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luv men who love you weirdly. who love you so much it’s just shy of creepy. luv men who r a little not normal when it comes to you n their love for you.

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Study Tip #7

Turn off your phone while you study

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21 Days study Rule:-

Okay!! So here we are:-)

I am going to start my 21 days study challenge and I hope I fix my study schedule and increase my hours which is the need of the hour!!

Wish me luck! 🤞🏻🍀

Starting the day:-

Day:1

7:00 am :- wake up

8:00am:- Stretching and breakfast

9:30- 11:30- First Round study subject 1

1:30- 3:00- Revision

5:00-7:00- Second Round study subject 2

9:30-11:30- Third round study subject 3

End:-)

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Red Flag? Yes! Please.

When you are in love or find a connection with someone. All you need is love! So pure and beautiful.

But what about the rest of us? What about those malicious, self-pity ones who need constant attention, validation, 24 × 7 love and who really believe that if he wanted he would!! What about those broken pieces, toxic lovers who don't know how to find their way towards peace and stability and all they look for is that fictional love they have grown up to ?? What about those whose love is never ending and would try to give their everything in a matter of days...why? Oh!! Because for them love is all about to give everything you have , the passionate ones who all look for that one person that they are willing to fill their lives with love, passion, support, appreciations and everything that they themselves are looking for!

What about those who are not willing to settle for any less ? And still find a way to ruin themselves again only to find that one person... We are looking for the perfect ones but also fall for any person who accepts us and promises us for never ending love which takes a dead end within months:-)

We are impatient, aggressive, moody, loving

We cry Alot but also can't see our favourite person shed a tear for us ... We are hopeless with our expectations but also will take the earth down just to make our favourite person happy... Are we really going to have a happy ending? Do we really deserve it??

The only person waiting for our love and also worthy of it is within us.

Yes!! We are the ones who deserve all the happiness and love that we are willing to give anyone.

Why Anyone but not us? If we look within ourselves, we will see that we are deprived of love, care , attention, appreciation and all things we try to give to our potential partners and later get disappointed. Guess what? Disappointed never occurs if it is dedicated to our self being:-)

I think, what we try to put others into self proclaimed red and green flags!! What actually needs nourishment and fixation ( yes, I am talking to you, "I can fix him" gurl!) is our own toxic behaviour. Ofcourse, we are the best and deserve the best !! Of course we don't want to settle for less and Of course! We can't lower our standards. But what about that little child within us who is apparently waiting for all the love, and nourishment and care and we know that the help ain't coming from any Prince charming dear!!

So dear, All self deprecated warriors!! Rise up!! No one is coming to help us , we ain't gonna be saved until we raise the flame up and fix our broken pieces! Trust me it will be the best gift to ourselves and will last for the rest of our lives. 💅🏻❤️

Here's to loving ourselves ❤️

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Manifestations hold the supreme power ✨

This tumblr blog is just my way out to find out and observe my own process.🌞

I am going to write down my deepest aspirations, my 'not-so' daily routines, some poems( time to brush off my long lost hobby)and also everything and anything I like, probably cinema and beauty of humans ...arghh so much to say but no where to put it out💕

I hope I can be that girl who was proud of this process and lived hers each moment with art and beauty and also consistency, perseverance and also being that biatch 💅🏻 and also couple of coffees, books, and love❤️

Can't be more excited!!!!!

Calling out the universe to be with me at each step while I reach my destination.🌻

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"So what do you do other than being beautiful?" , he texted.

"Hmm well! I study ,take photographs, talk to myself, dance and yeah most of the time I cry to sleep:-)" I texted red-faced.

"Haha that's cool! , you are cute and not like others.". Was his reply

"Okay! But what does it mean?" I asked him

"You are Normal! Like sweet and cute." He replied.

Normal? NORMAL? nnoorrmmaalll??? I'd rather die than be just Normal. Out of 8 billion humans present on this planet if I get to be that Normal person then grave should be my home. If I don't get to experience life in every minute of my life then it's better for me to be left alone to wander in space and if I don't dance in every step I walk in my life then let me sleep forever. Normal in this world just means to restrict yourself so that people would be happy and think you are one of them. But are you? What if after 70 years of life sitting in the backyard and drinking your coffee you think about this time and said, "Well ! All I was in my life was nothing but Normal." Don't be a psychopath, that is different:-)

But live your life that makes you think every time," Did I really do this? Oh my god that was insane but what fun!! I was so in the moment, that was the best time!!" , and even...even if it means reading the best book you always wanted to read, watching the most amazing movie all alone in theatres even if all your friends ditched you for this, or going out in your bicycle all alone and capturing the best sunset pictures all by yourself. These are not NORMAL!! These are you!! This is what makes you different and fun , and crazy and beautiful and exciting and daring and everything but just not NORMAL.

