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[rasiooid]

Dedie Rachim Minta Menhub Pertimbangkan Pencabutan Subsidi Biskita

  RASIOO.id – Wali Kota Bogor terpilih, Dedie A Rachim meminta Menteri Perhubungan (Menhub), Dudy Purwagandhi dapat mempertimbangkan keputusan pencabutan subsidi untuk Biskita Transpakuan pada tahun 2025 ini. Permintaan ini disampaikan menyusul pencabutan subsidi pada program Buy The Service (BTS) Biskita Transpakuan dirasa sangat memukul program pembenahan sistem transportasi di wilayah Kota…

[befuddled-calico-whump]

I have so much pocket lore

it's all really fun, but it has no bearing on the plot(s) and takes up like 50% of my creating power and most of it will never see the light of day

so anyway reblog this and put some of your pocket lore in the tags

[senisevmiyorumhayatt]

Her şey gibi kendimide zamana bıraktım.

[senisevmiyorumhayatt]

Sırrımız ortaya çıktı. Aslında 10-15 kez okuyoruz fazla değil.

kızlar mesajlaşma bitince mesajları tekrar okuyomuş doğru mu bu

[emmyrosee]

playful reader x nonchalant/angry character is a good way to start the day emmy and you know that. the fact that he cant do anything because that's the love of his life right there.

THATS THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE RIGHT THERE

And he just looks at you with the most dead expression, lazily blinking at you bc he's so tired of your shenanigans, and he sends you a grimace and a sigh when you say something especially feral.

like this morning, when you were holding hands while sitting on the couch, he watches with a confused expression when you lift up his arm, sniff the damn limb, and just when he opens his mouth to ask you what the hell you're doing, you reeled your head back and immediately sunk your teeth into his forearm.

"WHY ME!" He barks, trying his best to yank his arm out of your grip, only for you to tighten your fingers sharply. He snarls in anger and slight pain, "how the hell would you feel if I just went up to you and started biting you, hmm? Made you look like the victim of a feral dog attack-"

"Needs salt."

"What?"

While he ponders what you said, you gently rub your fingers together as if to sprinkle something on his arm. He shakes his head, "no, no no-"

You toss your head back to bite him again, this time putting your whole jaw into the bite. "SON OF A BI-"

"Language," you manage around the wad of... him, in your mouth. The vein in his forehead throbs in annoyance as you finally let him go, smacking your lips together thoughtfully before nodding, "yes. Better with salt." And as if nothing happened, you take your chance in curling into his warm side, snuggling close like you haven't just given him a massive, bruised, bitemark that he now has to think of an excuse for.

He may be the fool, because for how annoyed you make him, he wraps his arm around you and presses a kiss to your head. You purr happily, "I can't wait to gobble you up one day. Just... unhinge my jaw and completely swallow you whole, my cutie pie."

"I'm breaking up with you."

"You're not allowed to," you hum. "It's against the law, actually."

"Oh yeah?" He sighs. "What's the punishment? Because it might be worth it."

You grin up at him, "it's life with me, except no one believes you when you tell them I tickle you awake, bite your arms off, pop blackheads on your nose and pick eye-crusties from your eye."

"... so basically life now?"

"Yes."

"Great," he grumbles, leaning down to bite softly into your neck, secretly relishing in your whiny laughter and weak shoves at his shoulders.

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hq: kageyama, tsukishima, kenma, akaashi, IWAIZUMI, hanamakki, matsukawa, ushijima, SEMI, kita, osamu, SUNA, KIYOOMI, meian

bnha: BAKUGOU, sero, todoroki, SHINSOU

jjk: gojo but in diff font, geto, SUKUNA, TOJI, shiu

tr: mikey, DRAKEN, BAJI, ran, RINDOU

+ ur favesssss

[menyapamentari]

Pernah berada di titik menjadi seseorang yang tidak berguna, tidak pantas dan begitu menyedihkan. Rasanya hanya ingin pergi, hanya ingin berlari, hanya ingin sendiri.

