#(according to him)

[cherryblossomchronicles]

I'm halfway through the show, Queen of Tears, and something that I've seen floating across is the anti Hyun Woo sentiment regarding how he treated Hae In initially and was just trying to do it all for the will.

Something to understand here is that in situations such as his, where he was emotionally empty and just a shell of himself who was just functioning, he didn't have the bandwidth to understand the gravity of situation that was Hae In's terminal illness.

In Hyun Woo's mind, he didn't have Hae In's support anywhere, be it against his in-Laws or in the company. She is silent against her family and hostile and argumentative in the company. He doesn't know what all she does for him on the sly or in backstage. He is not aware and Hae In never made the effort to change that situation.

All that pressure, anxiety, gear and emotional drain took its toll on Hyun Woo's emotional capacity. Stuck in a state of constant negativity, his initial reaction to Hae In's illness might be a form of self-preservation. He shuts down completely, unable to process the additional emotional burden of her mortality.

Something to remember is also the fact, that although he was thinking of it, the one thing that pushed him to draft the divorce papers were the talk of their child, whose entire identity and life was being decided by Hae In's family while she had no opinion on that and couldn't care less. This entire situation fueled the fire of resentment burning within Hyun Woo. Here was Hae In, seemingly indifferent to the future of their potential child, the very thing that initially distanced them. It felt like a repeat of their early struggles, where her family held all the cards and Hae In remained silent, leaving him to battle alone.

This perception, however flawed it might be, explains his impulsive decision to draft the divorce papers. Exhausted and emotionally hollowed out, he saw the child issue as the final straw, a symbol of their inability to stand together. He might have been grasping at a desperate solution, a way to force a change in their dynamic, a cry for her to finally fight for him and their future.

Of course, this doesn't paint Hyun Woo as a hero. His actions were undeniably hurtful, a clumsy and emotionally charged attempt to solve a complex situation. But by understanding the immense pressure he was under, the constant negativity seeping into his core, we can see a flicker of vulnerability beneath his anger. He craved Hae In's support, her voice alongside his in the face of adversity. Perhaps, the divorce papers were a twisted plea for her to finally break her silence, to acknowledge his pain and fight for their future together.

Here's where empathy becomes crucial. While his actions are undeniably hurtful, it's important to consider if they stem from malice or a desperate attempt to cope.

Think about it this way: Imagine a cup overflowing with negativity. Hyun Woo's daily struggles with his in-laws, the lack of support at work, and the constant emotional strain have already filled his cup to the brim. When Hae In's illness is revealed, it's simply too much for him to handle at that moment. He doesn't have the emotional space to understand the gravity of her situation, let alone offer support. in fact, it's easy for him to consider her death as an easy escape since his capacity for empathy or his love for her was essentially buried under all that negativity.

[jazzy-tzw]

The one and only Megastar of WWE☝🏾

[unhinged-pickle-juice]

Cas: Have the knives been sharpened recently? They appeared dull on the last case.

Dean, walking into the room: Yeah, Charlie sharpened them.

Sam: What? How would you know that? You just got back from Sioux Falls like five minutes ago.

Dean: *holds up bloody arm*

Dean: I checked.

Sam:

Cas: ..You checked the blades sharpness on yourself??

Dean: Well I’m not gonna be using them to stab paper, am I?

[ask-a-bot]

Greetings future me..and rest

Ksschoosch! Snf. I do not require rest.

[prettyboy-remi]

Sun too bright and warm :(

[bowie-starss]

1986 Hawkins High basketball game. Billy has been taking hats from the rest of the party and stacking them on top of Max’s head throughout the game because she’s so focused on Lucas. Billy’s hard work gets thrown off when Max stands up for a particularly impressive throw from Lucas.

[ashinafantasy]

if i had a nickel for every time my world history teacher said an ethnicity is determined by what language you speak, i'd have two nickels, which isn't a lot but it's weird that it happened twice

[peskyimmortals]

Watched Mythbusters on YouTube today. there was so many ads it felt like watching it on cable again

[zhengzi]

my brother imported a proper analogue am/fm radio from japan, which is probably one of the few countries that still sells them

[draconxs]

Aside from Lu.ffy who he enjoys fighting the most, Ka.ido probably would've enjoyed fighting K.id in a prolonged fight as well what with all the brutality and carnage. La.w on the other hand would probably piss him off to no end teleporting about the battlefield like an annoying gnat he can't swat. high-key thinks teleportation is a cowardly play.

[only-man-in-the-sky]

Seb asked me to hunt some guy down the other day. I'm sure I could. I'm sure he's not far. he was moots with many of our current moots. I just don't know what it would achieve? he probably already knows what he did wrong. that being said, Seb wants the motherfucker to suffer, and that's completely warranted

[celluzu]

Felps could be a big daddy, but he isn't.

[islamic-soul-08]

The Prophet's Prayer ﷺ according to authentic Ahadith💯

Reference : Sahih Bukhari 738

[crumb-crumblet-s-crumbington]

bumblebees first day out of sublevel 50

[lvrhughes]

yk i had my dad call me a petit girl today and that was horrible