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Trivia: Love Part 5 -Final

Characters: Namjoon x Female Reader

Genre: idol!au, angst, fluff, smut

Warnings: set during the COVID pandemic, mentions of mask-wearing and COVID tests, fluff, fingering, unprotected sex (both get STI tested before visits, as per contract. Not specified in story, but Y/N takes birth control).

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Part 5

Word Count: 5.3K

November 30, 2021

His day off turns out to be one of my favorite days ever with him. After Mr. Choi comes over to watch us complete our daily COVID test, we spend time reading on the couch. Well, he’s reading while his head rests in my lap and I’m studying for the exam I’ll have a week after I return home.

It’s peaceful and relaxing. Any time I have any dark thoughts about how we will probably never have a day like this ever again I push the negativity away doing my best to hold on to the present time.

We have lunch, and just like at breakfast, we talk. The two of us provide one another with glimpses into our personal lives. The information we’d kept to ourselves, afraid of oversharing in the past, now flows freely between us. The more he tells me, the more my heart warms. The more I want time to stop, to keep us locked in this day where it’s just the two of us and no worries of ruining careers or receiving hate and threats just because we want to be together.

“I have an idea,” he announces as we wrap up lunch and gather our dishes.

“Yeah? What’s that?”

He doesn’t say but grins instead as he leaves the food cart outside the suite’s door. I watch as he casts his phone to the TV and pulls up a website. I smile fondly at him as I see what loads. Namjoon beams at me before sweetly kissing my temple.

“I thought I’d share one of the places I love to spend time in.” He guides me closer to the screen, his arm snaking across my lower back to rest gently at my hip. “This is one of my favorite artists…”

I blink rapidly, willing away the moisture gathering in my eyes. The excitement in his eyes and voice makes me long for things I know I can’t have and it hurts. It feels wonderful, yes, but it hurts even more as I hear him explain each piece of art as we move through the virtual rooms of the various art exhibits. A few hours pass as he encourages me to share my interpretations of what I see and he does the same, the two of us grinning when our views synchronize. We laugh when what I get from the work is vastly different from what he does.

But it’s all perfect. Exactly how I imagined it would be if we were to attend a museum or exhibit out in the real world together.

I’m astonished when I see that night has fallen beyond the windows of our blissful oasis. Tomorrow the interviews, practice, and sound check begin again as we come upon the last two concert days. Soon Namjoon will have to go to bed to have enough sleep to get through the hectic schedule. The idea of wasting precious time sleeping has my stomach clenching. I clutch my abdomen and Namjoon looks down at me.

“Are you hungry?”

The thought of food doesn’t sit well with me and I shake my head, my nose scrunching.

“No, but if you are… that’s ok.”

“Why don’t I order us something light and we just chill the rest of the night?”

“Ok.”

I nod and wonder to myself if he’s trying to extend this day as long as possible as well. After tonight, we’ll only see each other for a few hours in the morning before he leaves and then again when he comes back after the concert where he would only have a few hours to catch some sleep before he has to get up again to prep for the last concert.

Time is passing extremely fast, and my visit coming to an end much too quickly now that we know exactly how we feel about each other.

“Food should be up in just a few minutes,” Namjoon informs me.

“Mhm,” I murmur.

I’d been so lost in my thoughts I hadn’t even heard him make the call. I smile at him as he approaches me, his knuckles coming to skim down my cheek.

“Are you ok?”

The low, deep tone of his voice rumbles in my chest and makes my smile widen. He’s so sweet and in tune with my emotional state. I don’t think I could lie to him, even if I wanted to. He would know.

“Not really.” I sigh. “My mind keeps drifting to the day I have to leave. I don’t know how I’m going to be able to do that.”

Namjoon’s eyebrows pinch together, his jaw clenching and unclenching. It’s difficult now not to see his feelings for me. How I could ever have been so blind is a testament to my own insecurities and I try not to dwell too much on all the wasted time because of it.

“I’m not giving up on us,” he says firmly, tugging me by the hips so that I’m even closer to him. “We’re going to figure this out, so let’s not worry about it tonight.”

I want to share in the same hope; share in the belief that there actually could be a positive outcome to all this. I will that feeling into the smile I give him and lean up to peck his lips.

“Ok.”

He returns the smile and urges me to the couch where we fall into it, cuddling and watching the baking show I’d had on the day before while we wait for the food to arrive.

December 1, 2021

My belongings lay scattered about the room—books, clothes, and fragments of the days I have spent here with Namjoon. He was at the venue, lost in the rhythm of practice and preparation for tonight’s concert. I wanted the hours to sprint by, each tick of the clock bringing me closer to him. Yet, on the other hand, I wish for time to slow, to savor these fleeting moments before our paths diverge.

I glance around, wondering where to start, but it’s not long before everything blurs as my mind wanders. I think of the contours of Namjoon’s face—the curve of his lips, the intensity in his eyes. How many times did we laugh here, argue there, and get lost in our passion in between? Our shared time here was etched into the walls, into the very air I breathe.

As the night deepens, I trace the outline of our story—the highs and lows, the crescendos and pauses. And I make a silent promise—to hold onto this thing we have, even when miles stretch between us. To remember Namjoon’s smile, the way he says my name and the constellation of moments that defined us.

The suitcase beckons, its emptiness echoing my heart. I close my eyes, willing time to bend—to linger, to stretch, to grant me one more stolen second. But the reality was unyielding. Tomorrow, I will board that plane, and Namjoon will go back to South Korea.

How does one prepare for goodbye? How does one fold deep feelings neatly into a suitcase, tuck it away, and carry on? And so, I pack not just clothes and books, but also the ache of longing—the bittersweet symphony of a farewell. Once everything is put away, I zip up the suitcase, set it by the bathroom door, and sit on the bed.

Outside, the world moves on, oblivious to my inner turmoil. Tomorrow, a driver would arrive—a silent accomplice in our farewell. The stadium would echo with music, and I would sit among the crowd, watching him perform. Applause would rise, but my heart would beat out of sync, knowing that it was quite possibly the final act.

I sigh softly, trying to shake off the sadness knowing Namjoon would be back soon. I climb out of bed and head to the living room to turn on the TV, wanting to be as close to the front door as possible for when he arrives.

The room is dimly lit, the soft glow of the TV casting shadows on the walls. I stand the moment I hear the door beep as the lock disengages. Namjoon steps in already showered and changed, his hair still wet. His hair that just this morning had been a dirty blond now glistens a deep scarlet as he approaches me. He walks with purpose, coming straight to hug me without a word. His skin is still heated from his activities on stage.

“Your hair.”

I smile fondly up at him and he returns the gesture, dropping a quick peck on my lips.

Carding a hand through his damp locks he asks, “You like it? The stylists thought it’d be a fun change for the last two days.”

I nod.

