revivedchapter

[revivedchapter]

[revivedchapter]

Disney movies + live-action reference

[revivedchapter]

i rlly did not take the intro to “in my head” that seriously until i saw this tweet and actually read it

[revivedchapter]

Please stop posting bullshit..

are you new here?

[revivedchapter]

This is for the ladies,

Please protect your hearts. Don’t give it away to the first person that comes around and show the least amount of interest. Stop sliding into guys’ dms, or anons believing that this might higher your chances in marriage. It really won’t. Whoever you’re destined to be with, will come through, even if you lived alone in a cave.

Want a husband? Work on yourself, mentally, physically and spiritually. Make tons of duaa, take legit steps through mahrams. You’re a Muslimah. Allah has placed all these rules and regulations for your protection and for your own good. 

Prophet Muhammed peace and blessings be upon him, said that angel Jibril revealed to him, that “the blessings of Allah will only be granted through His worship”. (Narrated by Abu Umamah Al Bahili, graded as sahih in Sahih al Jami’, no.  2085). 

So never expect that sinning, will grant you God’s blessings and his rizq, whether it’s in dunya or akhirah. I know it’s hard, and I know it’s challenging, but please keep your eyes set on the goal: Jannah. 

Anas bin Malik (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “Among the inmates of Hell, a person who had led the most luxurious life in this world will be brought up on the Day of Resurrection and dipped in the Fire and will be asked: ‘O son of Adam! Did you ever experience any comfort? Did you happen to get any luxury?’ He will reply: ‘By Allah, no, my Rubb.’ And then one of the people of Jannah who had experienced extreme misery in the life of this world will be dipped in Jannah. Then he will be asked: ‘O son of Adam! Did you ever experience any misery? Did you ever encounter difficulty?’ He will say: “By Allah, no my Rubb, I neither experienced misery nor passed through hardship”. [Muslim].

The temporary enjoyment of sins, will mean absolutely nothing with the first dip in the hellfire. All these struggles and challenges will mean absolutely nothing with the first dip in Jannah. 

Jannah is your goal. Work for it and allow no distractions. 

There’s this couple that I know of, who both worked for the same dawah project, she was the head of the women’s section and he was the head of the men’s section, they knew about each other but never really talked or met. Time passes, and he thought she’d be a good wife, and he went directly and talked to her brother and now they’re married allahuma barik. 

Point is, if you think chatting it up will get you a proposal, if you think you have to warm him up to the idea of marriage, then you’re wrong. A real man, a man you’re worthy of, will take no shortcuts. Real men will approach your mahram directly. You’re worthy of effort. Protect yourself, protect your heart, work on yourself, and make tons of duaa. 

May Allah make us righteous and may He grant us righteous spouses, and may He bless the married happy marriages built on His worship. 

[revivedchapter]

i need to stop looking for validation from people

[revivedchapter]

late night thoughts

the only thing we can do is pray they get guided to the right path.

[revivedchapter]

we are not best friends anymore and that is okay

wow what a title. 

an update to the person that was my best friend. 

we are still connected but it is not the same. 

it is very little of a connection because she lost her trust.

i saw it as helping

she saw it as letting her down. 

i was one of the only people she could trust.

what i did was wrong yet tbh lowkey right but not done properly

i need to be patient.

i need her to get better on her own time and do her own thing.

maybe one day she will be back on the same position as me.

maybe not.

all i know is that it is in Allah SWT’s hands. 

Alhumdulillah.

i miss her. 

but everything is a test and a lesson.

gives me anxiety anytime we talk about the situation.

i just wish things were normal again and not full of pressure. 

maybe i am gaining her trust back?

maybe not? 

i do not know but we will see what the future holds for both of us.

individually

and

together. 

[revivedchapter]

[revivedchapter]

credit to whoever but thought i share:

[revivedchapter]

bettering myself

i have done absolutely nothing this past month of summer. like nothing productive and iA i plan on changing that the second i wake up.

so just a quick update about the boy situation: i ended it with my cousin because i never got a response and it was playing with my heart and i needed to let it go. nothing much to say except i realized i need to change my ways, especially the way i think: 

i think one relationship that has been such a debate is me and my best friend that i called her in one of my posts that i have been having trouble with. 

we are going to call her reema. 

basically, i realized that she is doing her own thing right and needs space as she has told me and i need to stop putting so much pressure on us becoming “us” again. i am going to make Dua about that iA.

