#( 𝑺𝒂𝒎𝒖𝒆𝒍 𝑪𝒖𝒍𝒑𝒆𝒓 ; headcanon (( abe ))

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WHAT  DOES  YOUR  HEART  LOOK  LIKE  ?

* 𝐀𝐁𝐄 𝐖𝐎𝐎𝐃𝐇𝐔𝐋𝐋

A COMPASS THAT DOESN'T WAVER

You are someone who is certain of what you want. Maybe you always have been, or maybe you made a discovery that you haven’t been able to tear your eyes away from. Your heart is set and certain. You fight endlessly for your goals. Above all else, you know who you are and what you are trying to achieve. Just be careful not to tear yourself or others apart in pursuit of your ideals.

TAGGED: stole it

TAGGING: @wiiaca @annastrxng @anoseforrottenapples @smiletimeisrunningout @pyratezlife

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INTIMACY  &  RELATIONSHIP  PREFERENCES  GUIDE (  as always,  repost don’t reblog  )

* 𝐀𝐁𝐑𝐀𝐇𝐀𝐌 𝐖𝐎𝐎𝐃𝐇𝐔𝐋𝐋 (cabbxges-and-kings)

ROMANTIC ORIENTATION:  biromantic.

SEXUAL ORIENTATION:   bisexual.

SEXUAL ROLES:   dominant. submissive.  versatile.  

PENETRATIVE PREFERENCES:  oh god idk, the most he’ll probably go is a.nal for m/m stuff

POSITIONS AS A TOP:  being ridden.  missionary.  lotus.  doggy.  flatiron.  legs on shoulders.  standing up.  standing while partner sits on surface.  spooning.  side by side.

POSITIONS AS A BOTTOM: riding.  missionary.  lotus.  doggy.  flatiron.  legs on shoulders. standing up.  sitting on surface. spooning.  side by side.  

SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS: monogamous.  polyamorous.  open.  swinging.  hook-ups (though very, very rare),  platonic (also very rare for this).

ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS:  monogamous. polyamorous.  open.  casual. committed.  

RELATIONSHIP ROLES: dominant.  submissive. equal.  nurturing. being nurtured. monetary provider.  monetarily dependent. shared monetary burden. independent monetary responsibility. manages household. shares household management. prefers independent living spaces.  likes having household managed by partner.

THOUGHTS ON MARRIAGE: This is kind of difficult because Abe is very marriage oriented, but not in the circumstances of t.urn. He would’ve married Anna in a heartbeat if the circumstances aligned right and his own marriage is strained because of his lack of chemistry with Mary. He is still pursuing Anna at this time. I also see Abe not being overly concerned about marriage, like when he was younger if Anna wasn’t in the picture. But I think if Abe loves someone, he definitely wants to marry them. 

DOES YOUR MUSE GET JEALOUS/POSSESSIVE?: Yes, but not in the insecure sort of way. Abe can definitely get possessive and jealous if he feels like someone else is flirting or interested in his partner. He’s the kind of guy who might start a fight or wrap his arm around his partner, it depends on his mood and who he’s around. He might tell them to back off at first in a calm manner (for Abe), but he can get into jealous/possessive s.ex if his partner kinda eggs him on for it. Oh, he’s also into s.ex if an argument ensues to get rid of the tension.

DOES YOUR MUSE LIKE POSSESSIVE PARTNERS?: Not really? Abe kinda prefers to be the one to get possessive, and he doesn’t like it when someone tries to get in between his activities or control that part of his life. At first, he might tease his partner with the idea that their jealous to get something suggestive going, but other than that, he’s not into that kind of behavior. Abe, too, doesn’t feel like he needs anyone protecting him and he can defend himself just fine.

DO THEY LIKE DOM/SUB ROLES IN ALL ASPECTS OF RELATIONSHIPS? ( i.e. dom’s responsibility both sexually and in life is to take care of the sub and look after them. sometimes utilizing sexual and nonsexual rewards/punishments to incentivize them to carry out self care or other responsibilities ): He would pass on this tbh. Abe isn’t really into bd.sm as a whole anyway, so he wouldn’t like this type of behavior in a relationship. If he’s with a woman, he has the traditional mindset in mind that’s ingrained in the time period he’s in, so unless just male and female gender standards in a relationship, he’s not into the dom/sub stuff. He only likes to be the dom in a sense of figuring out how the s.ex is going to go, he likes the idea of that and not the entirety of bd.sm.

