#(That's gonna be my hater tag so block that if you don't want to be exposed to my - 100% justified - bitching)

[whysamwhy123]

It really is gonna be Bucks/FTR Round 57 in the finals, huh? 😑

[roo-bastmoon]

De-platform, Co-opt, En-joy

Roo's Guide to Handling Haters

Disclaimer: Not telling you guys how to run your blogs. Just sharing some tips on how to deprive narcissists of supply and live your best life online.

You're gonna see a LOT of hate, lies, and bullshit over Are You Sure? It's already started.

And everyone has their own way of dealing with that--whether it's to take a step back from the internet, or get into a dog fight in the comments, or compose thoughtful essays deconstructing ideas. I'm not here to pressure you into any one particular strategy--your blog, your rules.

But I've been in various online fandoms for 25 years now, on tumblr for 14, in ARMY for three, and I do have some wisdom I can share, if you want it.

Here are my three tips:

De-platform

It's well past time Jikookers de-center Taekookers and antis from our spaces, our narratives--and our minds. They live in a separate reality, they do not debate in good faith, and they get vicious when they don't get their way.

Consider carefully if you want to repost, or reblog, or reply to anyone casting doubt, slinging insults, or spouting conspiracy theories, especially over the next few months.

Would you buy them ad space? No? Then don't give them an inch in your space. Quietly report and block.

Mocking them often feeds into their victim complex. Don't feed them anything. Don't bring trash in this house.

They get nothing. Nothing.

Co-opt

If you just can't completely ignore or remove them, then don't waste precious energy arguing every little point with them. Their goal is to sap your energy.

Take a page out of an aikido self-defense handbook and use their own momentum against them.

Attacks are now an opportunity to spam the shit out of that hateful post with loving hashtags and links to playlists and fundraisers.

They just gave us free promo; go full-tilt Wunseidel on their asses.

En-joy

The best revenge is to live well.

Deeply, deeply enjoy and savor the content you do want to see. Leave no crumbs. Smack your lips and hum in satisfaction with every delicious bite.

The Jikook tag should be one big non-stop party-party-yeah extravaganza from now until well past September 19th.

Antis should be just sick to death of trying to come online for fear of seeing people ecstatically celebrating everything we get, and totally ignoring the ruiners.

Our boys are happy. They want us to be happy for them. So be happy.

Do. NOT. let the ruiners. RUIN it.

Above all, don't become the kind of fan that Jimin or Jungkook would be ashamed of.

You don't have to defend or resist a damned thing.

They shared all these amazing moments with us, and that is the best testament to the truth there is. So sit back, relax, enjoy.

Be sure.

Love, Roo <3

[matan4il]

Most of the time, I don't bother talking about the hate and harassment I get, because I don't think haters deserve the attention. The person I'm gonna write about definitely doesn't deserve any, but they've started harassing others that I know of, not just me.

So this is basically a warning post for Jewish bloggers and bloggers who are allies to Jews, and a request for anyone who can, to report and block this person (if you want to warn other bloggers, then please consider a reblog, too). @staff, This is also for you, proof of a pattern of harassment and abuse. Please do something and protect your Jewish users and their allies.

They first commented here, denying the antisemitism of Hamas, with the url @grizzlyismyspiritanimal and they seem to change their url quite frequently. For now it's @fancowboy but expect that to change again. Since IDK if Tumblr will let the mention (@'ing their url) hyperlink to their blog, here's how you can check out what their current url is, so you can report and block them. Go to this post where they're tagged as @grizzlyismyspiritanimal and hover your mouse over their url, you'll see their blog pop up no matter what new url they changed to. Here's a screenshot of what that looks like:

Here's their first comment on my post, along with my reply. Tumblr arranges these comments with the oldest at the bottom, click to see the image better:

Of course they never provided a link sourcing their claim, instead they provided a link to an op ed, which was not written by anyone affiliated with Hamas. This link did not support their claim that "Hamas specifically stated," but that didn't stop them from ignoring the fact that they couldn't prove their claim. Next, they repeated an already refuted antisemitic conspiracy theory (and I linked them to a refuting source, which they just ignored), while using strawmen arguments (attacking statements I didn't make). Obviously, none of this addresses the point actually made in the post they were commenting on.

When I called them out on the antisemitism of their whole narrative, they pulled the "I can't be antisemitic, because I'm Jewish" line of defense, while also bragging in the same comment about not going the easy route by doing that:

I no longer believe people who say antisemitic things, and then use this defense, after several have been proven to have lied about being Jewish, but more importantly, and this is the point I made to @fancowboy, Jews are not immune to internalizing antisemitism, and repeating antisemitic narratives. But I was curious whether there was any sign of this person having any sense of a significant Jewish identity on their blog. When I went on there, one of the first posts I came acorss was an antisemitic one, claiming that Jews have stolen the Star of David from the Muslims... I know there are a lot of anti-Zionist Jews out there, and that many of them are very capable of saying antisemitic things, but I don't think even they would endorse this false claim.

What's ironic is that the post shares a screenshot from Wikipedia, which explicitly mentions that this Muslim kingdom that existed in the 13th century AD (roughly 700 years ago), adopted the six-pointed star, due to the Muslim belief that it was a symbol on the ring ("seal") of King Solomon, a Jewish king who lived about 3,000 years ago. In other words, this post literally points out that Muslims borrowed this symbol from Jews, not the other way around. And just for historical interest, the first archeological find of Jews using the Star of David is dated to the 6th century BC (around 2,600 years ago).

