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Calligenia (Female) Origin: Greek Meaning: Daughter of beauty

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Boys develop the right side of their brain faster than girls, giving them better spatial, logical, and perceptual skills. They excel at math, building, puzzles, and problem solving.

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Girls develop the left side of the brain more rapidly. They excel at speaking and reading, and have an easier time learning foreign languages.

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A man should get his livelihood in order and after that he should get married and start his family. A young man is not ready to begin the process of courtship until he is financially ready to support his family.

Michael Farris, A Sacred Foundation: The Importance Of Strength In The Home School Marriage

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Steel Qualities

Guide, Protector, Provider

Builder of Society

Masculinity

Character

Confidence

Health

The steel side of a man makes women and children feel secure. Arouses admiration of all. Makes women feel womanly.

Velvet Qualities

Understands women

Gentleness

Attentiveness

Youthfulness

Humility

Refinement

The velvet side of a man promotes good human relations among all people. Awakens love in women and children.

When a man has both Steel and Velvet qualities, it brings him peace, happiness, and fulfillment.

Aubrey Andelin, Man of Steel and Velvet: A Guide to Masculine Development

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Some of you men define masculinity by protesting too much about femininity; so that to prove masculinity is to deny or demean women and your need for a woman's love. To accomplish this you "conquer lots of women" (therefore you pretend that you don't "need" them - you just "use" them), or never let one "control you" (i. e., monogamy is considered castration). All in all, this behavior is an indication of insecurities, fears, inadequacies, and problems which will never allow you to be loved and happy.

Dr. Laura Schlessinger

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A happy marriage is the true test of your skills in the art of femininity.

Arlene Dahl, Always Ask a Man: Arlene Dahl's Key to Femininity

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I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase, ‘You’ll attract more bees with honey than you will with vinegar.’ This is the very aspect of human nature against which feminists have rebelled. To them, being sweet means being a doormat. They are wrong. Being feminine - kind, soft, nurturing, or whatever adjective you prefer - is only suffocating if you’re in love with a Neanderthal. . . . Most men are much nicer than feminists would have you believe. And if you treat them with honey as opposed to vinegar, you’d be surprised what you’ll get in return.

Suzanne Venker, How to Choose a Husband: and Make Peace with Marriage

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Women have no idea how to use their femininity to their advantage, so they end up rearing their heads, trying to be something they’re not. Instead of becoming wives, they become competitors. This is the number one mistake women make. . . Men like to chase women and women like to be chased - that’s just the way it is. Don’t become the hunter. Don’t call a guy or make the first move. Don’t try to take charge or be in control. That’s what men are supposed to do. Let them.

Suzanne Venker, How to Choose a Husband: and Make Peace with Marriage

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No other role in your life will require more selflessness than being a wife and mother. If you want to be successful at it, you need to start thinking about other people’s needs. You need to ignore all that coddling you’ve been given and stop thinking in terms of what you think you deserve or are entitled to. To have a fulfilling, beautiful life- the best life you can have - you don’t need to find yourself. You need to get over yourself.

Suzanne Venker, How to Choose a Husband: and Make Peace with Marriage

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Does rejecting feminism mean rejecting women’s equality? No, because that’s not what feminism is about. Rejecting feminism means recognizing that women don’t need feminism to make them equal to men because they already are equal- just not the same. Does rejecting feminism mean rejecting women’s liberation? Yes- if liberation means liberating women from marriage and motherhood. We have learned the hard way that there is nothing empowering about ignoring one’s biology.

Suzanne Venker and Phyllis Schlafly, The Flipside of Feminism: What Conservative Women Know - And Men Can't Say

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The problem with the sexual revolution is that it was predicated on the lies that gender differences don’t exist and that women want what men want.

Suzanne Venker and Phyllis Schlafly, The Flipside of Feminism: What Conservative Women Know - And Men Can't Say

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The truth is that feminism has been the single worst thing that has happened to American women. It did not liberate women at all- it confused them. It made their lives harder…. Their female nature tells them sex requires love; marriage is important; children are a blessing; and men are necessary. The culture, meanwhile, tells them to sleep around and postpone family life because that will cost them their identity. And, if their marriage doesn’t work out, it’s no big deal. They can always get divorced. Is it any wonder modern women are unhappy?

Suzanne Venker and Phyllis Schlafly, The Flipside of Feminism: What Conservative Women Know - And Men Can't Say

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The second tenet of feminism is that, of all injustices perpetuated on women through the centuries, the most oppressive is that women have babies and men do not. The abolition of this inequality is the primary goal. That is why women on the left are compulsively driven to make abortion and daycare universally available to all women - and taxpayer-funded. Women on the left believe they can achieve equality with men only if they can control the number of babies they have (through contraception and abortion) and can outsource (through nannies or daycare) the care of the babies they do have. Eliminate the babies, and the equality goal will be achieved.

Suzanne Venker and Phyllis Schlafly, The Flipside of Feminism: What Conservative Women Know - And Men Can't Say