#[TBD]

[enden-k]

wipwip

[alannah-corvaine]

Every time someone says the tumblr ffxiv community is peaceful I'm just like give it time, and then two weeks later I'm right. lol

[dvilsdesire]

// Why do Raphael's pants look like they're made of those 90's swishy pants? Hear him coming from a mile away tbh...

What's the difference!???

[galedekarios]

ngl i'm so very tired of ppl trying to justify biphobia in fandom spaces at this point

[v-arbellanaris]

although i get why they did it (except i dont) i kind of wish that the final confrontation with solas doesnt offer him the opportunity to have mythal come in and like idk address what happened. like i get it but also idk... if theyre framing it as an abusive relationship with a power imbalance (as opposed to like. a toxic relationship between two equals) the reality is that often you don't have your abuser like... ever taking a smidgeon of responsibility or absolving you of any responsibility for a situation. you dont get that apology, you dont get that regret, and a lot of the work that goes into healing from that kind of relationship, whether its a parent or partner or whoever, is coming to terms with the fact that youre likely probably never going to get even an acknowledgement that something fucked up happened. and you didnt deserve it and it wasnt your fault. you still have to find a way forward without that. idk it feels.. not to say unnecessary, though i do feel it is unnecessary to have mythal show up and like 'absolve' solas/acknowledge it wasnt all his fault, but for the kind of relationship theyre trying to portray - having solas basically cowering and flinching away from her, sobbing, holding out a knife for her to ostensibly kill him with - it just doesnt really fit to me nor does it feel... idk? satisfying? realistic? idk what the word is. but to have solas' heel face turn happen after a conversation with mythal where she basically goes 'dw it was also kinda my fault lol' when the story paints her as his abuser just feels like it falls short in some way

[orpheuslament]

i think its very cool when my mother straight up forces me to go shopping with her when she knows im too depressed to even leave the house & then gets pissy when i get cranky & overwhelmed <3

[hoboblaidd]

I've said it before and I'll say it again, Solas fucks.

[elyksina]

I keep trying to use bluesky but meh. While it's nice seeing a lot of really inspiring artists on one website again, I also just keep seeing the same doomscrolly stuff I saw when I left twitter over a year ago (and have felt much happier not seeing all that since)

Don't have that problem here, which is why this website is the only one where I really continue to post.

[plisuu]

I have this feeling that when you write a lot of templars and Chantry stuff and have a Cullenmance that people tend to label you as some kind of "bad fan" when you're not morally policing yourself or your characters in your writing, when the reality of religious indoctrination and trying to get away from it is often much more subtle and complicated than people like to talk about and sometimes you just have to deal with that.

[wolfvirago]

;; home.

[enden-k]

this size difference is crazyyyy

[mamoritxi]

Part of me is like: I wanna write, the next is like: I wanna ship and the rest: I wanna lie here half dead and do nothing.

[dvilsdesire]

// Am I intimidating? I get this feeling that people are intimidated by me and maybe make them not want to approach? Or is it because I write an incubus? I want people to feel comfortable (and I'm asexual as fuck lol), and while Haarlep will absolutely flirt and likely attempt to sleep with your muse (because I want him to remain ic as possible as he comes to me), remember that ooc interaction is very important and I would NEVER write anything on here that would make you feel uncomfortable or pressured.

If you don't want to write with Haarlep, I also offer Raphael as a second muse, who is far more cordial and business than Haarlep's tastes. :)

[galedekarios]

just ordered a new drawing tablet. prayer circle that i actually use it instead of letting my overthinking get in the way.

[hexcoreviktor]

love how i, as a grown ass adult, am still fucking terrified of groups of teenagers 🙃