#AND WITH THE SEX NUMBER TOO

[dalimoor]

Blaze it 🔥

[boydyke-forever]

i genuinely dont think theres anything more erotic than the thought of being inside one of these. just the warmth and claustrophobic nature of being inside of a giant, room-sized computer.. crawling in through one of her panels and feeling all of her wires and servos against you

[squishosaur]

I THOUGHT I DID POST THESE WJAT

[spacepunksupreme]

kind of incredible how many different posters and dvd covers there are for a difficult to find, kind of mediocre, remake of a banned tv movie that doenst even have its own wiki page

[chuplayswithfire]

Nuance is something that can be soooo hard for online spaces to hold onto. Hell, offline spaces too, for that matter. Today I'm thinking about kink and the concept of kinkshaming, when I think about nuance: that people should be allowed to enjoy and engage with kink, especially in fictional and fandom spaces where even bad kink etiquette can't actually harm anyone should be a given. Personally, as long as someone is tagging correctly and creating with self awareness, anything goes in a fictional space, you do you, your content deserves to exist online. I have personally created a variety of kinky works, both publicly available and not, and would really not have a leg to stand on trying to declare otherwise. In a time where people are cracking down heavily on kink and trying to decry it as deviance that shouldn't exist, being kink positive can be a very important, good thing.

At the same time though, the people have squicks, and when it comes to kink and a good culture towards sex in general, people have to be allowed to have squicks. If anyone's hearing the term for the first time, a squick is essentially a concept that just grosses you right out, you do not want to see it, you do not want to learn more, maybe it even distresses you to see it, but not to the extent that you would consider ot triggering content. A couple of common tend to bodily excrement: piss and shit, alongside guro (extensive bodily mutilation combined with sexual imagery). A squick doesn't have to be extreme, it doesn't have to be unusual, it's just something that grosses an individual out, and they don't want to see it. (And because this is tumblr and it must be said: no, racism is not a squick.)

Sometimes, we lean so heavily into the negative that we refuse to allow positivity. Sometimes, we get so into positivity, that we refuse to acknowledge negatives. People are allowed to talk about their squicks. If people see something that grosses them out, they don't have to shut up about it just because it's someone else's kink. Kinkshaming, the idea that someone would go up to someone else and tell them they're gross for their kink, is something people shouldn't do in general. But expressing disgust and distaste for a kink in general isn't kinkshaming - that's just talking about your squick.

Your Kink Is Not My Kink And That's Okay is about not hating on other people or demanding their works not exist because you hate the kink, not pretending that you find every kink, fetish, or sexual concept totally wonderful and would never react with disgust towards one. This idea in fandom that if you don't like something you should never say anything publicly because what if someone does like that thing, and is upset that you publicly don't like that thing, is ridiculous, and it has been for a while. Negative emotions have a place in fandom, especially in regard to sexual content. You shouldn't harass people who share a kink (especially when their content is tagged this is why everyone should read the tags) - but you also shouldn't go around saying people aren't allowed to use their own online space to process their disgust.

I've been seeing a lot of people lately saying anyone discussing how much they dislike a kink concept is just a kinkshamer, an anti, the purity police, and it's getting beyond ridiculous. We have the right to engage in kink, to write about kink, to make kinky art, create audio for it, and to in general delight in all kinds of kinky works. We also have the responsibility to make sure we're tagging correctly. Others have the right to dislike kink, including our own kinks, and to talk about how much they dislike those kinks. They have the responsibility to make sure they're curating correctly, that they're reading the tags and warnings on a work, and that they work out their negative responses in their own space.

Multiple things can be true: kink is a great way to explore sexuality and desire and a wide range of topics. people deserve to share their interest in kink without harassment or being belittled. one person's joy can be another person's squick. people deserve to share their squick without harassment or being belittled.

[madequecham]

My roommate wants to have an in depth conversation about why she thinking pet play is wierd 😓

[paarksunghoon]

hiii, i saw your tags on the post about not being able to give good ideas justice.. AND THE HEESEUNG VAMPIRE AU IDEA OMG? IT LITERALLY SOUNDS SO GOODSKDJFKHF IT DOESN'T SOUND LIKE A STUPID IDEA AT ALL

i have a two page outline of this story but lost inspo when I started thinking about the actual plot points until I posted that…I know exactly how this story ends and what happens to humanity too kdnxkxndns

THANK YOU FOR LIKING IT!!! I wanted it to be a multi-part story (maybe 4-5 chapters max) but who knows!!! not me, that’s for sure.

anyway here are the tags in case anyone’s interested:

[sullenwizard]

its ultimately down to women to shape what kind of approach we want men to have w us unfortunately. which makes the whole issue have a heavier weightload on us but it is what it is. doesnt excuse their misogynistic behavior because they are not 5 and self control exists but you cant keep perpetuating and enabling it and romanticising/ sexualising it and then complain afterwards. ive never let a man treat me like shit so i havent had many instances like that in my own life because i know what pushes my buttons and when to stand up for myself, and it does make a huge change, if not a global one then 1 man at a time. but it frustrates me to no end to see people try to sweep their vile behavior under it being "just a sexual preference". its never only "just" tho is it. uve just smacked a "do not disturb" label over the issue that would excuse it without it leading to consequences, yet the issue still persists

[neverendingford]

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[cesium-sheep]

I'm feeling a little under the weather today probably because my uterus is up to some bullshit because they're taking so long to refill my birth control (I guess the ablation has officially failed), but I think he assumed it was cuz I miss arin.

[mybeeb]

this was a 'we have jerked each other off before but don't talk about it'-ass conversation btw. IF ANYONE CARES!!!!!

[sol-flo]

lesbian dating tip: look into her eyes and just straight up say. uhhh. not sure what i said. but say it to her face.

[pyrosomatic-metamorphosis]

anyway with all this talk of bbh special guest and muffins i want to point out that 1393 muffins and 2 per day is. 1293/2 = 696.5 days. aka 696.9 = 1293 (plus remainder). there's lore no point to this post i just want everyone to know they snuck the sex number into lore

[honor-every-part-of-you]

Is there a tag for Non-Alana-Bashing?

Because Lordy am I tired of it. I don’t know whether it’s worse to be jarred out of an otherwise enjoyable story to be subjected to yet another screed or worse to drag myself through a mediocre story with an interesting premise only to finally nope out after reading about Precious Baby Sincere Apology Hannibal being cruelly abused by the shrill harpy with a victim complex.

Like, WTF? Did we watch the same show?