I pointed out to @grizzlyismyspiritanimal / @fancowboy that I no longer believe they're Jewish, because I don't believe any Jew would reblog this antisemitic lie. In response, not long after, this "I'm not a coward" and "you would've blocked me (aka fanatic)" person blocked me. Instead of addressing what I said, or taking responsibility for their wrongdoing, and deleting this antisemitic post. Our exchange started on Jan 5 IIRC, this post was reblogged by them on Jan 4, and as of Jan 25 it is still on their blog, as you can see here (post and current date highlighted in this screenshot):

A minute after they blocked me from the above blog, they commented on my pinned post with links to my fandom content from another blog, @verygardenerland and this comment made it clear that it was the same person. I made a mistake, I wanted my fandom space free from antisemitic harassment, so I deleted that comment, which means I don't have that piece of evidence that it's the same person, but I do have another bit of proof. Remember how this person claimed to be Jewish? This is how they presented it:

(again, using a strawmen, I never said all Muslims are terrorists, and never would, because it's simply not true, and if anyone made that claim to me, I would be correcting them)

Well, this is the VERY similar way @verygardenerland talked about their supposed Jewish identity, in a post they made solely to harass and DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) me:

Jews were almost completely ethnically cleansed from Muslim majority countries, so the likelihood of a random online stranger being a Jew from a Muslim country is generally incredibly low to almost non-existent, and two who just so happen to both harass me on my blog one minute apart is probably less statistically likely than winning the lottery.

It's poetic irony that the one comment the above post got from another blogger, is someone else also calling this person out on the antisemitism of what they're saying:

Gotta love the bonus misogyny with "bitch."

I'm also going to offer you this following antisemitic comment (which distorts the Holocaust, and refers to Jews insultingly as "the chosen ones"), which I also don't believe any person with an actual Jewish identity would make:

And here's also one of the last comments this person made from @fancowboy before blocking me on that blog and continuing from @verygardenerland. Just notice how we have the same antisemitic abuse themes from both of these blogs:

Once more, extra touch of misogyny with "that much of a pussy."

(I have to address the white phosphorus claim. There are 2 ways of using it in battle, one legal, the other's not. Israel stated that when using it, that's only in the legal way. There is no record to show the contrary. People just exploit the fact it's used, to pretend it's automatically illegal. But I accept this is an antisemitic libel against the Jewish state, that sadly some Jews might repeat. The rest is what makes me think this person isn't Jewish)

@verygardenerland noticed I write fandom meta, and harassed me on these posts. Here's one example:

Then they searched related tag/s, and proceeded to harass me by calling me names in comments they left on random posts from other fandom members. These are posts that had nothing to do with me. One of the people on whose post they were calling me a Nazi is someone I have never even spoken to. The OP deleted the harassing comment, but this time I did get a screenshot before that, so here it is, as an example:

Now, on top of all of the above, @verygardenerland also started stalking my main blog at the same time they made their first comment from this url, as well as my two back up blogs. One's last post was on Mar 2022, the other's on Apr 2021, so it's completely pointless to follow them, other than as an intimidation tactic:

And they sent me anon hate. The thing is, they made it explicitly clear through what they said and the language they used, that it's them. They sent more than one message, but the one I'll attach here was obviously meant to freak me out the most, because it falsely starts out as a fandom ask, and then transitions into abusive language, as well as telling me there's more blogs they're stalking me from, basically making it clear that even if I block this url, I'll still not be safe from their stalking and abuse:

From a certain point on, I told them that whenever they make a comment to me, all I'll do is just remind them repeatedly that they're an antisemite, which is exactly what I've kept to. That's when I even bothered to respond. I postponed blocking their second blog, 'coz I wanted to put this post together first. Now I'm done with them.

To wrap this up, here are some final screenshots of their antisemitic abuse, how they obsessively comment on my posts, or posts that in their mind are related to me, and how they have started directly addressing random people who are commenting on my posts, telling them not to talk to "it," meaning they're also using de-humanizing language when referring to me, and of course once more employing the DARVO tactic by accusing me of that which they're guilty of:

My activity feed yesterday:

And not just yesterday. Love the bonus hateful language towards those who are disabled...

And this is just one of their comments on a post simply mourning the death of Israeli soldiers, and putting it in the context of multi-generational Jewish trauma:

To summarize again, please:

report and block this person

reblog this post if you feel comfortable to, in order to warn others

@staff please do something to stop the abuse. Thank you in advance!

[genericpuff]

Do you think Rachel knows about LO rekindled? Or that she could've secretly been reading your comics? 👀

I mean, I think people think I want her to know about it, I know that's a common criticism made of it that I made Rekindled to like, "get Rachel to notice me", but like... y'all there's a reason I only post it to Tumblr and mirror it on Dillyhub (when I remember to actually upload pages there oop-), I stay off Rachel's turf over on Webtoons and on other major webtoon platforms because I don't feel entitled to Rachel seeing Rekindled and frankly I just don't want that kind of attention lmao That's just bad energy I don't want to invite, I already feel like I'm pushing the limit of what's "okay" with some of the criticisms I have here and Rekindled as a whole. I get enough back-of-the-head punches from her fanbase as it is LMAO

If I wanted Rachel's attention, you'd see me in her IG comment section with the rest of the "haters" asking her why she's spending more time working on memes than on her comic or tagging her in my posts or, at minimum, using the #lore olympus tags which I'm sure you've noticed I also don't do ! and generally ask people not to do when sharing Rekindled :' ) (I've actually gotten her attention in the past that way, back when I still loved the comic and I did that LO tattoo that she retweeted which was neat for about 15 seconds lol)

Don't get me wrong, I still talk plenty of shit, but I try my best to keep it in my own house because I'm not entitled to Rachel's attention or time, she's clearly doing what she wants to do and I'm doing what I wanna do, we're each in our own house, managing our own lawns. Sure, I might be that weird neighbor who's side-eyeing her through the window blinds and talking shit about her very loudly from my kitchen, but it's completely on her - at her own risk - if she chooses to listen in, just like how it's completely on me to read LO at my own risk of taking psychic damage LMAO

If she is reading Rekindled then idk, I hope she enjoys it I guess? But I totally don't blame her if she doesn't like it, the fact that one of her assistants have blocked me despite us never interacting definitely gives me the sense that she does know about it to some degree. And there have been uh... signs...

