that by saying whether you like or dislike something is "the least of the discussion" then i'm sorry
you don't really care for the song and you are afraid to just *say that*
it's a pop song about sex
either you're gonna put it in your playlists or dance around to it or it's not your thing - it's not a binding personality test or resume entry
this new trend of listening to stuff because you feel obliged to out of some approach to moral purity or as some kind of "support" or whatever blows my mind
it's the "not reading fanfiction unless it is morally and politically correct" thing taken to the next level
like??????
#one rhing the internet has done is confused people about the difference between#meaningful 'support' and passive consumption equating to tacit moral and social approval#good grief#i'm not gonna 'obligation-listen' to a pop song - or any song#i get that streaming things you maybe don't like as much is a concrete way to help your faves IF YOU WANT TO#but this is entertainment and being worried bc you 'need all of the information' before#you can say whether a song is a bop for you personally is just too bizarre#it's like going to a restaurant and eating a meal but not being willing to say if it was good until#you've read everything online ever written about the restaurant it's staff other people's meals what ex-staff say ...#get a grip people
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On Transmisogyny, Feminism, and the Myth of the 'Baeddel'
This will go well.
#transfeminism#materialist feminism#gender is a regime#sex is a social construct#social constructionism#feminism#lesbian feminism#baeddel#y'all know that you keep circulating blog posts about baeddels by others right#you are defining a strawman and then insisting that trans girls with any feminist subjectivity are defined by that strawman#and yes i used strawMAN deliberately because a lot of this is an exercise in calling us sexist to non-transfem trans people#buried under 70 layers of tumblrspeak#you have just invented âtransfeminaziâ#get a fucking grip
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what type of asks, people shipping them or what?
thankfully not in shipping territory yet, but people just obsess over their friendship too much and whether it's real or fake or whatever. there's also like 5 in my inbox just telling me they look good together, need more photoshoots, need more interviews together â and yes, that's all fine and positive, but im not gonna flood this blog with that
i appreciate everything that comes through my inbox, but please understand why i don't answer everything (especially as there are a few that say the same thing). if there's anything else you want to chat about (regarding the movie ofc), then my inbox is open đ
#answered#get a grip people#pls let me gif in peace#this is the last ill answer on this#hi anon ill answer you in these tags#people arent really being hateful theyre more curious#i guess they read something somewhere and decided to ask me if theyre true or false#as if i know them personally or care hahahaha
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I really wish people on this site would learn how to read the details of things they post about before freaking out about it.
doing this with anything is an awful hit, but god, there are so many youtube accounts that serve as the last existing records of so many dead people's voices. feels especially perverse
#And now people are going to run around panicking that Google's going to delete inactive YouTube Channels#When it says right in the source that it's only ones that haven't posted any videos#Get a grip people#This is how misinformation spreads
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I feel like it shouldn't need to be said, but a relatively faithful adaptation of the source material is actually a very normal and reasonable thing for both an author and that author's fanbase to want. People can sneer about book purists all they want but it's the rare adaptation that surpasses the original, and HotD does not even come close.
#people acting like george is the first author to shit on an adaptation. lol. lmao.#hand wringing like that man is personally wants poor little orphan set designers to lose their jobs#it's clear from his post that he's been lied to ignored and disrespected#throwing the man who gave you this fandom in the first place under the bus for the sake of a mid ass showrunner is insane#get a grip#grrm#hotd critical#anti ryan condal#anti hotd writers
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ngl like chappell roan is gonna disappear one day and everyones going to ":(((( she was so girlypop :(( she was an icon of her time :(( we loved her so so much :( a star gone to early :( " and like its so gonna be everyones fucking fault
#chappell roan#i hope she is getting support and love from those around her#maybe people can get a fucking grip#like it was âoh she doesnt care about her europe fansâ when she went to the vmas#now its âshe doesnt care abt queer fans and poc fansâ#its all âi dont get mental health days for my jobâ#Shut the fuck up!!
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first of all, not a fan art. a fan art is derived from another form of art, like an homage to something created by someone else. this is not an homage to the storms.
second of all, does it give the characters a positive look? no right? they're clearing portrayed as evil, depicting the view of the author about the phenomenon, aka: what's happening is not just bad, it's horrifying (it's clearly giving off horror vibes).
and since I'm autistic and I like to babble and being specific, you can't really give genres to the weather, so "yaoi" is not applicable here.
let's summarize: it's not a fan art and it's not yaoi. this is just a drawing that someone drew in order to express their feelings about what's happening, which in my view is: the two storm allied together in their evilness.
art is not just for express good feelings or situation you know?
otherwise, this wouldn't be in a museum and studied in schools.
#imagine making a pool asking if gericault was in bad taste to depict this tragedy#get a grip people
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