#<-don’t forget aphobic

[poppyseed799]

Spent today getting caught up on miraculous, remembered how much I hate the ice cream guy

[onesidedradiostatic]

i like the pan-demi-ro val hc! i also like the idea of aroace velvette

because the idea of vox UNKNOWINGLY being like “there’s an empty slot in my team 🥺 i don’t know why it’s labeled with the aroace flag 🥺🥺”

… velvette (who would know about alastor’s aroaceness via aroace telepathy) jokingly saying that she’s alastors replacement and vox misses the pun like “no one could ever replace himmmm” (val in the corner like “vel don’t insult yourself like that”)

the vees covering as broad a spectrum as possible, for max customer reach

(reference to this post)

oh my god I had this in my drafts for a good while sorry sometimes this happens and I forget to finish forming my answer to asks

HELP LMAOSKGOHSFOGM I'm pretty flexible with velvette sexuality hcs only cause I generally don't even have a set one just that she's definitely queer. yes aroace telepathy is definitely a thing that exists no question. skkdkf with aroace velvette, if you subscribe to alloacespec vox this literally means the vees cover 3 types of aspecs which is incredibly funny. they also still manage to be aphobic btw.

[clegfly]

Woo, it’s about time I made one of these… *cracks knuckles*

MORE ABOUT ME!!!!

HIIII!!!! My name is clegfly, or just cleg!!!! I’m an artist/ writer / professional paint drying critic/j. I’m just a silly person doing silly things, don’t mind me. I use they/them pronouns and I am aroace!!!

LIKES

BULLET POINTS BULLET POINTS BULLET POI

Pancakes. All day. All the time. Everywhere, anywhere. Pancakes

That goes for bacon too

JELLYYYYYYYYYY!!!!1!1!1!

Why are these all foods what else do I like uhhhh

Warm. And cosy bed. And fire. And all that stuff

OLD COMPUTER AESTHETIC!!!!!! N64!!! WINDOWS XP!!!! ALL THAT SHIT

Bugs in theory

PLANTS

MUSICAL THEATRE

Graphic novels

Video games… ough my beloveds

Books

Okay now this is too long

Oops

Sorry

JELLYFISH JELLYFISH JELLYFISH

The ocean full stop actually

In theory

CHINCHILLAS

Uh

Yapping

Analysis

DISLIKES

anything on my DNI >:((((

Bugs in practice

Sport

Exercise

I’m literally hero omori

Commitment

Stress

Internet drama

Anyone who gatekeeps like. Anything.

INTERESTS???

All day every day, baby.

MAINS

OMORI- main interest as apparent by one peek at my blog… The brainrot is immeasurable and everlasting. Send help. It’s been almost four years. I love this game, its characters, story, EVERYTHING so fucking much. I’m like a billion pounds in debt to it also. I will be homeless but at least I will have my big ass heromari collection.

PMMM/ Madoka Magica- my favourite show! Consisting purely of sparkles and sunshine!!!! Why are you crying??? I’m sure not!!!!

DDLC/ Doki Doki Literature Club- another favourite of mine!!! I see a well-written cast of characters I deeply relate to go through extreme horrific horror beyond any of their comprehensions and I’m SOLD!!!

Coraline- the horrors are all consuming, but at least it’s both a visual and extremely well-written treat!!!!

TADC/ the amazing digital circus- won’t lie, watched this show when the pilot dropped and LOVED it, but forgot about it after a while as it didn’t stick with me. Then episode three came out and I’m now reduced to a blubbering mess whose brain is now significantly comprised of two fictional chess pieces. What happened? I don’t know. Send even more help.

LITTLE GUYS THAT HURT MY BRAIN SOMETIMES

Petscop

Fnaf

BATIM/ bendy and the ink machine

BSD

Deltarune

Undertale

Hawaii: Part II

SUBJECT TO CHANGE BECAUSE IM PROBABLY FORGETTING LIKE 20 AND ALSO HAVE LIKE 20 STILL TO DISCOVER

HOBBIES?!2!2!

Ya!!!! :D

Art

The main thing I do on my silly little page!!