“I like it. It looks good on you.” I offer the compliment and his dimples deepen. The smile doesn’t quite reach his eyes though. “You ok?” I ask.

“Can I just hold you for a little while?”

My smile widens and I nod. He tugs my hand as he settles onto the couch. I start to sit next to him, but he redirects me to straddle his lap.

“Oh!” I breathe as I acquiesce.

He rests one hand on my waist, and the other at my lower back. I tuck mine under his, pressing myself into him and lying my head on his shoulder. We sit quietly for some time, his hand absently rubbing my back as he loses himself in his thoughts.

What must be going through his mind? Most likely the same things I had been pondering on earlier. The hug is as much for him as it is for me. I could sense he was trying to pull comfort from the act, strength to get through our last night together.

Our last night. How had it come so swiftly? This couldn’t be it… could it?

I nuzzle into his neck, pressing a kiss to the soft skin there. Namjoon’s fingers dig into my hip, a soft sigh escaping his lips as he fists my top, gently hugging me tighter to him. I palm his cheek, my thumb grazing his cheekbone as I nip, lick, and suck at his neck, taking care not to leave a mark. His rumble of satisfaction as he squirms beneath me heats my blood, and my heart begins to race in anticipation.

I can already feel him hardening beneath me and my hips instinctively begin to roll along his covered length. Namjoon lifts my top from me, tossing it to the side, my bra following soon after. His hands skim across my skin, as if he is trying to touch every inch of my body one last time. I swallow thickly, trying to stay in the moment, even while sadness washes over me. He reaches up, his hand on my nape guiding me down to his awaiting lips. He kisses me deeply before releasing me.

“Take these off,” he orders, his voice gravelly.

I stand to take my shorts and underwear off and he does the same before sinking back down into the couch. He stretches his arms out to me, guiding me down onto his stiff cock. We both groan as he stretches me deliciously. His hands immediately caress over my ass as I lean forward. Arching my back, my breasts are shoved into his face and he wastes no time to latch onto one of my pebbled nipples.

His name leaves my lips on a moan as my hips grind into him. His mouth moves to give equal treatment to my other breast while his hands on my ass help to push me down onto him, bringing him deeper inside me. The movements are slow at first, my stomach tightening as pleasure begins to build, but as he begs for more kisses, I oblige, our lips locking again as he picks up the pace. His hands shift to my hips to help me match his pace. It’s difficult to keep the kiss going, but it’s with our lips joined that we find ourselves cumming at the same time, our mouths swallowing up each other's blissful exclamations.

We remain seated, him still inside me though softening by the second. With our fingers intertwined, I relax into him as our breathing begins to slow. Namjoon is a man of few words, but his eyes speak volumes. I can see the conflict within him—the desire to stay, to hold what we have close, and yet the weight of duty pulls him away. His job demands sacrifices, and this was one of them. We had known this day would come, but knowing didn’t make it any easier.

I lean my head on his shoulder again, feeling the warmth of his body seeping into me. The TV plays in the background, a mindless distraction from the ache in our chests. The characters on screen laugh, love, and face their own trials. It’s a cruel juxtaposition—our love story unraveling while fictional ones flourish.

“It’s not fair,” I whisper, tears filling my eyes as I break the silence.

My heart hurts the most it has ever and I feel as if it will shatter in my chest at any moment. I sit up a little so I can see his face.

His eyes meet mine, his gaze searching. “I know.”

“What are we gonna do?” I murmur despondently.

He cups my face in his hands, his thumbs wiping away the tears. “I don’t know,” he says softly. “But I’m not going to stop trying to figure this out.”

I nod, because that’s all I can do.

“Come on. Let’s shower and then go to bed,” he urges as he begins to stand.

I slide off of his lap and let him pull me along to the bathroom. I feel numb as the warm water washes over us, his hands gentle as they glide over my skin, cleansing away the evidence of our lovemaking from moments ago. It takes all of my willpower to keep from crying again. I don’t want to make this any more difficult than it already is.

When I’m back home and by myself, I can let go then.

I help him shower as well and it’s not much longer before we’re done, dried off and lying beneath the covers. His arms envelop me, my body molding into his.

With a kiss on my shoulder, Namjoon whispers, “Good night, my Nabi.”

“Good night, my Moonchild.”

December 2, 2021

Namjoon’s alarm cuts through my sleep and I jolt up in bed.

“I’m sorry,” I hear him call from the bathroom as he rushes to the bedside table. “I forgot to turn it off when I woke up.”

“Couldn’t sleep?”

He shakes his head. “Not really.”

“Are you going to be ok to perform today?” I fret.

Namjoon shrugs, a small smile dancing on his lips.

“Once the adrenaline kicks in, I’ll be fine.”

I nod and follow him to the bathroom. I wrap a robe around myself and then brush my teeth as he finishes getting dressed. He exits, and I follow, watching him lace up his shoes before standing and slipping his phone into his pocket.

“So this is it.”

He swallows thickly, taking my hand in his. We walk to the front door, pausing for a moment.

“We’ll figure it out,” he says, his eyes locking on mine, the earnestness there bringing tears to my eyes. “It may not be tomorrow or a month from now, but I have to believe we are going to figure this out.”

I hold back a sob as I press my lips to his, tasting the salt of my own tears. It’s a bittersweet kiss—a farewell and a promise rolled into one.

Settling back down on my feet, I sniffle. “I love you.”

Namjoon’s eyes widen before pulling me to him. He hugs me tightly and our hearts beat in sync, as if trying to imprint this moment forever.

“I love you, too,” he murmurs into my hair.

We remain in each other's arms, both reluctant to let go. The buzzing of his phone breaks the moment. Pulling away, I rest my palm against his heart.

“I’ll see you at the concert.” I smile, through my tears. “I’ll be the one cheering extra hard.”

Namjoon chuckles, kissing me again. “I’ll look for you. Goodbye, Y/N.”

“Goodbye, Namjoon,” I whisper.

And then he’s gone, slipping out the door like a shadow.

I stand there, the loss of his presence leaving me frozen in my spot. We were two souls caught in the crossfire of fate—a love that defied distance but couldn’t conquer it. And as the clock ticks away, I can only cling to the memory of his touch, the taste of his kiss, and the hope that someday, somehow, our paths will intersect again.

For now, I’m left with the echo of goodbye and the ache of a love that refuses to die.

The chauffeured car glides to a stop at the VIP entrance of the concert arena. As the driver confirms our post-concert rendezvous for the airport drop-off, a staff member approaches, her steps brisk and purposeful. After I step out, she closes the car door behind me, hands me a lanyard and a tote, then leads the way down a stark concrete corridor. My gaze flits about, seeking a fleeting glimpse of the guys before the curtain call. A pang of longing strikes me at the thought of seeing Namjoon one more time; yet, somewhere within, I know an encounter here woud best be left unfulfilled.