BUT those are just hoof beats so I'm not gonna go chasing zebra's, what's more likely is that she's literally just minding her own business drawing her comic and trying to get her finale sorted out. Don't mention Rekindled in her comment sections if you can help it, don't be obnoxious with sharing it in the LO-focused spaces, leave well enough alone so I can keep making this for the people who it's made for, that's all I ask :' ) <3

[carlyraejepsans]

i've always stated these opinions openly, but just to summarize

tag your stuff appropriately so people can filter it

get a blacklist and filter stuff you don't like, nobody's gonna do it for ya (tumblr has some of the best filtering features out of the main social media platforms, so you don't have many excuses.)

if you bring up certain topics/ships that make people uncomfortable unprompted, you're an asshole

if you willingly look up stuff you don't like just to complain in the creator's face, you're an asshole.

kiss your block button with tongue

judge people all you want. who give a shit, i do it all the time. but if you're gonna be a hater do it in private where it doesn't hurt anyone.

don't harass people. what the fuck is wrong with you

if someone IS being harassed, and they're not... yknow. awful/inappropriate/bigoted towards real people, you should try to speak up against it on principle, even if they make stuff you find gross or cheap/dumb.

the "heaviest" thing i like is physical whump, so that goes for me first lol

be fucking niceys or i blow this building up

this ain't something im gonna be debated on, mostly 'cause i will NOT change my mind. they're the conclusions i came to after being a huge dickhead in my early teens, getting wayy too deep into fandom discourse & coming out of it realizing it's bullshit. if you have a problem with this, i wish you a good Get A Grip like I did and so long. now scamper. go do something you actually enjoy.

🤙peace.

[time-to-write-and-suffer]

The most frustrating thing to see in the HogLeg tags is people in the notes of TERFs and edgelords and Devil's Advocates and Consciencious Objectors trying to beat some sense into them.

Like, what happened with "don't feed the trolls", guys? Here's a helpful list of what to do when seeing specific types of braindead/inflammatory posts.

"Um if HogLeg is straight up killing people then gender clinics are mutilating children!" That's a TERF. Block, report if applicable, move on. This one wants to hurt you and takes pleasure in doing so. Hates you probably. Do not engagee.

"LMAO at those snowflakes being upset at a game! I'm gonna play it and nobody can stop me!" Edgelord. Block, report if applicable, move on. Do not engage, you are the snowflake they're trying to trigger. Do not give them the satisfaction.

"Um um I'm trans and POC and Jewish and this is getting out of hand, guys! You're radicalizing the normies by being mean to them for playing the game!" or "I'm trans and POC and Jewish and you're all insane for acting like wild dogs and attacking people for playing a stupid game! I'm not like this! Be normal!" At best, a sad creature still hoping that if they act "normal" enough, the power structures that be will let them live. At worst, a rando pretending to be these things in order to further their own argument. Yes, that still happens. Yes, even on Tumblr. Either way, move on. Block if you want. Do not engage with the bad faith arguments, they're either too stupid/insecure to get anything you say or they're actively aware of your arguments and know exactly why they disagree. Not worth your time.

"Uwu uwu *crying shitting throwing up* I love Hawwy Pottew and it's my hyperfixation/comfort thing and I will play it but I that doesn't mean I'm a transphobe! I promise I love my trans siblings! I am trans/am friends with transes! Please don't call me transphobic for simply enjoying some media! I'm full of love and affection and am an ally! Let me have my comfort thing! I'm so hurt by your mean accusations, but look, I'll donate to good causes and reblog trans rights posts!" Sad bottom-feeding slug, hasn't grown a spine yet and might never do so. Don't engage, this one's definitely not worth your time, your arguments might either pass through them (on account of it having no solid bone structure) or bounce off them (the skin is thicker than it seems, and it's just pretending to be soft and squishy but actually fully knows what it's doing and doesn't want to be held accountable).

Basically, stop, don't, turn around. Don't waste your time.

Anyway, to the rest of you: Keep on being haters and godspeed.

[hellbubu]

If you don't like what I post, filter tags and block me. I'm not gonna argue with anyone.

👀👀

The "whoa-oa" the rest let out when they saw this is very me-codded.

Erwin what are you doing here??? My man got isekaied into Kuroshitsuji

What Shōjo did this man escape from?

One of these is called  Ebony Dark’ness Dementia Raven Way and is a vampire but his teeth are straight and white. He also loves hot topic and wears a black corset with matching lace around it and a black leather miniskirt, pink fishnets and black combat boots,black lipstick, white foundation, black eyeliner and red eye shadow. And you'll never guess which one it is.

Average Tuesday for O!Ciel

I'll excuse the catchphrase only because you're hot

I can't blame you, I'd also try to get him to come to me.

Call me a hater if you want, but I hate this office. I wouldn't get shit done, I'd be looking at the pretty windows or the pendulum. Also, I don't like the lighting.

I was gonna make a joke but decided against it. But I will say that I love how no one helped him.

I hate that we didn't get to see O!Ciel's whole signature. I was planning to commit identity theft (not like he hasn't done it as well)

Mate, go get that head injury checked out, JFC

From the perspective of someone who hasn't read the manga, this sounds... kinda sketchy ngl

Oh God, Ebony Dark’ness Dementia Raven Way kidnapped him

Dude, chill. This is a school, not a Vogue photoshoot.