…in which the art is mostly unfinished doodles… but that’s okay!!!! We ball anyway

YOU CAN SEND THE CLEG REQUESTS!!!!! ALL DAY ANY DAY UNLESS I SAY OTHERWISE!!!! Do not expect premium quality though lmao. (And also nothing related to DNI. Shouldn’t have to say this but. Uh. Yeah)

You cannot yet commission the cleg :(

Writing

Currently on a writing hiatus and have been for a little while (5 MONRHS WHAT) but… i do!!!! That!!!! Aka I write fan fiction AGH

Mostly. Heromari stuff. Actually all heromari stuff. I think I have one fic that isn’t heromari and it’s one I co-authored I love them your honour…

Yeah

DNI

Bit of a bummer, but I gotta set my boundaries to keep the weirdos out!! That being said, do NOT interact with my blog whatsoever if you:

Are a shotacon, lolicon, proshipper, pedo, etc etc etc. (yucky. Yuck yuck yuck. Fuck off)

Are homophobic

Are transphobic

Are aphobic/ arophobic (why. Why are you even still here)

Queerphobic in general actually get OUT!!!!

Actively shit on any of my main interests. Like ACTIVELY go out of your way to tell me how bad it is (what. What is the point. Just go)

NSFW is on thin ice but I will likely just block the tag if you post about it... however PLEASE keep it away from me I am very sex repulsed and WILL block you ON SIGHT!!!

Are racist/ xenophobic

There is likely LOTS more I’m forgetting so I will update this later… also just saying I reserve the right to block ANYONE no matter if you fit into this criteria or not. If I don’t vibe with you I will politely block you and look the other way!!! No theatrics required

Anyway with all the negative stuff out of the way… I really hope you enjoy my blog!!! I’m just here to have fun honestly and express my ideas and passions and work on a little page of the internet so!!!! Hope you have fun too!!!! :D

[vintageandroid]

Kink for self-improvement

New Queer Earthling post! Today, I explored the ways in which having been in a 24/7 dom-sub dynamic helped me to grow and improve as a person.

First, let me be clear: one size doesn’t fit all, and engaging in D/s rules won't fix everything, or perhaps anything. Making changes to your life, however small and inconsequential, is always up to you. The domliest dom (or subbiest sub) in the world can’t make you change a habit that you don’t want to change. ... For me, though, this is what I’ve noticed having improved due to our time doing D/s.

Read How D/s Helped Me to Grow!

Don't forget to check out my Patreon and Ko-Fi if you enjoy my content!

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(Queer Earthling is my 18+ sex blog. If you’re interested in supporting a sex-positive, queer, neurodivergent weirdo, check out my support and affiliates page, buy me a Ko-Fi, or reblog so others can find me! If you’d rather not see these on your Tumblr feed, feel free to block the tag “Queer Earthling.”)

Also I have a Patreon that allows access to an exclusive Discord community of nerdy, friendly queer folks, as well as polls, behind-the-scenes stuff, and other fun. I have tiers as low as $1 if you want to support my work!

Aphobes, bi/panphobes, trans/nb-phobes, anti-kink, TERFs & SWERFs DNI

[squishsquishy]

⸝⸝ ‧₊° ⋅ ⊹ ࣪ ˖ ꒰ঌ ♡ ໒꒱ ⊹ ࣪ ˖⸝⸝ ‧₊° ⋅

˗ˏˋ ꒰ Jelly/Jude ꒱ ˎˊ˗

❕formerly JudeStims / ChewyNecklace

❕horror-stim and minecraftstim (anyone who owns the current URLs is not me)

「 they/he 」「 25 y/o 」「Fluid TME Bi Lesbigay Sapphillean Polyam」「 Mexican (white passing) 」 ⌞audhd+disabled⌝ ⌞ENG⌝ ⌞working toward being a sex therapist and educator⌝

>> Life Update <<

About me on Carrd

˗ˏˋ ꒰ Main: @jellymosasaur ꒱ ˎˊ˗

˗ˏˋ ꒰ Side: @pokesanriostims @gaymerstims @gotochikitty @chewygummy ꒱ ˎˊ˗ ˗ˏˋ ꒰ Stim Archive: @sensoryarchive ꒱ ˎˊ˗

