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my boyfriend eagerly reads my smutty fanfics, thinking that my female protagonists are self-insert, and I vocally appreciate his attentiveness knowing my best self insert is my m/m/m debauchery on another throwaway account

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“One of my earliest Space Colony paintings was based on the giant ‘Model 3’ cylindrical habitats envisioned by Gerard O'Neill. I imagined the clouds forming at an ‘altitude’ around the rotation axis.” ~artist Don Davis

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“If it’s about a dad dating other dads, how come some of them have kids???”

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I'm in the mood today

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Morgiana (1972), dir. Juraj Herz

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in my feels today

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thoughts on famous massachusetts drag queen plane jane

Nothing but respect for our troops (￣^￣)ゞ

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Guess f1 driver charades

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The prospect of a life together with you turns me on

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A question I get asked a lot while working at a public library is "how do you deal with homeless people?"

And the answer is, we don't.

The unhoused people who come here seeking refuge 99% of the time understand that they will be kicked out if they misbehave.

The people you have to watch out for are Jessica, who only came because the kid she didn't want had to visit for a homework assignment and she just *needs* to yell at her child for asking to borrow two books or stay an extra five minutes, or Michael, who came in to look at porn on our computers for whatever fucking reason, or Karen who just wanted to come by to throw a fit that the particular book she wanted was checked out and harrass our staff about our collection being too limited.

99% of the time, the people we need to ban are middle to upper-middle class white people while the homeless and mentally ill/disabled people mind their own damn business and are honestly some of the best patrons we have.

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MILF

Mother

I

Love

Fashion

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It has become cynically acceptable to 'expect' failure within relationships. In some ways, these expectations offer people an avenue of mental escape from the integral 'value' of their own words, oaths, or commitments. They 'know' that if they have a problem in their marriage that friends, family, and coworkers will shake their heads and nod in commiserate understanding. They will personally experience little or no 'loss of face' or reputation for that failure.

We have often been taught to try to 'say' what we believe other people wish to hear instead of the truth. Truth alone can be blunt and unkind, and it is also the edge of the blade that does far less damage than one that is blunted by false veneers. Honesty is essential. Hiding or masking anything will quickly lead to a morass of problems and, most often, the severing of the relationship's potential. To be believed, you 'must' be believable. If your word can be found to be weak or tenuous, then you will not be trusted, respected, or valued.

The removal of response to 'perceived shame' is a demonstration of strength. Embracing the entirety of yourself will strengthen and reinforce the ego or the core platform from which you live.

https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/247-long-term-relationships

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Enabler

I am an enabler.

I want you to succeed. I want to see you dominate the world. I want to stand by your side while, one by one, cities fall down to your knees and submit to the power and the lead you are stroming with. 

I want to see you be in control. In face of adversity, I want you to overcome your inner turmoils and lean onto what we have build, what we are to build, to lean onto what your fathers have built. 

I want you to hold onto my indomitable faith in you. 

I want you to see what I see in you. I want you to not get poisoned by the senses of my arrogance, not at all. I want you to move forward, take steps, calculate… I want the cogwheels of your mind turn for us to keep on moving forward. 

I want to be the wise Athena, holding the fort. I want to prove that I am capable of being the wife at home and a warrior in your army. I want to show you I can lead armies. I want to share our wisdom. I want us to challenge each other, I want us to feel secure when going through motions doing so.

The poison of power spreads through my veins as I think of us starting a family, bearing a child, creating a secluded world of hope and security in an otherwise chaotic world full of adversity. I want my child to keep on moving forward, growing, progressing, surviving and thriving. 

I want, decades from now, for us to weather the storm and, while holding hands in a peaceful countryside, look back at our gains and losses, knowing we were there for each other and that we will be there for each other to witness the dawn of our generation. 

I am an enabler. I enable the worst in people only if they see that side of them as the worst.

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ENTJs in Te-Se Loop

Tertiary Se (ENxJ): As these two types overindulge Ni, they become increasingly inflexible, extreme, and out of touch with reality. Therefore, the tertiary Se function should be used to bring them back to what really matters in life. When a person listens to the need for tertiary Se development, they will suddenly start to value being more: amenable, adaptable, grounded, present, adventurous, fun (in enjoying simple pleasures), honest and accepting (about human weaknesses and limitations), attuned to beauty and the sublime. If one resists Se development, overindulgence of Ni is likely to lead to increasingly negative consequences, perhaps repeatedly shooting oneself in the foot by indulging unreasonable ideals/demands that create the perfect conditions for eventual defeat/disappointment. However, if Ni has remained chronically underdeveloped for whatever reason, a person is likely to develop serious Se looping tendencies in adulthood as a lame attempt to cope with development failure. With Se looping, they can continually excuse the lack of Ni development and justify never slowing down to properly introspect. Unfortunately, over time, this produces a creeping sense of losing control that can lead to inferior Ti/Fi grip.

defensive loop tendencies: selectively gathers superficial details as evidence to justify problematic beliefs or hasty action; believes oneself “deep” or “special” but actually cannot see past superficial appearances; impulsive or error-prone because of overlooking/ignoring important facts and details; rationalizes taking the path of least resistance instead of the morally correct path as long as desirable result is obtained (end justifies the means); does whatever feels good in the moment when feeling aimless/restless; indulges in sensory pleasures to escape from (self-imposed) stress or negative emotions; emotionally volatile, highly reactive to setbacks, problems, challenges, negative feedback; covers up flaws or mistakes instead of addressing them transparently, unable to admit to wrongdoing, unable to apologize for mistakes; prone to being over-competitive, incorrectly uses social comparison to define personal success/worth, tends to be jealous/envious of material gains or possessions that signal high/respected social standing; prone to adopting extreme and superficial societal standards to define “intelligence” or “achievement”; externalizes personal issues/insecurities by controlling the environment; compartmentalizes private life from public persona, able to rationalize doing bad/questionable things as long as public appearances/reputation remain intact; stubborn or combative mindset, defends beliefs and values with the unconscious intent to repress feelings of uncertainty or ambiguity

Te-Se loop dynamics: selectively seeks out evidence in support of pursuing goals/objectives or to justify one’s ideas and methods as being (intellectually) superior -> but cannot understand the deeper meaning and moral implications of one’s actions, resulting in critical failures that stoke underlying inferior Fi anxieties about being morally weak or spiritually bankrupt