#ALSO WE GET A BIT OF DADDY ISSUE AND MOMMY ISSUE not resolution but love me some having it touched on again

[dear-mrs-otome]

Bless whomever writes Silvio's events they're always just

[dailymemori]

Mommy and daddy are fighting and I don't like it!

ITS. NOT IDEAL. I AGREE.

H O W E V E R

I AM STILL OPTIMISTIC.

is this the direction I would have chosen for them? no. but I actually think this is a much better thing than, let’s say, they broke up a year or two into the time jump and are just friends now with a totally amicable relationship. There would be no potential story there.

I believe Jason talked about how he wanted to skip over all the boring stuff in space, and pick up the story when Things start happening. which to me would mean that everything going on currently with space kru is going to be important to the story moving forward. memori being separated is something recent (no more than six months) and obviously there is still a lot of unresolved conflict there. and I think that really implies that this is going to be A Big Part of their storylines throughout this season.

They’re not going to have Murphy and Emori angry with each other and throwing jabs if that’s ALL it’s going to be. if that’s ALL their story is about. and you’re not gonna be that mad with each other if you’re totally over the other person, and I really believe the show is doing this so we get to see the resolution of it.

no matter what that ends up looking like!!!

I don’t know why they’re fighting. I hope we get some backstory on that. we got hints of some things (Murphy feeling worthless or that Emori made him inadequate) and we can kind of guess about what’s going on, but I really just want to know for sure what lead to this. (personally I feel like they’ve had some up and downs for a while, and that the tension finally boiled over- resulting in this explosion that they haven’t dealt with the fallout from)

I love what @bombshellsandbluebells said about Raven being a sort of go between for them because they’re refusing to talk to each other. we’ve seen communication be an issue for them before (in 4x03 when murphy said he didn’t want to talk about it and emori’s response was “fine then lets not”) and i think that might be part of what’s going on now?

a bit of dialogue from 5x01 that I caught on a second watch of the space scenes was Murphy muttering “now she wants to talk” when Emori went to turn on the radio, after she had just refused to let Murphy turn on the lights. at first I had thought that he was talking about Raven, because she was the one who said to fire up the radio, but watching it again made me realize he was probably referring to Emori? and that it held some double meaning? has Murphy been trying to talk to her but she’s not having it? she is the one who seems more outwardly upset, saying that she’d rather clean toilets than see Murphy, asking Raven to let her know when he’s gone so she doesn’t have to interact with him, saying that they can’t stand the sight of each other. while Murphy seems less hostile, and more just… sad. talking about how there’s no one to disappoint on his side of the ship, lamenting to Raven about how hard happily ever after is, packing up Emori’s things for her.

(also for two people who, according to Emori, can’t stand the sight of each other, he sure had some lingering looks. just. an observation.)

I think communication might be a hurdle that they have to get over. and it makes sense. we see Emori being whole heartedly part of this team, this family, and being excited about things and helping out, while Murphy is distancing himself and feeling worthless etc etc. and if they’re not talking through those differences, especially if they’re AVOIDING talking about them, then yeah. that’s going to lead to conflict.

I really do think that, even though it’s really rough right now, its going to be a good thing in the long run. we’ll get to see Murphy and Emori work through all that and deal with something in their relationship that they haven’t before now. and hopefully that leads to some reaffirmation and them being a stronger team than ever.

and if not….. “Extra Bitter Over The Top Dramatic Exes” Murphy and Emori wasn’t at all what I was expecting but…… I can work with it.

[brainsinmyheadfeetinmyshoes]

Lucian, 4y11mo. Lionel, 3.5yo

Lucian is going to turn 5 in a month and I’m going to have some serious feelings about it. Since teaching kindergarten was the litmus for all my child interaction before having kids, it’s a bit of a benchmark to have that precious age in my own house. And it’s a little gut wrenching to know that time will march on, and then I’ll have a kid OUT of kindergarten.

He continues to be the loving and affectionate boy we’ve always known, and we now have to work on clinginess and boundaries. He’s super helpful, often cleaning up without being asked, or cleaning everything when his brother ought to be pitching in. But he has his bouts like any kid of whininess when we give him chores like sweeping or putting away clean laundry.

His language is very nearly caught up to his peers. Articulation is no longer a concern, though he could still improve on some of the expressive things (that I imagine a lot of boys struggle with) like conflict resolution or talking through imaginative play. Though he’s well-adjusted at school, the moments that he is shy/tearful (probably 1-2 times daily) is agonizing according to his teachers. They cite his emotional fragility to be his greatest struggle moving forward, but building resilience and seeing how other children embrace new challenges and talk through emotions should really help him. Erik and I aren’t concerned with his emotional wellbeing, because these are qualities he comes by genetically and we feel confident helping him find ways to interact with the world.

He hasn’t yet dived into reading or math, but the awareness and growth is still happening. He knows virtually all the letter sounds and can count to 30 confidently. A few times, we’ve counted to 100, so he’s interested in learning the 10s. The UK school system is a year ahead of US, so he’ll essentially repeat a year when we go back to the states, and this should make him extremely confident and fill in any remaining gaps.

