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Lupithestic Attraction

A tertiary attraction that describes the desire that is intense in nature, relating to violence and destructive passion.

Those who experience lupithestic attraction may want to provide/recieve emotional support via being an emotional release or dump to express genuine care and concern.

The feelings related lupithestic attraction are positive in nature, and relate to a deep desire to understand/be understood so deeply that cruelty becomes a form of affection.

Seeing negatives in an individual become the closeness and attraction present in lupithesm, turning said negatives into a nurturing and positive form of looking at others.

More details + image ID under the cut

Alternate QPT/QPR name may be a "Grace," referring to the peacefulness negative emotions become connotative with in the presence of lupthestic attraction.

Alternate partner name may be "Karme," relating to the emotional harm and subsequent positivity that lupithesm provides.

"Lupithesm" derived from:

Kalupit (tagalog) meaning cruelty

Vehemens (latin) meaning violence

Vehement (english) meaning passionate

Sadomasochism (english)

This term is NOT supporting abuse or toxic relationships, and is a type of attraction separate to romance, platonic, sexual, and psychological, although it may be present alongside those forms of attraction.

Image descriptions in ALT text.

[Image ID: A horizontal flag with eleven stripes, alternating between medium and small thickness. The center most stripe is thicker than the rest of the stripes. Colors, in order from top to bottom: Red, maroon, light red, maroon, pale red, maroon, rose pink, maroon, hot pink, maroon, deep pink.]

Coined by the Monkey 🐒 for a story

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[IMAGE ID: Three almost identical flags. They all feature 5 stripes and a gradient of stripes from red to light red in the center. As well as this, they all feature a hearts symbol. For each flag it is a different color but the stripes gradient is continued in the hearts symbol, making it dark on the edges but light in the middle. The first heart is pink, the second a dark purple and the third grey to reflect the homestuck quadrants pale, pitch and ashen.]

LOVELOOSE (moirrallegic leaning, kismetic leaning, ashen leaning)

Loveloose is a trrm 4 someone who uses love as a widrr trrm than intended or do not exprrience the descrribed definition of love but use it anyway. The quadrranted flags rreprresent the trrm love including ashen, pitch and pale attrraction. Flags based on loveloose hrre or by @pro-crastinate17 and both flags/terms inspired by @mx-princey. Flag crreated by a monkey I know (I asked how I should crredit && this was it).

Matching terms Ashenloose, Paleloose && Pitchloose hrre, hrre && hrre.

[alt text: Loveloose (moirrallegic leaning, kismetic leaning, ashen leaning). A term for someone who uses love as a wider term than intended or do not experience the described definition of love but use it anyway. The quadranted flags represent the term love including ashen, pitch and pale attraction. Flags based on loveloose here or by @pro-crastinate17 and both flags/terms inspired by @mx-princey. Flag created by a monkey I know (I asked how I should show credit and this was it). Matching terms Ashenloose, Paleloose and Pitchloose here, here and here.]

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[IMAGE ID: Three almost identical flags. They all feature 5 stripes and a gradient of stripes from pink to light pink in the center. As well as this, they all feature a diamonds symbol. For each flag it is a different color but the stripes gradient is continued in the diamond symbol, making it dark on the edges but light in the middle. The first diamond is red, the second a dark purple and the third grey to reflect the homestuck quadrants flushed, pitch and ashen.]

PALELOOSE (rromantic leaning, kismetic leaning, ashen leaning)

A trrm 4 someone who uses Moirrallegience orr pale as a widrr trrm than intended or do not exprrience the descrribed definition of pale but use it anyway.

Coined by a monkey but terrm based on loveloose hrre or by @pro-crastinate17 and both flags/terms inspired by @mx-princey. Flag crreated by a monkey I know (I asked how I should crredit && this was it).

Matching trrms ashenloose, pitchloose && loveloose hrre, hrre && hrre.