WHAT DOES AFTERCARE LOOK LIKE TO THEM?: This sounds bad, but I don’t really see Abe doing aftercare? He does, I guess, in a way, but with his job as a spy and if he’s in an affair scenario, he needs to go back home and back to his duties as quickly as possible. Usually, he always has something else going on, so he needs to leave as quickly as he can get his clothes on. But sometimes, he’ll stick around and lay within the afterglow. He likes small chatter here and there, a playful energy, but he mostly likes the silence of it all. The coming down after his high. I don’t think Abe gets many “quiet” moments where he doesn’t have something on his mind.

WHAT ARE WAYS THEY PREFER TO BUILD EMOTIONAL INTIMACY?: This is a hard question to answer because a lot of Abe’s important dynamics are already fleshed out in the show, so we don’t really see that building of dynamics (other than him and Townsend, but they are pretty strained in the entire show). For Abe, I think paying attention to what he says, remembering them, seeking him out, making him feel included helps. I think he’s used to being overshadowed by his brother and everyone else, Praise and playful banter also works to building chemistry. 

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Abe might be reconsidering being a vengeful poltergeist in the Ben/Mary ship.

Anna or Abe

Send my muse two ( or more ) names for them to honestly admit which one they like the most and why. / @keeperofthelight

Ben glanced downward, shifting a moment before looking up again. Choosing between two friends was always difficult, and yet there could be no mistaking his feelings on this matter.

"I've been friends with Abraham for far longer," he murmured. "Ever since we were in swaddling clothes, our families have been connected...and when my mother passed, it was Abe who stayed up with me that night, just sitting there in silence since he knew what I needed. He was my dearest friend growing up. And in truth, I resented Anna whenever she came along, because suddenly, Abraham's attentions were on her instead of Caleb and myself. I thought we'd lost him forever..." With a slight smile, Ben concluded, "Our trio grew to allow her into our fold, and after a while -- a long while -- I started to realize I cared for Anna, as well. And now I can't imagine life without either one of them."

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WHAT'S  YOUR  MOB  NICKNAME  ?

As a wise man once said, "I like my eggs warm."

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Really quick headcanon but I feel like Thomas/Sprout is really gifted in being able to read people or pick up on their emotions, especially for a young child. I think he knows exactly when Abe's stressed or anxious, even if he's trying to keep up a brave face. There have been a ton of moments in Abe's spy career where Thomas would run up to Abe because he can just tell his father isn't doing well.

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In the whole scene of Ben apologizing for killing Wakefield, I noticed that Abe is all like "You did what you needed to do" and the contrast to Richard being all pissed at Ben because murder wasn't part of the deal at all. This is a very surface level take, but it just shows how much Abe has changed and hardened throughout the seasons because we all know s1 Abe would be screaming and yelling at Ben for killing someone.

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I haven't watched turn in a bit, so I might change this headcanon later down the line, but as we know Abe is a very stubborn individual and has a bit of a fighting spirit. I think for almost any circumstance, Abe's default/initial action is to resist. He wants to do things his way, because most of Abe's life are things that didn't go his way.

Even though Abe resisted being part of the spy ring, even if his views aligned more patriot than loyalist, I think Abe probably had the most control he had ever had in his life when he became a spy. (Likely was pushed to go to school by his family expectations, not being able to date Anna in public due to family expectations and politics, marrying his brother's intended, Rogers and Simcoe's involvement in his life). Yes, he was influenced by his friends, it was initiated in the pilot when his boat was robbed, and just how everything else laid out in his situation (debt, the war, etc). But I think Abe had the most control he has ever had with choosing to become a spy. He could've denied it, and even being as a spy, he could go his own way, his own schedule, and act on his own goals, but he stuck with it. I think maybe that's partly why he's so stubborn, besides a bunch of other reasons, when it comes to his plans and his role in the spy ring.

