#FTM dyke

[genderqueerdykes]

you can tell who's actually a part of the lesbian and dyke community and who sits on the sidelines and tries to define these entire identities based off of their own speculation as an outsider. i'm not saying these people aren't lesbians- but when you refuse to actually interact with the broader dyke community outside of your tiny insulated echo-chamber, you are actively refusing to acknowledge how the lesbian community actually functions and behaves

people who think that lesbianism is all about femmes and women are people who refuse to immerse themselves in real lesbian and dyke spaces. masculinity has ALWAYS been a part of lesbianism. there is NO point in queer history where masculinity HASN'T been a big part of the dyke experience. boydykes, studs, bois, bulldykes, male lesbians, ftm lesbians, daddy dykes, testo butches, genderfluid dykes, multigender dykes, masculine agender lesbians, transmasc dykes... these people have ALWAYS been in the lesbian community.

if you believe that lesbianism is strictly about femmes and butches who water down their butchness to mean "androgynous/SLIGHTLY masc woman" for the "safety" of femmes, you have no clue what the lesbian community is actually like and i encourage you to explore the community as a whole, because if you can't handle butches, testo dykes, transmasc lesbians, male lesbians, lesboys, guydykes, studs, bois, bulldykes or any other type of masculine lesbian, you don't belong.

interact with real dykes and lesbians and you'll see masculinity is a permanent, inseparable part of the dyke community. you can't only accept the lesbians you personally like. you also have to accept the ones with identities you don't understand or agree with. you don't have to date butches and male lesbians if you don't want to. you have the right to be attracted to who you're attracted to. but the second you try to exclude these people based off of your own personal tastes, you are committing a grave misdeed to this community by actively participating in the silencing and alienation of masc and male dykes.

you drank the radfem kool aid if you genuinely believe this. this belief stems from the "lesbian separatism movement" in the American 1980s which specifically started to remove butches and transmasc lesbians from the community. if you seriously believe lesbianism is about "EWW NO MEN MEN DNI", hiding from men, hating men, forming "women and non binary spaces only", excluding men and mascs, shaming butches who want top surgery and testosterone, you are not a lesbian: you are a terf, and a radfem. your beliefs don't line up with the real lesbian and dyke communities. you have been brainwashed. this is your sign to wake up.

we aren't standing for this bullshit anymore. we've always been here and your "lesbian means non-men loving non-men" definition of lesbianism is the least historically accurate definition of these terms that you could ever possibly ascribe to them. that definition is factually incorrect and will never be the proper definition. stop defining lesbianism by who we exclude and start defining it by the vast and varied members of our community that we include. our lives depend on it. i don't care if you're not personally attracted to lesboys and testo butches- we belong. it's not about who you're personally attracted to, it's about who feels sapphic, who feels like a lesbian, who feels like a dyke, no matter how they identify. you are not the protagonist of the lesbian community. let go and learn to accept.

[dizzywolfpup]

dom that forces me to top cause im just a dumb puppy who only knows how to hump.. my cunt wasnt made to be used like that, just for belly rubs after master is satisfied with how i mounted him ><

[petshopbutch]

there's something to be said for the "forcemascing a pretty girl into your personal boytoy, teaching her how to wrestle and jerk off like a man" –> "being pinned face down ass up and bred by his strap, begging him to slow down while he calls you a faggot" pipeline and that something is. Please

[wifeeaterbutch]

hehehe reading about something called box theory hehehe

[sydsixx-does-art]

very personal vent art

[transyonic-iv]

im getting reallyyyyy high and stupid btw.. wld probably be really easy to hold me down n take advantage of me... especially since im being such a tease w my lil boytits (any prns)

[puppybot]

reserved for my most favorite characters

[butchdyketoy]

wondering if they’d tie me to a chair while i’ve got my harness wrapped tightly around my hips, a vibrator tucked in between my tdick and the base of the strap so everytime they sink down, it buzzes against my pathetic little cock…

my hands bound behind my back so i can’t do anything but let them use my butch cock as they please, desperate whines and incoherent babbling falling from my spit slick lips due to the unrelenting pressure on my tdick, the sight of them fucking down onto me while they tear me apart with just their gaze…

i wonder if they’d grab my chin in a bruising grip to make me meet their eyes, their hips never stopping the brutal pace they’d set, cooing at me for falling apart so quickly;

“wow pup already? is this really all it takes to get you hard and worked up? yeah? god such an easy slut for me, just my faggy little fucktoy…”

“such a nice cock but too dumb to use it, isn’t that right baby boy? you wanna make daddy feel good so bad don’t you”

“awe i know pup, it’s not your fault my pussy feels so good wrapped around you. nice and warm and tight, meant to take care of your cute little cock hm? god look at you, making a mess just because you finally got a taste of this cunt-”

“you wanna be a good boy and cum inside daddy? yeah? wanna hear you beg for it like the dumb mutt you are first”

thinking about them grabbing the o ring of my collar in the middle of me begging to cum, telling me good boys do what they’re told, “open wide pretty boy, be a good fucking dog and show me that tongue” while they lean forward with my cock still inside them, and spit in my mouth. before my brain has a second to catch up, they shove two of their fingers past my lips and use them to fuck their own spit down my throat, growling out a

“such a fucking whore, getting off to being used like this. show me how much of a pathetic fag you really are baby boy, fucking cum. be a good slut and shoot your load into daddy”

[st-dionysus]

it's nobody's business too police labels and identities for other people but I will say the reason you might be getting backlash for calling yourself a dyke is because it is insensitive to lesbians who do get called that in a derogatory way so it's those people who can reclaim it, it's something that though used interchangeably with lesbian and used as a specific lesbian identity is a reclaimed slur so I think it's something that can and should be used but with grace and understanding for those who are sensitive to it.

