#// (btw for the mbti crowd... long ago...)

[tintysun]

♪ Lyrical technician an electrician Y'all light work ♪

Eminem | Houdini

[stars-tonight]

hello !

i'd like to request a long romantic male matchup. i am a female and go by she/her.

my ideal partner would just have to be understanding, trustworthy, reliable and honest. someone who would be both my friend and lover at the same time. someone who would cuddle me when i've had a bad day, someone who would reassure me if i ever felt bad about myself- doesn't matter whether it's done with words or actions. i'd also prefer if he was taller than me (5'8''ft/172cm).

i am introverted and might come off as reserved and composed at first, but once you get to know me i'm pretty friendly, honest, caring and funny. i don't reach out to people much or start conversations, but i'm down to go out with my friends every once in a while.

my hobbies are playing volleyball (i play as a setter) and video games, listening to music, walking and digital art.

my giving love language is most likely acts of service and receiving either physical touch or quality time.

i don't really have an ideal date- amusement parks, fancy restaurants, chilling at home, it doesn't really matter. the only thing is that i want to actually spend time with and get to know him during our date, so going to the movies or something would rather be a no, since our attention would be on the movie not each other (hopefully i explained that well enough).

my mbti type is isfj-t (introverted, observant, feeling, judging, turbulent).

getting a little bit more serious, i was diagnosed with anorexia and anxiety a few months ago. i'm a self-conscious, overachieving perfectionist, meaning that if i slip up even once, i feel like a failure (my biggest fear is failing and not meeting expectations). that's why i want someone who would comfort me.

back to happier topics, i like true crime podcasts (and cryptic killers/murder mystery case file games). i also spend hours just browsing through different e-stores for clothes, interesting snacks and skincare.

if there's anything else you might wanna know then let me know.

thank you !

headcanons

🥛 akaashi checks off your ideal partner list really well

🥛 he'd definitely always be there for you when you need it, whether it's with encouraging words or a hug

🥛 i believe akaashi is nearing six foot, or 183 centimeters

🥛 which is lowkey crazy bc how tf is he that tall

🥛 like there's no way he's that tall yknow?

🥛 man is 5'9 on a good day (in my head, not according to the actual canon lol but that's still insane)

🥛 it's so cool that you're also a setter because you can talk about plays together and just relate to each other sm more

🥛 akaashi also definitely prioritizes getting to know his partner on a date

🥛 although i think he'd like quieter dates more, like a walk or stargazing or an at-home date

🥛 he'd be down for an amusement park date as well, but his battery would just run out sooner lol and i feel like he wouldn't be a big fan of how loud or crowded the place is

🥛 he would definitely take you out to a fancy restaurant and get all dressed up for it in a suit and tie (which he pulls off SO well, btw)

🥛 akaashi is also really hard on himself and is an overthinker

🥛 so you two would be able to help each other when either of you are feeling down

🥛 he just screams warmth and comfort and he'd always be there for you with a big hug or a homemade meal

🥛 he's the type to leave love letters or love notes throughout the house for you to find when you're having a bad day

🥛 but he also has a big tendency to overthink so he'd need a partner who could be there for him too

runner up for you was sawamura daichi!

A/N: hi! i was uncharacteristically productive today so i got to pretty much all the matchup asks in my inbox, including yours! hope you liked it :) i hope you're taking care of yourself and feeling better 🫶

[marculees]

🌼 Tag 🌼

Tagged by @pikachulein to answer ten of her custom questions, thank you 💖 💖

1. What compliment you've received meant the most to you?

I don’t really believe people when they compliment me rip. Only a few months ago, one of my professors told me I wrote at Masters level during a private meeting and it made me smile for three hours straight. I’ve been considering a career in third-level teaching and research and I hadn’t told him this but he started telling me I would be perfect for it and it was really motivating ;-;

2. Would you rather meet your favourite celebrity/group/bias and realize they're not at all how you imagined them to be like (maybe they're not as kind as you thought, for example) or never meeting them in person but it turning out that they're actually the amazing, kind, sweet, generous, etc. person that you thought they were? (I hope that makes sense hhhh I think the ethics of this question are really interesting)

I’d rather not meet them and have them be lovely. I haven’t met them yet anyway and so I wouldn’t lose anything by not meeting them.