She points to the seat reserved for me by Namjoon and I join the sea of ARMY. I settle in, the weight of the moment settling with me. Delving into the tote, I unearthed an ARMY Bomb, a picket flaunting the group’s visage, a towel, shirt, and photo cards that whisper memories of melodies. I meet each of their faces, my gaze lingering on Namjoon’s photo. Within moments he grows blurry as emotions threaten to overtake me.

“Hi!” The chirp of a voice snaps me back to reality as a young woman nestles into the seat beside me. “Flying solo tonight?” she inquires, the smile in her eyes as warm as the stage lights.

A tear betrays me, but her kindness coaxes a smile in return. Though it’s hidden behind my face mask, I hope she can still sense I’m offering her one.

“Yes, just me.”

She nods, understanding painting her features. “It’s super exciting and overwhelming, isn’t it?” she muses, offering a tissue with a motherly touch. “But hey, we’re seatmates now. Let’s make our cheers echo louder than the rest.” Her upbeat personality is infectious, a balm to the bittersweet symphony of the night. “My name’s Kyshanna.”

“I’m Y/N,” I introduce myself and we fist bump with a giggle.

As the lights dim, a raucous thunder of screaming and clapping fills the air. The stage, once bare, now thrums with the promise of the night’s enchantment. A VCR begins to play and there is a collective hum of anticipation as the video plays through. Suddenly, performers dressed in all white jumpers begin to get into formation on stage. The opening chords of ‘ON’ fill the arena, a melody that seems to resonate with the very beat of my heart.

The show unfolds like a dream, each performance a tapestry of sound and soul. I find myself getting lost in the rhythm, the lyrics a salve to the ache that had taken residence in my chest. The ARMY around me move as one, a sea of light and energy, and I let their joy buoy my spirits.

Interlude after interlude, the concert moves on, the time for me to have to go drawing ever closer. I watch as BTS split up between two orange motorized boxes filled with purple and white balloons, the clear plexiglass bearing their logo. They draw louder cheers from ARMY as they pass between the pit and level one seats, ‘Telepathy’ being sung collectively by ARMY and BTS. As the car approaches our area, my eyes lock on Namjoon and I watch him dance and hype up the crowd. I notice the instant he picks me out of the crowd. He looks down, but his hand clutches his heart before looking back up and nodding once. Jimin pats his shoulder, bringing Namjoon back to the moment.

Kyshanna elbows me gently, leaning in to muse, “Namjoon seems a little…I don’t know-” She shakes her head as she ponders what word best to describe what she’s sensing. “He seems really sad.”

I swallow thickly.

“Really?”

She nods. “I hope he’s ok. I know it’s been a while since they’ve performed at this large a scale. I just hope it’s not getting to him.”

“It’s the last day. He’s probably just bummed the tour is coming to an end,” I point out, guilt gnawing at me again.

“Hmm,” she hums pensively.

As ‘Telephathy’ comes to an end, the cart begins to bring the group back to either side of the stage, the music immediately going into ‘Stay’. Just as Jin completes his lines, the car drops them off and Namjoon makes his way across the stage, his rap carrying him towards the center pathway.

“Stay!”

Namjoon’s gaze finds mine again across the expanse of faces. It is fleeting, a mere heartbeat in time, but in that glance, a silent message is conveyed—this was not a goodbye that he wanted and he wished I could stay with him.

“Stay, stay, stay, stay (Always)!”

The words sounded like a plea and it breaks me with each exclamation. I decide in that moment I have to go. It is hurting too much to remain.

“Can you hold this for me?” I say to Kyshanna. “I gotta go to the bathroom.”

She’d told me she couldn’t afford an ARMY bomb, so I leave it with her along with the picket. I had others back at home. I did feel bad to leave without saying good-bye, but I can feel myself getting too close to bursting into full on tears. I leave then, my footsteps as quick as they can be in the crowded building. I flash my lanyard at the VIP doorway and a staff member helps escort me back to the awaiting car.

LAX is not far from the stadium and before I could relax enough, we were already arriving. The airport loomed like a threshold—a passage from one chapter to another. Security checks, boarding passes, and the hum of engines—the mechanics of departure. But emotions don’t follow schedules or protocols. They spill over, uncontainable. How could I step onto that plane, knowing that the sky could possibly separate us indefinitely?

An hour later I settle into my seat and imagine his voice—the timbre that makes my heart ache. His laughter, the way he holds me so gently when we kiss, as if he’s afraid to break me. The taste of his lips, the warmth of his skin. These memories were fragile, like paper birds caught in a storm. Was it too late to reach out and tell him we should keep the contract active? That I would rather have him a few times a year than never more?

The airplane begins to move up the runway and soon we are ascending. As I glance out of the window to the land below that is growing more and more miniature by the second, I can no longer keep the tears locked inside. They spill like rivulets down my cheeks as I make my way toward an uncertain future.

December 31, 2021

Curled up on the couch, the glow of my Christmas tree provides the right amount of lighting I need to read the words of the book I’ve chosen. Lo-Fi Hip-Hop plays softly in the background as I try to lose myself in the pages of the story, but if I am being honest, I couldn’t even tell you what I’d read so far. My mind just won’t turn off. Nothing is helping me get out of my thoughts this evening. Maybe I should have gone to a New Year’s party to ring in the upcoming year after all. Perhaps that would have proven a better distraction than staying home alone.

I snuggle deeper into my blanket and glance over at my tea and think, Nah, this is so much better than being out at a noisy party even if I can’t get out of my head.

I just am not in the mood to party, anyway. It’s been almost a month since I said my goodbyes to Namjoon. Aside from him checking in on me to make sure I made it back home ok, there had pretty much been no communication between us since then. And I didn’t blame him. I had seen the announcement from BigHit, letting ARMY know that BTS would be taking some personal time off in order to spend the holidays with their families, something they had not been able to do since their debut. Not wanting to impose on his family time, I have given him the space the company asked for.

It doesn’t mean I’m not a little sad.

This last visit with him had been a roller coaster of emotions. The two of us had definitely not played by the rules and were feeling the repercussions of it. Neither of us was willing to let this go, but neither of us really had figured out how we could make this work.

I stare at the flickering lights of the Christmas tree, trying to lose myself in the gentle rhythm of their twinkle, when a soft knock at the door pulls me from my thoughts. For a moment, I freeze, unsure if I imagined it. Who would be here at this hour, especially on New Year’s Eve? I reluctantly pull myself from the warmth of the couch, wrapping the blanket tighter around my shoulders as I shuffle to the door.

When I open it, my heart nearly stops.

Namjoon stands there, his eyes soft but intense, his breath visible in the cold night air. He’s holding a small bouquet of beautiful flowers in shades of purple, dusty rose and white, and his expression is one of determination mixed with vulnerability.