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It's Me💅

my tips for students that struggle with consistency

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9 Scientifically Proven Ways to Get the Most Out of Study Tim

For anyone in the thick of study, or about to be, science has been working hard and has found ways to help you get the most out of your study time, all backed by hefty research. Here’s how to study smarter, supercharge your learning and store the information away in your head so it’s ready to jump into your arms when you need it. 

Get your heart pumping.When you exercise, your blood chemistry changes and your brain becomes the very happy recipient of important nutrients. It repays the favour by amping up its performance – specifically memory, attention, information processing and problem solving. Here are a couple of reasons your brain and exercise are one of the great love stories:

• Exercise increases the levels of a crucial brain-derived neurotophic factor (let’s call it BDNF – it’s much easier to spell). BDNF is important for the growth of brain cells, mood and learning.

• Exercise releases a powerful cocktail of important hormones including serotonin (the mood booster), dopamine (for learning and attention) and norepinephrine (for awareness, attention and concentration).

Try for 20-30 minutes a day. Anything that increases your heart rate will do the trick – running, bike-riding, walking, kicking a ball or turning up the beats and dancing it out. It doesn’t have to be beautiful, strong or graceful. It just has to be active.

Spread your study. Yep. You got it. No cramming.

Cramming doesn’t work, which is one of the great pities – life would be so much easier if it did. The problem with cramming is that the material doesn’t get the opportunity to transfer into long-term memory. Short term memory is like the party space in your head – information is there for a good time but not a long time. When information hits long-term memory, it’s committed and there when you need it. The transfer of information from short-term memory into long-term memory takes time and repeated exposure to the material. It’s not clear why spacing your study is so much better for you, but it’s likely that over a few days you’ll forget some of the material, then remember it again when you come back to your books. This increases exposure to the information which takes it closer to long-term memory.

Know what’s to come.

We only have a limited amount of mental resources, and during a test you want as much of those resources available as possible. The thoughts that come with test anxiety steal some of those mental resources for, you know, worrying, leaving fewer resources available to retrieve important information. Researchers have found that looking through an exam before working on it will reduce anxiety and improve performance. Remember though, that all the mental resources in the world won’t find the right answers in memory if the answers aren’t put there solidly in the first place.

Teach what you’ve learnt.

Expecting to teach what’s been learned has been shown to be better for learning and memory than expecting only testing. It’s a subtle shift in mindset, but the effect on learning is an important one. Learning material with an intention to teach ensures that material is actively understood and stored away in memory, and not passively looked over.

Test yourself.

Testing yourself will force you to remember information. Every time you remember something, the information becomes a little more enduring. Testing yourself might also help to take the fire out of test anxiety, in the same way that exposure to any feared object eventually makes that object less frightening. Testing yourself on the material you’ve learned is more effective than reading the material over and over. Re-reading material might get you thinking that you’re familiar with the material, but until you try to retrieve that material from memory, you won’t actually know how well you know it or where the gaps in your knowledge are.

Get some sleep.

Sounds simple enough, but it’s not always easy when there’s so much to do. Deep sleep causes physical changes in the brain. When you learn something, your brain cells grow new connections that reach out and connect to other brain cells. This strengthens the pathways in your brain around whatever it is your learning. Sleeping after learning encourages memories of the information to be wired into your brain, so it’s less likely to fade. Think of your brain like a tree. Learning causes a branch to grow, but sleep helps it to grow the leaves and other tiny branches that will sustain and strengthen it.

And ditch the all-nighters.

All-nighters will mess with your ability to remember and process information. Sleep prepares your brain for learning, so pulling an all-nighter can cut your capacity to learn new things by up to 40% – and that’s not the only problem. Research has shown that it can take up to four days for your brain to return to normal after you’ve been awake all night.

