meanbitchydyke

[meanbitchydyke]

Making a new post already since my old one is hardly going anywhere anymore.

I work 2 jobs but didn't get any hours for one on the previous pay period so I didn't get a check from there.

Other job only gave me 20ish hours past little while. I'm broke right now. I get paid next week but like I need food for myself and my cat.

PP

Canadians can ask for my e-transfer.

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Even in a fairly liberal metro area in the Midwest, I faced a ton of pressure to be feminine growing up.

I tried wearing makeup and skirts. I feigned interest in Barbies. I wore my hair long until I was 16 or 17.

The pressure to be feminine accompanied the pressure to be cishet.

Any time I tried rejecting femininity, my social status suffered. I was called a dyke and a faggot. Former friends became bullies, laughing at me for being the only “girl” wearing pants instead of a skirt and a face with no makeup.

While my mom (bless her) always accepted me no matter how I presented, other adults in my life were less kind. My grandmother was fixated on me being a “proper young lady”. I had to cross my legs at the ankle, not the knee. I had to learn to sew, no matter how many bandaids ended up on my fingertips.

My teachers acknowledged the bullying, but told me it was a result of my “sinful choices”. My “sinful choices” to do what? To choose Hotwheels over Bratz? To wear pants instead of skirts? To wear a bare face in public? How were these actions sinful? Because they betrayed my secret that I was truly a dyke? Because they disrupted the carefully constructed social order of things?

Compulsory femininity is a dangerous cultural force and deserves to be treated as such. It’s damaging to young girls, even if they decide being feminine is for them. Being feminine shouldn’t be the only choice, just like being cishet shouldn’t be the only choice.

We need to talk more about compulsory femininity and how it harms all women but especially wlw, trans women, and women of color.

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I love butches

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Ibrahim @wolf-aid needs your help!

PROOF OF VETTING (#25 ON THE VETTED CAMPAIGN LIST) BY @gazavetters, A GROUP OF TRUSTED CAMPAIGN VETTERS !

Ibrahim, who recently turned 16, and his family are currently scared and hungry in Gaza as Israel's genocide continues. He's been super proactive in grabbing attention so that I can boost his campaign. Instead of learning and having fun with his life and friends, Ibrahim lives in constant fear of death and further loss. He has lost too many family members, including, most recently, his uncle. He and his family, like many others in the region, are sick, starving, depressed, and extremely anxious. You can read a little more about his situation here. Ibrahim, if you're reading this, we love you!! 💙

€19,947 raised of €30,000 goal

Every amount sent his way counts. Please donate as little as 1 euro towards his campaign! If you cannot donate directly to this campaign, please send an amount below and I will donate for you!

As I am also using this account to donate for Marah's campaign, please add a note saying that you're donating to Ibrahim's campaign! Thank you :)

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i need you guys to understand that it is completely possible and encouraged for transmascs to talk about their oppression while also not maintaining that misandry is a real axis of oppression (because it's not) and if you get mad at transfem bloggers for pointing this out you do sound like a whiny MRA. i feel like im going a little bit crazy every time i see people attribute forms of oppression to misandry like it's 2024 not 2014 why is this so hard to understand

[meanbitchydyke]

We need to talk more about compulsory femininity and how it harms all women but especially wlw, trans women, and women of color.

[meanbitchydyke]

Making a new post already since my old one is hardly going anywhere anymore.

I work 2 jobs but didn't get any hours for one on the previous pay period so I didn't get a check from there.

Other job only gave me 20ish hours past little while. I'm broke right now. I get paid next week but like I need food for myself and my cat.

PP

Canadians can ask for my e-transfer.

[meanbitchydyke]

AN ENTIRE ALBUM??? JUST. NO PROMO NO LEAD UP, A COLD ALBUM DROP?

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If you're looking for places to donate to this November (Native American Heritage Month) my go-to is the Navajo Water Project/DigDeep. They work to bring running water to Navajo families and have a 100% rating on Charity Navigator!

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you should try being a girl

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trump dies of congestive heart failure before being sworn in charge to like cast to reblog

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you guys love mean lesbians until theyre mean or theyre lesbians

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sometimes the tragedy of distance is very simple. i want to get groceries with you

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hello, please help ahmed (@ahmadashi1) if you are able to. his mother is sick and elderly, and he has been diagnosed with hepatitis. they both desperately need medication and treatment as well as food. the prices of these necessities are ridiculously inflated, and ahmed really needs our help.

his gofundme is here, but be aware that 1 usd is the equivalent of almost 11 sek, so please donate at least 55 sek. another option is chuffed

this campaign has been vetted by @/90-ghost and @/bilal-salah0, and is also vetted here (#152)

please donate if you are able, and share with your friends and followers

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I’m usually pretty sex-averse (or neutral) but sometimes I just want a hot lady to rail me so hard I forget my name. Is that so much to ask?