˗ˏˋ ꒰ My art: @jellydrawing ꒱ ˎˊ˗

˗ˏˋ Stim Requests are Open! ˎˊ˗

˗ˏˋQueue (#Offline): 2 posts daily ˎˊ˗

Disclaimer: there is weed and cuss words on this blog, blacklist #cuss words or #weed if you need to. Please block my main if you don’t want interactions. Blacklist #rant if you don’t want to see my vents.

quick dni: no proship, don’t reblog my content to kink blogs, no exclusionists, no radqueers, no tcc or gore blogs

˖⁺‧₊˚₊‧⁺˖ ˖⁺‧₊˚♡˚₊‧⁺˖ ˖⁺‧₊˚₊‧⁺˖

Dia de los Muertos is not “Mexican Halloween”, it’s marketed this way in many chain stores in the U.S. however the only similarity is that it’s a few days apart. (Halloween 10/31 and Dia de los Muertos 11/2) Dia de los Muertos is a time to celebrate those who came before you, those that are no longer with us. We honor them and make sure they are safe in the after life, have energy and know they’re loved. Always. (Dia de los Muertos education) (Halloween history)

I’ve had to relearn Spanish so my Spanish is like kindergarten Spanish. I want to relearn it for my kids so I’m doing my best to build it back up, however I haven’t really worked on much reading or writing

Tags: #my gifs #my stimboards #fam rq 🩷 stim inspo post #squish420

Archived Stim Gifs: #deleted #classic @sensoryarchive

Quick messages:

>> I don’t make gifs of animal breeders or animals that should not be kept as pets in houses. If I reblog this content tell me. I do my best to check.

>> Don’t use my content if you don’t credit me.

DNI (Do Not Interact)

Don’t use my gifs if you’re not going to credit them.

Homophobic, Transphobic, Queerphobic, Antisemitic, Racist, Xenophobic

abdl, ddlg,cgl, any “age play”

Tcc/true crime fan

Pedos, Anti-Anti, Proship (shipping pedo ships or incest ships) if you’re neutral on shipping you can follow 👍

Exclusionist: Aphobic, Anti-Mogai, Anti-Mspec Gays or Lesbians, Transmed, Terf, Swerf, Biphobic, “drop the t” or “drop the b” (in lgbtqia), if you’re someone who is blatantly disrespectful and ignoring intersex people, ignorant or bigoted toward polyamorous people.

if you tell other people what their labels should be. if you tell trans people they HAVE to be pansexual. If you tell cis people in relationships with trans people they HAVE to be pansexual. This is one example, but don’t interact if you tell others what you think they should identify as or who you think they need to be with.

Don’t interact with me if you hate kids. Doesn’t mean you have to love them or want to have them just don’t be a dickhole to kids.

if you’re a trump supporter or supporter of any type of dictatorship which he preaches. A supporter of anything he stands for or has been convicted of.

All systems are valid. You don’t know what people are going through and you can’t decide how others systems form.

Radqueers, transage, transrace

Request Rules

If you don’t want something tagged as kin/me please add that in the stimboard request.

If you have triggers or don’t want something on the stimboard please let me know and I’ll avoid them for you.

Feel free to ask for tw if something is improperly tagged or I don’t currently tag that tw.

Please add pictures of the flags (for pride boards) and/or characters so I use the right ones. (This is not always needed, don’t worry if you forget)

If I don’t feel comfortable with a request I won’t do it, I will answer your ask privately if it’s not anon. This is not about regression it’s about people or content I just don’t like and it’s cool for me to just say no sometimes.

Blacklist: swarms (of bugs, just a few is okay but not a swarm) and waterparks also goats. I’m super allergic to goats.

For whitelist, go to my about for my faves

I tag meats, but i sometimes don’t know there’s pork in a dish im reblogging so message me if you need a post to be tagged as pork.

[squirrelstone]

While we’re on the topic of how prevalent and vile the early-mid 2010s aphobia was, let’s talk about the “sunset lesbian flag.” The creator at the time was a known aphobe, so naturally a lot of asexual and aromantic lesbians didn’t want to use her flag. She walked it back by claiming she wasn’t anymore and that she’d already apologized for it, but neither she nor anyone else could find said apology by searching her blog. What people did find was a ton of aphobic posts from a basic search or the word “asexual,” even though she’d claimed she deleted all those posts. She didn’t even do the bare minimum to make it right to the community she targeted, and when we asked her to, her response always amounted to “I’ve already apologized so let’s move on.”

