#— txt.

[oakdown]

i don't think i ever posted about this but it's one of the coolest things I own! thanks @77yearsteam ✨

[silkcorpsedoll]

pissing each other off as foreplay

[loonashifter]

you're not "fantasising" about your "dr" you're thinking about your life. you're already there. it's all already yours.

[dogearedheart]

save me stanford era dean save me

[lesbianyosano]

oh also another thing that bugs me about how kunikida gets characterized is how often poeple describe him as someone super polite who never swears lmao. he has one of the most vulgar speech patterns in the series, the most of the ada for sure. he only uses honorifics for fukuzawa, ranpo and yosano, being direct and unofficial with the others, regularly calls atsushi "brat" and uses familiar/rude pronouns (like ore/omae/kisama) and people think he'd tell someone off for saying fuck

[comehomet0myheart]

Past Lives works so well for me because I am so enamoured with pragmatism in fiction.

I read and watch a lot of stories about idealized love stories and I often enjoy them too! I spent my entire childhood believing that the teenagers who got together in the media I consumed would stay together forever. And then as I got older, I was naturally introduced to more stories about romances that didn’t work out. Still, it’s hard for me to think about those as pragmatic, most of them have this desire for sadness in them. They would make me feel as though the devastation was the point, that the narrative was forcefully bent toward the saddest outcome.

Past Lives doesn’t make me feel this way. Nora doesn’t stop talking to Hae Sung because of an unforeseen tragic circumstance. She makes a choice and goes through with it. Hae Sung puts it best during their conversation at the end of the film. She is the kind of person to leave. And he loves her because she is that kind of person. The “what-if” isn’t in wondering about if circumstances were different. No matter what, she would have chosen her plays over anything else. Her husband even notes that so much of how their relationship happened is because he fit so well into the life she wanted. The whole reason this film is called “Past Lives” is because that’s the only way to ponder about whether Nora and Hae Sung could be together.

It’s such a delightfully Asian perspective on it. “In another life” films are so common, but I always feel like Western movies do it in a kind of parallel universe kind of way. I love that in this one, Nora is so steadfast and consistent in her personality and desires, that there is no real contemplation and consideration of making her and Hae Sung’s relationship work. There is only a longing and a love.

[harlowhockeystick]

i'm a little wine drunk. thinking ab being wine drunk with your man.

when you're tipsy to the point where you get giggly and handsy. he loves it, he's all for it. this is his favorite stage of you being drunk. one more drink then you get really flirty, another drink after that you get aggressive, then one more drink and you can't stand up. so right before shit hits the fan, he's all for it. he loves when you slide a hand over his chest through his button shirt, he loves when you run your hands through his hair making it look like post sex hair, messing up the gel he put in an hour previous. oh, he also loves when you give him a sloppy kiss right after taking a big swig of your drink. he can taste the tequila mixed with lime on your tongue, then he has to put his hands firmly on your hips to get you to slow down and take a breath. he loves when you're still tipsy that he can still have a conversation, because he knows realistically he has about ten minutes before he's having to follow you around making sure you're not picking up someone else's drink. he loves when you're tipsy.

[loupsgarou]

thorin smiling @ bilbo like when the sun breaches past a wall of clouds before it retreats behind the wall.. i’m fine i’m fine

[atlas-nevadas]

man!!!! dsmp fucked so hard. the best way i can describe it is like. theres a lot of technically good media out there. that do things better or less chaotically or more thematically coherent that the dsmp. but dsmp feels so fucking sincere, like. it’s homemade, is the thing. it’s made by them, it’s made by us. it’s imperfect, it’s flawed, it’s honest. it goes beyond its medium and demands that you care. its genius comes from the fact that we’re consuming it together, watching it together, creating it together. it feels a lot like a homecooked family meal, is what i’m saying. love that shit <3

[demeterdefence]

demeter was always correct btw. might go so far as to say she was never incorrect.

[silkcorpsedoll]

no rizz. just big bambi eyes and many, many unsettling things to say.

[loonashifter]

i always wake up in my dr because why would i wake up in a reality i don't want to be in? why would i be somewhere that doesn't align with my 4d? that's so silly. i exist in whatever reality i choose to exist in.

[dogearedheart]

do you understand my vision?

[frankensteincest]

ANDREA DWORKIN, ‘Wuthering Heights’ (1987) from Letters from a War Zone

[orphenoch]

the more i think about mouthwashing the more i realize how fucking horrifing anya's situation is.. she is fucking alone on the ship. jimmy and curly are friends, and swansea and daisuke are mentor and aprentice.. and anya is just a nurse, they arent all friends. the people who think that they are are wrong, sorry. they're coworkers to anya. she is all alone in space trapped with her abuser and other men she doesnt know if she can trust bc they're not close. fuck