[alt text: Paleloose (romantic leaning, kismetic leaning, ashen leaning). A term for someone who uses moirallegience or pale as a wider term than intended or do not experience the described definition of pale but use it anyway. Coined by a monkey but term based on loveloose here or by @pro-crastinate17 and both flags/terms inspired by @mx-princey. Flag created by a monkey I know (I asked how I should show credit and this was it). Matching terms Ashenloose and loveloose here and here. Matching terms ashenloose, pitchloose and loveloose here, here and here.]

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[IMAGE ID: Three almost identical flags. They all feature 5 stripes and a gradient of stripes from black to purple in the center. As well as this, they all feature a spades symbol. For each flag it is a different color but the stripes gradient is continued in the spade symbol, making it dark on the edges but light in the middle. The first spade is pink, the second grey and the third red to reflect the homestuck quadrants pale, ashen and flushed.]

PITCHLOOSE (moirrallegic leaning, ashen leaning, rromantic leaning)

A trrm 4 someone who uses kismesissitude orr pitch as a widrr trrm than intended or do not exprrience the descrribed definition of pitch but use it anyway.

Coined by a monkey but terrm based on loveloose hrre or by @pro-crastinate17 and both flags/terms inspired by @mx-princey. Flag crreated by a monkey I know (I asked how I should crredit && this was it).

Matching trrms ashenloose, paleloose && loveloose hrre, hrre && hrre.

[alt text: Pitchloose (moirallegic leaning, ashen leaning, romantic leaning). A term for someone who uses kismesissitude or pitch as a wider term than intended or do not experience the described definition of pitch but use it anyway. Coined by a monkey but term based on loveloose here or by @pro-crastinate17 and both flags/terms inspired by @mx-princey. Flag created by a monkey I know (I asked how I should show credit and this was it). Matching terms ashenloose, paleloose and loveloose here, here and here.]

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[IMAGE ID: Three almost identical flags. They all feature 5 stripes and a gradient of stripes from dark grey to light grey in the center. As well as this, they all feature a clubs symbol. For each flag it is a different color but the stripes gradient is continued in the club symbol, making it dark on the edges but light in the middle. The first club is red, the second a dark purple and the third pink to reflect the homestuck quadrants flushed, pitch and pale.]

ASHENLOOSE (rromantic leaning, kismetic leaning, moirrallegic leaning)

A trrm 4 someone who uses Auspisticism orr Ashen as a widrr trrm than intended or do not exprrience the descrribed definition of ashen but use it anyway. Coined by me but terrm based on loveloose hrre or by @pro-crastinate17 and both flags/terms inspired by @mx-princey. Flag crreated by a monkey I know (I asked how I should crredit && this was it). But trrm. 4 myself! :33

Matching trrms Loveloose, Paleloose && Pitchloose hrre, hrre && hrre.

[alt text: Ashenloose (romatic leaning, kismetic leaning, moiralegic leaning). A term for someone who uses auspisticism or ashen as a wider term than intended or do not experience the described definition of ashen but use it anyway. Coined by me but term based on loveloose here or by @pro-crastinate17 and both flags/terms inspired by @mx-princey. Flag created by a monkey I know (I asked how I should show credit and this was it). But term for myself! Matching terms loveloose, paleloose and pitchloose here, here and here.]

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[IMAGE ID: A flag with 5 stripes where the middle is thickest, encompassing the entirety of a beige gamma symbol in the center. The stripes go in this order: Blue, Dark blue, black, maroon and red.]

Altern8 Polycurrious prride flag

Altrrnative to the polycurrious prride flag. The Gamma symbol is chosen as it rreprresents "c" 2 rrefrr both 2 curious && both 2 use the symbol gamma as a 4rth option parrallelling how the trrm is rel8ed 2 polyamorry but is not strrictly one of the thrree, Monogamous, Polyamorrous or Ambiamorrous. The rred && blue is frrom the orriginal polyamourrous flag. Fl@g m8de by the monkey!!!

[alt text: Alternate Polycurious pride flag. Alternative to the polycurious pride flag. The gamma symbol is chosen as it represents "C" to refer both to curious and both to use the symbol gamme as a fourth option paralleling how the term is related to polyamoury but is not strictly one of the three, Monogamous, Polyamorous or Ambiamorous. The red and blue is from the original polyamorous flag. Flag made by the monkey. ]

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