When you attack someone, you don’t get to decide when to move on. The community you did harm to makes that decision, and she made it clear over and over again that she still didn’t value a-spec people as part of the queer community, she was just quieter about it.

Even the polls that were done were affected by aphobia. Time and time again, an inclusive flag by another artist won (an artist who received hate and death threats for their flag), and every time, the creator of the poll would insist aces and aros were skewing the results, conveniently ignoring that these polls were also widely spread amongst non-lesbian aphobic groups whose members voted for the sunset flag because it was made by an aphobe. They didn’t consider that ace and aro lesbians exist, or that there was a reason we were fighting so hard not to use the sunset flag, which was not only made by an aphobe, but based on the very biphobic flag we were trying to replace.

Y’all let your aphobia put a symbol born out of hate represent lesbians as a whole, and I will never forget that.

[rosetheocto]

🐙 Super Cool Intro Post 🐙

Hello!! You can call me Rose! I’m a giant nerd over a lot of things that only like 10 people know about! I’m also a self taught artist! (that barely posts art)

Dunno where exactly on the Aro/Ace spectrum I’m at, but it’s definitely somewhere!

I have Autism, ADHD, OCD, and probably some other kinds of anxiety disorders with a bit of other mental health issues mixed in!

She/Her, I’m a minor!

Feel free to send me asks about anything!! I’m more than happy to have an excuse to yell about my interests, headcanons, and AUs!

Watch me and a group of nerds play Miitopia!

‼️ Please immediately tell me when I do something wrong!! I have good intentions, but I’m also not the smartest person out there! I tend to be unaware and forgetful at times, so I may not realize right away when I say/do/support something really stupid!! ‼️

Interests, DNI’s, and Some Other Things under the cut :]

(Last edited December 31st, 2024)

Some Stuff I Like!! :0

Failboat (more specifically, Failboat’s Miitopia series, commonly shortened to “Failtopia”)

Splatoon

ChipDoesThis (I’m actually a moderator on his livestreams!) + The Chip Cinematic Universe (a Crossover Fanfic Thing made by me and other members of Chip’s unofficial discord!)

Eeveelution Squad (Webcomic by EV-Zero)

Among Us + Among Us Logic (I don’t support GameToons/NewScapePro nowadays, but AUL always has a special place in my heart)

Spooky Month

The Henry Stickmin Collection

My Little Pony (both Friendship is Magic/G4 and A New Generation/G5)

Pokémon (but almost exclusively Gen 6/Kalos, love those lil dudes)

That’s far from all of them, but those are some of the main ones rn! (i have a ton of interests)

Obligatory DNI List

Basic criteria (homophobic, transphobic, aphobic, ableist, racist, MAP/pedo, antisemitic/islamophobic/anything similar, pretty much just “don’t talk to me if you suck”)

Supporting any kind of genocide (this should be obvious. Not gonna get too political but we can all agree stuff like that is very messed up right?)

Support ships with pedophilia, incest, and other things of that nature. (i just simply don’t like that kind of content, and i do think can affect reality.)

NSFW accounts (i am a minor, self explanatory)

NFT supporters + Most AI Art/Writing/Voice Acting supporters (really depends on context for me, but a lot of the time it just takes away from actual creators)

Treating real people like fictional characters (giving real people “headcanons”, shipping real people, etc. especially when they have said in the past that they are uncomfortable with it. The CCU is not RPF.)

Some Other Things

I use tone indicators/show my tone through text often! And I’d appreciate it if people use them with me! (If that for some reason is something you don’t like then uh, idk do what you want lol)

I’m a multishipper!! (I love putting characters together like they’re Barbie dolls. It’s one of my fav hobbies)

I occasionally reblog FNF and Steven Universe stuff! (I know how some people feel about those fandoms, so I’m putting this out there!)

I am critical of media I like! (I promise I genuinely love the stuff I criticize most of the time, but being a hater can be fun lmaoo)

I may sometimes reblog donation asks! (I’m not gonna flood my blog with them, but expect a few to pop up every now and then)

The Tags!!