Bila ditanya kenapa sampai seperti itu ? Mungkin kita pun tak tau bagaimana menjelaskan jawabannya. Hanya bisa diam. Dan tetap menjalani hidup.

Pernah begitu takut tidak bisa menjadi sebab bahagia seseorang. Perasa sekali, sampai - sampai jatuh sendiri karenanya.

Rasanya hanya ingin mundur, tidak membebani, dan membiarkan diri hanyut dalam pemikiran diri sendiri.

Kala itu, tahun - tahun dimana usia terus bertambah mendekati kepala tiga namun tak juga terlihat kapan doa - doa perihal pasangan hidup akan terwujud.

Yang ku ingat, sampai pada saat aku memilih berserah, berpasrah pada Allaah bagaimana akan mengaturnya.

Hingga benar, di usia ke dua puluh sembilan bi idznillaahi ta'ala aku menikah, di usia dimana banyak dari teman - teman seusiaku telah jauh lebih dulu berumah tangga.

Nyatanya, bukan tentang siapa yang lebih dulu, bukan pula tentang memaksa Allaah menyegerakan apa yang menjadi pinta, apalagi merasa lebih mengetahui. Nyatanya, waktu terbaik itu Allaah telah mengaturnya.

Dan lantas tak selesai begitu saja, sebab setelah menikah episode kehidupan baru itu dimulai. Sebagaimana kita mengerti, kita akan mengarungi samudera kehidupan, yang ternyata ujian - ujiannya tak seperti saat sendiri bukan ? :')

Namun, sama seperti saat - saat sebelumnya, semoga hari - hari selanjutnya, kita senantiasa berharap pada pertolongan Allaah ya ♡

Jangan sampai merasa mampu melaluinya sendiri. Sungguh, pernikahan itu bukan tentang seberapa angka usia kita. Bersyukur pada setiap fase perjalanan hidup kita ya, semoga dengan demikian hati senantiasa dalam rasa tenang dan rasa cukup.

Laa hawla wa laa quwwata illa billaah.

[awordwasthebeginning]

Noch 41 Tage bis zur Bundestagswahl.

Falls ihr in diesen turbulenten Zeiten nach Möglichkeiten sucht, euch zu engagieren und Gleichgesinnte zu finden, und außerdem schon öfter überlegt habt, euch gewerkschaftlich einzubringen:

Die großen Gewerkschaften in Deutschland sind im Deutschen Gewerkschaftsbund, DGB, organisiert. Dabei handelt es sich um sogenannte Einheitsgewerkschaften, also Gewerkschaften, in denen die politische oder weltanschauliche Überzeugung keine Rolle spielt. (Nichtsdestotrotz haben einige dieser Gewerkschaften Unvereinbarkeitsbeschlüsse z.B. gegenüber einer AfD-Mitgliedschaft, aber ich denke, das wird auf Tumblr niemanden stören.)

Das sind die folgenden acht Gewerkschaften:

Eisenbahn- und Verkehrsgewerkschaft EVG: für alle Beschäftigten in der Verkehrsbranche, von Bus über Bahn bis Schiff. (Nicht zu verwechseln mit der GdL.)

Gewerkschaft der Polizei GdP: selbsterklärend. (Nicht zu verwechseln mit der DPolG.)

Gewerkschaft Erziehung und Wissenschaft GEW: für alle Beschäftigten in Bildung und Wissenschaft, von der Kita bis zur Uni.

Industriegewerkschaft Bauen-Agrar-Umwelt IG BAU: für alle Beschäftigten im Baubereich, Bauhauptgewerbe ebenso wie Floristik oder Gebäudereinigung, in der Land- und Forstwirtschaft etc. etc.

