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Blanca Bitchcraft

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What is subspace? Do you have one? What are you like? Also you don't have to answer it's just that I've recently discovered my subs subspace and idk much about it and I just wanna know as much as I can (ofc I spoke with her about it but she's a liittle shy so I'm giving her time and reading up) (I'm very new to being a dom and stuff so)

Okay so, I don’t really go into Subspace. I go into little space sometimes tho, altho ofcourse that’s not sexual. 

Subspace happens when something triggers that part of yourself, trigger is not necessarily in a bad way, for me in little space, it(s often the fun things that trigger me into going in it. Because when you say the word trigger, people often think of it in a bad or sad way. For me it happens when I walk into certain stores that have  the things I’m interested in, or when I get a plush, or when I get babied basically haha.

So when you’re sub is going to subspace, it’s very important to provide aftercare, and don’t let them make any rational decisions because when that happens to us Sub’s we’re operating on a high, so we’re not fully thinking clearly. 

As I said I haven’t experienced it, Don’t know if I ever will, so I can’t speak out of a personal experience But I do know it happens and I can compare it to my little space as in how it works.

Just try and make your sub feel good with the kinda aftercare you two agreed on, or things she likes, make her feel safe and loved and it’ll be okay! 

I hope that helped a little!  

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LMAO <3

sucking non binary ppl off like yea baby give me your gender fluid

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I want someone to really want me. Make a big deal about me, tell me I’m on your mind way too fucking much but you kinda like it. Make it completely obvious that I’m the person you want. Tell me you can’t wait to see me; show me how you feel so I can feel it too. Make me feel something I’ve never felt before. Tell your friends about me & I’ll tell them about how you make butterflies swam my stomach. Want me as much as I want you.

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queer as in gay but also queer as in unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

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girlfriend/S.O./Partner goals

Glad my family doesn’t expect me to mature like that

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so there’s this really cute PhD student who I started talking to on tinder(ugh yea i’m on that app again) and they’re also a lifter. So I keep imagining them carrying me and doing stuff to me in situations like this. it kind of sucks though bc I don’t know if they’ll have time for this or me :/ ....possibly more on this later.

I wanna shove you against the wall and finger fuck you until your knees get weak and I’m the only thing that’s holding you up

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some fun sex tropes:

laughing during sex

and/or things going wrong during sex that leads to laughter

sex on a countertop/tabletop/sink because we couldn’t wait to get somewhere with cushions

kissing to stay quiet

biting to stay quiet

one person meticulously doing something entirely for the other’s benefit without expectation or need of reciprocation

“wow i did not know that was A Thing for me until right now and i’m totally fine with that but for the love of god keep doing it”

someone straddling the other while they’re “trying to read” and slowly getting them to put the book away

“you’re only allowed to sit there and watch until i tell you otherwise”

kissing anywhere but the lips

alternatively, touching anywhere but where the person desperately wants to be touched

“we couldn’t find a condom so we’re getting each other off in other ways” sex

anything involving the secretive brushing of fingertips against inner thighs in public spaces

sex with clothes half on/panties still on

the pleasant misuse of ties

sleepy morning kisses that accidentally turn intense

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Concept: we are together. you are sleeping with your body wrapped around mine. it is quiet. my mind is calm. we are happy.

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ever since I read this I feel extra tension watching a movie. the future sapphic peep out there who will do this to me 👀👀👀 I’m ready lmk the time and place.

really wanna take a pretty girl to the movies and sit in the darkness in the back row and when we’re sure no one can see us i’ll slip my hand down her pants and tease her for the whole movie

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daydreamin about havin a lil doll in my lap, their legs spread, just rubbing their pussy, kissing their neck and back, feeling them melting more and more into my arms

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human bubbline edits! what you all think?

