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Agere activities for low energy littles😴

⭐️Color in bed

⭐️Listen to an audiobook

⭐️Listen to some soft music

⭐️Take a nap with your stuffies

⭐️Watch a calm cartoon (Winnie the Pooh, In the Night Garden)

⭐️Play with your toys while laying on a blanket/carpet

⭐️Take a bubble bath

⭐️Make jewelery

⭐️Play some mobile games

⭐️Make a character in picrew

For some of us walking or sitting by the desk can be challenging, so all of these are the activities which you can enjoy without moving much!

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“ ugly ” regression

☆ it’s not talked enough in regression about the hard big angry feelings. It’s not always relaxing and playing

☆ I want to yell and cry

☆ Throw my toys and push you away

☆ I don’t understand how to process these big feelings

☆ I can’t verbalise what I want

☆ All I want to do is scream and tantrum

☆ Things aren’t going my way and I’m not spoiled for feeling that

☆ I wanna scribble all over my pretty drawing in a black crayon

☆ It’s okay to feel this way

☆ It’s okay to get those feelings out

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✿ the world feels a lot softer when i'm small ✿

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🌕Moon caregiver moodboard🌕

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Renaming of “impure” regression

A lot of regressors including myself have recently come forward and said that the term “impure” regression is been harmful for them, and in a conversation on @age-regressor-culture-is some awesome less harmful alternatives were created. I didn’t want them buried so I’m making a new post about it!

The original terms are harmful because “impure” has such a strong negative connotation, and heavily implies that “pure” regressors are inherently better. This is extremely harmful and in my case has made my unpleasant regression significantly worse.

The new term for “pure” regression is play regression. And the new terms for “impure” regression are vent regression and unpleasant regression.

I’ve made the tags #vent regression, #vent agere, #unpleasant regression, and #unpleasant agere. This post will also be tagged with “impure” regression tags for visibility only, as I want those who vent regress to be able to find this.

Please signal boost! This is really important to a lot of people.

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Little sickfic where Dew gets motion sick and just wants Rain or Aether to hold him while on the buss?

Poor little Dewdrop! I wasn't feeling well today so i projected just a little lol.

Hope it's ok love!

Cw: regressed ghouls, sick Dew, fever, implied vomiting but not in detail just sort of a fade to black, quintessence use

Rain wakes to squirming and a flame hot body against him. Dew has sweat straight through his thin t-shirt and his boxers and while he always ran warm, this wasn't normal.

Rain scents him subtly, it's not his heat...

Dew lurches out of his bunk and slams the tiny bathroom door and Rain's heart sinks. Dew rarely gets sick anymore but when he does, he fights himself over it, rages inside and convinces himself he's weak and unworthy.

Rain wants to hunt down everyone who ever made him feel that way.

For now he eases himself out of the bunk and tiptoes toward the bathroom. It can hardly be called that really, he knows it'll be a tight fit to get in there behind Dew but he'd manage, he always did.

He eases his fingers through Dewdrop's hair and ties it back with the tie he always keeps around his wrist, resting a cool hand on the back of his neck.

Nothing has happened yet, he's fighting it too hard, eyes wide and terrified, betrayed by his own body.

"It's ok, Dew. I'm right here."

It's a devastated little whimper that answers him and he shakes like a leaf. Rain can see him slipping, can see him losing more and more control the longer they sit there.

Dew had confided in him once, told him about being the runt, about how his wet little lungs hadn't developed fully and he was always sick. His mother didn't care, left him to fend for himself and figure it out. How he survived Rain doesn't know but the pride wells in his chest whenever he recalls the story, whenever he thinks of that stubborn little boy surviving on sheer spite and determination.

"You're safe." He rests his hand between his shoulder blades and it seems to break the dam. He holds him through it, hands soft in his hair and rubbing over his back.

His eyes are glazed over when it ends and Rain knows he's gone down, afraid and hurting so he retreats inside for self preservation.

