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I cant believe I cant unmature this:

😭😭 wtf Tumblr this isnt mature

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I dont like kids. And I wont silence myself when the topic is being discussed

Its fine to not like kids, nor have any interest in them. You shouldn’t be obligated to repress your views out of guilt that mothers could potentially feel unwelcome (at the cost of making yourself, and others like you, unwelcome)

BUT its important to reiterate that while I don’t like kids, I 100% support you wanting and having them

The thing that appears to get lost in these types of conversations is the fundamental points of feminism

Choice. Freedom. Equality

You dont want kids? Great! Dont have any

You want kids? Amazing, lets support initiatives that provide you and your bubbas access to affordable child care, developmental resources, formula, and PAID maternity leave

You want to be a ‘trad wife’? Okay, if that makes you happy then go for it. Who am I to tell you that you cant live how you want?

You want to be a career “girl boss” woman? Fab, go get that bread

I may not want what you want, I may not understand what you want (and can even think it’s problematic) and vice versa.

But I will defend your freedom to choose how you want to live.

I wont silence any woman, nor will I be silenced

Want to do something to help stop the tradwife pipeline btw? Include mothers in your feminism. Hold space for women and others who are experiencing pregnancy or motherhood. Listen to their concerns about and unique perspectives on things like universal childcare, bodily autonomy, healthcare. Hold men who disrespect, sexualize, fetishize, shame or harass pregnant women and mothers accountable. Advocate for the right to nurse in public. Advocate for bodily autonomy within the healthcare field. Listen to women and birthing parents who have birth trauma. Listen to women who have undergone things like “the husband stitch”, or medically unnecessary c-sections, or who were given drugs without consent by doctors and nurses violating their birth plan. Advocate for resources to promote an end to the high rates of maternal mortality in the US. Get to know a woman who has children. Get to know the person she is. Know about her likes and interests and hobbies. Unlearn the stigma in your head which makes you see pregnant women as “ruined” or “tainted” and mothers as devoid of individual personhood.

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I just dont think I should be expected to calculate my own income tax on a variable income

This shit got me full on like this rn

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How did they manage to make that scene even more of a gut punch?

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Jesper: I modelled my morning routine on the humble rooster. Wake up, scream and wander around

Wylan: You screaming at 5am scared the life out of me

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do you ever think about Natalie who doesn't see Gabe but can feel his touch... because she has never met him yet she's all too aware of the immense grief looming over her family... she doesn't know who he is but she knows he's there...

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are they... you know...? *makes a stabbing motion*

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Jesper:

Kaz: I need some of that colourful dust that sparkles

Jesper: Do you mean glitter?

Jesper: Is the “Bastard of the Barrel” actually asking me where to get glitter?

Kaz: *Bombastic side eye*

Kaz: My daughter has a school project

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Jesper: We need a plan

Kaz: I have one. I still have a fist, Van Eck still has a nose

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Jan Van Eck: You’ve not poisioned it have you?

Wylan: Of course not. Alys is having some

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Wylan: Idgaf if my father is disappointed in me I'm not exactly impressed with him either

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Kaz: I need some of that colourful dust that sparkles

Jesper: Do you mean glitter?

Jesper: Is the “Bastard of the Barrel” actually asking me where to get glitter?

Kaz: *Bombastic side eye*

Kaz: My daughter has a school project

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Tbf this is me whenever I find the perfect pjs, I will wear them until they fall apart

"The end. The beginning..." (1.01 | 2.08)

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Klaus: Im scared to apply for jobs because what if they call me??

Allison: Thats a good thing

Klaus: The only work thats a good thing is called werk

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We KNOW he didn’t do all that for Antoinette

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Jesper: Controlling my mouth is the easy part, its my face thats the problem