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I go down to Ground Zero

Which is like the end of the world

It’s literally still burning

Bob in ‘Something’s Missing’ from Broadway Musical, 'Come From Away’

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I phone American and say

“I’m ready to go wherever you want to send me.”

But they say take a few days off

I phone every day and I am back at the airport on Thursday

And it’s empty. Silent

It’s just - a different place

And I stop what few passengers there are and I say

“Thank you for still flying.”

Beverly in ‘Something’s Missing’ from Broadway Musical 'Come From Away’

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I don't wait for doors of opportunity to open. I kick down the doors and loudly announce my obnoxious presence.

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Hiatus

I have to apologize but I am posting an official hiatus to my blogging. Though I haven't posted in awhile, I have written things and have readied some articles but I am in such a terrible state of mind and physical health. Circumstances in my life have really busted my mental health. I hope to be back soon but my blog's subscription will soon expire and I will likely not renew it until I'm ready to dedicate again.

Thank you for love and understanding.

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Instead of criticizing people with mental illness and telling them it will be too hard to overcome their anxieties and fears, I wish people knew instead to be encouraging during difficult moments. To stand by our side and tell us it'll be okay, here's why, and let me help. Take a minute, breathe. You're only human.

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Space is healthy for both partners, don't be manipulated the world into thinking it isn't.

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Dear workplace...

I am expected to be on your team, but lately I've been wondering- why aren't you on mine?

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I'm trying so hard to keep up with the world, I just wish the world would try harder to slow down a little for me.

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Happy Pride Month my friends and followers!!!

I celebrate this month as asexual and queer identifying!

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Working on some updates and things to post. I apologize for my absence y'all. Work really is kicking my ass right now. I feel drained all the time emotionally and physically.

I recently went through a crisis I will be sharing. I think it's an important discussion to share with my fellow ace community having to do with intimate relationships, coming out, being religious, and a side of anxiety.

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Saying that I lead people on by being openly asexual and on dating websites is like calling a girl a liar for men thinking she has golden eyelids.

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I will be updating soon don't worry. Have had a lot happen since 2021 started plus I work more.

Some of the things I want to hit on whenever I get around to it:

Being OCD before the pandemic and being OCD during.

Trump's failed impeachment

Valentine's Day as an Asexual person

Growing up in a conservative house hold (Rush Limbaugh is dead so uh LET'S TALK Y'ALL)

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Update on being a Gender Studies minor:

So I start with telling people I'm a theatre major and their expression is like... 😅 "Lol oh wow omg that's cool you can do that, what have you been in-" and I tell them I actually do lights and they are like 🧐 "wow omg i didnt know that was a thing" cause lights aren't a thing ig.

Anyway.

Then. I tell them.

I do the thing.

I break it to them that if they thought I was a "non contributing" member to society before well NOW 🤨😐😶😲 "oh wow uhm... i like... uh... genders, I have this one friend who uh is a uh gender-"

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Update on being a Gender Studies minor:

So I start with telling people I'm a theatre major and their expression is like... 😅 "Lol oh wow omg that's cool you can do that, what have you been in-" and I tell them I actually do lights and they are like 🧐 "wow omg i didnt know that was a thing" cause lights aren't a thing ig.

Anyway.

Then. I tell them.

I do the thing.

I break it to them that if they thought I was a "non contributing" member to society before well NOW 🤨😐😶😲 "oh wow uhm... i like... uh... genders, I have this one friend who uh is a uh gender-"

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The whole "Trump won" when Biden won thing is starting to be filed in my brain under the same tab as the dress that was white when it was actually blue.