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beautiful

“Here we Stand”

I made this drawing to honor both Lyanna and Jorah, the two last bears from the House Monmort, and I am probably going to draw the other characters that died at the Winterfell battle, but for now, a little moment for these two brave and amazing heroes. (Especially Lyanna, my bby died while fighting a fucking giant. I luv her and I’ll miss her way too freaking much ;-;)

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maisie i love you

the thing I Love more about Arya Stark is Maisie Williams. She did it mostly the action by herself, looking at behind the scene. I love her more. cries.

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1x06 || 8x03

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Arya Stark of Winterfell. Cc: @PapayouFR

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can’t wait for the final boss battle of duolingo when you fight the 50 foot owl armed with nothing but your wits, a sword, and your shaky grasp of verb conjugations

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Person: You can’t love fictional characters. They don’t exi..

Me:

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netflix or tv series recs

that similar to

haunting of hill house

stranger things

the umbrella academy.

anyone please?

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knock knock

anybody here

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but the question is, do I really want them to know and ready for their reaction?

Only if they knew…😔

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so yeah

so i havent been here for a long time. now i just want to vent. i dont know it’s because of pms or what but i cant handle this emotion attack. im get used to handle logic things and this is overwhelming. i have a feeling that this thing is building up and im going to have a breakdown soon.

i dont have anyone to talk to comfortably. maybe i just want to talk to somebody, maybe i just want to do therapeutic stuff (which i have yet to find out), maybe….. i just dont know what to do.

i know i just have let this go but for now, it’s really annoying and bother me so much :’(

so yeah idk if it’s just temporary but for sure it’s not the first time. i hate this feeling so much. is it because im intp or what. oh mygod.

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The INTPs drive to know, simplified.

Ti: That was an incorrect assessment.

Ne: But maybe I simply haven't acquired enough information on the topic. What other possibilities are there to consider?

Si: Well, blank has something to do with this, and we never learned enough about it. We should expand our approach in this direction more.

Fe: Please please do it I'll cry if I look like an idiot in front of the person who might know more :(

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Tips for Dealing with Jungian Types

When working with persons who prefer these cognitive process, consider the following tips:

Introverted Feelings

• They are listening intently to you, especially for tone of voice, motivations, words that link to your values, and what’s left unsaid.

• Speak thoughtfully, take your time, and don’t rush; because when they are done listening, they may seem surprisingly definitive about decisions.

 • Speak to their values, especially positively-felt values, to get their attention. At the same time, remain true to yourself to avoid phony affect.

• They experience strong gradations of importance from like to dislike but may only verbalize circumstantial reasons for their evaluations.

• When trying to persuade them, know that their deep values and moral assessments tend to resist pragmatic arguments or contextual factors.

• Withholding feedback arouses their attention. Otherwise they are hard to faze and may not adjust their behavior to fit social expectations.

Extraverted Feelings 

• They attend to you, your words, and how you may be evaluating them, though they may show few outward physical signs of doing so.

• Give them room to discuss considerations of justice and injustice. Ethics of people’s choices and failings are highly salient to them.

• While they often stay sociable and may self-disclose in order to build a relationship, be cautious about implying that you fully understand them.

• They use and respond to value-laden language. They focus on word choice more than tone of voice, which may be steady even when upset.

• They are more verbal than visual, and may look and sound highly logical sometimes, for certain tasks, while eschewing logic in general.

• Some of them are more visionary and planful for the future while others are more playful and willing to consider what-if.

Introverted Thinking

• They tend to rely on sophisticated, complex reasoning using multiple reasoning methods including deducing, categorizing, weighing odds, etc.

 • Their thought processes are not directly linked to sensory inputs, so their decision-making tends to be “deep” and “detached”.

• Set aside time for them to clarify—to make and correct mistakes and inconsistencies—as they strive for high accuracy before implementing.

• They are adept at navigating conceptual terrain, and possibly physical terrain, so provide space for them to shift course or backtrack.

• Provide techniques—besides putting up a “brick wall”—to deal with excessive social and emotional data, which may overwhelm them.

• They may quickly stop listening as they assess the relevance of what others are saying. Consider asking them to repeat back what they’ve heard.