Industriegewerkschaft Bergbau-Chemie-Energie IG BCE: neben Bergbau, Chemie und Energie (inkl. Öl, Kohle, Gas) auch zuständig für Industrie in den Bereichen Entsorgung, Papier, Pharma, Glas u.a..

IG Metall: die größte Einzelgewerkschaft Deutschlands; neben Metall (zB auch Autobau) auch zuständig für Holz, Kunststoff, Textil und IT (die Youtube-Gewerkschaftsbewegung war zB ein Kind der IG Metall).

Die Gewerkschaft Nahrung-Genuss-Gaststätten (NGG): vertritt die Branchen Gastgewerbe, Tabakindustrie und alle möglichen Lebensmittel- und Getränkeindustrien. Außerdem unterstützen sie z.B. Lieferdienst-Fahrende.

Vereinte Dienstleistungsgewerkschaft ver.di: die zweitgrößte Einzelgewerkschaft Deutschlands vertritt Dienstleistende und Angestellte der dienstleistungsnahen Industrie bzw. im Bereich Handel, Bildung, Gesundheit und Kultur, zB auch Postangestellte, Beschäftigte bei Banken und Versicherungen sowie viele Angestellte des Öffentlichen Dienstes.

Wichtig ist:

Ihr müsst nicht berufstätig sein, um Gewerkschaftsmitglied zu werden.

Wenn ihr merkt, dass ihr doch in der fachlich falschen Gewerkschaft seid, ist ein Wechsel innerhalb des DGB kein Problem (z.B. von ver.di zur GEW o.ä.).

Der Gewerkschaftsbeitrag bemisst sich an der Höhe des Einkommens.

Wenn ihr euch nicht sicher seid, welche Gewerkschaft für euch die richtige ist, hilft der DGB euch weiter.

[Hilfreiche Ergänzungen bei Reblogs sind willkommen!]

[kitabearuwu]

Hi Kita!

I love Benmina, and I was tempted to ask for a romantic drawing, but a lot of people hate the fanon idea of them together, so I’ll ask for something more friendly, that way everyone will be able to reblog. Here’s the prompt: Ben and Yaz rocking in the van, air guitaring and air drumming.

Bonus track: also, maybe another drawing with Ben/Brooklynn striking a death metal pose? Pretty please?

Hi hi!!

Gotta be honest, I don’t care what the fandom likes or dislikes when it comes to ships. A lot of ship discourse either starts from homophobes hating the idea of gay people existing OR people who fetishize LGBT ships and refuse to ship anything that is considered “straight” (bi people in straight passing relationships exist but we as a society apparently cannot acknowledge that), and the thing with ship discourse is: it’s all fuckin stupid. It’s a load of baloney.

As long as you’re not shipping problematic stuff, who cares what you ship!! You could romantically pair any of the camp fam members up (except Kenji and Darius..brotha eugh) and I’d say “yup, makes sense!”

I love benmina too both platonically and romantically. Such fantastically written characters. They bounce off of each other super well!!

And for the Ben/Brooklynn one, I have to be so for real…

I don’t know anything about death metal culture 😭

So I drew them serving cunt and called it a day

[tentangtenang]

Pertemanan Anti-Ribet (?)

Belakangan ini saya lagi mikir, kayaknya saya sudah memasuki fase dimana saya nyaman membangun batasan yang sehat dengan orang-orang yang ribet, mempermasalahkan hal kecil, banyak mengeluh, suka berprasangka, dan nggak sat-set. Wkwk! Bingung sih menjelaskannya, tapi saya yakin teman-teman, if we are in the same phase, pasti paham juga kan terkait dengan hal ini?

Benar saya suka berteman, benar saya juga tipe yang berusaha untuk mempertahankan relasi pertemanan agar silaturrahim bisa memanjang. Tapi, di situasi dan kondisi tertentu, sejujurnya saya juga terkadang merasa lelah untuk mengurusi hal-hal yang saya pikir sudah bukan waktunya lagi untuk dipermasalahkan sekarang, dalam relasi pertemanan masa dewasa.

