#Ftm

[genderqueerdykes]

are/were you a trans man? no? then don't fucking comment on what it's like to live as & be one! you quite literally do not know what it's like to live as one, so don't just guess and make shit up! it's that simple!

[boyfukkr]

godddd i wanna get eaten out so bad. thighs on either side of his head with my fist in his hair. knowing he’s looking up at me but i just can’t bring myself to make eye contact. trying to cover my mouth with my free hand but it really doesn’t muffle anything because my brain is so melted and my body is so sensitive i can’t do anything but grind down onto his face. mmgngngmgmn 🤤🤤🤤

[rokonrrc2]

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I've been seeing a disturbing number of "queer safe spaces" describe themselves as things like "femme & them" and even worse "she+," conflating femininity & nonbinaryhood. cease this immediately. say it with me: nonbinary people are NOT women-lite and it is extremely violent and straight up incorrect to imply that all they/thems are fem adjacent. this is erasure and this verbiage does nothing but make gnc and nonbinary spaces unsafe for masc and male nonbinary people. nonbinary, genderqueer and other third gender people can be and are masculine and men, we can be hes as well as shes and theys, stop allowing yourself and your peers to view nonbinary as woman/femme-lite, signed a butch nonbinary person.

[woofterror]

sad little puppy laying on his tummy with his face pressed into the blankets, trying not to scream while getting fucked over and over, leaving a pathetic little puddle between his thighs, then forced to use a suction toy on his screaming boyclit until he safewords and is cuddled and pet to sleep. heaven on planet earth

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[honorary-twat]

My 19 year old ass, also deeply in denial: I wanna be fem in a gay way lol wat no I'm not trans why would I be?

Fifteen year old me, deeply in denial: Im sure all girls wanna look like that

That:

[oh-archivist]

Back at it... Again lol

[lookinghalfacorpse]

hey i got top surgery (almost) six months ago! felt like posting about my experience in the hopes that it helps others. there's very little about my surgeon online, and if you were like me, you were googling his name and looking for any sort of results photographs. if that's you, i hope this helps. i also hope that being candid about how i look in different lighting/poses is helpful.

my surgery was done by Dr. Isaac James in pittsburgh. him & his team were very respectful and attentive from day 1. despite there being very little information available on dr. james, on my surgery day i learned that i was the 3rd top surgery he did THAT MORNING, so he's very experienced with the procedure.

a couple of random thoughts:

i knew that i might feel differently about my hips after surgery, but i wasn't prepared for just how PROMINENT my hips are now :') they were always my biggest source of dysphoria (and now they're pretty much the Only source), but boy howdy they're bad. be prepared to feel differently about the rest of your torso. having a therapist lined up for the recovery period is always a good idea.

they told me upfront that having some muscular definition in my pecs before surgery helped them line things up, but also that it isn't necessary. i still did some heavy training in the months leading up to surgery, and i think it might've helped with the contouring. obviously my pecs aren't massive and need some work, so don't think you need to be hulked out or anything for good results.

that said, i could be a LITTLE nitpicky about my scar placement. in the photos where i'm flexed, you can see the scar is a good inch below the bottom curve of my pec. i'm hoping that this won't look strange as the scar fades, but we'll see.

if they offer you the nerve blocker shot (& you have the funds for it), take it. i guess it's new to top surgery, but it's a little shot in your back during surgery prep that will numb the area around your chest for about 24 hours, so it helps with pain management. parts of my hands were numb from it, too! the worst pain hit after that shot faded, which for me was about 3am of the first night. i was being stubborn and only took pain killers around 7am. don't be like me- take the damn meds.

you will be very stiff, even after you're approved to return to normal activity. you won't want to sit up straight or lift your arms fully above your head. it'll benefit you to stretch and monitor your posture; doing normal things like reaching high shelves will NOT stretch your scars (after you're approved to do so) (don't push yourself, though) (you'll learn the difference between a healthy stretch & pain)

i was off work for 11 days and felt that was a good amount of time. i originally took off for 8 and called my boss to ask for 1 more day (& the weekend). my drains were taken out during those extra days and i felt pretty normal after they were out.

everyone is right, the drains are the worst part.

[transfemme-shelterdog]

Getting really tired of seeing Tumblr push more and more accounts with transandrophobic takes lately.

I don't wanna see that shit, but if I have to, you'll be sure I'll be calling it out as I see it.

[rokonrrc2]

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for whoever needs to hear this:

starting HRT doesn't have to be a huge momentous all-or-nothing decision. you can just try it like you would an antidepressant you've been informed of the risks of.

there won't be any immediate irreversible changes overnight. you can always stop, change your dose, change your delivery system, decide it's not the right time. you can even microdose if you want to.

you don't have to tell anyone. you don't have to announce it if you don't want to.

stop waiting for a perfect time in your life because it won't come.

stop waiting to reach a mythical level of certainty that never comes to anyone, for anything.

you've been thinking about it long enough. if you have the opportunity, just give it a shot. you're worth the courage it takes to make a change in your life.

[transgenderpolls]

*ie: using exclusively feminine pronouns in english but masculine pronouns in spanish

**ie: using the equivalent of he/she/they in one language but they/he/she in another

[questionable-ftm-passing-advice]

(High school) When in the men's bathroom, offer random guys free haircuts or vape

Do this despite not having scissors or a vape on hand. The key is to trust in yourself.

[punkeropercyjackson]

Yes trans women are women but also trans women are trans.Please stop acting like trans men and enbys are the ultimate say so's of transgender people and that something being transmisogynistic is outweighed by (often white) transmasc/unaligned people liking it

[chibikiiaerid]

Can we say this about ftm too pls 🥺 because this is exactly how I feel as a transmasc ;-;

[pupcuntz]

gonna be so fr chat i just jorked it so hard i ripped my shirt