“Namjoon?” I breathe, my voice barely above a whisper, the shock of seeing him here rooting me to the spot.

“Hey,” he says quietly, his voice deep and familiar, filled with something that makes my chest tighten. “Can I come in?”

I nod wordlessly, stepping aside to let him enter. He steps inside and sets the flowers on the entryway table before turning to face me, his eyes searching mine.

“I couldn’t stay away,” he says, the words tumbling out as if he’s been holding them in for far too long. “I couldn’t stand being apart from you and having you think that you don’t matter to me.”

I blink, trying to process what he’s saying, the words not quite sinking in. “But… your family, the break—”

He shakes his head, cutting me off gently. “My family understand. I needed to see you. To tell you that I want to be with you. I don’t care about the rules, the distance, any of it. I just… I need you to know that I’m willing to do whatever it takes.”

My breath catches in my throat, tears welling up in my eyes as his words wash over me. I can see the sincerity in his eyes, the determination etched into every line of his face. He’s serious. This isn’t some fleeting impulse; it’s a promise, a declaration.

“You… you really mean that?” I ask, my voice trembling as I try to hold back the flood of emotions threatening to spill over.

Namjoon steps closer, his hand reaching out to gently cup my cheek. His thumb brushes away a stray tear, and his touch is so tender that it nearly breaks me. “I’ve never been more sure of anything in my life. I want to be with you, and I’m going to do everything I can to make this work. No matter what.”

In that moment, I realize that all the doubts, all the fears that have been gnawing at me since our last goodbye, don’t stand a chance against the strength of what we have. I drop the blanket and lean into his touch, letting the warmth of his hand melt away the last of my reservations.

“Ok,” I whisper, my voice barely audible as the tears spill over. “Ok.”

Namjoon smiles then, a brilliant, relieved smile that lights up his entire face. He pulls me into his arms, holding me close, and I feel the weight of the past few weeks lift off my shoulders. In his embrace, I find the peace I’ve been searching for, the answer to all the questions that have been swirling in my mind.

As we stand there, wrapped up in each other, the soft glow of the Christmas tree casting a warm light around us, I know that we’ll face whatever comes together. Because in this moment, nothing else matters. Not the distance, not the rules, not even the uncertainty of the future.

All that matters is us.

January 1, 2022

My phone pings and I groan, kicking myself mentally for forgetting to switch it to Do Not Disturb earlier. Namjoon shifts beside me, a soft huff leaving his lips. I toss my arm out, blindly searching for my phone to change it to silent mode, but curiosity gets the better of me and I peek at the notification that had woken me up. I gasp, causing Namjoon to perk up.

“What’s wrong?”

His deep voice rumbles up from his chest, the tone thick with worry as he sits up. I wordlessly turn the device towards him, simultaneously switching on my bedside lamp with my other hand. His teeth bite down on his bottom lip, trying to stop a smile from forming. I click the notification in order to see the entire message and Namjoon reads right along with me.

“Hello.

This is BIGHIT MUSIC…”

There’s a flutter in my chest as the reality of the message sinks in. There is no going back now. The announcement stating Namjoon is currently in a relationship has been posted for all ARMY, and non-ARMY for that matter, to see. The fact that the company included a request to respect Namjoon and his partner’s privacy only helps to settle my nerves a smidge.

“What are you thinking?”

His concerned voice breaks me from my thoughts and I realize I’ve been staring blankly at my phone for a minute. Shifting my gaze to his, I take in the pinch of his brow and the attentive curiosity in his eyes. His hand reaches out for mine and I look down at our entwined fingers before looking back up at him.

“I’m thinking that there is no taking this back.”

The corner of his lip quirks up. “No. Definitely can’t take it back now,” he chuckles. “You still cool with that?”

“I mean, I knew you were serious about being together no matter what, but oof.” I shake my head, a heavy breath escaping my lips. “Now that it’s out there like that…I don’t know.” I shrug. “I’m excited, but I’m scared. I’m scared of how ARMY will react.”

Namjoon kisses the back of my hand. “Yes, it’s scary, but you don’t have to be afraid. We are in this together and just like my brothers, I will protect you from any of the negativity that might come of it.”

“Yeah?” I gaze at him with adoration and hope.

“I promise,” he nods earnestly. “Besides, if anyone sends hate your way, they are not a real ARMY, so their opinion means nothing to me. True ARMY are going to be happy for us and it’s their comments that I’m going to choose to acknowledge.”

“Ok,” I smile, trusting him fully.

“Ok,” he beams back, his dimples deepening endearingly. “Come here.”

A shaky giggle full of nerves bubbles up from me, but Namjoon cuts off the sound with a deep kiss as he presses my body into the mattress.

Credits:

Text Divider by @xxbimbobunnyxx

Moodboard by me.

For moodboard, used:

InCollage for layout, title, butterfly and photos.

Except Namjoon’s photo. Credit to RM x GQ Korea, Vogue Korea 2021

Motionleap was used for the movement within the moodboard.

We have come to the end. My heart feels so happy to finally post it after working on it for so long. Thank you for taking the time to read it. I appreciate it so much. Feel free to comment, like, and reblog. Until the next time!

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inconsideratekidney · 17 days ago

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11/8/24

hey y'all

what the fuck. um. yeah, what the fuck.

what are y'all's plans for the next 4 years?

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i truly hate when professors ask basic questions like we're in elementary school. why are you babying me before you treat me like a well-respected researcher?? we're asked a dumb easy question, dumber than what we should already know, then we're asked to do something way out of our experience and what we should be expected to know.

this happens to me in multiple classes and i'm still so shocked

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today is friday i know, but i have been catching up on a lot of work things n such. i have also finally had time to sit down and play the sims, on my laptop and tablet, and i feel more calm now. my grades have finally improved (not that i've bumped up some of those failing grades bc my prof hates everyone and doesn't allow resubmissions), but we still have like 4 weeks, so i just have to keep it up now. i'm feeling better, and would like to continue to do better.

picking classes for next semester feels like a doozy, i'm dropping one of my majors to make it a minor and that means i'll graduate next next spring? ew. gross. i have to fix that or something.

