#BuildingFriendships

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The Essence of Friendship: Building Lasting Connections in a Digital World

Friendship is a fundamental human experience that enriches our lives in countless ways. From childhood buddies to lifelong confidants, friends play an essential role in our emotional, mental, and even physical well-being. In a world that is increasingly connected yet often feels more isolated, understanding the true value of friendship and knowing how to cultivate these relationships is more important than ever.

The Importance of Friends and Friendship

At its core, friendship is about mutual trust, support, and understanding. It’s about having someone who will be there for you in both good times and bad, someone who understands your quirks and loves you for who you are. Here’s why friendship is so vital:

Emotional Support: Friends provide a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, and a source of comfort during life’s challenges. Whether you’re celebrating a success or dealing with a setback, true friends are there to share in your experiences.

Mental Health: Studies have shown that people with strong social connections are less likely to experience depression, anxiety, and loneliness. Friendship acts as a buffer against the stresses of life, offering a sense of belonging and purpose.

Personal Growth: Friends challenge us to grow and become better versions of ourselves. They offer new perspectives, introduce us to new ideas and activities, and help us step out of our comfort zones.

Physical Health: Believe it or not, friendship can have a tangible impact on your physical health. Regular social interaction can reduce stress, lower blood pressure, and even boost your immune system.

Longevity: People with strong social networks tend to live longer, healthier lives. The sense of connection and support that friendship provides is a powerful force in promoting overall well-being.

The Changing Landscape of Friendship

In today’s digital age, the way we make and maintain friendships has evolved. Social media, messaging apps, and other online platforms have made it easier to stay in touch with friends across the globe. However, these digital connections can sometimes feel shallow or lacking in depth. Despite being more connected than ever, many people struggle with feelings of loneliness and isolation.

The key to overcoming these challenges lies in striking a balance between online and offline interactions. While digital tools are valuable for maintaining friendships, nothing can replace the value of face-to-face interaction and shared experiences. This is where platforms like Alyke come into play.

How Alyke Facilitates Meaningful Friendships

Alyke is more than just another social app — it’s a platform designed to help you build authentic, meaningful friendships based on shared interests and values. Here’s how Alyke can help you cultivate and strengthen your friendships:

Connecting Like-Minded People: Alyke’s sophisticated matching algorithm connects you with individuals who share your hobbies, passions, and lifestyle. Whether you’re looking for a workout buddy, a book club companion, or someone to explore new restaurants with, Alyke makes it easy to find friends who truly align with you.

In-App Messaging: Once you’ve made a connection, Alyke’s in-app messaging feature allows you to chat and make plans with your new friends. Whether you’re setting up a coffee date or planning a weekend adventure, Alyke makes communication simple and convenient.

Safe and Secure Environment: Alyke prioritizes the safety and security of its users. With mobile number-based login and verification, you can be confident that the people you meet on the platform are genuine and trustworthy.

Customizable Profiles: Your Alyke profile is your chance to showcase who you are. By highlighting your interests, hobbies, and what you’re looking for in a friendship, you make it easier for others to find common ground with you.

Real-Life Friendship Stories Through Alyke

Alyke has helped countless people find meaningful friendships that have transformed their lives. Here are a few stories from users who have successfully built lasting connections:

Laura from Boston: “I had just moved to Boston for a new job and didn’t know anyone in the city. Alyke connected me with people who shared my love for running and outdoor activities. Now, I have a close-knit group of friends who have made my transition to a new city so much easier.”

Anjali from Bangalore: “I’ve always been shy and found it difficult to make friends. Alyke made it easy to connect with people who share my interests in art and culture. I’ve met some amazing people who have become close friends, and I’m more confident in social situations now.”

Take the Next Step in Your Friendship Journey

Friendship is one of life’s most precious gifts. It’s something that should be nurtured, celebrated, and shared. With Alyke, you have the tools to build and maintain these invaluable connections, whether you’re looking to expand your social circle or deepen existing relationships.

Ready to find your tribe and create lasting friendships? Download Alyke today from the Play Store or App Store and start your journey towards meaningful connections. For more information, visit our website.