3. What's your current favourite song you always use to get hyped up to or a song currently stuck in your head?

Boss Bitch - Doja Cat

4. If you had to write the book of your life, what genre would it be and what would you choose as a title?

I’d write it in the format of diary entries, very much a ‘slice of life’ type, with illustrations and doodles on the pages for metaphor and viewing pleasure. I think the title would be something simple too but with some depth to it, like a significant date in my life; almost like the ‘climax’ of the book, I could work the reader up to that entry and they would know something is coming up but not what 👀

5. Name your top 5 musical artists and your favourite song of each of them?

mxmtoon - Feelings are Fatal

Hozier - Movement

Kim Petras - Personal Hell

Conan Gray - Comfort Crowd

Kodaline - Ready

6. If you were invited to a big humanitarian event and had to give a speech on a topic you'd want to bring about a huge change for the better, what topic would you choose to speak about and voice your opinions/ideas? (Assume public speaking is one of your strongest assets and you'll ace this no matter what)

Okay so this is literally one of my aspirations in life, no joke, I’d love to be able to speak to a crowd and try to inspire and motivate them to achieve great things! I just really want to see people succeed and realise their potential regardless of who they are :( There are so many topics I would like to address but I think I would go for mental health in development. I study international development so I’m very familiar with humanitarian issues but often times, mental health is ignored when looking at healthcare regardless of where you are in the world.

7. What is something (a skill, personality trait, or something appearance related, it can be whatever) you wish you had and/or you really admire in other people?

I really admire team-players in leadership. People who are genuinely concerned for those around them and want them all to succeed together. They don’t leave anyone behind and remind everyone of their strengths and what they contribute to the team and actively push them to succeed. I try to do the same but sometimes I can sometimes be a bit of a pushover and not strict enough, instead just taking on more work myself rather than trusting a team member to do it... group projects, anyone??? :’)

8. What's your favourite anime/show/youtuber (you can answer whichever you got an answer for, it can be all three options of course :D)?

I don’t watch anime anymore but I enjoyed Ouran High a lot!

I’m waiting for the new season of Line of Duty to come out soon, but my guilty pleasure TV show is Bondi Rescue dsjvkdhlvjhfb I’ve also been watching that new show Five Guys A Week with my mum recently and its such good craic omfg 

I tend to flock towards gaming and commentary channels most but Dashie is my fave istg there isn’t a video of his that I don’t wheeze along to 😂

9. In kpop, are you more into vocalists, dancers, rappers, maknaes, leaders, or visuals (or maybe a mix of some/all :'))?

I’ve noticed I like the rappers most!

10. What's your most beautiful/favourite memory?

This is hard...I literally had to answer this question last because I wanted to have a proper think about it. Its been hurting my head for days trying to think tbh and is it bad that I actually can’t pick a particular moment?.I’m genuinely stuck but a recent-ish one I can think of was this time last year when I had to give a presentation in front of my class of 250 people. I was presenting with two groupmates and I remember how hard we practiced and rehearsed for the days coming up to it. We wore coordinating outfits and had our lines memorised and I remember walking up on the stage and immediately feeling ‘powerful’. I don’t usually feel powerful at all but once I started speaking and performing our skit with my groupmates (who were lovely btw it made me really happy seeing the more nervous one do so well!), I seen how the faces of my classmates lit up and it gave me that warmth I had missed for so long. Random people I had never even spoke to before came up and complimented me later and it made me really proud because its what I love to do and it was so lovely knowing they enjoyed it too ;-; The lecturer we had for that class was known for being really intense but she took a shine to me and pulled me aside one of the days to compliment me and then referred to me as “her powerful speaker” in front of the class when we were receiving assignments back weeks later. It was the highlight of my whole semester and second year tbh. I’m really hard on myself but for once, I felt genuinely and I mean TRULY proud of myself and it had been a long ass time since I had felt that way 😭 

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Okay, now I tag @wheezing-pterodactyl @jbemin @jenoscity @starryseung @seventiddies @thegirlthatsdancingintherain @leechan-babyboy @angelwonho for the following questions:

1. What comment appeared on your report card most often as a schoolchild?

2. What’s your guilty pleasure?

3. You find a magic lamp and now a genie is here to grant you three wishes! What are you gonna wish for? (you can’t ask for more wishes though lol)

4. Imagine you have the power to control time. Would you rather pause, rewind or fast-forward?

5. When you shop for clothes, what’s the first thing that catches your eye? (could be the colour, pattern, style, price, fabric, etc.)

6. What’s the strangest dream you have had recently?

7. What is your MBTI type?

8. Do you have any unusual talents or party tricks? If so, what are they?

9. If your life were to be recreated through a form of art, which medium would you choose? (examples: painting, film, book, music, video game, etc.)

10. If you could be any mythical creature or figure, what would you like to be?