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I promise I have plans to share lighthearted shifting content about my DRs soon but seems I'm in a mood for shifting thinkpieces lol

Getting slightly bored during a shifting attempt is a good thing! Please, I'm begging people to realize that when you finally get to your DR, you no longer are in the state of wanting to be there. You just exist there!

Feeling like you no longer want to do a shifting attempt is your subconscious giving into being your DR self who doesn't focus on shifting!

My whole identity changes when I shift because I become someone who doesn't have shifting as a goal

I highly recommend focusing on a goal your DRself would have during methods to keep the excitement going. Focus on what you want to do there instead of just getting there.

I know this is highly personal, and I'm rambling, so do what works for you, but shifting will eventually be normal and having just shifting as your only goal isn't enough to keep you going forever

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Ive been thinking about permashifting recently. Or at least replacing this reality as my midpoint that I come back to between shifts. I still love so much about being here but I feel like I am outgrowing it at least as my main reality. Unsure about it. Kinda been putting off thinking about it for now

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Shifting is Based on Your Assumptions

From someone who shifts regularly...

It bugs me so much to see people accuse shifters of lying because their realities don't "seem right"

Now I have raised an eyebrow at some stories, but I just block and move on because shifting is personal and I can't know for sure

Imagine when someone first told you about shifting, they said it was impossible to get back to your CR, and then you spent 30 years travelling one way between realities. Finally you are in this one and you find shifting communities here and happily join just for someone who just discovered it on TikTok to tell you that you don't know what you're talking about because you must be lying if you think its one way. You wouldn't want to share information and stories either

And while this is a big difference it seems like shifters are quicker to go after tiny differences and accuse people of lying

But differences don't mean they are lying. There isn't one way to experience shifting

I know it's in our nature to look for details and inconsistencies, especially about something that goes against what we were told growing up, but shifting isn't always logical

Our current view of shifting is shaped by the culture that introduced it to us

Obviously people can grow and learn new things and change their own assumptions about shifting but to say someone is lying because they may have been introduced to shifting with different "rules" tells me you don't understand how this works. Infinite realities. Infinite experiences.

Your ideas (assumptions) about things change how you experience reality AND shifting

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I hear this a lot, and as someone who used to share A LOT on a different account and then moved to this account where I haven't even said my partners names, I figured I would give my two cents. No hate to anyone that asks this! Shifting story times made the community so fun, but like everything, it got harder as the community grew.

But people got weird...

I had someone start taking stories i told of me and my partner's cute moments and script them exactly the same way in their DR or make tiktoks claiming it was their DR

I had someone tell me "wow they seem great I think i am going to shift for them now" about my literal soulmate, which, clarification, i don't have a problem with people wanting to shift for my people but to start because of the stories I told of our relationship is super weird to me. Like I am telling you about my specific partner and not the way they exist in media here, so to tell that to my face was insane to me

And just the nature of telling shifting stories, everyone is always looking for inconsistencies to "catch" you lying and it made me feel like i had to make sure all my details match when talking about my DRs even though I mix things up about this reality and no one questions me about that because human memory is faulty

TLDR: It's exhausting trying to motivate people at the expense of my own and my partners privacy

Why does no one share shifting stories anymore …

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I have more designer stuff in one of my superhero DRs than I do my fame DR because my dad is insane and won't stop buying me things (i love him and hope he never stops) It's a miracle I didn't turn out like Veruca Salt in that DR

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Weird quirk my gf in my main DR has: struggles to eat sushi and bigger pieces with chopsticks but can somehow eat rice with them??? Absolutely baffling, but so fascinating to watch. Bf tries to get her to hold them the correct way, but that never goes well lol

I love them both so much I could talk about them forever. We literally have the same soul

no because I genuinely feel like nobody ever talks abt their s/o quirks/things they love that the shifter also loves because of them anymore...

LIKE DO YOU GUYS REMEMBER WHEM PPL USED TO & I MEAN ACTUALLY TALK ABT THEIR S/O??

idgaf who they are. TELL ME ABOUT THEM. SEND ME A WHOLE ESSAY ON MY QUESTION THINGS. THEY COULD BE FUCKING SPONGEBOB FOR ALL I CARE. SHARE WITH MEEEEEEE😻😻😻😻😻😻😻

LIKE I LOVE WHEN SHIFTERS GET ALL

ABOUT THEIR S/O ITS SO ADORABLE & REMINDS ME THAT LOVE IS REAL😭🙏

TELL ME ABOUT HOW PRETTY THEIR EYES ARE, THE THING YOU LOVE MOST ABOUT THEM, HOW THEY LAUGH, HOW THEY CAN ACT, SING, OR ANYTHING, TELL ME WHAT YOU LOVE ABOUT THEM‼️‼️‼️

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Changing seasons gets me in such a good mood. Reorganized my altar and did a deep clean of everything, and I am ready for autumn

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Idk if I've talked about this before, but I saw someone post about why people who have been trying to shift for so long might not be shifting (this might not apply to everyone, but it really clicked with me). They only explained why, so I'm gonna talk about the solution I came up with.