Rain cleans him up and carries him to the couch, stopping to grab his soother and blanket from Mountain's backpack. He sits and folds Dew to fit neatly on his lap, working the soother between his lips.

He hums to him, hoping the rumble of the bus and the one in his chest lulls him back to sleep.

He studies his face, the worried pinch between his eyes, the pink still in his fever warm cheeks.

The soother falls from his lips to the floor and he whines and Rain grabs the little trashcan just in time.

He cries when he's finished, fat tears falling from his overly tired eyes.

"Oh Mon petit soleil, I'm sorry." He grabs the soother and carries the little ghoul back to the bathroom to rinse it off and to wipe cool water over his warm little face.

He doesn't like how warm he is without a bath to break it. Rain knows he hates it, fears it but he'll tolerate it if Rain is in the water with him. He slips the soother back into his mouth, clipping it to his blanket this time to avoid it touching the floor again.

Rain shakes Aeon awake on his way by. He blinks his big purple eyes slowly and his hair shoots up all over the place and Rain can't stop the chuckle from slipping past his lips. Swiss pops up beside him, far more alert than Aeon.

"What's wrong?"

"Dews sick, can you break his fever? Or at least settle his belly?"

Hes already moving before the words are fully out of his mouth. He ushers Rain to the couch while Swiss mumbles something about hoping that Dew feels better before he starts snoring again.

Dew fusses and squirms when Aeon lays his hands on him, one across his forehead and the other gently across his belly.

A big tear rolls down his cheek and Aeon sighs. "I'm sorry firefly, just a few minutes and you'll feel all better."

Dew tries to curl away from his hands, too unsure and vulnerable in this mindset.

"Petit soleil relax, it's ok. I'm right here baby."

"Ok Dewdrop, I'm starting." Aeon gives the warning even though like this the little ghoul won't understand.

Rain keeps his eyes on Dews face, his eyes squeezed tight, the soother frozen between his lips as Aeon's magic moves through him.

"Almost done, firefly. You're being so brave." Aeon's eyes glow softly and Rain can't put into words how much he appreciates him.

Dew relaxes, boneless in Rains arms and his cheeks aren't as red and Rain allows himself to breathe fully.

"Thank you, bug."

"No problem! Let me know if his fever comes back." He kisses the top of Dew's head and wanders back to his bunk, Swiss' arm shooting out from behind the privacy curtain to grab him.

"Let's go back to bed, baby." He pushes a long strand of his hair behind his scarred ear.

Dew blinks slowly, his pretty burnt orange eyes heavy and sleepy. Rain smiles and drags his fingertip down his forehead, down the bridge of his nose and softly taps the end of it, watching a little smile form at the edges of the soother.

He maneuvers Dew into his bunk, his back near the wall. He likes closed spaces, likes knowing nothing can sneak up on him, not that it would matter, Rain would never let anyone get that close.

He pulls him close to sleep tucked up to his neck, the soft puffs of his breath tickling across his collar bones. He strokes his fingers down his back, soothing him back to sleep to fight off whatever bug was left in his system.

Rain doesn't drift back to sleep, too busy pressing his cheek to Dews forehead periodically to check for the fevers return.

When Dew wakes up his eyes are brighter and Rain can tell he's still down but not nearly as far.

"Feeling better petit soleil?"

He nods, just a tiny motion before lifting his hands and signing his thanks.

Rain kisses his fingers. "Would you like some water?"

He shakes his head and snuggles back against Rain's chest.

Rain smiles and kisses between Dew's horns. He will worry about getting him fed and hydrated soon, for now he's more than content to hold his little ghoul.

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Bathtime moodboard! Been a little busy, I’ll get to requests soon!

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This is a SFW agere/agedream blog and I ask that only accounts safe for kids interact.

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Jemima Puddleduck!!

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This is a SFW agere/agedream blog and I ask that only accounts safe for kids interact.