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VOICE  /  SPEECH  STUDY !ㅤㅤbold always applies, italics sometimes applies

# OF SPOKEN LANGUAGES.    1  /  2  /  3 +

TONE OF VOICE.    high  /  average  /  deep

ACCENT.    yes  /  soft  /  no

DEMEANOR.    confident  /  shy  /  approachable  /  hostile  /  other

POSTURE.    slumped  /  straight  /  stiff  /  relaxed

HABITS.    head tilting  /  swaying  /  fidgeting  /  stuttering  /  gesturing  /  arm crossing  /  strokes chin  /  er, um, or other interjections  /  plays with hair  /  plays with clothing  /  hands at hips  /  inconsistent eye contact  /  maintains eye contact  /  frequent pausing  /  stands close  /  stands at distance

COMPLEXITY.

VOCABULARY.     ◼ ◼ ◻ ◻ ◻ 

EMOTION.     ◼ ◼ ◼ ◼ ◼

SENTENCE STRUCTURE.    ◼ ◼ ◻ ◻  ◻

PROFANITY.

FREQUENCY.      ◼ ◼ ◻ ◻ ◻

CREATIVITY.      ◼ ◻ ◻ ◻ ◻

BOLD ALL THAT APPLY.   arse.  ass.  asshole.  bastard.  bitch.  bloody.  bugger.  bollocks.  chicken shit.  crap.  cunt.  dick.  dickhead.  frick.  fuck.  horseshit.  motherfucker.  piss.  prick.  screw.  shit.  shitass.  son of a bitch.  twat.  wanker.  pussy.  dipshit.

GIVEN PROPER RELIGIOUS CONTEXT.    christ on a bike.  christ on a cracker.  damn.  goddamn.  godsdamn.  hell.  holy shit.  jesus.  jesus christ.  jesus h christ.  jesus h. roosevelt christ.  lord have mercy.  jesus, mary and joseph.  sweet jesus.  seven hells.

THIS OR THAT?    contractions or enunciation?  straightforward or cryptic?  jargon or toned?  complexity or simplicity?  finding the right word or using the first word that comes to mind?  masculinity, neutrality, or femininity?  formalities or abrasiveness?  praise or equivocation?  frankness or lies?  excessive or minimal hand gestures?  name-calling or magnanimity?  friendly or blunt nicknames?

IMPORTANT QUESTIONS.

DO PEOPLE HAVE A HARD TIME UNDERSTANDING OR HEARING YOUR CHARACTER?    almost always  /  frequently  /  sometimes  /  rarely  /  never

DOES YOUR CHARACTER’S POINT COME ACROSS EASILY WHEN THEY SPEAK?    almost always  /  frequently  /  sometimes  /  rarely  /  never

WOULD YOUR CHARACTER INITIATE CONVERSATIONS?    almost always  /  frequently  /  sometimes  /  rarely  /  never

WOULD YOUR CHARACTER BE THE ONE TO END CONVERSATIONS?    almost always  /  frequently  /  sometimes  /  rarely  /  never

WOULD YOUR CHARACTER USE ‘WHOM’ IN A SENTENCE?    yes  /  no  /  only ironically

YOUR CHARACTER WANTS TO MAKE A COUNTERPOINT. WHAT WORD DO THEY USE?    but  /  though  /  although  /  however  /  perhaps  /  mayhaps

HOW DOES YOUR CHARACTER END CONVERSATIONS?    walk away  /  ask if that’s everything  /  say that that’s everything  /  give a proper goodbye  /  tell their company they’re done here  /  remain quiet  /  they don’t

HOW DOES YOUR CHARACTER ADDRESS OTHERS?    titles  /  first names  /  surnames  /  full names  /  nicknames

WHAT SOCIAL CLASS WOULD OTHERS ASSUME YOUR CHARACTER BELONGS  TO, HEARING THEM SPEAK?    upper  /  middle  /  working  /  lower

IN WHAT WAYS DOES THE WAY YOUR CHARACTER SPEAK STAND OUT TO OTHERS?    accent  /  vocabulary  /  tone  /  level  /  politeness /  brusqueness  /  it doesn’t

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( ooc ): This just stupidly came to my mind, but based off the last gifset of Abe taking Thomas' inheritance (I'm assuming Whitehall and Richard help funded the farm), I wonder if knowing that it would go to Thomas messed with Abe a little growing up and it messed with Richard now that Thomas was dead. His intended son, his heir. Now having to give his home and all this money to Abe, who was never going to get all of it in the first place doesn't help Richard's annoyance with Abe and how Abe kept lying, being suspicious, and doing his own thing without listening to his father.