Ask the Octo (ask tag)

Rose’s Super Epic and Cool Art (art tag)

Chip Server Shenanigans (unofficial chipdoesthis discord tag)

Chiptopia/CCUtopia + Chip Cinematic Universe (chip server’s miitopia lets play + silly au/fanfic thing tags)

[omegasomeone]

An introduction (finally!)

Heya! I wasn’t expecting you in this corner of the internet, how did you get here?

Anyways, I’m Ley! Nice to meet you, how are you doing?

I’m non binary, aromantic, possibly greysexual, autistic and procrastinating on trying to get an ADHD diagnosis (which is kinda ironic)

I use any pronouns! (But mainly fem and neutral ones)

Also I’m somewhere between 18-24 years old (since I don’t tell my exact age, I can forget to change the age on this post and be just as accurate, what a genius I am, right?)

Centres of interest:

Hatsune Miku (every 2 years or so I get extremely into vocaloids for like 1-2 years)

Splatoon Splatoon Splatoon Splatoon Splatoon Splatoon Splatoon Splatoon Splatoon Splatoon Splatoon I fishing love Splatoon

Music in general tbh (if you read this, go check out Cosmo Sheldrake)

The 3DS family of consoles (in fact, I’m writing this post on one right now! jk jk.. unless?)

Pokémon (I’ll be totally honest, I get gender envy from Meowscarada)

Looking at how things work (I can and will learn the entirety of the laws of physics to understand how a dishwasher works)

Toby Fox’s games (Muffet my beloved)

Bugs (ranging from software bugs to bugs with wings to bugging my friends

also I like to write stuff but uhh i dont think im that good at it

Now, for the tags (that I will most definitely remember to put in my posts and never forget):

#Ley’s ramblings for basically anything except things that fall into other tags or reblogs to which I don’t add anything

#Ley’s incredibly unskilled writing for any story, etc. I write and (wrongly) decide is decent enough to post

#Ley’s amateur pics for any picture I take that I decide to post. Prolly the tag I’ll use the least out of the current three

And probably some other ones in the future!

DNI IF:

• you’re an aphobe (this includes but is not limited to: shipping aro characters (unless they are explicitly stated to still date), making ace characters have sex (unless they are explicitly stated to still do), unless you are yourself aspec

• you’re a transphobe (this includes being a truscum)

• you’re an homophobe

• you don’t accept nonhuman identities

• you don’t accept plural people (I’m not plural but that doesn’t mean you can be an asshole about them)

…uhh what else do I have to say? uhh woomy says trans rights

[kitkatt0430]

Star Trek TOS for the fandom ask game!

Character I first fell in love with:

So this is another sci-fi series I was introduced to very young. When I was little I'd grab the VHS tapes of marathons my parents had recorded and watch them obsessively for TOS and TNG.

But first favorite character. Um... Either Spock, Scotty, or Uhura. I really don't know which. Definitely one of those three though.

Character I never expected to love as much as I do now:

Yeoman Rand. She was a quickly dropped character from the first season and I don't think she made much of an impression on young me. But older me is well aware of what happened behind the scenes and what her character was meant to be... and honestly I love this character now. Janice is a really sweet, likable woman. She's friends with Sulu, she's patient with a socially stunted teenager with a crush on her, she has this mutual attraction with Kirk that neither act on because they respect each other too much as coworkers to risk ruining that...

She's this complicated and lovely character and the actress who portrayed her deserved so much better than she got. She does show up in the movies, however, so I'm glad that Janice got to have a good career in Starfleet.

(Seriously, though, Janice was supposed to be a pretty major role and what happened to Grace Lee Whitney is appalling.)

Character everyone loves but I don’t:

I don't know that there is one?

Maybe Gary Mitchell? I don't know how well liked he'd be considered, but he's an entitled ass. Not really sure how Kirk was friends with him even pre-psionic powers/a-god-am-I breakdown, because this guy treated women kinda... badly. He set Kirk up with a woman as a distraction attempt while taking Kirk's class at the Academy. Behaved like an entitled asshole when Elizabeth Dehner shot him down - using what I recognize now as some pretty aphobic language. And he was pretty shitty to Spock too.

I would have preferred him to have been the villain played by Cumberbatch than Khan but that's in part because he would have made such a perfect foil to new!Kirk. (And then you don't have to explain why a white guy is playing an Indian character...)