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so many of my crushes on girls and those fem aligned have been so much stonger and more intense than crushes on boys and those male aligned.

guys are so easy, I think as I go on a new dating app and match with every other guy or every third on the app. I change my preference to just women instead of everyone and it sometimes takes days for a match to pop up

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I don’t like to say I have a type but I’ve been watching this dude’s videos and listening to more of his music. Idk what exactly he is, I guess an internet personality, artist and musician?? Anyway I just want to say, the energy of this song would probably most accurately describe the type of people I’m usually into, with some dark &/or dry humor sprinkled in. Thinking about attraction and crushes is a lot of this side blog for me, but this song & video I’ve thought about almost all of the people I’ve been into and like each of them could be described in someway to at least like 5 seconds of this lol.

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If you choose pt1

It’s not a choice.

As I feel more like I could be called a lesbian, I know that I should maybe not be. Although my wlw/sapphic meter of attraction has largely increased, I acknowledge that I am not some overlap of bi/pan and lesbian. 

So much of me has tried to scope out any attraction I have to male aligned folx and be done with it, because it truly feels like a distraction from something better. LoL this is truly just my opinion and just where I am at currently, because no type of attraction or sexuality is superior to another. It is just that for me, wlw type attractions and full crushes often feel much more intense and make me feel more fulfilled.

It’s not like I've had some burst of wlw lesbian romantic success as I’ve searched for love. Quite possibly the opposite in reality, since I’ve come across more and more disappointments. Maybe its the way Hinge gave me more boys to match with than non boys when I put my preference on everyone. maybe its the culture of being a lesbian just having the potential to be tied into a deeper type of feminism.

Maybe its just the label that brings a different sense of understanding and struggle than the words bisexual and pansexual. As I yearn for queer sapphic romances, in representation from media and life, I realize my struggle and experience is different than what I have perceived to be a ��lesbian experience”. however, parts of it are also the same. As I think about my interactions with girls that made me nervous in a way I brushed off growing up and my consistent thoughts of, “oh I need to kiss a girl first” to know if I was gay but that didn't happen so I “never knew for sure” until a crush in college. I think of this but I don’t want to negate all of the crushes, and encounters I had with “the opposite sex”.

““Some people choose to be Gay”“ one of my best friends told me sometime in the last five years, we were referring to someone who was known to be bi in our friend circle. This phrase is highly controversial but I know what they meant. When you’re bi(or pan), you have heterosexual attraction to hide behind. I know because if I wasn’t into boys at all , growing up would have been much different, the crushes I would feed and let grow, the ones I would hide...

If I was only into girls (/ non guys) my entire life, who would I be in disney? what couple would I empathize with in the books I read? The love songs that fed my hopeless romantic heart? As I yearn now for songs about girls(/nonguys) that give you butterflies, sweep you off your feet and make your heart sing, its a different type of isolation than just being single. This isn’t meant to give or receive pity, but to say being bi and/or pan is definitely different. I don’t think this difference is acknowledged enough because too many people and places want to erase bi people and just pretend like this identity doesn't exist. It’s like PiCKk ONE!! ..like its that easy, and as some one who has tried to fully surrender to my sapphic desires and eradicate any desire of the male form as if it is an illness, it is not that simple. yes sexuality and identity may be fluid and ever changing but we’re in a society where some are more comfortable than others, more celebrated, even within oppressed communities.

I definitely feel more comfortable in the lesbian identity currently, but I know “lesbian” doesn't truly and entirely define my experience. Every identity has its own set of sparkles and colors. Some definitions of bisexual, and also pansexual say that bisexuals can “fit in “ with the straights and the gays equally, this is debatable as bisexual is its own identity with sometimes different oppressors from all groups, who simple don’t want us to exist for various “reasons”. Identity is a mixed bag with labels imposed from within and externally, as homos of homo sapiens we are constantly trying to figure out where and with what we identify. I’m not sure what a completely figured out identity is but I will be one to admit I am still figuring out mine.

This post will definitely be expanded on as this is pt 1 of ?? ID something sexuality?

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perfect post for bi visibility day.

did you know there are bisexual flowers and they’re perfect