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qoldenskies · 8 days ago

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are dms allowed instead of asks to talk to you (just chat)? or is that just mutuals /genq

its only open for mutuals for now! just out of worry of getting anything rude (i have already gotten a few aggressive asks before lmao) + im very easily overwhelmed and would rather stick to a small pool of people at the moment

#ask #mutuals can hunt me for sport if they would like #only if they know that sometimes it'll take 3-4 business days to get back to them #back in my old community i had a really direct avenue of communication to my followers and people-#-would like. generally use it to be rude and parasocial to my face. i didnt like the familiarity it fostered #although people here have been a lot more respectful so that's a fear thats been waning #lmao that one person that said i drew all of my male characters ''like femboys'' and called me close-minded when i tried to ask him wtf he-#-meant by that #that description of the conversation actually does not properly encompass how insane that person was being but like #in retrospect i think he was just a transphobe #i made a lot of furry content and as an (at the time) teen female creator around #a bunch of adult centrist white men .... it was hell #let's just say i will NEVER make a discord server for fans of my content ever again

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