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ARCANE LEAGUE OF LEGENDS: 2x05 - “Blisters and Bedrock” ↳ "What are you waiting for? He's your dad too."

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reminder

Continue✨ Keep going✨

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Because being a Derry Girl, well, it's a fucking state of mind.

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LMAO yessss, kate harrison!!!

“SHE’S A LESBIAN. MY BAD!”

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Although complexities of romantic relationship keep popping up in the literature, I also read Yumi Sakugawa’s book on friend love and had the pleasure of meeting Yumi last week at a reading for LA Zine Fest.

Is it possible for an artist to be as wonderful in person as she is on paper? I’m here to tell you: Yes. Yes, it is. She is grounded and bright and so talented.

Because of all my recent reading, because of my personal experience—past and recent present—I’m beginning to embrace that friend-love is the purest form of love.

Lisa’s Book Round-Up

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Mariko-sama

I've been ordered by my lord to escort his ladies to Edo. I'm sorry, but without a permit, no lord or his retinue may leave Osaka Castle. It is Lord Ishido's order. You leave me no choice.

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helen “trans people are perpetuating gender steriotypes” joyce is now upset that the scientific american is writing about how women were hunters too back in the day, not just mothers and caretakers. feminist win!

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i wish this movie had a + ending. i love it still

THE WORLD TO COME (2021) dir. Mona Fastvold

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This exchange haunts me

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Always feels good to find this on my feed

Portrait of a Lady on Fire (2019) dir. Céline Sciamma

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It feels taboo as a childfree person to admit this but I actually do have concerns about who is going to take care of me when I'm old. The elder care system in our nation relies A LOT on the unpaid care labor of adult children. I just don't think that's a good reason to have kids.

"But you'll have more money!" does not completely put this to rest for me. Neither does "Buy care insurance!" Even if I can afford direct personal care, who is going to advocate for me to get it? Who is going to navigate bureaucracy for me when I'm 80?

"If you do have kids, there's no GUARANTEE that they'll take care of you when your old!" That's true, but doesn't solve my problem.

I think childfree people get very defensive about this question because its used as a kind of "gotcha!" against us, but I actually do not feel we can afford to be in denial about this reality. Based on current trends of more people in their 30s stating they intend to be permanently childfree, we are going to see a huge wave of childfree adults hitting the eldercare system at once in a few decades. Childfree people in their 30s should be advocating around eldercare NOW.

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every year I post this meme and every year people get more mad at me than they did the previous year

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DECISION TO LEAVE dir. Park Chan-wook.

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Five times Héloïse grinned at Marianne not knowing she was in love yet

+ one time she smiled thinking about Marianne knowing she was going to love her forever 

A poalof photoset series : 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28

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Steel Magnolias (1989) dir. Herbert Ross