They made the art kids live in a haunted house.

All art kids have alexandria's genesis

If I were Seb, I'd snap. Imagine putting so much effort into cleaning that room and someone else takes all the credit

This looks so pretty

The ED is too fucking pretty

[octonauts--man]

DO NOT ASK FOR MONEY. I WILL SIMPLY DELETE THE ASKS + BLOCK YOU.

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INTRO!! (I needed a proper one.)

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ᴀᴍ ɪ ᴀ ᴛᴏʏ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜ, ᴍʏ ʟᴏᴠᴇ?

ᴊᴜꜱᴛ ᴀ ᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ᴘʟᴀʏ

ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇɴ ᴛʜʀᴏᴡ ᴀᴡᴀʏ

ɪ ɴᴇᴠᴇʀ ᴀꜱᴋᴇᴅ ꜰᴏʀ ᴛʜɪꜱ

ɪ ᴀʟᴡᴀʏꜱ ᴅɪᴅ ᴍʏ ʙᴇꜱᴛ

ᴡɪᴛʜᴏᴜᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ɪ ᴀᴍ ᴀ ʙʀᴏᴋᴇɴ ᴍᴇꜱꜱ

ɴᴏᴡ ɪ’ᴍ ɴᴇᴠᴇʀ ᴇɴᴏᴜɢʜ

ɪᴛ’ꜱ ᴀʟᴍᴏꜱᴛ ᴛᴏᴏ ᴍᴜᴄʜ

ꜰᴏʀ ᴍᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴡᴏʀᴋ ɪ ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴀ ʜᴜᴍᴀɴ’ꜱ ᴛᴏᴜᴄʜ

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Hello, my name is Avery ((or Donnie. Or Starz. Or Confetti. Or Donry. Or Partyguy. Or Cone (my friend called me a traffic cone LMAO). Or Steven (stealing names from my fave characters!!). Or Ruby (only on the occasion) Or Star. Or Bud. Or Veneer (my friend ALSO calls me this). ...Or Moon! Any of these work!))

My pronouns are He/They, along with some neopronouns and xenopronouns!! (Xe/Xem, Zey/Zem, Star/Stars/Starself, Byte/Bytes/Byteself, and Tech/Techs/Techself)

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I am a multifandom, and am currently hyperfixated on the following:

Trolls (movies), Dandy's World, FNAF, Smiling Critters, Smiling Friends, Lego Monkie Kid, Slimecicle, Quackity, Heathers, Invader Zim, TMNT, Gravity Falls, Minecraft, Animal Crossing, and more! (the list will be updated later)

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i simp for fictional characters and god why do they always find my simp posts.

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My straw.page!!

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My silly friend, you should totally follow and interact with: @sir-qwillian-ferne

Soup's Adoptive Dad(™/j): @williamfnafton

Our lovely aunt!: @i-bless-your-heart/@juliasreblogs

Jazzy (im gonna crumple you/j): @jazzythejazzles

Friend!!: @url0calcrvckhead

Apparently my fucking child???: @beebisbeeble

Special little friend: @grcklebdrckle

Mutual i convinced to join Tumblr >:3: @oozesquito

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ɪ’ᴍ ᴊᴜꜱᴛ ᴀ ᴛᴏʏ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜ, ᴍʏ ʟᴏᴠᴇ

ᴊᴜꜱᴛ ᴀ ᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ᴘʟᴀʏ ᴀɴᴅ

ᴛʜᴇɴ ᴛʜʀᴏᴡ ᴀᴡᴀʏ

ɪ ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴀ ʜᴜᴍᴀɴ’ꜱ ᴛᴏᴜᴄʜ, ʙᴜᴛ

ʏᴏᴜ ᴅᴏɴ’ᴛ ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴍᴇ

ɪ ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴀ ʜᴜᴍᴀɴ’ꜱ ᴛᴏᴜᴄʜ, ʙᴜᴛ

ɪ’ᴍ ᴏʙꜱᴏʟᴇᴛᴇ

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INTERACT! :

Neurodivergent

Into any of my listed fandoms!!

Juggalos (i luv you guys sm man/p)

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Meh...:

NSFW accounts (I'm hypersexual.)

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Do NOT interact. :

Pedophilia

Zoophilia

Necrophilia

MAPsexuals or anything similar

Neo/xenopronoun haters

People who want to unnecessarily sexualize me/others

Incest shippers (YES THIS INCLUDES T-CEST)

Proshippers/Comshippers

1 man 1 jar + anything similar.

Terfs, radfems, and anything else

Endo systems??? Genuinely so confused on this one. Just dni for now. Don't follow. Don't nothing.

SYSTEM FAKERS??? IM NOT A SYSTEM. I DONT THINK SO ANYWAY? BUT UH. PLEASE DNI.

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Thank you for reading. Have fun interacting, and hey! Don't be afraid to send in asks!! The box is always open!!

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Tags + their meanings:

#AVERY DREW SOMETHING???: art

#PACKAGE: asks!

#avery's rambles: rambling/random posts

#avery out of context: my shitpost tag

#my cool dead dad!!/#my cool dead younger sister!!!/#the dead family chronicles: soup's family with the aftons.