Memang, terkadang teman-teman ini karakternya beda-beda. Ada yang low maintenance (super chill, gapapa jarang ketemu, tapi sekalinya ketemu kita tahu kalau kita masih sangat terkoneksi tanpa banyak ba-bi-bu), ada juga yang high maintenance (suka pundung, ribet, dsb). Terus gimana? Jalan tengahnya, kalau buat saya, saya akan tetap memperjuangkan silaturrahim sebisa, semampu, sesanggup yang saya lakukan. Masalahnya, hidup di masa dewasa ini urusannya sudah semakin kompleks, kan? Maka, kebijaksanaan untuk memilih persoalan apa yang perlu kita fokuskan dan yang mana yang bisa nanti dulu juga jadi penting.

Well, tulisan ini ceracau saja sih sebenarnya. Tapi saya jadi ingin refleksi ke diri sendiri, jangan sampai saya jadi teman yang ribet dan high maintenance. Sebaliknya, saya ingin menumbuh-suburkan cara berteman yang sama-sama memudahkan, sama-sama respect, sama-sama chill dan tidak penuh tuntutan. Dan untuk teman-teman yang pernah merasa saya sebaliknya, saya minta maaf ya. Semoga kita, di masa dewasa ini, bisa terus berproses untuk berelasi dengan cara yang dewasa juga.

Any opinion? :)

[thomatri]

Kiss Boy

Synopsis- you have a fat crush on Atsumu only one problem he’s straight…or is he?

Paring- Atsumu Miya x mreader

———————————————————————

“So when you gonna ask Atsumu out?” Suna asks randomly as Osamu,him and I eat lunch. Atsumu sometimes eats with us but today he’s eating lunch with his other friends

“Uh never that dude like the most straightest person ever” I say rolling my eyes

“But you like him?” Osamu says

“Hey! I can’t help who I like” I say glaring

“Well I mean you can’t keep pretending you don’t like him” Suna says

“And why is that” I ask

“Cause it’s clearly making you depressed I’m sure you’d feel better if you just told him” Suna says shrugging and I sigh

—————————————————————-

“You should really join the volleyball team man” Atsumu says with a smile, him,Suna,Osamu and I are walking to the gym together for there practice and me to watch like we always do

“Nah I hate playing sports, but I’ll gladly watch y’all play” I say smiling at him

“Dang worth a shot Kita would love you on the team, and me of course” Atsumu says smirking at me and I roll my eyes avoiding eye contact so he doesn’t see my embarrassed face

“Chop chop love birds” Osamu says and I glare

“I’m coming dang” Atsumu says. Maybe I’m just delusional but he didn’t deny us being love birds

Suna notices my delusional and smirks

————————————————————-

Practice feels shorter today for some reason maybe it’s just the fact I’m watching them instead of playing but on our way to the subway station our being Osamu,Atsumu and Suna of course Suna decides to ask dumb ass questions to Atsumu of course

“Hey Atsumu are You Gay?” Suna asks and Atsumu looks hella confused. Osamu snickers and I glare

“What type of question is that?!” Atsumu asks rightfully confused

Suna shrugs

“Well no im not Gay maybe a little bi never really gave it much thought” he says shocking all of us

“Is this how I find out my brother a homosexual”

“What the hell. Did you want me to make a rainbow sign announcing it?!”