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i created some of my friends in the sims and myself, all in my eyes of course. i didn't want to do it based on pictures, i just did it from memory. i made everyone based on how i see them and myself as how i want to see myself...they came out pretty good, i want to keep going making more, but so far i made people i know the best. we'll see where i end up. i might just end up making a house full of interpreters....lol

i have so many ideas for what to build--i focus more on building, but creating sims is fun as well, just not my most favorite--i want to build so many complex things, but it's so hard to start and my computer can barely handle it.

i'd love some ideas for what to build, for example, right now i am planning on making a house that technically has one room, but has split levels. i've seen youtube shorts on them and i've pasted the video below if you're interested, but they are so interesting even if every video i see they always forget a bathroom. i love doing challenges as well, like the plumbella challenge, and there's another one similar. they generate random style, color, theme, etc. and give you rules and a specific amount of money you can use. you also always get one setback, like you can't use cheats, or you can only use certain items from one pack or just base game, or that you have to do it only from birds' eye view... they are all so fun. i also want to finish making my mansion i am currently working on. it's so big and it's so hard to fill every space...

i also wanted to build a beach house, one of the videos i've also linked below, based on a reference i saw. it reminds me of where my family goes on vacation--those big beach houses we never stayed in cuz they're so god awfully expensive. they are so cool to look up on zillow or other rental websites. like big dream homes. i'd love to build a beach home eventually.

videos:

micro apartment 1:

https://youtube.com/shorts/RlauAXoxtls?si=DKH1FTDpkCid3Gv5

micro apartment 2:

https://youtube.com/shorts/kbdseYjig4s?si=Z-mbMA1OrnbwFdo7

coastal house:

https://youtube.com/shorts/VKC0h-6sSeI?si=LpiDh13v2yj1jbC5

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i type "i" way too much. all i do is talk about myself and reflect on myself and how much i talk. obviously, this is my blog, but i always feel that i overshare and should shift my attention to more pressing matters. alas, i am in my existential identity stage of life--early adulthood, so i don't feel all too bad. and for the possible 3 or 4 of you reading, i'm sure you're used to this and you're still choosing to come back, so i can ease my anxiety on that one. i still talk about myself in general way too much. i harp on this because i know other people are experiencing life for the first time as well--i'd love to let others have thr spotlight whenever possible. although, i do take way longer to process my life happenings than most it seems, so i prefer to process in my own way. i enjoy having a platform to share my insanities on. i do still get sick of myself, though.

anyway, my point is anxiety ruins my life and it affects me everyday whether it is desired or not. (see what i did there i eliminated every possible "i" i could have used in that sentence and then i used many "i"'s in this sentence cuz i like being self-aware and illuminating my hyper fixations like the freak i am.)

it is also apparent that reading can be much more enjoyable when the author isn't constantly saying "i did this" or "i did that." sentences and ideas can be easily digested by using the third person, or even an unidentifiable "it." when something happens and you mess up and want to apologize, what do you say?:

"I'm sorry I upset you."

or "I'm sorry you are upset."

one is more self-aware and puts the blame on oneself, but isn't the other as well? regardless of what one person does, the other could be upset by that specifically or not. you could alternatively say:

"I'm sorry what I said/did upset you."

or even "I'm sorry you are upset because of my actions."

which sounds better? which is most "correct"? which one feels more authentic?

i experienced this first when my mother told me i had to say "I'm sorry I upset you." it pissed me off because i didn't do anything crazy (in my eyes) and she still got upset, but in those situations, you have to do what your mother says even if her asking you to reword and acknowledge you upset her upsets you in the process...

see what i did there again? i used "you," i love writing. oftentimes i still use "i" because it is the most accurate statement. why else would i do it? i could sit and write more and more about things that happen and affect me, but not using "i" defeats the purpose. you could think i am talking about something else totally different. it's more short and concise. why say many word when few word do trick, amirite? and with that this section is concluded with the idea that my emphasis on myself is the whole reason i sit down and write a blog. (ew, not me starting with "and" writing about something trying to be more formal. ew.)

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lol. lol is the best word for my life. it's the easiest thing to use. so simple, when there aren't emoji options -> lol, when the setting is uncomfortable -> lol, when i don't know how to end a sentence without a period -> lol, when i want to appear less rude or direct -> lol, when i don't feel like you can tell i'm making a funny -> lol, when you're making a funny -> lol. it's simple.

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anyshways, how is everyone's day going, how was your week?

this week had some things happen...but first trans woman for the house!! yipee!! i hadn't heard much else so far tbh.

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i almost didn't post this blog again, but since i started it and really did a good chunk of it, i have to post it now. i'm still behind on my work and am scared for the weekend tbh. i have to do a revision of my draft paper and send it to my prof who won't change the grade, but will give me feedback before the final paper is due....yipee...so generous of her.... i stg everyone almost failed or actually failed the midterm and did poorly on the draft paper as well. she just doesn't give a shit. no extra credit offered, no resubmissions, virtually no support for any of us failing. -_-

i hope to pass this class with a decent enough grade, but mainly just to pass the class is my goal.

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it's late, but i want to play the sims again. it's so much fun and i love it. it's truly a game i keep coming back to bc of all the different aspects of it. i hope if i get a new computer it doesn't reset my data... cuz it's different on every computer i'm pretty sure. it's different if it's on steam compared to just my computer, so i'm nervous. i could download all of the sims i made and all houses i've made, but i want the progress of this one family i have.....oofie, we'll see. i'll look it up.

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tldr:

wtf

basic questions

picking classes

sims and building

grammar and creative writing

lol

how are you?

annoying prof

sims!!

anywho, goodnight and toodaloohoo,

kD :p

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1, 2, 17 and 37 ✨

Thank you!

What are 3 things you'd say shaped you into who you are? a) My brother's passing (and all the events this set in motion) b) Having been bullied most of my high school years c) My vivid imagination / daydreaming tendencies

Show us a picture of your hand writing

17. Name three things that make you happy a) Travels without schedule. (Roaming, wandering, especially driving). b) Thunderstorms c) The inviting silence of the night

37. Share a secret Professional / published / photography masters don't take better photos than other photographers necessarily. Their strength lies in what they do not show. If you want to up your game : learn to show less. (I have learned to do that more with my website but here, I'll still overshare because it's a self-indulgent / semi anonymous space).

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Tbh unpopular as fuck opinion but I don't hate tumblr live and I might try it sometime, like to stream from camp if we have service or smth.

Listen. Do I hate and loathe the tiktok-ification of the entire internet? yes. but do i use tiktok or twitch? Fuck the no, I'm not downloading MORE apps to watch your calligraphy stream. Sorry. I do think that's fascinating but here's the thing. If my mutual was doing some nerd shit like that was on tumblr live I'd watch it. But I would not click out to twitch or any other Additional Application to do the same thing. I won't do that on most apps. I won't even stream on Instagram because I, again, hate the tiktok-ification of every app, but also bc instagram has intentionally made it SO competitive to be on their platform that you have no choice if you wan a keep your followers. Most people will avoid Doing A Thing if there are too many additional apps/windows/steps to go through, its not just me.

However I LOVE oversharing with my tumblr followers. And I love livestreams of just like. Vibes. Saxsquatch style. That's the kind of shit I want on my blog anyway, and that's the kind of streaming I would do, why would I go to a different app for that? And in terms of the commodification of our online personalities, at least tumblr isn't trying to rewrite the entire functionality of the fucking website to center around Live the way that Instagram did. That automatically makes me more inclined to use tumblr live than any established Facebook products.