Take a break

For those feeling shackled to all that is study, here is some sweet, sweet news. Taking a short break after every hour of learning is better than working straight through as it improves your ability to focus on a particular task without being distracted. Research has found that the greatest improvement come following 15 minutes of moderate activity (jogging, a brisk walk, dribbling a ball) but improvement was also shown following vigorous activity (running, jumping, skipping) or a passive break (such as listening to music or watching funny YouTube clips – because for sure that’s why they were invented). Memory is strongest for the things learned immediately before and after a break so keep those times for the tough stuff.

Power pose.

Before a test, find somewhere private (or, totally public – up to you) and strike a power pose. Think Wonder Woman – hands on hips, legs apart; Superman – tall, shoulders back, chest expanded, arms stretched out in front of you; or that boss thing that bosses in the movies do – sitting back the bottom of one leg resting on the thigh of the other, hands behind your head and expanded. This will reduce cortisol (the stress hormone), and increase testosterone (the dominance hormone). The mind-body connection is a strong one. If you don’t believe you can do it, act like you can – eventually your mind won’t know the difference and will have you believing you can do anything – which you can.

So, if study and you are spending a lot of time together, remember to take breaks, get some pillow time, get active, or dig for comedy gold on YouTube – whatever works for you. Maybe try a bit of everything – not for too long though – the world can’t be brilliant without you.

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“I know I’m not easy to love. I’m a chronic over-thinker. I overreact more than I should…And every once in a while, I might be a little insecure. But if I am in love with you, I can promise you wholeheartedly that you will be loved with so much passion and intensity that you’ll forget what life felt like before I came along. You will always be cared for and you will always have someone in your corner. Maybe I’m not the best at being loved - But I like to think I’m pretty good at loving.”

— Chelsea Carroll

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Ifs and only ifs🌻

When I told you we had to end it, that we had to go on our own separate paths, I wanted you to say no. I wanted you to tell me you would never let me go. I wanted you to say that you couldn’t imagine living life without me, that you would never love anyone as much as you loved me, even if it sounds a little selfish. I wanted you to fight for me, to stop me from leaving. But all you said was, “I’ve been thinking the same thing for a while now.”

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“I hope that someday, somebody wants to hold you for twenty minutes straight, and that’s all they do. They don’t pull away. They don’t look at your face. They don’t try to kiss you. All they do is wrap you up in their arms, without an ounce of selfishness in it.”

— Unknown

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Wolfsena / sue zhao

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I wish I wasn't, such a dreamer. I've ruined this life for myself.

— N.M. Sanchez

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Day 3/10

# Had a pretty hectic day as today I gave two mock tests for my upcoming exams . My scores have been consistent (consistently low) which is a bad sign but the good thing I am working on my weakness and also my fear of giving tests is diminishing .

# But the Bravest part was I was fighting the battle on my first day of periods. Well not to boast or something but I am proud of myself (atleast for today)

🎶 - Chand si Mehbooba by Mukesh

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10 Days to the Exam~ Let's Go!!

DAY 2/10

- Finally back to my exercise routine as well 10 minutes meditation. I hope I stick to it foreverrrrrr.

- Practiced Maths for my upcoming tests and did some analysis of mock test

- I really want to overcome my fear of giving mock tests so that I could analyse my mistakes, my strength and focus on the weaker sections ( God give me the strength 🙏)

Currently 📖 - Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte

🎶- Tere Naina( My name is Khan). ❤️

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DIARY OF A 'PEOPLE PLEASER'

"I always have this delusion that I have to be nice with everyone because if not then they will gibe about me, what if they stop talking to me? What if I am left all alone ? And this slowly turns into agreeing with every stupid discussion, debate I indulge in. I know the statements that they are saying is false, the opinions they are making is bogus but if I dare to correct then the ego blurs the line between friendship and healthy discussions . The dilemma to choose between facts and friends ultimately drives me to become a YES MAN .

Sometimes Only to please someone or be a nice person to say the least I say yes to the tasks I am really not interested in , visit places that I really hate , and be nice even to the manipulative scoundrels . This process sometimes make me believe that I am happy or I have friends and I can also have fun but trust me deep down I am the loneliest person on this planet .

I know I have to Learn to say 'NO' or 'This is bullshi*' or the most polite way "NOT TODAY, SATAN!! NOT TODAY .":-)