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🍼 Age Regression Milk Recipes 🍼

🍬🌈🍬🌈🍬🌈🍬🌈🍬🌈🍬🌈

☁️ Angel's Milk ☁️

- 1½ cups of milk

- 1 tbsp of sugar

- splash of vanilla

mix in sugar and vinilla into milk. warm up to desired temperature.

💞 Bedtime Kiss 💞

- 1½ cup of milk

- 1-2 tbsp of honey

- a shake of nutmeg

- a shake of cinnamon

heat milk until it starts to foam, around 2-3 minutes. mix in honey, nutmeg, and cinnamon. let cool.

❄️ Gingerbread House ❄️

- maple syrup

- a shake of cinnamon

- a shake of nutmeg

- a shake of ground ginger

- a splash of vanilla

- 1½ cups of milk

heat up milk, then add cinnamon, nutmeg, ginger, and vanilla. stir in syrup and serve warm!

🦄 Alicorn Magic 🦄

- ½ cup of milk

- ⅛ cup of vanilla Greek yogurt

- 1 to 5 large strawberries

- ½ cup of frozen blueberries

blend altogether until liquidy! usually isn't thin enough to drink from a bottle, so drink with a sippy cup or add milk/cream until desired consistency.

☄️ Galaxy Milk ☄️

- 2 cups milk

- 1 cup ice cubes

- 1 tbsp blue fruit punch powder

- ½ tsp vanilla extract

- blue food coloring

add milk, ice, fruit punch powder, and vanilla extract to a blender. add drops of food coloring and mix until desired color. sere cold!

🍓 Strawberry Milk 🍓

- 1 cup of chopped strawberries

- ½ cup of sugar

- 1 cup of water

- 1½ cups of milk

- 3 tbsp of strawberry syrup (optional)

in a small pot, heat sugar, water, and strawberries until boiling. boil for around 10 minutes. using a fine strainer, pour mixture into a small bowl. chill 2 small glasses of strawberry liquid in refrigerator for about 10 minutes. add ¾ cup of milk to each glass, stir, and add strawberry syrup if desired.

🥛 Mango Milk 🥛

- ¼-⅓ cup chopped mango

- 1 cup milk

- 1 tbsp sugar

- 1 pinch of saffron

combine all ingredients in blender and serve cold.

🍌 Banana Milk 🍌

- 1 ripe banana

- 1 cup of milk

- 1 tsp of vanilla extract

cut banana into slices and add all ingredients into a blender. blend for a minute, or until desired consistency, and serve cold.

🌙 Lavender Moon Milk 🌙

- ½ cup of milk

- ½ cup of boiling water

- 1 tsp vanilla extract

- 1 tsp edible lavender buds

- 2 tsp honey

- 1 decaf earl grey tea bag

mix honey and vanilla in boiling water, then add tea bag and let it steep. heat milk and lavender buds in saucepan until desired flavor and temperature. pour milk through a fine strainer to catch the lavender buds. finally, mix milk with tea and enjoy!

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🌕Moon caregiver moodboard🌕

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Renaming of “impure” regression

A lot of regressors including myself have recently come forward and said that the term “impure” regression is been harmful for them, and in a conversation on @age-regressor-culture-is some awesome less harmful alternatives were created. I didn’t want them buried so I’m making a new post about it!

The original terms are harmful because “impure” has such a strong negative connotation, and heavily implies that “pure” regressors are inherently better. This is extremely harmful and in my case has made my unpleasant regression significantly worse.

The new term for “pure” regression is play regression. And the new terms for “impure” regression are vent regression and unpleasant regression.

I’ve made the tags #vent regression, #vent agere, #unpleasant regression, and #unpleasant agere. This post will also be tagged with “impure” regression tags for visibility only, as I want those who vent regress to be able to find this.

Please signal boost! This is really important to a lot of people.

