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I'm still alive

Hey everyone. Sorry for dropping off the face of the planet ^_^" Life got busy and I can sometimes get so overwhelmed that going online actually becomes stressful.

My mum was away for a couple weeks, which meant I spent most of that time taking care of my stepdad. My granny and an uncle have been in and out of the hospital (they're okay but it's starting to look like Granny is nearing the end). I got a new nephew (I'm up to 18 nephews/nieces now). I injured my back/dislocated a rib (I'm fine now). Got sick with something that meant four days of fever and constant sleep. I burned (yes, burned) my sinuses, which is remarkably painful and results in what are basically the symptoms of a nasty cold (still recovering from that). And there were the holidays on top of all that with all the busy madness that comes with them.

Things are finally settling down so I'm returning to my online communities. Sorry if I worried anyone and sorry to leave you all on the dark for so long.

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Good morning :)

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Good morning :)

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I love my town <3

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I usually go down at night so you can't see anything in the pictures, but I finally went during daylight hours today. This is the beach I visit on my nights off :)

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“Time heals all wounds.” Me, a person with PTSD from child abuse:

“People only have power over you if you give them power.”

“People treat you the way you allow yourself to be treated.”

“Holding onto hate is like swallowing poison and expecting the other person to die.” 

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"I'm autistic."

"Everyone has some of that stuff. You're fine."

Yeah, that's not the same thing.

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So you know how there are the dummy books? Like Calculus for Dummies or Physics for Dummies? Is there any kind of series like that for white people? Like, I want to know a lot more about history and other cultures but I want to know the real stuff, not the corrupt version that's been edited and re-edited for decades or centuries to make white people more comfortable.

If this doesn't exist yet, can somebody start it? Help a dumb white girl out.

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Lol, I've never thought about the toliet seat thing. Being a straight girl dating a guy, automatically the seat gets left down, otherwise I'll fall in. I think most couples automatically leave it down, because of the man/woman dymanics. What about Harry/Doctor? Do they tend to leave the seat up or down? Lol.

I honestly never thought about it lol I mean, it’s three guys living in the house so I suppose it would make sense that it gets left up as long as they don’t have company over.

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Lol, I love the fact that despite making millions dollars a year, Andy has been living in the same apartment for 12 years. I wonder what he is saving for.

He’s probably still paying his student loans XD

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From Anon,

https://youtu.be/cVxNr-AOKis

I love the fact they included always being able to leave the toliet seat up as an advantage. 😂😂😂

Sharing this as I thought it was pretty funny.

Dear Anon,

Oh man, that was funny ^_^ I love the moment when they high-five and he goes “Did you wash your hands?” “*proudly* No.” “Come ooon!” Thanks for sharing ^_^

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Hamish in that video to Andy: "Now let's go out for breakfast." 😂 I wasn't sure, but I have a feeling those two might be friends in real life, not just co-workers. Hamish seemed pretty comfortable in Andy's apartment. Do you get a actual friend vibe from those two or a friendly co-worker vibe? I was reading an article ages ago about how many news co-hosts hate each other in real life and thought radio might be similar.

They were friends in college and started and built their careers together. I actually think that's the reason they've been so successful.

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Lol, Hamish mentioned Andy had been in that apartment for 12 years. That is a long time not to notice what looks like black glass. 😂😂😂😂 Also, how was that a naked lady suit? It didn't even have boobs!

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I love the fact Andy genuinely seemed to think about getting a random neighbour a gift basket. 😂 I'm glad Hamish shut that idea down. Handing a gift over, and then going, 'hey, can I check out your apartment to see if you can see my naked bestie from your loungeroom?' would have been even odder. Lol, wouldn't it have made more sense for Andy to have gone and visited his own neighbour though? Would you send someone else to talk to the person you live across the street from on your behalf?

If I thought that person had been seeing me prance around naked for years? Yeah, I'd probably want someone else to have that conversation for me lol If it turned out that they could see him, it would have been mortifying for Andy, but it just would have been funny to Hamish. I think he was just worried about the potential embarrassment of his neighbour looking him in the eye and saying they almost didn't recognize him with clothes on.

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With the leaves off the trees, I technically have an ocean view :P

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The day I met my solemate

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From Anon,

https://youtu.be/x8Z6cmWCjKo

Lol, would you go and talk to your friend’s neighbour for them on their behalf after they become mortified to realise theg may have accidentally flashing their neighbours for years because what they thought was a wall could be a window?

Also, would call call this dude over as your problem solving friend? I might have picked someone different. 😂

Dear Anon,

I would absolutely do this lol It does make sense to call Hamish for it too, as I imagine a lot of people wouldn’t actually want to go over there and talk to the neighbour, but Hamish wouldn’t hesitate.