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( ooc ): s4 spoilers

So I'm about to go to bed and I'm on my unhinged timeTM. So I saw this edit on t.iktok right. It's a really good edit imo, but then I got to thinking. There is a slight parallel to the showdown between Simcoe and Abe in s4 to the duel we see in s1. Abe choose his friends/family/the cause (essentially, this all leads back to his son in a way since y'know that's why he choose to spy) in both instances and how Abe was the one with the advantage in the final moments in both circumstances where he could've killed Simcoe right then and there. S4, he might not be able to get away with it as easily as he would on s1 with the duel, but I'm just losing my mind over this show rn. Even if this wasn't even intentional with the writers.

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Likeable person & dislikeable person test

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WHERE  SHOULD  YOU  BE  KISSED  ?

* 𝐀𝐁𝐄 𝐖𝐎𝐎𝐃𝐇𝐔𝐋𝐋

KNUCKLES

it feels as though you have fought every day of your life. sometimes, you cannot even tell how much of the blood on your hands is your own... and how much comes from those who've tried to hurt those you defend. you deserve the gentleness of a kiss to your bruised knuckles and broken skin, a reminder that you are not only made of violence.

TAGGED: @honorhearted​​ ( Thank you ! )

TAGGING: the majority that follow me has been tagged already so take this as anyone that has me on their dash

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Not entirely centered on Abe, but still sorta relevant. From my chaotic moment with that crack au with Cassie and having Hewlett and Richard as a father figure in her life, this headcanon post isn't connected to that chaos at all. I was thinking a bit about Richard and I think I have a bit of a headcanon for him and the Woodhull family dynamic lmao.

I can't remember if Abe's mother's death was ever explained (like the cause of it), but I have a weird headcanon that while she was happy with the idea of having sons, she always really, really wanted a daughter. Richard likes the idea of having sons, but I think if Abe ever had a sister (especially before the mother's death), Richard would spoil her more than his other sons lmao. Mostly because of the fact Abe's mother always really wanted a daughter, so that's where a majority of his affection would come from. He would probably be the type of parent who thinks their child can do no wrong when it came to Abe's sister. In an argument between Abe and his sister, he would always take his daughter's side. This would probably get Abe to hate his sister because of the way Richard favors her.

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𝐒𝐄𝐍𝐒𝐄 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐎𝐓𝐇𝐄𝐑 𝐒𝐏𝐄𝐂𝐈𝐅𝐈𝐂 𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐃𝐂𝐀𝐍𝐎𝐍𝐒

WHAT DOES YOUR MUSE SMELL LIKE?

It depends on what time of the year it is, but oddly fresh laundry? Most of the time. When it's harvesting season, you can really smell the dirt and sweat off of Abe. He tends to bathe more during this time because of that reason, and it's also Abe's way of resting his joints after some hard labor. Other than that, I think Abe smells pretty clean. There's no large, recognizable odor coming from him.

WHAT DO YOUR MUSE’S HANDS FEEL LIKE?

With Abe's privileged lifestyle growing up, Abe always had soft hands (especially when its compared to Caleb's). With his farming lifestyle now, his hands have grown rougher but its nowhere near what most manual laborers deal with for their hands. There's calluses here and there, but when comapred to others, his hands are still pretty soft.

WHAT DOES YOUR MUSE USUALLY EAT IN A DAY?  

Abe usually eats hearty meals since I'm sure Whitehall had plenty of large meals growing up, but with his spying schedule and a busy lifestyle in t.urn's timeline, Abe tends to eat smaller meals throughout the day. His biggest meal is probably dinner and his lightest meal is during breakfast. In the city, Abe doesn't eat as much as when he's at home. Abe always feels like he's on the go and tries to get out the door as quickly as he can, always preoccupied with something else. (Except maybe around nighttime, when he wants to spend what time he has with Thomas).

DOES YOUR MUSE HAVE A GOOD SINGING VOICE?

It's alright. It's nothing to write home about, but it's passable.