Osamu actually considers it but shrugs

“I’m surprised I thought you were straight or definitely homophobic” Suna says snickering glancing at me

“Nah Y/n gay” he says and I stop

“What”

“Your gay arent ya?” Atsumu asks confused like he said something wrong

“I mean yeah but how’d you know?” I ask continuing to walk with Atsumu as Suna and Osamu have walked ahead of us

“Well It’s kinda obvious and I heard you and Suna talking about some guy you like” he says and I’m shocked and embarrassed

“I’m actually kinda hurt you didn’t tell me” he says chuckling

“Well I definitely planned to” I say cursing myself for what I’m about to say

“Really? When?” He asks

“I can right now” I say trying to ignore everything telling me not to

“Oh ok” he says and we’re engulfed in silence as I contemplate how to word it for a second

“Uh well” I start

“Is it Suna?” He asks

“WHAT NO” I say looking at him shocked

“Oh carry on” he says laughing and I smile god I could listen to his laugh all day

“I like you Atsumu” I say and he stops walking

Shit

“REALLY?!” He says and now I’m shocked again by his reaction idk what I expected but him yelling really wasn’t it

“Seriously?” He asks

“Seriously” I say shrugging trying to seek non chalont but inside I’m dying screaming throwing up

“Why?” He asks and I stare

“Uh your hot,funny,a great person,hot” I say shrugging

“I noticed how smart wasn’t on that list” he says glaring and I snicker

“You have other great qualities” I say shrugging with a closed eyed smirk

I open my eyes in shock when I feel Atsumu lips on mine

He brings a hand of cup my face and I lean into the kiss

We kiss until we’re out of breath

“Holy shit” He says

“Your a pretty good kisser for someone who’s never had a first kiss” he says smirking and I roll my eyes

“Can’t believe you remember that” I say and he laughs

…

“Fuck we missed the subway” I say and we both start to panic

No Suna or Osamu in sight

All of a sudden I get a call from Suna

“hey pookie” Suna says

“Shut the hell up where are y’all” I ask annoyed

“Boo your no fun, we’re on the subway we thought y’all could use a moment so I’ll just pick y’all up, Osamu already old there parents there spending a night at my place” Suna says

“Thank god you have a car,but don’t pull this stupid shit again” I say trying to stay mad but still extremely thankful he did this

“Damn a little thank you would be nice, trust I won’t though spending gas money just so you two idiots can get together. This is a one time thing” Suna says and I hear Osamu laugh

“Thanks,seriously” I say smiling

“No problemo friendo”

“See ya” Osamu says as Suna hangs up

“Welp” I say

“We’re stuck in the middle of the night alone” I say shrugging and Atsumu is grinning

“What’s got you so happy?” I ask giving him a confused look and he shrugs with his smile still painting his face

“Nothing just happy your my boyfriend” he says and I’m stunned not gonna,ain’t expect him to say that but I smirk

“Oh? You never asked me out”

“Will you be my boyfriend Y/n L/n” he says seriously and I almost bust out laughing

“Yes of course Atsumu Miya” I say smiling at my new boyfriend

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Bonus

———————————————————————

After going to a park,calling my parents to let them know I’m spending a night at Suna which thankfully they ran with cause until he got to us we had no way home, and making out with Atsumu we finally got to Suna place where we both painted each others nails

Atsumu thought it made him look a little to feminine and Osamu just didn’t want to which we both didn’t complain about obviously

“I want all the juicy details” Osamu says finding a movie on Suna laptop

“Well I thought Y/n liked Suna, he confessed we kissed and I asked him out” Atsumu says and Osamu gives him a disgusted look

“That was the vaguest explanation ever I said details boy” Osamu says rolling his eyes and Atsumu glared and I groan knowing there about to argue

“Look Atsumu my nails” I say trying to distract him

“Ooo there pretty can you do mine” he says beaming and Suna snickers

“What happened to it’s too feminine” Suna says with a hand on his hip

“Damn your right hmm just do one hand I wanna match with Y/n” Atsumu asks and I laugh

“Alr loverboy” Suna says starting to paint the bleached haired boys nails

[im-n-your-walls]

Haikyuu characters reaction to y/n asking for help coming out as bi/pan to their unsupportive/conservative parents...?