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-ˋˏ What is a sibby!? ☁️

꒰🌱꒱ A sibby or sibling is a very special friend that also age regresses. It’s someone you’ve connected to so much with that you want them to be apart of your regression and life. They are someone you can talk to and receive support from. Having a sibby is a special bond!

꒰🌿꒱ You should only ask someone to be your sibby after the two of you have gotten to know each other very well. It’s important to build trust with one another and feel comfortable enough to regress among yourselves.

꒰☘️꒱ Sibbies are 100% platonic and you are allowed to have as many as you please. The two of you should be able to rely on each other as your bond is very special and unlike normal friendship. Some regressors might also call their sibby sister or brother.

-ˋˏ Simple questions to ask a potential sibby! 🌎

꒰🌞꒱ What age(s) do you regress to?

꒰🌑꒱ Do you have a caregiver?

꒰☄️꒱ What is your favorite stuffie(s) name!

꒰🪐꒱ Do you prefer the ocean or space? And is there a reason why?

꒰💫꒱ What are your favorite hobbies while regressed and not regressed?

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Having a Little With Hypermobility Means…

Hypermobility is the […] ability to move joints beyond the normal range of movement. […] It may be present in just a few joints or it may be widespread. In many people joint hypermobility is of no medical consequence and commonly does not give rise to symptoms. Hypermobility can also be a sign of a more serious underlying condition, which are often passed down through the generations. These conditions are known as Heritable Disorders of Connective Tissue (HDCT). [Source]

Learning their joint extension limits (how far they can stretch without getting hurt)

Reminding them to take breaks and rest, especially if they are busy that day

Understanding that they may frequently crack their joints and not getting upset at them for it (For some of us, popping and cracking joints relieves pain and stiffness)

Learning what kind of overextension they are prone to (Some of us are prone to frequent sprians, strains, or even dislocations. It depends on the person)

Helping them with big stretches on bad pain days (it sounds counterintuitive but people with hypermobility will very often need to stretch to help with their pain)

Knowing what braces they use and how help your little put them on

Reminding them to take their medicines (this also means reminding them to take their non-daily meds. Sometimes we forget that we have meds we can take when things hurt)

Knowing what medications they take and what they do (many people with joint disorders take anti-inflamatory medicines)

Having mobility aids on hand for bad days (bonus points if you help them decorate their aids with stickers!)

Understanding that they may sit or stand weird or constantly fidgit as a way to get comfortable 

Making up fun (and safe) stretching games to do when they’re regressed (regressors may not wanna do the stretches they need to do when they’re small, so try making them a fun game!)

Reminding them to take breaks from colouring to stretch their hands and fingers (If those are some of their affected joints)

Comforting them when their pain is overwhelming

Reassuring them that just because they have good days doesn’t mean they are faking it (Sometimes on our good days we may feel like we’ve been faking the whole time, self-doubt)

Learning how to relocate joints properly if your little is prone to frequent dislocations

Reminding them to know their limits while they’re playing, especially when they play outside (things like jungle gyms or climbing trees may be more dangerous for a hypermobile little)

Understanding that their pain may cause them crying fits when they’re regressed

Reassuring them that they aren’t weak

Knowing what tasks are harder for your little than they are for you (Simple everyday tasks can be much harder with hypermobility. ex. I can’t write often because holding a pen/pencil hurts too much).

Helping them with said difficult tasks (If they are okay with it, sometimes we may not want help with something even if it’s hard for us to do)

Understanding what hypermobile syndrome they have. Painful hypermobility is usually part of a disorder such as joint hypermobility syndrome, Elhers-Danlos syndrome, Marfan Syndrome, etc. It’s important to know what disorder or syndrome is causing your littles pain! If they haven’t already, always always always encourage them to see a professional who can help them manage their pain in a safe and healthy way! 

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I have that same one!!

My fave sippy!

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I h8 people ignoring your DNI and interacting with your blog anyways ugh

Especially when they say that their blog is 100% SFW and is totally not and it's worse when they say they are Age Regressors but they are into kink or everything except Agere