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ᴡ�� ᴡᴇʀᴇ ꜱᴛɪʟʟ ɢᴏɪɴɢ ꜱᴛʀᴏɴɢ

ɪ ɴᴇᴠᴇʀ ᴅɪᴅ ʏᴏᴜ ᴡʀᴏɴɢ

ᴜɴᴛɪʟ ᴛʜᴇ ɴᴇᴡ ᴍᴇ ᴄᴀᴍᴇ ᴀʟᴏɴɢ

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[useramor]

Can i just say that i was actually really thrilled to see that i at least follow one (1) other person who doesn’t like TS? Times like these are hard for haters like me

(jk but also not. I’m glad people got something that makes them happy, but man…stfu)

RIGHT and like i'm not gonna waste my breath hating on her 24/7 because i quite literally do not care enough but jesus christ man she's EVERYWHERE like it's damn near impossible to go on any social media and not see her. even if i block every taylor swift tag on tumblr (which i do) i have irl friends who like her and repost her insta posts on their stories and i'm just sitting here like? really? most of her albums barring folklore and evermore are fine at best (which folklore is actually one of my favorite albums but i have a cd that i listen to because i refuse to stream <3). idk. and then there's the fact that she only uses her status and her money and her power when it directly benefits her which like. sure you could argue celebrities don't have to talk politics they're not politicians blah blah but at the end of the day in the political climate we live in not saying anything is already saying so much.

she's a rich white person and billionaire white people will be billionaire white people. i'm not gonna make an exception for her just because she's a feminist girlboss fighting the patriarchy or whatever.

anyway i'll be a hater any day lmao

(also to my swiftie mutuals idc if you like her. i do not and i tag all my posts that are against her as "anti taylor swift" and "swifties dni" if you want to block it. if you unfollow because i don't like her that's okay too lol)

[comp-lady]

Hi there! I’ve been admiring your blog & writing from afar and was wondering if you had any advice or tips on writing unashamedly?

What I mean is, I notice you also write Copia/Terzo or “copiiia” and your authors note in the chapter posts via tumblr are very assertive and to the point.

I would like to post some more Copiia content (as I like Secondo and Copia along with a few other blogs) but I worry about backlash or losing mutuals even though I deliberately state that they aren’t related because I disagree with that portion of the Ghost lore.

Any tips?

Thank you!!

- ✨🐀

Thank you so much!

I would say make sure you tag it as best you can. The popular ones are c1/c2/c3 or Copiiia or Copiia.

Otherwise, not gonna lie, my advice amounts to just. Not giving a fuck. I've been in fandom too long to be concerned about what is, ultimately, an extremely loud and hateful minority of people projecting their obsessions onto other people. Harassing people en masse because they dare to use their imaginations and have a bit of fun. I'm crawling towards my mid-thirties, I've been in fandom since I was roughly 12-14, I can't bring myself to care about the opinions of others. I have actual, important things to be worried about.

I mean these are the same people that would be fine if I wrote Copia as a serial killer, but if I write that he's not related to Terzo or Secondo and they kiss then that's a crime?

I write for myself, and I write for the handful of friends I talk to that are like minded.

I think I've avoided receiving much backlash because I am an active blocker. The moment I see someone dropping hateful rhetoric over fiction I block them. If I lose a mutual in the process? Oh well, that's not the type of person I want to be around. I've been friends with people where I altered what I wrote to appease them, and all that toxicity did is set me back in my writing. It hurt my confidence in my writing. I'm free of that now, and I have no intent to go slide back because some people see the Ghost lore as gospel.

Mutuals and followers and friends who don't agree, but know how to keep scrolling? Know how to be mature about it? Much more valuable than any that throw a fit.

Also the lore? The lore for Ghost has the structural integrity of a jello shot. Toby Foam is out here doing whatever amuses him, not building some grand story, and if anyone doubts that look at aNY interview where the interviewer tries to ask lore questions. Tobias always gives half answers and shrugs them off. The lore is a gimmick to him, a bit fun on the side of what is actually important. Which is the music itself.

When I started Empire I was sure that there wouldn't be a lot of readers. That I would post, maybe gets a handful of hits each time I posted a chapter, maybe the occasional comment. And yet there are plenty of people that read it. Regularly!

If you write the Copiia content there is an audience for it. There are people that will love it.

Also? There area lot of haters that just ship it in secret, because they're more worried about other people's opinions than just enjoying themselves.

This all ran away from me, go forth! Write! Have fun! Those who matter won't care that you're writing copiia. You get worried about what you're writing my askbox is always open!

[mrs-monaghan]

from our favorite jm anti : @/mimikoolover

since the asshole blocked me mrs-monaghan let me just say everyone knows you showed your ass as a jk and taehyung hater numerous times. stop pretending you're not a jimin solo and fuck off

and

the honest to god truth is that these fucking jokers harass me for for being a 'jimin anti' while continuously droning on about how like crazy deserves more than seven, is a better song than seven, seven doesn't deserve a grammy, like crazy would have been more successful than seven, jk wants bang pd and scooter to sabotage jimin, jk wants to ditch enlisting - (BLAMING JUNGKOOK FOR SOMETHING HE DOESN'T EVEN DO, AS USUAL), don't celebrate seven because jimin is mistreated AND NEVER GET CALLED A JK ANTI.

Aaaaaah. This is the drama? Bitch please. What happened between me and this anti was a back and forth that was actually cordial until she said "fuck you" to me and then blocked me. I know this because I was trying to reply to her and suddenly all her comments were gone and I couldn't click on her name or tag her. I didn't block her but it would have been a great idea.

Y'all have seen my posts I'd like to see someone show me when I hated on JK or V for that matter. She's mad because I stated facts. How is it hating when you say JK got more support than Jimin? JK solos always get triggered by this statement because its true. Everyone and their mama knows he got all the push and others didn't. Not just Jimin. Its not debatable. It is what it is.

Saying this is not hating on JK and if you get sensitive over it then you're the one who needs to work on you.

Thanks anon (and the other one in my ask) for enlightening me on what's going on. Whoever is gonna report back to her because there is always that one person, please tell them to change their fucking name! They are not a Jikooker and they know it. People like her pretend to be one so they can get into people's heads and get more people to hate on Jimin.