⊹₊⟡⋆⊹₊⟡⋆⊹₊⟡⋆Coming out⊹₊⟡⋆⊹₊⟡⋆⊹₊⟡⋆

list of links 🔗

mf is right beside you the whole time and will stay there

daichi, kuroo, ushijima, tendou

will throw hands at your parents if they try to hurt you

tendou, Nishinoya, Tanaka, saeko, yaku, atsumu

They made a PowerPoint for your parents on how to not be homophobic

sugawara, kita, yaku, yachi

good luck cuddles before and good job cuddles after

hinata, tendou, yamaguchi, asahi

made you dinner for your bravery

ushijima, kita, osumu, tendou, asahi, sugawara

[apicelladonna]

Grindeldore with a per day challenge of sharing a unique Filipino word describing them? More likely than apparently posting PhBF chapter 2—

**this month is our country’s national language awareness (Buwan ng Wika/ Language Month) and I wanna spread the love here!

Starting off with the word:

Kaibigan

(ka•i•bi•gan) root word is ‘ibig’ - ‘Love’

It is translated as Friend, Bestie, Pal, or looser older variations : one with whom one pulls the blanket, sharer of hair comb 👀

Buuuut if you change how you pronounce it or where you put the stress, it also changes its meaning:

Ka•ibigan it now means Fiancé, Betrothed, Lover—

And I think that it’s very them 🥰

“Iniibig kita ng buong taimtim.”

“I love you devoutly.”

[senisevmiyorumhayatt]

"Bizi sevmediler,size başarılar"

[apothecaryscript]

Maomao no Hitorigoto Episode 3 : Cotton Rose / 猫猫のひとりごと　第3話　『芙蓉(Fuyo)』

Please note that the English lines are just my translations.

猫猫「芙蓉妃…美しかったな…。調合できない薬もあるということか…」

Maomao “Fuyo-hi… Utsukushi-kattana… Chogo dekinai kusurimo aruto iu-kotoka…”

Maomao “Concubine Fuyou was beautiful. I guess there are some medicines that can’t be compounded.”

猫猫「ここで、猫猫の豆知識。芙蓉の花言葉は『繊細な美・しとやかな恋人』。いかにもふさわしい言葉だな」

Maomao “Kokode, Maomaono mame-chishiki. Fuyono hana-kotobawa ‘sensaina bi, shitoyakana koibito.’ Ikanimo fusawashii kotoba dana.”

Maomao “Here’s Maomao’s bits of knowledge. The flower language of the cotton rose is ‘delicate beauty, graceful lover.’ Such fitting words for her.”

壬氏「どうした？そんな顔をして」

Jinshi “Doshita? Sonna kao’o shite.”

Jinshi “What’s wrong, making that face?”

猫猫「もとからこんな顔です」

Maomao “Moto-kara konna kao desu.”

Maomao “My face has always been like this.”

壬氏「わかった。またものすごく失礼なことを考えていたのだろう」

Jinshi “Wakatta. Mata mono-sugoku shitsureina koto’o kangaete-itano-daro.”

Jinshi “I get it. I guess you were thinking of something extremely inappropreate again.”

猫猫「とんでもございません」

Maomao “Tondemo gozai-masen.”

Maomao “Not at all.”

壬氏「本当か？」

Jinshi “Hontoka?”

Jinshi “Really?”

猫猫（うぅ、うざっ！疑��深く、粘着質で…！あっ、まただ。高順様が言っていた、毛虫でも見るような目をしてしまったぁ…）

Maomao (Uu, uza! Utaguri-bukaku, nenchaku-shitsude…! A, matada. Gaoshun-samaga itte-ita, kemushi-demo miru-yona me’o shite shimattaa…)

Maomao (Ugh, so annoying! So suspicious and persistent…! Oh, again, I’ve stared at him like he was a venomous caterpillar, just like Master Gaoshun said.)

壬氏「またそんな顔をして」

Jinshi “Mata sonna kao’o shite.”

Jinshi “You’re making that face again.”