In a world where true connections can sometimes feel out of reach, Alyke brings people together, helping you find friends who make life richer and more fulfilling. Don’t miss out on the opportunity to build friendships that will last a lifetime — join the Alyke today.

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[coachkeen1]

Is there ever a positive vibe about a husband/wife after a breakup/divorce?

Certainly! While breakups and divorces can be emotionally challenging and often result in negative feelings, it is possible for a positive vibe to emerge between ex-spouses over time. The healing process differs for everyone, and as individuals navigate their emotions and move forward, they may find a renewed perspective on their former partner.

After the initial pain subsides, some people begin to appreciate the positive aspects of their past relationship. They may reflect on shared memories, acknowledge personal growth that occurred during their time together, or recognize the lessons they learned. This shift in mindset can foster a sense of gratitude and understanding, allowing for a more positive outlook on the past.

It is important to note that achieving a positive vibe after a breakup/divorce requires time, personal growth, and a willingness to let go of resentment. It is not a guaranteed outcome, but it is possible for individuals who actively work on themselves and their emotional well-being. Remember, every situation is unique, and while a positive perspective may emerge, it doesn’t diminish the pain experienced during the breakup/divorce.

If you need help navigating the challenges of a breakup/divorce, seeking professional guidance from a therapist or counselor can provide valuable support and insights.KEEN, as a leading provider in relationship counseling, offers services to assist individuals in rebuilding their lives and finding a positive path forward.

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It was so awesome to spend quality time with some of the great football coaches from Yukon HS yesterday @orangetheorynicholshills . Coach Michael (@map1113) who has been so on fire about Orange Theory and the phenomenal experience he has had since he joined a couple of weeks ago had to share the #OrangeLove with his colleagues. Thanks go out to Coaches Colby, Shane and Cole for coming out and giving it your all (in your beach gear! ) Everyone was able to complete the 12 minute benchmark run, burn crazy calories and earn their first #afterburns. The love of Michael's life, Alyssa (@alyssaaalvarado) joined him for the class as well as Shane's wife Alexandra (@alexandra.schock). Let's welcome Alexandra to the family! You'll probably see Shane with her from time to time as well. GO MILLERS! If you have a group of friends, colleagues or social group that you want to introduce to this life changing experience, DM ME... we can set up a special VIP class for you. It will great for team building, bonding and unity. #WeAreFamily #IAMOTFSTRONG #BuildingFriendships #StrengtheningBonds #MakingMemories #FitFam @orangtheorynicholshills @orangetheoryoklahoma 🤟🏾💪🏾👍🏾🧡🔥🍊🍊🍊👊🏽😃😁 (at Orangetheory Fitness Nichols Hills) https://www.instagram.com/p/CDWqM3unkTw/?igshid=1akc2awuaicau

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Friends are flowers in life's garden! If you were to consider your life a garden, what is growing? What do you water on a daily basis? What are the oak trees that you have nurtured over time and what do you feel you need to remove or trim? Go into a space of meditation or thought, picture yourself pruning weeding or planting and recognise that life itself is a place that is up to your creation... it is only you who can define your reality. . . . #lifesgarden #growandprosper #trees #plants #life #mygarden #friends #gardenmaintenance #lifeisagarden #youcreateyourownreality #yourreality #pruning #lifeslessonsandwisdom #buildingfriendships #repairing #weeding #aussmallbusiness https://www.instagram.com/p/Bymspw-HP9c/?igshid=7vvtra1skz5b

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What are common reasons why women end their relationships?

Understanding the reasons why women end their relationships can be complex, as each individual and relationship is unique. However, there are some common factors that may contribute to the decision to end a relationship. One of the primary reasons is a lack of emotional connection. Women, like men, desire emotional intimacy and when they feel disconnected or unsupported by their partner, it can lead to feelings of dissatisfaction and eventually, the decision to end the relationship.

Another common reason is a breakdown in communication. Effective communication is vital in any relationship, and when it starts to deteriorate, misunderstandings and unresolved conflicts can accumulate over time. Women often value open and honest communication, and when they feel unheard or dismissed, it can lead to frustration and resentment. If efforts to improve communication fail, it may lead to the decision to end the relationship.