Extraverted Thinking

• They use their brain in an energy-efficient way, relying chiefly on seeing measurable elements, hearing words, and making decisions.

• They use and respond to facts and figures, preferably using visual/spatial formats like charts, diagrams, and grids.

• They attend to the specific words they and others use, such that the choice of one word over another can alter the bigger picture for them.

• Brainstorming, especially when it is off-task, is a non-preferred activity. That said, they may get creative for leisure or in quiet moments.

• Help them invest in defining their areas of strength. Important: Do not mistake their confidence and speed for competence.

• They can do rapid decision-making and/or explaining for many hours. Encourage them to take time to consider their responses more thoroughly.

Introverted Sensing

• They prefer low-distraction environments and need time to review experiences in order to ground new learnings.

• Utilize step-by-step methods to help them develop skills, and provide a road map for them to track their progress.

• Provide a skillful role-model for them to observe and copy, and schedule follow-up time, review sheets, etc. to practice with correction.

• Recognize they may want to focus on one path or goal longer than you might, or may simply keep working to please you or until you say “stop”.

• Stay alert for a surprising skill they might have that doesn’t fit their usual pattern. They may not mention the skill unless asked about it.

• Take care with your feedback. They are adjusting their behavior in light of your input including nonverbal clues such as facial expressions.

Extraverted Sensing

• They prefer stimulating environments with rich sensory input. Work in a place with windows, enticing views, and interesting decor.

• Provide and encourage movement. Consider ways to take breaks while remaining productive, such as talking while walking through a park.

• Make your ideas meaningful with relevant context, sensory details, and physical tools. Allow them to test the tools by trial and error.

• Don’t rely on metaphor. You can use metaphors, just use familiar metaphors and start with and support the metaphors with literal meanings.

• Focus on challenges, and allow for resourceful responses to crises. Hold back from over-defining the experience or making it too safe.

• Let them respond to whatever comes up, and be willing to join them if you wish to earn their friendship and respect.

Introverted Intuition

•They prefer time away from external stimulation and mundane demands in order to access their rich internal processes.

• They benefit from a physical or sensory focus (e.g. using a finger while reading) to stay focused while gathering information (reading, etc.).

• Help them verbally or visually communicate the hazy multitude of factors they consider as they arrive at a holistic solution to a problem.

• Provide techniques for them to turn to when their introspective intuit- ing process isn’t working and they need to act fast.

• Carve out time for them to explore the future and visions of what will be. Also work with them to develop specifics to actualize these visions.

• Encourage rich experiences that feed different brain regions, so when they search within themselves, their brain has something to offer them.

Extraverted Intuition

• They prefer diverse inputs for brainstorming. Allow sensory distractions with television, radio, friends, and so forth all present at once.

• Allow their goals and meanings to coalesce from various inputs, mental processes, and side treks rather than pushing a linear process.

• Focus on meanings and relationships between ideas, starting perhaps with metaphors and analogies. Make sure the analogies work well!

• They may need help taking abstract and associational ideas into literal communications that will be effective with others.

• Encourage role-play, acting as-if, and ad-hoc problem solving. Feel free to propose fanciful or vague scenarios that afford improvising and imagining. 

• Use some humor, word-play, and similar cognitive games. If people are laughing together, there is a good chance they are using this process.

(From the book “Neuroscience of Personality: Brain Savvy Insights For All Types of People” by Dario Nardi)

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All INTPs in my experience (can confirm myself as an intp) do these things 100%: 

Have messy hair eternally 

Disappear for days

 Do that thing where they mumble and space out to go “in the zone” when trying to figure something out (I’m not talking pretentious sherlock stuff here, they could just be thinking about the best route to go to work). 

If this happens, just let them finish, and they’ll give you the answer you need after the loading process is over. 

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When INTPs receive a message

*notification sounds*

INTP: *doesn't know how to respond*

INTP: *casually ignores message until they have to answer or know how to*

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Hahahahaha

INTP confession: I never remember certain little things like which is the east coast or west coast or how to spell a word, even though I’ve googled it a thousand times. Some things just don’t stick. But at the same time my brain keeps information that isn’t all that useful, like the fact that male sea horses get pregnant. That will always be with me.