猫猫「うぅ、毛虫にも失礼な気がしてきた。はぁ。」

Maomao “Uu, kemushi-nimo shitsureina kiga shite-kita. Haa.”

Maomao “Ugh, I’m starting to feel like I'm being rude to caterpillars.” (a sigh)

壬氏「ん。後宮管理者の目を見て話さぬとは、無礼だぞ」

Jinshi “N. Kokyu-kanrishano me’o mite hanasanu-towa, burei dazo.”

Jinshi “It’s rude not to look the manager of the rear palace in the eye when you speak.”

猫猫「次回、『恫喝』。何だかまた厄介なことに巻き込まれそうな雰囲気だな…」

Maomao “Jikai, ‘Dokatsu.’ Nandaka mata yakkaina kotoni maki-komare-sona fun’iki dana…”

Maimao “Next episode, ‘The Threat.’ It feels like I’m going to get into some trouble again…”

[senjadanaksara]

📷 @dandelionisa

Alhamdulillahilladzi bi ni'matihi tatimmush shalihat. Atas izin Allah, terlepas dari apapun yang dialami di hari sebelumnya, hari ini ternyata saya kembali baik-baik saja. Saya kembali merasakan energi yang menyala di dalam diri untuk bisa melakukan berbagai aktivitas dan menunaikan amanah-amanah yang ada.

Rupanya benar bahwa semua yang ada di kehidupan kita itu ada dalam genggaman Allah. Selepas hari yang berat datang, kita pun tidak semata-mata akan bisa mendewasakan rasa dan kembali menjalani hidup sebagaimana mestinya kalau bukan karena kehendak Allah.

Kalau kamu merasa tidak baik-baik saja hari ini, tetaplah mengupayakan yang terbaik, yang bisa kamu lakukan untuk menjemput kondisi diri yang lebih baik. Itulah ranahmu, amal shalihmu. Sisanya, bergantunglah penuh utuh kepada Allah. Sebab jika menurut Allah, durasi ujianmu sudah selesai, maka semua akan selesai dan atas izin-Nya kamu akan kembali baik-baik saja. Semangat, ya!

- repost @ceritanovieocktavia

Juni beranjak pergi, tetapi tidak dengan pembelajaran lama dan barunya..

[fatimahshinta]

Behind the scenes sebelum menikah hampir 3 th yg lalu,

Setelah keluarga calon suami datang, dan menyatakan keinginannya utk turut mengundang beberapa jumlah undangan pada hari H walimah

Malamnya berembug dg ummi dan abi, kalo-meskipun itu akan ditanggung bersama- tapi diluar kemampuan kami saat itu

Dan keputusan yg kubuat,

"Oke sampaikan saja poin keberatan kita mi, bi. Kalo memang jodoh akan lancar jalannya. Kalo bukan ya yaudah, Allah ganti juga tidak masalah"

Karena niat dari awal membuka diri utk menikah bukan tambah menjadi beban org tua... di saat aku yg saat itu masih koas, belum bisa banyak urun biaya..

Dan semalaman hanya melafalkan QS An Najm : 48

"Allahu aghnaa waa aqnaa"

"Allah Maha Kaya lagi Maha Mencukupkan", sambil mbrebes mili..

Dan alhamdulillah, Allah mudahkan jalannya

Keluarga calon suami Oke tidak mengundang banyak pihak.

2 minggu setelah akad,

Atas kebebalanku, mahar hanya ku sisakan 1 buah cincin, selebihnya kami jual

Agar tidak perlu ada tanggungan hutang saat memulai menikah

Karena menikah, lagi-lagi bukan gemebyar pesta yg kami cari..

Tapi semoga ridha Allah satu-satunya alasan kami.. dan menyederhakan prosesinya mjd salah satu ikhtiar kami..

Ah, bukankah doa yg disunnahkan utk pengantin baru hanya barokah yg diharapkannya?