I realize most everyone probably already has twitch and tiktok and all the others and you're used to using those platforms instead. If you already stream on twitch it doesn't make a ton of sense to come to tumblr, ill give you that.

But for people who are new to streaming, or who wanna stream unconventional stuff, or stuff that's related to your blog... I really don't see the issue?? Tumblr has been a multi media blogging platform since day 1, adding streams to the other post types makes logical sense? I'll also admit tumblr staff makes a lot of changes that don't always make sense and I'm not always on board, but this one seems so benign and actually potentially cool and useful, and yet everyone unanimously agrees that we hate it.

Sorry yall I don't get this one? i still simply do not see the issue with tumblr live? I see a bunch of mice angry that their maze cheese got moved bc of the menu rearrangement. Sometimes they do move the cheese. It pisses me off too! I get it! It's still good cheese tho...

#me

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Ok ok, i want to do a little interview with you as well

How long have you been in the bsd fandom?

Who is your favorite character in bsd?

What other anime do you like/is your favourite?

Quick! Your favourite character ever(name them) is held at gunpoint and you need to sing a song you love word for word or they die. Which song do you choose?

Whats something you would never want to change about yourself, no matter how much time passes?

Answer however you like or dont answer at all, no pressure <3

OH MY - HIT ME IN THE HEAD W THE PERSONAL QUESTIONS SKDKS

alr 😭✌️

I've been in the bsd fandom since...2018/2019 I think. I started with the anime. I remember being so early that at that time, almost all the bsd reviews were negative. I went to reddit, I think I went to my-anime-list too, and other websites and it was full of negative reviews. So I went into bsd with a rather "eh" mindset 😅 but I was bored that time and had nothing else to watch and I saw it on Netflix so yeah 👍

Hihi 🤭🤭🤭🤭 if you stalk me long enough, you may find that my bsd blorbo 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 is non other than Oda Sakunosuke. I love that man to pieces fr 💖 I love the fictional version I made of him in my head even more 🤭

Other anime that I like is Hunter x Hunter. Childhood anime was Sailormoon 💖 and Princess Sara. I was also once obsessed with Cedie the little prince (its an old anime). Besides those, I don't remember much anime that I was rlly invested on. Though I did watch JJK the movie and season 1 ❤️

A song I love? Here's the thing - - I don't really have a favourite song. I have different 'top songs' depending on the genre. 😭 But one song that comes to mind rn is 'I am not a robot' by Marina and the Diamonds

Oh. Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh. You saved the best for last I see 👀👀👀👀 uhmmmmm 😭😭😭😭😭 one thing I have that I would never want to change about myself? hmmmmm...errr....wait..

my faith in God ig? (I'm christian and God's played a big role in my life so idw lost that ❤️) Besides that, I would say my 'desire' to keep on improving myself. (like even when I fall to new lows or am actively enjoying self destructive behavior, there's always that little desire that makes me want to stop and get better. I think everyone has this in a way but yeah, Idw lose this thing and submit completely to misery 😄✌️. Like I could *fail* hard on one day and feel awful abt it but after a while, I'll feel like trying again). <<<< this is me regarding my (sort of) unhealthy eating habits lmao 😭

Thank you for the ask!!

since I love oversharing, I will also share random things abt myself

I wish I didn't overthink that much

I wish I was more confident 🤭

^^ Ik I'll be better at these things in the future tho so might look back on this and feel nostalgic 🤭💕❤️

Oh one more random fact:

I'm kinda dense and I didn't even notice someone hated me last yr lol 🤭 oh well. not my problem honestly 💅✨

thanks for the ask again wonxxx ✌️😺

(your bio is so real. I also post stuff with the intention of looking back on it someday) 💐

💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

#asks #random #wonx 💓#the flatterous one #/j #ty for the asks ❤️

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Essential Internet Security Tips for Families in 2024

Introduction

In today's interconnected world, internet usage has become an integral part of family life. Whether it’s for work, education, or entertainment, families are spending more time online than ever before. While the internet provides countless benefits, it also poses risks, especially when it comes to online safety. Protecting your family from cyber threats is more crucial than ever. This article outlines essential internet security tips that families can implement to ensure safe and secure online experiences for every member.

1. Educate Your Family About Online Dangers

The first step to safeguarding your family online is education. Make sure every family member, from children to adults, understands the potential risks of the internet. Discuss topics like phishing, malware, ransomware, and online scams. Younger children may not grasp the severity of these risks, so explaining them in age-appropriate terms is important.

2. Set Up Strong Passwords and Use Two-Factor Authentication

A strong password is the cornerstone of good online security. Teach your family to create complex passwords that are difficult to guess. Use a combination of uppercase and lowercase letters, numbers, and special characters. Avoid using easily guessable information like birthdays or common words. Additionally, enabling two-factor authentication (2FA) adds an extra layer of security. With 2FA, even if a password is compromised, the account remains secure unless the second verification step is bypassed.

3. Install Reliable Antivirus Software

One of the most straightforward ways to protect your family’s devices from cyber threats is by installing reliable antivirus software. Make sure all devices—computers, tablets, and smartphones—are equipped with up-to-date antivirus programs. This software helps detect and remove malicious files, providing an essential layer of protection against malware, spyware, and other harmful threats.

4. Monitor Online Activities and Set Screen Time Limits

For families with children, it’s vital to monitor their online activities. This doesn’t mean invading their privacy, but rather ensuring that they’re using the internet responsibly. Parental controls on browsers and apps can help limit exposure to inappropriate content. Set screen time limits to avoid internet addiction and ensure a healthy balance between online and offline activities.

5. Secure Your Home Network

Securing your home Wi-Fi network is a crucial step in protecting your family’s online safety. Start by changing the default login credentials on your router. Set a strong Wi-Fi password and enable encryption protocols like WPA3. Ensure that only trusted devices can connect to your network by monitoring your device list regularly. You can also set up a guest network for visitors to keep your primary network secure.

6. Be Cautious When Sharing Information Online

Teach your family to be mindful of the information they share online. Personal data like home addresses, phone numbers, or financial details should never be shared on public platforms. Be especially cautious on social media sites, where cybercriminals often scout for valuable information. Make privacy settings strict and avoid oversharing personal details.

7. Keep Software and Devices Updated

Regularly updating software and devices is an often-overlooked but critical aspect of internet security. Cybercriminals frequently exploit vulnerabilities in outdated software. Ensure that all devices in your household have automatic updates enabled for operating systems, browsers, and applications. Installing updates as soon as they’re available reduces the risk of being exposed to potential threats.

