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[randomreasonstolive]

No matter what you celebrate, no matter where you are, no matter who you will be with,

Know this:

You are loved.

You are important.

You are not alone.

[memeuplift]

[noseysilverfox]

🦆Golden ducks of the IV century BC.😏

🦆Золотые уточки IV века до н.э.😏

[jokeninja]

[somethingtocallmine]

[positive-mystic]

It's Okay to Feel How You Feel

Hey there,

I just wanted to take a moment to remind you—and myself—that it’s okay not to be okay. Life is messy, overwhelming, and sometimes just plain unfair. And that’s not a reflection of your worth; it’s a part of being human.

If you’re feeling lost, tired, anxious, or just... off, that’s valid. You don’t need to have a grand reason to feel the way you do. Emotions aren’t always logical, and that’s okay too.

Here’s something I try to remember when my brain gets noisy:

Take a breath. Like, a real, deep one. In through your nose for four seconds, hold it for four seconds, and exhale slowly through your mouth for six. Do that a few times.

Check in with yourself. What do you need right now? Rest? Water? A snack? Maybe just a hug from someone safe? You deserve to have your needs met.

Be gentle with yourself. Seriously. You’re doing the best you can, even if it doesn’t feel like it. Small steps are still steps forward.

And if today feels impossible, that’s not forever. Give yourself permission to pause, reach out, or just exist. There’s no right way to cope, and there’s no deadline to feel “better.”

You matter—right now, exactly as you are. If you need someone to tell you that, consider this post a little love letter to your heart. You’re not alone, and you’re not too much.

[genderqueerdykes]

Hello :)

I just wanted to say thanks for the discussion about non-binary as a label. I always felt like too much of a girl to be a guy and too much of guy to be a girl and non-binary felt even more wrong than the binary labels.. It was coming to Tumblr and seeing your blog and others explain that actually was this whole full-colour symphony not just exactly three boxes that finally made me feel like my identity was for real and not just something I made up..

Thank you :)

hi there!

thank you, i appreciate that! i'm glad the message is being received well. it's definitely easy to feel that way when people are trying to enforce a strict gender binary all over again. you may not fit into those experiences and that's totally fine. queerness is so much broader than people want to paint it out to be. i really love the way you expressed this:

"It was coming to Tumblr and seeing your blog and others explain that actually was this whole full-colour symphony not just exactly three boxes that finally made me feel like my identity was for real and not just something I made up.."

that's such a beautiful way to put it! i'm really glad i could've helped you! people are trying way too hard to enforce a trinary, which is even worse than the binary we started with. it's not 3 boxes. it's a tapestry, a quilt, a piece of music. many small pieces that create a bigger whole that cannot be contained by petty restrictions.

[karioke13]

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year from Optimus Prime! I love yall and stay safe ❤️❤️❤️

[ohnebindestrich]

[tree-whispering]

[slfcare]

ten years ago you were so scared of such different things, but you survived them anyway. the same goes for five years ago and two years ago. everything that has ever felt like a hurdle, you’ve passed through. so be afraid, identify your fears, and then allow yourself to remember that in just a little while, this will be another thing that you have overcome.

[notasoupcompany]

[memeuplift]

[artbylittlebug]

[happyheidi]

｡ﾟﾟ･｡･ﾟﾟ｡ ﾟ. September will bring blessings.

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