i think i need to work on me as a person and focus on my future and my relationship with Allah (SWT). 

starting tomorrow, i am going to read the English Translation of the Quran and work on my relationship with Allah (SWT) and my patience.

i want to get back into the gym again after a week of not going (ik so long right) but get back into the motivation of becoming more toned and making my weight stay constant. 

i want to better myself and become more patient iA. stop gossiping and move on to what is best for me and contact people more instead of cutting them off or ignoring them. 

tomorrow i will also start studying for my standardized tests and work on reviewing stuff for orgo 2 iA. 

i will read a little bit of the Quran after each Namaz iA. Make dua after each Namaz iA. 

i wanna change my attitude and become more patient and understand and listen to people attentively. 

i think by bettering my relationship with Allah (SWT), my life will become better especially with saying Alhumduilillah for everything. 

i need to stop being on my computer or social media. i need a cleanse i need to do my own thing. 

i am going to stop snapchat streaks but i feel like i won't talk to anyone but then again, that is why i have a phone.

(update: just deleted streaks, ill lyk how i like it) 

i stopped keeping up with them days ago and like it is time to let it go ya know? 

sorry i know this is all over the place, but i want to stop being judgmental and petty with reema and just pray for her and the best for her and be natural iA. 

i think i just need things to go natural in general and keep my mouth closed and not talk bad about people (especially to prevent Nazr AstaghfirAllah) and just better myself. 

Ramadan in all honesty should've been about that but everything happens for a reason. 

i guess sometimes you have to be selfish and take time for yourself.

when i focused on myself during second semester of freshman year, LIFE CHANGING LET ME TELL YOU.

that is all. thanks for reading if u got to the end here. :)) 

[revivedchapter]

lesson learned: do not take moments for granted

I feel like my best friend and I have had a run where its been up and down.

I dont even know where to start but I feel like im in same position as she was years ago with me. 

she was putting in effort and I wasn't doing anything and I took it for granted.

now I am putting in the effort and she can't help it because of her own personal situation that will not be addressed that she can't put in as much effort or energy. 

I honestly feel like I am being pushed away and I dont think she can help it. 

She is trying not to but I feel like she I trying to protect me from getting hurt again from her and her personal situation which sucks. 

I wanna be here for her if she needs me and all I need to know is if she needs space..

but that's the thing, space will honestly break my heart because it is like “what are we?” 

I feel stuck in where we are together at the moment and I really took all the times she called me before years and years ago for granted. 

now its me texting. 

me calling. 

me trying to contact her and it is like she wants none of that. 

earlier this month, it was the first time in our entire friendship I was mad, frustrated, and completely hurt and I told her.. she appreciated the honesty but I think it had a bad affect. 

her sister thinks that she is normal and fine, just busy but I dont know something is setting off.

it has always been a thing where my best friend’s sister and I became really close and it has affected my best friend, but honestly I feel like im at the point of trying to balance but nothing it working. 

now this is the messed up part and I may get backlash for this but it was not my intention: 

my best friends sister and I are visiting our family at their home in a different area than we both live in and my best friends sister invited my best friend and she said “no.” I got the same response when I asked my best friend to come with, I asked and suggested a few times and she said she wanted some time after school got out to do her own thing but im still hoping she comes. 

now I feel like it is my fault for ruining an important trip for my best friends sister and hurting my best friend making her think im happier with her sister and not with her. 

I truly wanted her to come. 

I want my best friend to be present in my life I just feel like our friendship is on the edge and that just shows: dont take moments for granted.

I just wish she knew how much I cared and loved her.

[revivedchapter]

finals season has arrived. May this season be over before we can say 'I took that L.'

[revivedchapter]

[revivedchapter]

#happiness https://www.instagram.com/p/Buy4CFIguNs/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=107s6rurfkbs3

[revivedchapter]

someone who overthinks is also someone who overloves

anon

[revivedchapter]

#tag #tellafriend #comment #share #follow #hadithreminder #hadithoftheday #hadith #deen #islam #saveyourselves #punishment #hellfire #islamicquotes #bukhari #muslim #hijab #quraan #dua‎ #muslimah #Muslim #pray #repent #forgive #patience #jannat #firdous #prophet #Muhammad صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم‎ #Allah سبحانه و تعالى (at Thamesmead) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bs4M1HUlxVg/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=i105xqahbgtr