8. Teach Safe Online Shopping Practices

Online shopping has grown in popularity, but it’s essential to practice safe shopping habits. Ensure that your family only makes purchases from trusted, secure websites. Look for the “HTTPS” in the URL and the padlock icon, indicating that the site uses encryption to protect your data. Avoid making transactions on public Wi-Fi networks, which can be easily hacked by cybercriminals.

9. Encourage Open Communication About Online Experiences

Maintaining open communication about online experiences can help in identifying potential risks before they escalate. Encourage your family to talk about any unusual or suspicious online behavior they encounter. Children should feel comfortable reporting cyberbullying, unsolicited messages, or any website that makes them uncomfortable.

Conclusion

In a world where the internet has become an indispensable part of daily life, safeguarding your family’s online presence is essential. By educating your family, setting up strong passwords, installing antivirus software, and following these essential internet security tips, you can ensure that your family enjoys a safe and secure online experience. Internet security is not a one-time effort but an ongoing commitment to staying informed and proactive.

#telecommunications #home network #internet security #authentication #antivirus

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The 7 Deadly Sins of Social Media Marketing (and How to Avoid Them)

Social media has become an indispensable tool for businesses to connect with their audience, build brand awareness, and drive sales. However, navigating the world of social media marketing can be tricky, and even well-intentioned strategies can sometimes backfire. To help you steer clear of common pitfalls, let's explore the seven deadly sins of social media marketing and how to avoid them.

1. Lust: Chasing Vanity Metrics

The Sin:

Many marketers fall into the trap of obsessing over vanity metrics such as likes, shares, and followers. While these metrics may inflate your ego, they don't necessarily translate into meaningful engagement or conversions.

The Solution:

Focus on metrics that align with your business objectives, such as website traffic, lead generation, and sales. Measure the impact of your social media efforts on tangible outcomes rather than superficial indicators of popularity.

2. Gluttony: Overposting and Oversharing

The Sin:

Bombarding your audience with excessive posts can lead to fatigue and disengagement. Oversharing irrelevant or low-quality content can also damage your brand's credibility.

The Solution:

Strike a balance between quantity and quality. Tailor your content to your audience's interests and preferences, and aim for consistency rather than frequency. Invest time in creating valuable, shareable content that resonates with your target demographic.

3. Greed: Self-Promotion Without Value

The Sin:

Constantly pushing promotional messages without providing value to your audience can come across as selfish and spammy, driving followers away instead of attracting them.

The Solution:

Adopt a customer-centric approach by focusing on solving your audience's problems and addressing their needs. Offer informative, entertaining, or inspiring content that adds value to their lives, and sprinkle promotional messages sparingly and strategically.

4. Sloth: Neglecting Engagement and Interaction

The Sin:

Ignoring comments, messages, and mentions from your audience demonstrates a lack of care and appreciation, eroding trust and loyalty over time.

The Solution:

Prioritize engagement and interaction by responding promptly to comments, messages, and mentions. Foster meaningful conversations, acknowledge feedback, and show genuine interest in your audience's opinions and experiences.

5. Wrath: Being Reactive Instead of Proactive

The Sin:

Reacting impulsively to negative feedback or criticism can escalate conflicts and damage your reputation. Ignoring or deleting negative comments can also fuel resentment and mistrust.

The Solution:

Stay calm and composed in the face of adversity, and address negative feedback with empathy and professionalism. Use criticism as an opportunity for learning and improvement, and demonstrate transparency and accountability in your responses.

6. Envy: Comparing Yourself to Competitors

The Sin:

Constantly comparing your social media performance to that of your competitors can breed envy and insecurity, leading to imitative behavior and a lack of authenticity.

The Solution:

Focus on your own journey and objectives rather than fixating on your competitors' successes or failures. Analyze your performance against your own benchmarks and goals, and strive for continuous growth and innovation.

7. Pride: Refusing to Adapt and Evolve

The Sin:

Being overly confident in your social media strategy and refusing to adapt to changing trends, algorithms, or consumer preferences can lead to stagnation and irrelevance.

The Solution:

Stay humble and open-minded, and embrace experimentation and iteration in your social media efforts. Keep abreast of industry trends and best practices, and be willing to pivot and evolve in response to feedback and market dynamics.

By recognizing and avoiding these seven deadly sins of social media marketing, you can enhance your brand's presence, credibility, and effectiveness on social media platforms.

#social media agency #social media marketing #social media services #social media company #smm services

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everythingismadeofchaos · 7 months ago

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Real quick though, has anyone else started taking THC for the first time for anxiety and experienced the following effects?

1. The sensation that you are a different person, along with the knowledge that it is only an illusion, which is reassuring to know

2. Drastically different brain function leading to powerful insights or deeper understanding of known concepts

3. Directing this increased insight inwards toward the self and discovering your own personality problems, which would be obvious to an objective onserver and you only needed like a second opinion or a friend or something to tell you about and explain

4. You then make clear decisions, even drastic ones, regarding your own life, and then make notes of these decisions that you yourself will later read, say by putting them in your calendar or something

5. Your life is legitimately improved simply by the advice of a separate person with a very clear insight and tremendous understanding of your psyche, which person happens to be you

I have made a new friend, and he is me

People this is happening to me right now, and I can tell you it is delightful. I get optimism in my everyday life from this. Like I understand the THC has a momentary euphoric effect, but separate from that and long after the chemicals have worn off, this mechanism results in improved quality of life.

I've always tried to be kind to other people, I've always tried to be a nice and decent person, consciously. Since I have started taking THC I have had whatever it takes to implement this in a proactive manner. I compliment people. I consciously try to make other people's lives better, whether they're having a rough time or not. I generally stay away from negative people, but lately rather than engage with them I just ignore them, and I think this is healthier for me and also better in the world.

Literally everything I have encountered so far using this drug has been positive. Literally everything about this experience has been overwhelmingly positive. I have been taking THC gummies for about a year now, maybe once or twice a week, and literally all results have been positive

I have composed this entire post just after the effects have kicked in, and I need to go now because I have to write myself some notes. Thank you all so much for reading my words. I have just started using the website in the last month or two and practically every interaction has been a delight. I particularly enjoy so much being subscribed to unfiltered individuals who have so much to say and lead unique and interesting lives with their own inner worlds and personal experiences. I am so very grateful to all of you, anyone who reads this, anyone following me who doesn't get to read it, anyone not following me, anyone keeping the site operating at all. It has been so beneficial to me. I'm a CIS male and every once in awhile I feel a ghost of the isolation here that I feel in my usual life, a vague sense of unbelonging, but it is positively beans to what happens in my regular everyday life not on the site. Every minute here is a respite. I cannot understand trans people or LGBT people at all, their motivations are utterly opaque to me, and yet the empathy I feel, and usually I have a lot of empathy (kind of a weirdly large amount for someone in my demographic), and since I started taking THC it has cranked up to 11, as is written in the scriptures. The feeling I get from just lurking on posts where my own opinion is irrelevant and listening to the discussion has been so marvelous and uplifting a kaleidoscope of emotions and energy and originality. I'm sorry, I'm aware I'm having this experience and I have to go because I might start oversharing. If tonight's my big night and I never see you again thank you all. It is likely I have some time left and hopefully I will get to spend more time on this site for at least several years, And even if I say something really stupid and get myself banned all I have to do is make another account and just not post, not talk to people so I don't fuck it up again, and I can listen to all I want. 10/10

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taufiquehossain · 9 months ago

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Ensuring Your Safety on Matrimonial Sites: The Dos and Don'ts

Creating a secure profile on matrimonial websites is crucial to safeguard your privacy and personal information. By following the dos and don'ts of profile creation, you can ensure a safe and positive experience while searching for brides and grooms online.