He’s gone through a coloring phase in recent months, though that has given way to building with Legos and K’nex. He struggles to build unaided, and doesn’t strive creatively with them, but the passion for the materials is there, so we let him use them as often as is realistic. Both he and Lionel have learned to play Go Fish and Memory, and can carry on fairly peacefully with these games.

Lionel remains headstrong and likes to call the shots, but he is one of the most self-secure, well-adjusted kids you’ll ever meet. He’s very loving, especially toward his little sister, and plays a lot of mommy/daddy-baby games on his own. He still struggles with transitions in the routine, dragging his feet when we need to leave the house twice a day. But his recent push toward independence, wanting to dress and undress himself, will help us a lot in time!

Toilet training has been rocky for him. In January, he was still using a diaper exclusively and lying to us about needing a change. He started wearing underpants to school in February, then got sick which required antibiotics, and had numerous control issues as a result. That led to a regression in his willingness to use the toilet, but we are back on track now, early March. It’s taking more firmness on our part about using the toilet before outings than it did with Lucian, because Lionel will insist he doesn’t need to go. But slowly, he’s getting the hang of it.

His language has exploded again and he loves to use new words (like wanting the “peach” marker while coloring, or not doing something because it’s “dangerous.”) He’s quite chatty with me in the afternoons while Celia sleeps and Lucian is at school. But he also self-entertains easily. He has memorized most of our books so reads to himself, or sings songs, and really enjoys puzzles. (None of these, I might add, are things Lucian does willingly or happily. Different personalities!)

Both boys have maintained their Spanish pretty well. We still do exclusive screen media in Spanish, and almost all our kid music is in Spanish. Erik has never stopped using it with them, and it comes very naturally for me to use Spanish with Celia for some reason. The boys use mostly Spanish in their play scenarios together, even though they forget silly words, or use Spanglish like “Puedes pasar me the yellow one por favor?” (Can you pass me the yellow one please?) Of course, some of this is a result of their English socializing in school. But a move back to the US will bring more exposure to Spanish-speakers who are dear to us, so they’ll continue to grow.

Well, Lionel has grown bored now, so my computer time has come to an end. We’ll see when the next update comes!

[psychicreadingstips]

Sun Sign Resolutions 2019

Aries: Slow down a bit and really pay attention to your partner or those around you. Your constant focus on new, exciting projects can be a bit annoying. You may confuse your partner if you ignore them, then get jealous if they find a new activity to fill their time.

Taurus: Try being a little more open to the opinions of others. There are more choices to handling disagreements than plowing someone over or running away - fast and forever. Your strength is a selling point, your stubbornness  - not so much.

Gemini - Please quit talking all the time. Also, open your eyes and do not fall blindly in love. See your partner for who they really are - you don’t need an imaginary love interest. Quit living life inside your head and objectively evaluate people and how they really make you feel.

Cancer - Usually has “mommy” or “daddy” issues and longs for the feeling of childhood safety. It is probably a good idea to take a few risks and go for the gold instead of settling for a “safe” relationship. Also, try not to get anxious if your partner has outside interests - people do not have to stay home all the time.

Leo - Do not smother your partner. Give them a little space. A relationship is not all about you all of the time. Avoid blowing up their phone or social media accounts all the time. Seriously. Also, reign in your temper and try to tactfully express yourself when there is a disagreement.

Virgo - Do not “mother” your partner. It is not necessary to micromanage everything and everyone. Don’t let your perfectionistic tendencies drive away a worthwhile relationship. Chill. Be careful of using social media in a controlling, detrimental way.

Libra - May be a little clingy in a relationship. Your love interest does not have to be in contact with you -  meeting your endless needs 24/7. Also, try to focus on truth rather than expediency when dealing with your lover. Peace at any cost may be too expensive. No more selfies!

Scorpio - Give up the idea that you can change your partner into someone that meets all of your needs. Avoid “one upping” your loved one all the time. Also, let go of the past. Does anyone really want to rehash things over and over and over again?

Sagittarius - Try thinking about the people in your life at the moment instead of always focusing on what you want to do next. Relationships involve two people, not just you. Also, quit looking for a new adventure and appreciate the challenges provided by a long-term relationship.

Capricorn: May be a little too critical of their love interest. While your ability to see and analyze things truthfully might be a good thing, nitpicking your love interest about their faults will not endear you to your lover. Is it more important to be right or cut someone a little slack in order to preserve a relationship?

Aquarius: Taking care of the world is time consuming, but don’t forget that the love of your life needs care and attention, also. Little things like being on time for dates, answering texts, or answering your phone are important.

Pisces: It is okay to be a grown up. You don’t have to please everyone all the time. Hanging out at the Club or partying is fun, but remember to carve out some quality time for your loved one. It’s okay to stay at home with the person you love. Don’t let others take all your time and attention.

We hope you have a Wonderful New Year! 2019 should provide us with some great new opportunities. A little bit of introspection may help you move forward with your love interest in a positive way.

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