Coz if a naive person thinks "oh a Jikooker is saying this?" Then they're more likely to start seeing things their way. Same with Jkkrs who hate JK. Tkkrs have been using this tactic forever. Pretending to be Jimin fans so they can set him up for hate.

So Mimikoo you ain't fooling nobody. Drop the mimi part of your name we all know you hate Jimin. And tell your friend Mina to fuck off too while you're at it. All you Jimin antis are the fucking same! 🖕🏽🖕🏽

[jedi-enthusiast]

11, 16, 19, 24

chaos!!!!

Choose Violence Ask Game

Obligatory Disclaimer: These are just my personal opinions, feel free to disagree but if you're gonna be hateful, rude, or anti-Jedi then just block me and move on instead of posting your bullshit on my page. Like what you like, hate what you hate, but leave me out of it.

I love the chaos!!!

11 - What's the number of fandom-related words you've filtered?

I've filtered 8 tags so far!

16 - You can't understand why so many people like this thing (characterization, trope, headcanon, etc.)...

I have a couple, so I'm just gonna list them and if anyone wants to know more then they can just shoot me an ask and I'll gladly explain.

- The "Korkie Kenobi" theory.

- Obitine in general.

- Bo-Katan, especially how she's characterized.

- The whole idea of Grey Jedi.

And more! Because I'm, at heart, a hater /j

19 - You're mad/ashamed/horrified you actually kind of like...

Honestly? Nothing.

I just like the things I like and if someone else doesn't like it then they can fuck off, so I don't really get "ashamed" or "mad" that I like things.

24 - Topic that brings up the most rancid discourse...

Literally any discussion around Anakin and the Jedi because I've literally seen people spout straight-up fascist takes like "the Jedi deserved to be genocided," "the Jedi caused their own genocide," and "well, if the Jedi didn't want to be genocided, they should've- (something or other)."

So yeah.

[sashi-ya]

➡ 𝐈𝐓'𝐒 𝐄𝐍𝐎𝐔𝐆𝐇.

Can you please stop flagging my kinktober fics? Cause, seriously, I've seen people get loads LOADS of notes in their fics while mine aren't even 100 notes. It's obvious that my fics have no impact and are not a threat to other better writers. I work REALLY hard with each and every single one of the fics I write, I OVERLY write TWs so you don't have to read fics you don't like it or can possibly trigger something bad in you. I took the time to censor specific parts of the some banners (CAUSE EVERY BANNER IS DIFFERENT FOR EACH DAY OF HENTOBER) I really respect every aspect of the community guidelines. I don't really understand how much hate do I have to receive. It's not tumblr's fault either, because it's just a bot that when keeps recieving flags from users proceeds to indeed flag the post.

IT'S KINKTOBER. KINKTOBER. I haven't invented this. I'm sure you all know me and follow me MAINLY BECAUSE OF MY NSFW content. I've been reading erotica since I can remember. And because of it, I LOVE to write it. In fact, I'm sure that if you had read ANY of my nsfw fics you have noticed that I don't go with the full "explicit" way of writing stuff and I do prefer using metaphors or more "delicate" terms. Yes, it is erotica, of course it's gonna be explicit, sure. THAT'S WHY IT IS TAGGED AS NSFW.

Now, I notice that EVERY TIME I post a fic with certain kinks (where are stated that AREN'T BLOOD TIGHTS or FORCED CHARACTERS in any way) I receive hate or this type of "flags".

I don't even write dark shit, cause I've seen DARK shit here. And I'll say this cause now apparently you have something against my fics with Ichigo or Luffy. I NEVER write for minors NEVER. If you are stupid enough not to read the ADULT! before Ichigo's name I'M SORRY YOU ARE AN IDIOT.

And I'm really REALLY sorry if I'm spoiling someone but ICHIGO IS A FUCKING ADULT MARRIED WITH A KID NOW! HE IS MY AGE!

SEE?? 12 FUCKING YEARS HAVE PASSED AFTER THE WAR. HE IS FUCKING 29 YEARS OLD! old enough to fuck any person he wants freely. SO, CAN YOU ALL PLEASE STOP BEING IDIOTS? Cause it's always the same shit.

I'm sorry, but I won't stop posting my fics. YOU DON'T LIKE THEM, DON'T FUCKING READ IT!!! BLOCK ME!!!! I USE THE #SASHI-YA IN EVERY FIC! YOU JUST HAVE TO BLOCK THAT HASHTAG AND THAT'S IT, NO MORE CONTENT RELATED WITH ME!

I won't AND PROMISE YOU ALL, I won't stop writing for ONE PIECE nor BLEACH.

FUCK YOU VERY MUCH, HATERS.

[shipcourse]

« ʙʟᴏɢ ɪɴᴛʀᴏ »

Welcome to Non Fandom Shipcourse a new blog dedicated to talk about the most infamous topic regarding shipcourse... Pro/Com/Dark Shipping, and also talk about the labels of shipping & the shipping/shippers

We won't be posting this kind of content, at least not in this blog, instead we're gonna be focusing in the context and meaning of this kind of ships, shippers and labels

« About the blog »

This blog is a safe space and open to debate, talk and interaction. The main topic is the misinformation and hate in the shipcourse topic about the type of shippers and ships, but I'm gonna also cover other kind of topics regarding ships and shippers

The amount of misinformation, hate and just all that bad stuff surrounding shippers is INSANE and I'm tired of seeing all of this and just not doing anything, I'm tired of being quiet about all of this, so I'm making this blog now, and I don't care about hate

I'm not gonna be sharing my ships or doing anything related to any fandom, so if you think here you can share about your ships or that you will see ship content of certain fandom, sorry to disappoint you, but this blog isn't for that, just see the blog name, this is a shipcourse blog, aka a blog to discuss about shipping and shippers

We also sometimes are gonna give love, positivity and share some drawings and things, this isn't just hate and discourse, but is the main topic of it

If someone talks to us and want to claim an anon tag we're gonna add a section here to show anon tags

Maybe some post are going to be in spanish or have both a spanish and english version, you'll have to wait and see

« Boundaries & Rules »

For the purpose of discussion and the meaning of the blog there's not a DNI list, but there are some boundaries and rules you have to follow to be in and interact with our blog...