There's also The Companion but if I start talking about that clusterfuck I will probably forget to answer the rest of the questions due to losing my temper over that particular... episode. (It is bad though and I'd happily... well, not happily but I would rant about it if asked.)

Character I love but everyone else hates:

Similarly, I don't know how much Elizabeth Dehner is liked, but I really love her. I read her as aspec and career focused. She gets super powers that have already made someone else (admittedly someone who was already an entitled twit) go all 'a god am I' but she still keeps her compassion. She still recognizes that no, actually, they don't have the right to rewrite reality to suit their whims.

She saves Kirk at the cost of her own life. And I will never forgive new!Trek comics for writing her off as barely a footnote, Bones' ex who won't set foot on the ship because he's there. >_<

Character I used to love but don’t any longer:

I don't know that I've got an answer to this one. All those beloved characters.

Character I would kiss:

No kissing, but I bet Uhura gives the best hugs.

Character I want to slap:

In the Galileo Seven episode I want to slap Bones and a few other minor characters for the way they treat Spock.

A pairing I love:

Kirk/Spock, but I have to admit new Trek had me taken a second look at Spock/Uhura

A pairing I hate:

Hmmm... I don't know? There are a lot of one off ships for Kirk that I'm not fond of for various reasons. Some because he's pretty clearly only manipulating the situation to protect his crew. Some because he's not actually in a position to consent and the power imbalance - memory manipulation/amnesia/external threats - makes the whole thing pretty awful.

Elaan/Kirk is one that very much sticks out because he's literally brainwashed by her tears.

[cookie-waffle]

I feel like both aphobes and the aroace community keeps forgetting that literally everyone is asexual at some point.

You can’t “headcanon” if a prepubescent kid feels or doesn’t feel sexual attraction. Of course they fucking don’t?

I’m aroallo. I have a huge “drive”. But I didn’t feel sexual attraction until I was already 14. Puberty can and will have huge effects on your brain and the way you experience attraction.

You can still experience romantic and aesthetic attraction before puberty (or lack there of) That’s how people know they’re gay or bi or aro or whatever when they’re only like 10.

But a kid that young not wanting to have sex doesn’t mean they’re asexual, it means they’re 10.

And, on the contrary, if a kid that young DOES want to have sex, it doesn’t mean you can use it as “proof” that being asexual isn’t real. It means that kid probably either has a rare medical condition like precocious puberty, or has experienced sexual abuse.

Quit arguing over if little prepubescent kids can know if they’re asexual or allosexual because in the end, the answer will always be

No. Fucking obviously, no.

[huniegloom]

Aphobes are like the most insecure people on the planet. And don’t you forget it!

[confessionsofa-roleplayer]

Being called a homophobe for writing an mspec (ex. bi/pan) heteroromantic female muse is a new level of wild to me. So, by (general you here) your definition, mspec lesbians don’t exist, either, and are totally fake and bigoted representation. And let’s not even forget that the complete ignorance of the split-attraction model is aphobic as well. And people wonder why I avoid blogs listed as “primarily” or “strictly” wlw centered. You’re just mad and salty I won’t ship my muse with you (even if I have other muses that absolutely would… and the majority of mine are bi/pan anyway).

[inanefaggotry]

BYF + About (NO minors!)

Hi! My name’s Gin. This is my NSFW blog, where I bare my very soul (and ass), and say deranged things about fictional characters sometimes. This also partially serves as a self-ship blog (I am more than okay with “sharing” any and all of the characters discussed here!).

ABOUT ME:

adult (20s)

nonbinary + bisexual

they/them pref (feel free to experiment w/ other pronouns though—just don’t refer to me with “it/its,” please!) 

white

DNI

Standard DNI criteria (no bigots, nazis, pedos, etc), but also:

MINORS (This is equally for my safety as it is yours—please leave if you’re under 18!)

TERFs

Truscum/transmeds, anti-MOGAI, aphobes

Zionists

Generally speaking, if you proudly self-identify as a proshipper, comshipper, anti-anti or any variation thereof, I'd greatly prefer it if you didn't interact with this blog. Thanks.

