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today’s QPR is: adonis otogari and koga oogami from ensemble stars

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today’s QPR is: hifumi izanami and doppo kannonzaka from hypmic

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Today’s QPR is: Brooke Lohst and Chloe Valentine from Be More Chill

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Today’s QPR is: Christina Yang and Meredith Grey from Grey’s Anatomy

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thanks a bunch for existing!! It’s really hard to kinda just look around tumblr for QPR positivity so this blog is really great!!!

Thank you for the kind words!

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Today’s QPR is: Tony Jones, Strag, and Edyn from Magi-Nation

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Today’s QPR is: Virgil Hawkins and Richie Foley from Static Shock

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@ every person who’s ever made a comment about how ‘that’s called friendship’ when aro people talk about QPRs

shut up and listen for once in your life.

Would you combine your finances with a friend?

Would you adopt (or have) kids with your friend?

Would you plan to live your entire life with your friend?

Would you get pets with your friend?

Would you set up your entire life around spending all your down time with your friend?

Would you spend every night for the rest of your life in the same bed as your friend?

No. You wouldn’t. You would do those things and more with your sexual and romantic partner.

A QPR is not a friendship.

I have a best friend, we’ve known eachother since we were 5 and nobody else will ever be my best friend.

I have a QPP, we met in high school and she’s not my best friend because she’s me QPP and that’s a different kind of relationship.

I would never consider planning the rest of my life around my best friend. If we have to be far away then so be it, it wold suck but we’d keep in touch.

If I had a choice between a job far away and staying with my QPP then it probably wouldn’t be a choice.

I’d never consider asking my best friend to come with me if I moved away for work for good. I’d only move if my QPP was coming with me.

When my best friend and I share a bed on sleepovers we barely touch.

The one night I got to spend with my QPP we cuddled all night.

My QPP and I walked through the mall holding hands. My friend and I wouldn’t do that because that’s not how friends are once you’re more than about 10 years old. Not here at least.

When my best friend comes over we sit on different chairs and talk and share memes and play games.

When I have time with my QPP we’re right next to eachother and only let go if we have to.

When my best friend has to go home it’s a wave and a ‘seeya’ and we’re good.

When my QPP has to go home it’s a five minute hug with foreheads and noses touching and we’ve gone down the driveway together to the car.

My best friend and my QPP are equally important to me because I don’t view any one kind of relationship as being superior to another. They’re different.

Best friends expect eachother to have their own families and their own lives. QPPs hope to be able to share their entire lives.

If, after reading all of that at least twice you still want to invalidate QPRs and say that we’re just friends then I invite you to kindly go fuck yourself.

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today’s queerplatonic relationship is: Bakugou Katsuki and Kirishima Eijirou from My Hero Academia

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you said that straight people shouldn't use the queer part of qpr but trans people who are straight can absolutely use that, bring trans falls under the queer umbrella no matter our orientation

Yeah, exactly!

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is it okay to be in a queerplatonic relationship even though both of us are interested in romantic relationships? bc like honestly I love her so much and everything I've ever read about qpp suits what I feel for her but like I don't want to use the wrong term bc neither me nor her are from the ace spectrum?? but like I love her so much and I don't think friendship is the right term???

QPRs are not exclusive to aro/ace people, so if you feel like your relationship with her fits with a QPR you can use the term to describe your relationship

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Today’s QPR is: Clary Fray and Simon Lewis from The Mortal Instruments

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Today’s QPR is: Chara and Frisk from Undertale

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Hi! I've made a blog for fictional queer/quasiplatonic ship headcanons @qpr-headcanons and if you're comfortable I'd really appreciate a shoutout ^^ Thank you and have a nice day ☀️

Shoutout to @qpr-headcanons ! An awesome blog for submitting qpr headcanons!!

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Today’s Queer/Quasiplatonic relationship is: Plague and Mona from Shovel Knight!

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Today’s queerplatonic relationship of the day is: Wes and Rui from Pokémon Colosseum!

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Ummm hey so I was wondering what exactly defines a qpr? Like I know its a very close friendship but I'm already very close with my 3 friends so much so that I've been asked if I'm dating one of them so I was just wondering how people in a qpr would treat each other and act differently to people who were just friends?

AVEN’s definition of qpr is: “A queerplatonic relationship is a relationship that is not romantic but involves a close emotional connection (platonic) beyond what most people consider friendship. The commitment level in a queerplatonic relationship is often considered to be similar to that of a romantic relationship. People in a queerplatonic relationship may be of any romantic or sexual orientation”

According to the aromantic wiki: “In some situations the people involved can show physical affection such as cheek kisses, pecks on the the lips, holding hands, sitting on each other's lap, seeing each other naked, cuddling and sleeping together (not euphemistically). To QPPs, these activities are not necessarily romantic nor sexual/erotic.”

For me at least, a qpp is someone I would want to have as a “permanent roommate” and be with them for a significant amount of time. If you look at other friends compared to the 3 friends you mentioned and you feel significantly closer to them than your other friends, then it could be a qpr. If you find yourself thinking, I love them so much, but nonromantically (or semiromantically), then it could be a qpr. I can’t tell you whether or not your relationship with your friends is a qpr, but hopefully this helps you figure it out!