Dos

Creating a secure profile on matrimony websites is crucial to safeguard your personal information and ensure a positive online experience. By following the proper steps, you can enhance your privacy and protect your data from potential threats.

1. Use a strong password: To begin with, always use strong and unique passwords for your matrimonial profiles to prevent unauthorized access. Additionally, be cautious while sharing personal details such as contact information and address. It's advisable to limit the amount of sensitive information you disclose online.

2. Lock your profile: Take advantage of the privacy settings offered by the matchmaking website to control who can view your profile and contact you. Regularly review and update these settings to align with your comfort level regarding sharing information.

3. Use separate email: When creating a matrimonial profile online, consider using a separate email address dedicated solely to this purpose. It helps organize communication-related to the platform without compromising your primary email account's security.

4. Report: Moreover, remain vigilant against potential scams or fraudulent activities on matrimonial websites. Report any suspicious behavior or requests immediately to the platform's support team for prompt action.

By incorporating these best practices into your profile creation process, you can establish a secure online presence on marriage sites while safeguarding your privacy and data integrity.

Don'ts

By avoiding specific actions, you can enhance the security of your personal information and safeguard your privacy. Here are some key "Don'ts" to keep in mind while creating a secure profile on matrimonial websites:

1. Avoid using sensitive personal information: Refrain from sharing sensitive details such as your home address, financial information, or identification documents on your profile.

2. Steer clear of oversharing: Resist the temptation to divulge excessive personal details that could compromise your privacy or security.

3. Don't use weak passwords: Avoid using easily guessable passwords or reusing passwords across multiple platforms. Opt for solid and unique passwords to protect your account from unauthorized access.

4. Refrain from sharing contact details prematurely: Avoid sharing contact information like phone numbers or email addresses with unknown individuals until you are comfortable and have verified their identity.

5. Avoid engaging in suspicious conversations: Be cautious of individuals who request inappropriate information or exhibit suspicious behavior. Trust your instincts and report any concerns to the platform's support team.

Identifying Red Flags and Scams on Matrimonial Platforms to Avoid Fraudulent Activities

Matrimonial scams come in various forms, such as fake profiles, financial exploitation, identity theft, and even emotional manipulation. Fraudsters on matrimonial sites often engage in deceptive practices like requesting money for emergencies, pressuring individuals into sharing personal information or financial details, or creating elaborate stories to gain sympathy and trust.

By understanding the types of marital scams and being cautious, you can safeguard yourself from falling victim to fraudulent activities. It is essential to stay informed and exercise caution when interacting with potential brides and grooms online.

One of the first steps in safeguarding against fraud is knowing how to spot fake profiles on marriage bureau sites. Look out for inconsistencies in information provided, overly perfect or generic photos, and reluctance to engage in video calls or meet in person.

Detecting scams online involves paying attention to signs of fraudulent activities, such as requests for money. These sudden emergencies require financial assistance or a reluctance to share personal details or meet face-to-face. Trust your instincts and verify information independently before committing to any relationship or financial transaction.

By being vigilant and proactive in identifying red flags and scams on marriage media platforms, you can ensure a safer and more secure online experience while seeking genuine brides and grooms online.

Interacting Safely: Communicating with Potential Matches While Protecting Your Privacy

In the digital age, protecting personal information online is crucial, especially when engaging with potential matches on matrimonial sites. By following some essential guidelines, you can communicate while safeguarding your privacy.

When interacting with potential brides and grooms on matrimonial sites, it's important to avoid sharing sensitive personal information such as your home address, phone number, or financial details. Use the messaging features provided by the platform to communicate initially and ensure that conversations remain within the secure environment of the site.

By being mindful of how you share information and taking proactive steps to protect your privacy online, you can navigate the world of online matchmaking safely and securely.

When it comes to interacting safely on matrimonial sites, securing your messaging is crucial to protecting your privacy. By following some simple steps, you can communicate with potential brides and grooms while ensuring your information remains secure.

One effective way to secure messaging on matrimonial sites is to avoid sharing personal contact information, such as phone numbers or addresses. Utilize the platform's messaging features and keep all conversations within the site's secure environment.

Another important tip is to be cautious of sharing sensitive details too quickly. Take the time to get to know the other person before divulging personal information that could compromise your privacy.

By being mindful of these strategies and using the secure messaging features provided by matrimonial sites, you can interact safely with potential brides and grooms while safeguarding your privacy.

Meeting Offline: Safety Measures When Transitioning from Online to Face-to-Face Interactions

When transitioning from online to face-to-face interactions, especially when meeting prospective brides and grooms offline, it is crucial to prioritize safety measures. Ensuring a safe and comfortable environment for both parties is essential in establishing trust and fostering meaningful connections.

Before meeting offline, consider conducting initial video calls to establish familiarity and ensure the authenticity of the individuals involved. When arranging an in-person meeting, choose a public location with high foot traffic and ensure that someone you trust is aware of your whereabouts.

Additionally, it is advisable to share your location with a friend or family member and set up regular check-ins. Trust your instincts and be prepared to leave if you feel uncomfortable or unsafe at any point during the interaction.

By taking proactive safety measures when transitioning from online to face-to-face interactions with prospective brides and grooms, you can create a secure environment conducive to building genuine relationships while prioritizing personal well-being.

Conclusion: Empower Yourself with Knowledge to Safely Navigate the World of Online Matrimony

In conclusion, empowering yourself with knowledge is the key to safely navigating the world of online matrimony. By understanding the potential risks and pitfalls, you can make informed decisions and protect yourself from any possible harm.

Take the time to research and educate yourself about online dating platforms, common scams, and safety measures. Trust your instincts, communicate openly with potential brides and grooms, and always prioritize your safety above all else.

Remember to trust your instincts, conduct thorough research, and verify information before making any commitments. Stay vigilant, prioritize your safety and well-being, and approach online matrimony with caution. By staying informed and proactive, you can make the most of your online experience while safeguarding yourself against any potential pitfalls.

#matrimony #matrimonial #marriage site

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