I’m a switch, and NOT looking for any irl partners. Nearly everything found on this blog is exclusively fantasy. That said, although I’m into a LOT of things (and likely to forget to list some) here are some specific kinks that warrant a CONTENT WARNING:

Gore [#gore]

Light! cnc/dubcon [#cnc, #dubcon]

Medical kink [#medical play]

Intox (usually in a fantastical or “mad scientist” kind of way, tho—aphrodisiacs, fantasy drugs™, that sort of thing!) [#intox]

Somnophilia [#somno]

Piss kink [#piss]

Monsterfucking + technosexuality (as in, robots, computers, tech. Machines) [#terato, #techno]

That should cover it, but if you need anything else tagged/I’ve forgotten to tag properly, please let me know!

Other things I’m into include:

praise + degradation (i just like talking lmao)

whump generally 

overstimulation 

choking

exhibitionism

size kink

+ many other things I'm probably forgetting/only into situationally lmfao

Things I’m not into (nothing personal lol):

scat

DDLG

age play

ABDL

detrans

pregnancy

lactation

If you've read this far thanks for rocking with me ig. Muah

[vintageandroid]

Collar & Leash Review

Put a new review up! I tried out a Sportsheets collar and leash set, sent to me by Betty's Toy Box. And it was...an unusual request from me, because, well...

I’ve been running this blog for about five years now (!!!) and I’ve reviewed quite a number of kink implements, from impact toys to bondage gear, from sensation toys to wax play candles. Nonsexual kink is a big part of my life, and finding safe, affordable bondage gear is important to me. One common kink element that has been noticeably absent? Collars. Collars are part of the BDSM image, the kink aesthetic. The image of a submissive kneeling and being collared is classic. I’m very submissive, we’ve even done 24/7 for a time, but I’ve never yet reviewed a collar for one simple reason. I, uh, don’t like wearing them.

(they/them pronouns please)

Read Review: Sportsheets Sex and Mischief Brat Collar and Leash!

Don't forget to check out my Patreon and Ko-Fi!

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Aphobes, bi/panphobes, trans/nb-phobes, anti-kink, TERFs & SWERFs DNI

[mogai-sunflowers]

a lot of people, especially allo gays, don’t seem to understand that if you take the statements aphobes make and apply them to gays, they’re quite obviously queerphobic, but when applied to us, we’re just whiney babies who want to be oppressed.

like, people (rightfully so) will be angry and combative if a straight person said “you’ll grow out of it, you just need to find the right man” to a lesbian, but those same people don’t bat an eye when it’s “you’ll grow out of it, you just need to find the right person” at an aromantic person

it’s all up in arms when a gay man is “perverted and unnatural” but silence when that’s said to an ace person.

“i can fix you” is a threat to gay people but aspecs hearing it are just whiney babies

“it’s a mental illness”. “god didn’t make you like that.” “you’re broken”. “you’re faking for attention.” “What a waste.” “How can you know if you haven’t tried it.”

If you can recognize why all those things would be bad to say to a gay person, you can also recognize how it’s bad that those are things aspecs also deal with near daily. 

so it bothers me how so many allo gays SEE the type of hate we get, but are still so ignorant that even though they hear the same things we do, they can’t recognize what’s right in front of their eyes. They don’t see how we go through the same things. We’re just whining. Because hey, how can we be hated if no one knows we exist? But maybe, just maybe, you’re forgetting that no one knowing you exist is not a privilege.

[overcaffeinated-aro]

this pride, I’d like to remind everyone how thoroughly the aspec community was obliterated on here. I don’t think I’ll ever get over the whiplash of going from literally creating a tumblr to learn more about aspec identities and being so excited to finally have a place where I wasn’t broken—to watching the lgbt community and surrounding ‘allies’ utterly destroy what we had, watching blogs delete or quietly re-closet themselves, and being afraid to put anything regarding asexuality or aromanticism in my bio. I started blocking people once I started having nightmares

it’s still so hard to get people to take aphobia seriously, and ‘aphobe’ is constantly treated like a joke. I get anxious about mentioning my qpp in anything, I’ve seen how far people will go to tell someone their relationship is fake or ‘cringe’. sometimes it seems like noone remembers what it was like before, when we weren’t afraid. that we came looking for acceptance, and were thrown out on our asses for being largely neurodivergent.

I’m so glad we’re rebuilding, but I’ll never forget what that felt like. what it feels like