#Couple Kissing

[mradventuremagoo]

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‘Right, so my best friend is aro-ace.

I am not asexual or aromantic, but we still get along well and relate to each other about stuff.

I was hanging out with them today and they asked me what kissing is like, and why people would like it “because it’s basically smashing your faces together.”

And after a while of trying to explain I stumbled upon a metaphor that they said made much more sense than other explanations.

So I thought if there’s any other ace people that have the same question, that this might help.

The metaphor is basically comparing it to holding hands.

So kissing isn’t really smashing your faces together, cuz holding hands is different than doing a high five, yea?

Closed-mouth kissing (just the lips) is like if your hand is resting somewhere and someone puts their hand on top of yours, just kindof softly pressing together, their palm to the back of your hand.

Open-mouthed kissing is like when you’re properly holding hands, palm to palm; and with tongue is like when your fingers are intertwined.

And the more passionate the kiss is, it's congruent to like how tight you're squeezing their hand.

Obviously this won’t make sense for everyone, but I hope it does help anyone who is seeking to understand kissing, whatever reason they may have.

Love y’all! You’re all valid and wonderful! <333

[tk2501]

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xxx

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[wordswithloveee]

[aliters]

[meltingfin1]

Make me your girl

[xxaudreyxhepburnxx]

Oh the things I crave …

[alisasposts]

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xxx

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[theeroticlover]

Mhmm !! Neeed !!!