I get called Dyke as a slur. I have been beaten and faced SA from and by people who have called me a dyke. I have been called dyke when I was a lesbian and I have been called dyke after coming out as a trans man, because to cis society I am a dirty filthy dyke, to lesbian separatists, I am a traitorous self-loathing dyke.

It is insensitive and transphobic to police the language that trans men have reclaimed. It is insensitive and transphobic to refuse to acknowledge that trans men can come from and still exist in the lesbian community. Furthermore, it is insensitive and transphobic to presume that trans men exist on a binary and that we are unable to have complex relationships with are sexuality and gender. Trans men, having been reclaiming dyke for as long as it has been used a slur. It is not a specific lesbian identity -- it has been used by ALL queer women and ALL transmasculine people, including trans men. When I go to the dyke bar, guess what? They have trans men there. When I got the dyke march, guess what? They have trans men there. There are trans men in every single dyke community space that hasn't been overrun by TERFs, Lesbian separatists, or libfems.

It is only online that I have EVER been told that I am not a dyke, that I can not reclaim that identity, that I should be understating/sensitive of the people who attack me and try and police my gender, sexuality, and identity.

Hell, even the TERFs I've dealt with in person, call me a broken deadbeat dyke, and I've reclaimed that. When someone tells me I'm a dyke while they try to misgender me, whether they're just a run-of-the-mill transphobe or a TERF. Guess what? I get to say "Yes I am, and that doesn't make me less of a man, you don't know me and you don't get to choose who or what I am." And I will tell that to anyone who decides they get to police any aspect of my identity.

I do not owe anyone Tumblr/Twitter an explanation for who not only am, but for who I am accepted as by my community.

I am sorry if the tone of this answer comes off as angry, but I am angry, and I have the right to be.

[pxssyboy]

literally dreaming about a ftm lesbian chaser ><

[genderqueerdykes]

if you hear about lesbian men and instantly jump to taking it in bad faith to assume the worst possible conclusion in your mind, that it means that cishet men can be lesbians, you are catastrophizing, and that is not a healthy response to learning about this knowledge. jumping to the conclusion that your lesbophobic senator now identifies as a lesbian man because we're "allowed men to do that" is catastrophizing, and an unrealistic leap in logic to make.

if cishet men wanted to identify as lesbians, they would already be doing it. cishet men who find lesbian erotica hot are almost always the first ones to tell you how badly they hate irl lesbians and how gross they find us. if cishet men wanted to be lesbians, they already would be.

ask yourself why you didn't consider bigender and multigender lesbians. ask yourself why you didn't consider non binary and genderqueer lesbians. ask yourself why you didn't consider intersex lesbians. ask yourself why you didn't consider trans men who still feel connected to the lesbian community. ask yourself why you didn't consider bisexual people.

you MUST ask yourself: why is my initial reaction to queer identities i haven't heard of before hostility and outrage? why are you instantly taking things you haven't heard of in bad faith? who are you enraged on the behalf of? did anyone ask you to do that? did anyone ask you to stew in rage? is fuming silently alone in your room over something you cannot change helping you?

these are extremely important questions to answer. instead of taking out your outrage on someone else, you must look inward.

if you encounter a bigender wo/man who is a lesbian and think to yourself "well they're a woman so it cancels out their manhood, so they're not a lesbian man they're just a lesbian woman" you are disrespecting that persons identity and misgendering them. if you encounter a genderfluid lesbian who is a man at times, and say "well they're a woman most of the time, so it cancels it out, their manhood isn't a part of their lesbianism," you are disrespecting that person's identity and misgendering them. if you encounter a trans man who is also a lesbian and say "that's not right, trans men can never be lesbians, they're clearly confused/wrong" you are disrespecting that person's identity. you do not have to undermine someone's manhood in order to accept their lesbianism.

why did you choose to instantly jump to the worst possible conclusion (in your mind) and take it in bad faith? to what end? to serve what purpose? to keep the lesbian community "pure"? stop sucking up to rad fems and accept that queer experiences are way more broad than a single sentence descriptor of an identity. queerness does not exist in a vacuum, it is different for every person who experiences it. jumping to assume that lesbian men are "invading" the community is not a queer friendly line of thinking- you are creating an "us vs. them" binary whether or not you realize it.

[monoma-neito]

Young lesbian! You are not alone in your Big Gay Emotions! You are not a predator at the ripe age of 15! You are not unique in falling for close friends or complete strangers! You are not a weirdo for wanting to be physically and emotionally close with women! Attraction to women is not inherently predatory! You are not a gross man simply by virtue of loving women! Please don't think you're a horrible amalgamation for normal emotions!

[stonebutchooze]

people will see this man and say hello young lady

[wifeeaterbutch]

close your blinds tonight

they'll soften n disperse the light

[dizzywolfpup]

lesbians are allowed to grope me btw

[transyonic-iv]

tit bounce... :o (it/they/he) 🖇️🖇️🖇️🖇️