It’s important to note that these reasons are not exclusive to women and can apply to individuals of any gender. Relationships require ongoing effort from both partners to nurture emotional connection and maintain healthy communication. If you find yourself facing these challenges in your relationship, seeking professional guidance from a therapist or relationship counselor may be beneficial. Remember, each relationship is unique, and understanding the specific dynamics within yours will be key to finding the best way forward.

KEEN is a leading provider of relationship counseling and guidance. If you need help navigating the challenges in your relationship, our team of experts is here to support you and provide the tools you need for a fulfilling and healthy partnership.

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Things are going well so far in the birdie house. The 3 indoor monsters are getting on ok and just testing others boundaries. Managed to be this snap of them all on the same cage. kinda looks like they're all together don't you think??

[dynamox6]

The Social Circle

Having a rich, vibrant, active social life is good for your mental health. Having a fun, interesting life, full of friends that care about you, enjoy the good times with you, and support you through the bad times makes you less vulnerable to depression, anxiety, stress, and loneliness.

Be aware of the first impression you make. Cultivate the image you project so that is presents the best parts of your personality. Do you want to look like someone who is a nerd, anti-social, unkempt, and boring or someone who is intelligent, ambitious, conscientious, cool, and charismatic? The better first impression you make the easier it will be to sway people to become friends with you.

You have to be a lot more delicate when you are first entering a new social circle. Once the group becomes familiar, comfortable with you, and trusts you, it will be easier to relax, loosen up, and let your personality shine.

Each social circle has it’s own set of social rules that are often implied rather than explicitly stated. It’s best to observe others in the group and figure out what makes them connect and fit in with one another so you learn the do’s and don’ts of a particular social circle.

When building a social circle it’s easiest to befriend people who have common interests, shared goals and mutual respect. This is because it will be easier to find reasons to hang out. For example, when friends want to hang out they usually ask based upon common goals and interests. “Do you wanna golf tomorrow morning? Do you wanna play Axis and Allies before the club tonight? You wanna come workout with me Wednesday evening?”

Another easy way to build your social circle is through social events. When people are going out to social events, they're usually there to have fun and socialize so they will be more open to meeting you versus if you're talking to them during the day when they are working or running an errand. Sometimes, (but not always) people usually have to do something when they are out during the day so they won't be as willing to invest as much time in getting to know you. It is also a good idea to attend social events based upon your personal interests. This is because all the people are there for the same reason, so they already have a built in commonality, which will make starting a conversation and connecting that much easier.

The first month of a friendship or relationship is when patterns and expectations are formed. If you’re not serious or conscientious enough to clarify your expectations or boundaries specifically the other person will often take your patterns of behavior during the first month as a predictor of how they will be treated going forward. It’s a good idea to be methodical in how you’re going to fit this new relationship or friend into your life and not set the bar too high or too low. It’s easy to go up the commitment ladder and harder to climb down once expectations are set. If done properly the other person will often be comfortable enough to stick to the routine without having to even be reminded on a regular basis and will let you know if anything gets in the way of this routine without you having to ask.

To build closer friendships several different factors are important: shared experience, shared time, shared goals, common interest, good emotions, mutual respect, rewarding presence, emotional vulnerability and underlying trust. It's also important to mention investment. The more physically, emotionally, financially, and socially we are invested in a relationship the more we value it because it would incur progressively higher costs to lose the more we become invested.

"However, we will incur a variety of costs by leaving an existing relationship, and they can dramatically affect the net profit to be gained by moving elsewhere For instance, social psychologist Caryl Rusbult demonstrated that one’s investments in a present relationship, the things that one would lose if a relationship were to end, are also important influences on one’s decision to stay or go (e.g., Rusbult et al., 1994). The investments a person leaves behind can either be tangible goods, such as furniture and dishes you have to split with your ex, or intangible psychological benefits, such as love and respect from in-laws and friends (Goodfriend & Agnew, 2008). An unhappy spouse may refrain from filing for divorce, for example, not because she has not other options but because she doesn’t want to accept the potential costs of confused children, disappointed parents, and befuddled friends. All of these would reduce the global desirability of leaving and, thus, reduce one’s CL(alt)." –Rowland S. Miller, Intimate Relationships Sixth Edition

There are three levels of connection:

One, superficial, something that happens to everyone. Like the news, sports, or the weather.