I do not consent and promote harassment to ANYONE, if someone is attacking me or harassing me, or I'm talking about someone the name will be censored because I don't want harassment to anyone

I respond in the same manner you talk to me. If you're being respectful with me I will respond respectfully, if you're being sarcastic I will be sarcastic, if you're being passive aggressive I will be passive aggressive and so on, if you don't like my response then is your problem because I respond in the same way you responded/talked to me

You will be see a lot of sarcasm, passive aggressiveness and bad jokes sometimes, this attitude is not targeted to anyone but it's just me and my hate and frustration because of all this misinfo around shipping and shippers, if you take a post personally is a YOU problem

If you're a little hater, an anti or some close mind person and you want to send hate, threats or wishes of dead go ahead, I will make fun about and mock you because that the most immature behavior I'll ever seen and I love to laugh about that, I expect hate, so don't get mad if I post you and make fun of you, if you don't want that just block me and don't send stupid submissions like that

Anyone can start a debate/talk with me around certain topic, I will prefer doing it in submissions/ask or in reblogs because comments tend to be deleted or censored and that would be more difficult for me, isn't comfortable

« About the owner »

We're a DID system, but not all the system is entitled to this blog, just a few alters

Almost all the system is comshipper and all the system is proshipper, we have a lot of types of shippers here, but we're not gonna enlist it because that would be way to long

Know a little bit more about the alters behind this blog!!

Namel: Too many shipper/shipping labels to enlist here He/They and all the masculine/neutral aligned pronouns you can think of Sign off emojis: ☕🐺

Neo: Too many shipper/shipping labels to enlist here He/They and all the masculine/neutral aligned pronouns you can think of Sign off emojis: 📚💜

Liebe: Too many shipper/shipping labels to enlist here They/Them pronouns Sign off emojis: 💞💌

Nath: Too many shipper/shipping labels to enlist here They/Them pronouns Sign off emojis: 🔮☕

Namely: Too many shipper/shiping labels to enlist here He/They/It pronouns Sign off emojis: 💜☕

Philip: Proshipper & somewhere in the comshipper category (He's not completely sure yet) Any pronouns, doesn't care Sign of emojis: 📱💻

Calbriet: Proshipper & Comshiper (Doesn't like to use more labels) Any pronoun you can think of Sign off emojis: 💅🏩

And that's all I can think of to put in this intro, I said all the important things here and all that I wanted to clarify, maybe I'll add more things when I see it needed, or talk about some topics that weren't put here in some other posts, idk, I'll see it when the moment comes

If you're still here... Well then welcome! I hope you enjoy my blog and have maturity to block me if you don't like it lol

See ya in the blog folks

[batsarebetterthanpeople]

I just want to recap this whole situation from my POV actually because I think it would be useful at this point. And I actually want to start in 2014 on instagram during the spam ig era. I was a homestuck cosplayer on spam insta when I was 13 and dealt with the 4 chan raids, if anyone remembers those. So that's my background, just so you know. I got called a retarded dyke by proto gamergaters during my formative years, and it effected the way I engage online.

Anyway, hard cut to when I watched OFMD in April. I deeply related to Ed as a character. Most of my fan engagement for the first month or so was on tiktok, but I got off of it and went back to my social media of choice, Tumblr. I saw a lot of fucking Takes TM that I hated from a certain contingent of the fandom and I was critical of them, and so I started posting my own reading. Here's where the situation starts

I start posting my own reading of the show and I tag the characters that are in the show, hoping to find people who agree with my reading so I could follow them. I got yelled at for """maintagging""" which is an issue I've only run into before once, and the people who got mad at me about the """maintagging""" I received some agressive anons which I promptly deleted. I posted my Ed is Izzy's abuser post (tagged Izzy critical), got more aggressive anons, which I deleted for the most part. Had to tell some people how to block the Izzy critical tag. Cemented myself firmly in the izzy critical camp. I continued to see Shit Takes, in fact since the Izzy is Ed's abuser meta I've only ever made my Izzy metas in response to Shit Takes. I got on Calico Jack twitter, which I don't go on twitter all that often, and there's a lot of overlap between Izzy twitter and CJ twitter unfortunately, so that made me less likely to use twitter at all. I was mostly on there for the porn, so it's cool. I didn't interact with discourse hardly at all so twitter didn't feed me anything related to this.

Now over this period of time the situation on tumblr was getting completely unhinged actually. You couldn't post anything at all in the Izzy tag without someone crawling out of the woodwork to tell you that you were terrible for it. People did slowly learn to block the Izzy critical tag, but jesus christ it was a slow learning process for yall. Every day I'd get on here and post silly little posts, and then one of mine or my mutuals posts would be a little bit too mean to Izzy, and by a little bit too mean it would be something objectively true. And then people would just descend on it and there would be another fucking drama. And it's impossible to predict what's gonna set you off.

Now one drama was completely unrelated to Izzy at all. Stede Anon as we've been calling them, L as they've been referred to in that document showed up in june, left a few nasty anons, and then fucked off because the people that they were bothering turned off anon. Then they came back in October to bother me I played with Stede Anon until I got tired. I wished them a Karkalicious 2009 and sent them on their way.

