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I’m reblogging I guess. Don’t get raped

THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”

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I don’t typically believe in this stuff but I’m gonna post it anyway, I can’t be starting out 2018 with a shit week

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As a non millennial that often uses non phrases I find it a non reflection of non intelligence when anyone says non words like non news or non facts

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My inner dialogue has gone from.

“I FUCKING FUCKED A CAT YOU PIECE OF SHIT WHY AM I MESSING THIS UUUUUUPPPPP”

To

“ I diddly darn done did mess up, oh golly jee.”

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Honestly since half of America is on fire and the other half is drowning I've decided that global warming has terminated my need to go to school. We got twenty years left and I'm not spending my last years in a shitty office place.

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I was murdered

WHEN I WAS EIGHT. I was playing a dog, type game. But I was the evil human who was trying to execute the dogs. Even though I had a dog on my side. She was a GOOD dog. For the hours we had been playing she never spoke. She let me pet her and was always on my side. Fast forward thirty minutes, we had a mini war and a dog on the opposing side "slashed" my shoulder and I was wounded so I kinda started limping around and here comes my friend, that "good dog" tackles me to the ground, I laugh, thinking it's jovial, misplaced playfulness but when I look up to see her face she's... growling. I gave her a wary look. Maybe... she's confused. Maybe...I didn't feed her that morning. I reached out to pet her, to CALM her. But she let loose this wild snarl that just oozed complete and utter hatred. That was when I started backing away. "Stop stop." I cry out. "I'm on your side." AGAIN she growls. Getting closer. Her shoulders were hunched in such a barbaric way, that it sent off warning sirens in my head, my instincts were telling me I was in danger. So when she finally cornered me on the incline of the steps, I began to tremble. That was when the fear set in, I'm no longer pretending, eight year old me is terrified. On the verge of tears. She was growling, only growling and I was nervous. "I'm on your side. IVE ALWAYS BEEN ON YOUR SIDE." I'm pleading, trying to reason with her, TO BUY MY SELF TIME. But there was no use because she snarls, practically hissing "But I was never on yours." AND SHE SLASHED MY THROAT. IN THE GAME I WAS DEAD. DEAAAD. I have never been so unnerved in my life.

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My favorite thing about my mom is how she generalizes every religion that's not our branch of Christianity as a cult. It really makes my day

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Ode to hunger

I feel my legs wearing down and the jagged edges of my tight shoes digging into my skin. Eventually they would draw blood and I'd finally be forced to stop. I can't risk infection, not now. Not when I'm so close. My eyes are weary as well. Every moment I blink is another second I waste forcing my eyes to stay open. Step, blink, wait. Step blink wait. My body begs for rest but I deny it. I can sleep when I get there. Just two more miles. Two more hours. A thousands more breaths. I raise my eyes towards the horizon and a jolt of joy pulses through me. The reason for my drive I'd walked for days to get this far, for the sweet taste of Buffalo Wild Wings

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In kindergarten I lived in Florence Alabama and most of us were black. So for black history month they taught us a song slaves would sing while they worked in the cotton fields AND THEN THEY TOOK US TO FUCKING COTTON FIELDS. They MADE us pick cotton all day in the hot sun and we had to take it from the stalk and get rid of the seeds WHILE SINGING THE SLAVE SONG and I just... how!!! My little black ass was screaming that song the entire day and while we turned in all the cotton we picked. It was just super sketch

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In fifth grade we were supposed to make comics and mine was about a grass hopper witnessing the death of his friend because a guy was mowing his lawn.

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I went to a Mexican restaurant with my family and there was an old couple sitting next to us trying to decide what they wanted and they old lady asked if her husband had ever heard of chimichangas and he said"oh yes of course, they're German."

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I have a friend that I've known since fourth grade and she was a shrimp back then. But now even if she's the same height as I am, she's still known as the short one

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I concur

High School Kids Nowadays

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My friend deadass told me she was psychic and went into great detail about heat and layers and spirit stuff and I kinda just kicked a rock and said "cool"

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One Of The Darkest Jokes In Pixar History

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Extroverts: "OMG I LOVE PEOPLE"

Extroverted introverts: im not really that good with people. "OMG HAIIII"

Introverted Extroverts: I just had a lengthy, witty conversation with you in my head, oh by the way I love you. "Hi."

Introverts: you're pretty chill. "..."

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I dont even care about the caption. I forgot about the insurance. It's just that this cat. It's horrifying. Like have a nightmare but can't wake up from it awful. You know what. I bet the damn cat saw something good, like a large pepperoni pizza and it's eyes were like. "Oh can't miss this, lemme zoom in for you."

This cat is wired out of it’s mind!