Two, social, something that happens to a particular group, like your classmates, your social circle, or your co-workers.

Three, personal, something that happens only between you and another person. Like confiding secrets, sharing intimacy, or sharing intense experiences.

There are three kinds of people that will enrich your social circle.

First, socially intelligent, outgoing people that have a large group of friends you can integrate with. They will provide the most people to hang out with and more fun activities you can do together as friends when you have some free time.

Second, people that will help you achieve your common interests, goals, and generally make your life easier. If you’re into working out, it could be someone who is a fitness trainer. It could be a bouncer or the owner of a club that helps you get past the line-up. It could be an experienced entrepreneur that will mentor you in how to run a business.

Third, and most importantly, it is someone who gives you good emotions and makes you feel good about yourself.

Ideally, you want to have all three qualities in one person, but beware not to be overly eager to hang out or you will scare them off. Think carefully if ever decide to mix friendship with work and money. The extra strain on the relationship can turn a choice into an obligation and a carefree fun time into a chore. I wouldn't recommend it. It's for emergencies only and even so, you have to know them well enough that you can trust them to not hold it against you if things go sour. Better yet, consider your work and money a gift without expectation of a return if you really want to preserve the friendship. (Why Friendship and Money Don't Mix)

You don’t have to be as overt in demonstrating your good qualities the more integrated you become within a social circle because they will naturally talk about you when you are not around, but this can be for good or ill. So remember to be generous, selfless, making sure people are having a good time when around you and take great care to maintain a positive spotless reputation.

When being introduced to a new social circle by a friend, they can give you a complimentary introduction, which will make it easier to gain inroads towards trust and friendship. Friends trust each other’s judgment so this can make the first encounters much easier and more relaxed on your part.

It is important to reciprocate kind gestures back to friends. It is far more enjoyable to have a mutually beneficial relationship, rather than a one-sided selfish one. Understand that you are far more persuasive if you give before you take.

Don’t be upset if a female tells you “Let’s just be friends.” Female friends usually have other female friends that she can introduce you to and if you put enough care and attention into the friendship so that she knows you’re a cool, awesome guy she will hand her friends over to you on a silver platter.

There are three kinds of people to be careful of when building your social circle.

One, people that are cool, nice, and fun to hang out with one on one, but disrespect you when other people are around to make themselves look better.

Two, dishonest, conniving, friends that use you only for their own selfish ends.

You must confront these people and make them aware of their bad behavior. If they don’t take steps to correct it then, remove them from your social circle. Friendship should be a win-win situation where both people can enjoy themselves, and gain some kind of benefit from the relationship.

Three, socially unintelligent friends who make you and other people uncomfortable in social situations. The social circle will often hold you responsible for the bad behavior of the friends you introduce. It is okay to still be friends with them as long as they make you feel good about yourself and give you good emotions, but you have to be willing to educate them to become more socially intelligent. It will take extra effort to disarm their emotional defense mechanisms, develop their understanding of social boundaries and implicit social rules. You'll have to immerse them in social situations to the point where they learn to be at ease with themselves and others. Developing and introducing a socially intelligent friend will reflect better on you hanging out with them and makes it easier for everyone to enjoy themselves in a social situation when they are around.

The last point I want to make is that there is a big difference between understanding theory and actually putting it into practice. So socialize and socialize often, because it is far more beneficial to gain life experience being social and saying, “This is who I am.” Rather than just reading theory and saying, “I know what I’m doing.”

The more positive reference experiences you have being social in the past the easier it will be for you to believe you are a socially intelligent person and therefore become more confident, natural, and relaxed in social situations. “This is who I am.”

–Dynamox6

Further Resources:

Dealing with Rejection in your Social Circle

Rules for Building A Social Circle

Social Circle Mastery in Context

Investment Momentum

How to Make Your Way Into A Social Circle

How to Develop a Strong, Positive Social Circle and Deal with Toxic People

The 7 Habits of Socially Connected People

19 Ways To Show You Care About Your Friends