DOES YOUR MUSE HAVE ANY BAD HABITS OR NERVOUS TICKS?

When dealing with his trauma, Abe often resorts to alcohol and his s.ex addiction which manifests in many forms throughout the timeline of the show. When he's angry, Abe often hits things to release his anger. Abe is very short tempered and can interrupt someone to get his point across. In general, when he's nervous, he adjusts his beanie, runs his hand over hsi hair, paces, or has his hands on his hips.

WHAT DOES YOUR MUSE USUALLY LOOK LIKE / WEAR?

Basically what he wears in the show lmao. Abe dresses nicely, but I think Abe intentionally dresses more "normal" with his spying career. He tries to look as normal and every day as possible to not draw as much attention to himself. he dresses a little nicer in the city but still tries to look discreet to get lost in the crowd of others.

IS YOUR MUSE AFFECTIONATE? HOW SO?  

Not really? I don't think Richard was very affectionate so that also applies to Abe. With his friends, he will hug them, but he's more accutomed to play-fighting. With Thomas, he's very affectionate because he's his pride and joy. In a romantic relationship, I think he's affectionate, and I think he gets more affectionate with Anna in turn because he can't be around her so often, but he tends to prefer for his partner to be more affectionate than he is.

WHAT POSITION DOES YOUR MUSE SLEEP IN?  

Abe can sleep sitting up, but he tends to lay on his back more often than not since he's used to sleeping when there's danger around. He sometimes sleeps on his side, his hand concealed under a pillow to quickly grab a knife (or something nearby). Generally, he rotates through a few different sleeping positions.

COULD YOU HEAR YOUR MUSE IN THE HALLWAY FROM ANOTHER ROOM?

Yes? Not that he's obnoxious, but it depends on what he's doing. You can hear Abe pacing sometimes, with heavy steps, if he's somewhere comfortable, but its not overbearing. Abe does know how to be quiet and if he's been on a spy mission for a long time, he tends to walk much quieter than usual. On instinct, if he's in a new place, Abe will walk silently and try to make as little noise as possible. If he's mad, you can really hear him hitting things, throwing items, and slamming doors or cabinets. At home, he whistles and hums to himself when he's in a good mood. If he's anxious or stressed, Abe tends to walk quicker than usual, which can give him away on most occasions.

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Doing a dash meme thing rn, but I got to thinking:

Abe acquires many scars in his time on turn (physical and mental), but when it comes to his treatment of these scars: its similar. Abe both ignores his physical and mental scarring from the events he experiences. He buries down any shame or grief until its coaxed out by alcohol or the right company (his childhood friends could easily get him to talk about this stuff, but it does depend on who. He's more willing to talk about this stuff to Anna than to someone like Caleb just with their dynamic as a whole).

Scars that never go away and persist throughout the entire turn timeline: the cut he gave himself in the pilot to try to sell the story of being beaten up by privateers (scar on his forehead), the stab he receives in s2 in the alleyway will always be there around his stomach area.

Scars that go away over time: the scars on his wrists when he was tied up by that Patriot bandit in s2 and from the handcuffs in the Sugar House. The scar on his neck after his hanging.

All of these scars are covered as much as he can with clothing. The scar on his forehead is harder to conceal because of its location, but it's slightly hidden by his beanie. The scar on his throat and wrists were covered by his sleeve and cravat. He really tried to hide the scar on his neck until it went away because even though Abe felt numb as a trauma response after his near death, he hated looking at them by remembering the look on his father and Mary's face during it. He has a feeling of guilt attached to it that he would even cover it at night to avoid noticing it until it went away. (If you look closely, you can see a small thin scar that remains, but it becomes unnoticeable by s4 timeline).

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WHICH  RAGE  LANGUAGE  ARE  YOU  ?

* 𝐀𝐁𝐄 𝐖𝐎𝐎𝐃𝐇𝐔𝐋𝐋

STEP BACK

usually, you're able to bottle up your emotions and ignore the frustrations. but, after weeks of shoving everything down, your body needs a release, and i pity the poor person who managed to piss you off. it's screaming crying, shouting, kicking lockers, whatever you can do to get it out of your system. it's a whole jean grey moment, fire and fury blasting out of you.