They specifically said that it was not tough love, but psychological facts: it's possible that your mind registers shifting as a goal in THIS reality.

Think about that for a second. This is the part that really got me when I started to think about it. When you are here, in your CR, your goal is to shift, right? So what if our minds interprets that as a goal IN THIS REALITY, as simple as going to bed thinking "oh, I'm going to unload the dishwasher in the morning." Because shifting is just aligning with your DR self, and guess what?? Your goal in your DR is not to shift! That blew up my brain a little bit.

"But i want to shift" you know how everyone keeps saying "you are already in your DR"? I interpreted that for so long as motivation. It's not. It's the process. To align with your DR self, just like aligning with another person in your CR you have to have the same goals.

So your goal is no longer to shift. Stop thinking like that. Your goal IS NOT TO SHIFT. Waking up where you are meant to has never been a goal, but an expectation. Your goal is to wake up and go downstairs to have breakfast with your DR friends or family. Your goal is to wake up and get to class on time to ace that Defence Against The Dark Arts quiz you totally forgot to study for until the night before. Your goal is to wake up and win that Oscar, to break that curse, destroy the One Ring, you fucking name it babes.

I don't know if this is really dumb and obvious, but it wasn't for me before, so I really hope this post helps someone else too.

XO

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Sometimes I miss channeling for people, but I recognized that people were using my messages as a way to postpone shifting

My friends have had more success in shifting since I stopped being the messenger and it's a bittersweet feeling because I loved being able to connect them to their DR, but I never intended to be the end goal

Just a reminder to keep your end goal in mind

If the end goal is shifting and not just a letter from your s/o or a cute song about your relationship, then you should be careful about how you are using things in this reality as a crutch to avoid actually shifting

Channeling isn't a bad thing. It's so motivating and is so fun, but if it isn't the goal, it will never feel as good as actually being with them.

If it is enough, then great! Some people don't want to shift they just want some magic and love in their life and that's fine!

Just take a moment to know yourself and your motives and be true to your desires

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People have often been conditioned to expect less than the best and just settle for less than the best in life. I have found it worthwhile to declare often as I go about my day: “nothing but the best.“ This helps me to open my mind to receive in an over-all way.

Catherine Ponder

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Also autistic and I literally had to do a complete reset in shifting spaces once I shifted and realized how much I had shared 😭 rip all my other accounts but whyyy did I say all that

being a shifter is when ure itching to overshare about your dr and then remembering that’s like giving out your personal info in this reality..

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It's fine when I shift back it will be fine. Just kinda the final straw of a kinda bad day 👍

I SPILLED TERIYAKI SAUCE ON MY WHITE RUG IN MY WR AND JUSF IMMEDIATELY SHIFTED BACK 💀

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I SPILLED TERIYAKI SAUCE ON MY WHITE RUG IN MY WR AND JUSF IMMEDIATELY SHIFTED BACK 💀

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"This is all we've got"

Incorrect.

I am infinite. I exist throughout space and time, in realities far beyond this one, in every conceivable way. My existence has always been and will never cease to be. If you choose to believe that everything ultimately ends in nothingness, that's your choice. I am my own infinite being; I am not defined by my body or physical form. This is merely a shell. My true self exists everywhere and anywhere simultaneously, and if I choose to manifest in different places, I will. I do.

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Every reality that I am in that has Tiktok (or a similar app) has the one designated friend that is forced to watch all the weird posts that show up on my fyp but the level of enthusiasm they have about their role varies wildly

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I've been so hyperfixated on crocheting recently my screen time on my phone has been under an hour every day 💀

It's taking over my life but I'm going to have a whole new winter wardrobe soon lol

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What's helping me is understand that nothing can stop me from shifting.

You are having doubts? Who cares, AKNOWLEGDE them and understand you still shifted. You are scared? AKNOWLEGDE your fear and let it go.

Nothing can stop you from shifting. Nothing can hold you back and no amount of doubts or wavering can stop your manifestation. Unless you let it.

I had a very bad day today and wavered a lot. I won't go into detail but it's hard to ignore circumstances when you are being abused. But i decided that wavering can't stop me. I shifted and it's done.

Be kind to yourself, you hear me? Don't let anyone decide your journey for you.