Another drama I want to recap, which I hesitate to call a drama because of the racist under ... well... overtones is the "documenting of the Izzy haters" a couple of people made a whole sideblog dedicated to documenting the worst of the "Izzy haters". Except they didn't start out with the twitter doxing, or L/Stede Anon. They started out with a mutual of mine who is a black woman and who talks about racism in fandom. She has never harassed anyone to my knowledge and has had quite a bit of nastiness directed at her. I had heard some whisperings of potential harassment being directed at Izzy stans, and I had remained firmly out of it. This blog was too much for me. If they were dedicated to documenting the nastiness they were receiving in fandom, and their third post was about someone who posts metas and minds their own business, then there must not be real problems, especially since I'm catching all this fucking flack for simply posting things that aren't even mean. It may just be that I grew up on the internet but I can be real fucking mean, and I haven't been.

One instance of this is the Izzy isn't canonically queer drama. A mutual of mine posted that Izzy isn't technically confirmed as queer, his queerness is all subtext, that might be an interesting thing to analyze. Things got heated on my dash for a while. Since may there's been a problem in the OFMD community where people get yelled at for posting Izzy critical. And after a long argument with a certain Izzy stan in regards to the post in question I posted this because I was genuinely curious. Basically the argument consisted of us talking past each other, where I said "No one is calling Izzy straight we're just trying to analyze another facet of his character" and they said "You're doing harm to x y z group of Izzy enjoyers by saying that he's straight, and you're doing harassment." On that post that I linked I got told by one person that that post was "Doing harm" and that "hurt people hurt people" which is frankly the most absurd application of that phrase I have seen to date. I got told by a different person that I shouldn't have posted that because "izzy stans are receiving a targeted harassment campaign, worse than anyone else in the fandom" This was the final straw for me. If they think that that post is doing harm, they cannot identify harm. I made a passive aggressive post about curating your experience, blocked anyone who got mad about it, and my tumblr experience has been a lot nicer since I did that, because people blocked me and I blocked them. Everybody's happy.

So anyway then Stede Anon returned with a vengeance. My working theory is that this person is in school and they're on winter break and have more time to be a huge bitch. They accused me of being an Izzy stan I said "nice try you fucking idiot" in a way that was sort of dry, and I said Izzy stans have paper thin skin, and I refuse to loose sleep over them getting mean anons, but you still shouldn't harass them. That response got screen shot and lied about. Because of course it did. I was an idiot for thinking it wouldn't. I stand by what I said but if I could go back I would have been nicer I guess just because it would have caused me less drama. Some Anons came into my inbox and said hey you're a fake ally and you don't care about harassment and I was confused where they were coming from but essentially I said. "Girl, it's an anon" and then someone directed me to uselessheretics blog. And so I go check out the anon harassment that's got yall so worked up. And do you know what I see there? It's fucking Stede Anon!

So for a couple weeks I've been getting these vague messages about harassment and when I finally get directed to the harassment I see an anon that I have been fighting with and have blocked because of how fucking annoying they were. This, Stede Anon of Stede Anon Gate fame, is the unique threat facing the Izzy stan community. So of course I had a fucking field day with it. All of our fandom problems originate with this one shithead and I am going to hold hands with T*zzy*zzy and sing Kumbaya as we all collectively banish Stede Anon to the shadow realm. Hit that block button babes

And then today someone posted the link to the google doc receipts. And I realize now that there's actually been some harassment unrelated to Stede anon happening on twitter, and Stede Anon has been a real terror on IG. So perhaps I jumped the gun on casting doubt, but I maintain that I would not have said anything if not for certain people behaving completely out of pocket and crying about harassment on posts that are not harassment.

And I do want to address that actually. The reason for this whole thing, is because certain people are dragging up the harassment to try to get us to stop criticizing them. The undertone to all of this is very clearly "we're being harassed so you have no right to criticize us or talk about our blorbo in a way we don't like," which doesn't feel related, does it. I've seen the arguments that "they're using your rhetoric" but the thing is you're pointing me to a couple deeply mentally unwell people who I have no control over and you're saying "you should feel bad about this because you made a meta post about your reading of fictional characters that I didn't like" and getting mad when I'm confused that has to do with anything

So basically i retract my assertion that you're not being harassed, but you can clearly see how I got here, and also you keep bringing this harassment up to me in situations that have nothing to do with the harassment. And if you had fewer shitty takes I would make fewer metas.

I also do maintain that L/Stede anon is the source of most of our problems and we should be using the block button prodigiously

Here's how:

[slythereen]

If people have issues with Lestappen content appearing in the Max Verstappen tag, there is a very simple solution: You blacklist that tag.

Ship content will ALWAYS appear in driver tags, and people who get that upset about it honestly need to grow up and remember that they themselves are responsible for their own internet experience. Blacklisting tags exist for a reason. Use it and stop bitching about "being exposed to things you don't like" when you have no one to blame but yourself.

You keep tagging WHATEVER you want that's relevant to Max Verstappen, babe. Haters gonna hate. <3

yes, this is exactly the thing! it’s also important, in my mind, not to omit tags for the same reason. what if someone violently opposed to max has his name blacklisted and the filter doesn’t catch it because i didn’t tag him? (i can’t imagine why anyone could want to block him he’s just a cat, but as an example.)

usually i will only tag just lestappen & neither driver if it, in my mind, cannot have a platonic reading to it necessarily. it’s just that i typically mean it in a hehe silly goofy way, and therefore platonically, so it’s rare that i actually do that. so there’s not much i can/would change to try to keep my tags cleaner than they already are.

but also: communicating it (nicely) is also important for the tagging ecosystem, in case there is a way to tag something that helps with filters. i’ve asked people before about tagging driver imagines so i get it, but i said please like a normal person. so i really do welcome anyone to make tagging requests!! don’t be dissuaded just be nice!