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i haven't posted in months. but this is my goodbye. i have finally come to terms with my situation and after seeing his true colors, i no longer want him in my life. thank you to everyone who read my stuff... it truly helped a lot.

goodbye.

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— Sylvia Plath

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— rhythmicrhinoceros

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"i wonder if we ever think of each other at the same time."

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Oh, and how wonderful will that day be. ❤️‍🩹

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THIS ❤️

“Your healing is about you. It doesn’t need a stamp of approval. Don’t worry about how long it takes or how ugly it might seem. It is about you, and your wellbeing.”

— Unknown

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I'm so tired of reading comments of people saying "move on" as if they have any fucking clue of what I've been through in the last 5 months. Writing about it gives me comfort since I cannot lean onto anyone around me. The life I was supposed to have with who I thought was the love of my life, won't exist. So let me fucking grieve and feel the pain. A divorce and having to be a single mom when that was not the plan at all destroys a part of you completely, so let me feel it and let it go when I feel ready to. I know I will be fine and in due time I will stop writing on here and I'll be completely healed, but until then don't assume I'm not moving on. Expressing how it felt or feels at the moment is a step towards acceptance and healing. So let people grieve however they want to, and for however long they need to. Pain is different for everyone.

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Normalize not forcing connections. If someone doesn't see the value in having you by their side, don't try to convince them.

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Now that is a question that will remain unanswered. I fear the response because I know it won't be an "I have missed you, too"...

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No, honey. You matter just as much.

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