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Pressure to fit in perfect all the time!

Such a big pain point in life is this pressure. Why is there a constant urge to fit? Is this because we compare ourselves or else overthink how people judge us and that persistent badgering in our minds will give us no absolute form of stability ever again. This has become such a routine that we people think it's so normal to think and behave ourselves in this manner, and we throb for calmness in life where even a change in the climate is giving us that peace.

Do we not lose ourselves in this process? Is this okay?

Absolutely not, but how do we regain our strength to be normal?

It is not as simple as it sounds, but as we do need that consistency in life, at least for ourselves, we strive to detach these feelings while searching for our comfort zones, diversions, and finally not caring about any of this! I know I know kinda hard to do, but at least you would get such amazing results to yourself, and you can see them too. Make yourself happy with little things! Life eventually makes it way towards YOU!

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Nostalgia

This word carries a lot of weight is what I believe,everytime I use this wow a feeling of happy,sad, and also a pinch of emptiness has just said hello to me

Everything we do in the previous second is meant to be forgotten eventually, specific moments which makes us skip a beat are meant to be nostalgic.

What do we even do thinking abt em?

Regret or be glad

That's left upon our choice.. I prefer mostly to be glad, cuz uk they r moments and wholeheartedly u have lived through em, cried past through em!

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Pause be good for u?!

Will we ever be able to unlove someone whom we loved soo much?

Wow just a flash video memory of all the happy moments and then again overlooked by regrets.

Unloving someone is a complicated and fussy thing to do

We just can't eradicate or erase our feelings soo soon.

We prefer the idea of unloving to attain a peace of mind. But practically doing that is impossible. When we liked them,loved em. We utterly gave a piece of our mind/heart to them.

Let that piece be broken and may that broken piece be a moral of thy story!

U don't unlove someone so easily as u would think so and try to do and u never will..

Irresponsible aggressiveness towards people is what we face while going through these stages.

Y'ALL KNOW LOVE IS PAIN AND YET WE FALL INTO IT

IRONIC ISN'T?

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Is past is just a story we tell ourselves?

Maybe u aren't readyy to make this story let past you like u did many of them

Maybe it's hard to move on cause u aren't ready for this to become a memory!

We want this story to rejuvenate itself and show us a new auraa

A calm ending I suppose!

Spend your time healing yourself for urself🖤

Don't get socially convinced to move on and start a new phase where u have to pretend of who you are not anymore

Not doing anything is not a waste of time

It's a period where u get prepared for all the things u did face and traumatizes you everytime u overthink about it!

Don't let the former ruin your latter🌸

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Suffer and Sustain!

Physical pain is the only thing we can recognize and also can be healed for a period of time. We suffer through all of that only to rise after the pain we are now enduring.

We sustain through that pain only because we deep down believe that it goes way after a certain time...

We go through with some of that sufferings knowingly with all the sane stability yet we crawl all the way hoping to reach a destination.

Is there a destination after all?

Or is this journey a loop?

These types of sufferings don't have a rise we tend to learn how to survive with these gradually and we don't give up the path we chose to heal those, we fight so hard with ourselves even when nobody else believes we don't go down easily.

We hold to the hope we created and cling on to it until our last breath.

We just can't do anything about those never ending no destined journey! We choose to start it soo let it be and don't give up

Don't lose yourself on that road cuz you started the journey hoping you find the new you!

FIND THE NEW YOU.

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It all comes down to Courage!

When it's something you can't figure out! The final solution for it will always be COURAGE

That is what we need in life to overcome anything u think that is hard. But unfortunately it is the thing each of us differ in. This is the thing which decides who we really are!

The one who have the most of it become Extroverts!

And the ones who lack Introverts.

Then, what about the people who don't fit in those above 2 sentences.

Are these people invisible?

We are the Extroverts to all introverts and vice versa.

Wow feels so good to say that sentence out loud!!

Doing the most riskiest work is not Courage, even the small little things which pricks you and subconsciously scares you can also be done and even that's courageous!

We may not be the great historic soldiers who fought battles for our country's freedom but we do fight our own battles, fears every fucking day.

Be proud to be in a battle, don't let those little crabby things eat up your mind and control it.

We all are here for our freedom in all ways!

Enjoy it;)

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Did u ever miss ur own energy?

It's like what happened to me?

Why am I not myself anymore ?

This feels like searching for a special star in a galaxy! Everything u see in a galaxy is good yet u can't find that specific thing u lost, which you evidently think that defines you.

The issue is you can't find it and also it leaves you in loop where you think you don't know urself, YOU ARE LOST.

Damn, this shit is huge when u overthink!

These things eventually alarm you,gradually takes all of your mental peace and finally makes your day gloomy..

Every one experience this kinda phase some may know and some may not. I know,even this shall pass too. But sometimes it becomes soo hard to live your life whilst subletting your mind with these thoughts.

When u find 'that lack' in your energy,Don't overthink just fill the sack up with ur new energy u feel at the very moment.

Everything u do Is You.

Be the NEW YOU!!

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Unrealistic expectations!

It's funny u know to expect frm ppl u love and u whole heartedly believe that even they have the same vibe with u... If that's what happens then it's all well and good, you are the most happiest person!

But what if it doesn't ...

We humans, need a lot of freaking time to process,every thing around us setting aside whether it's a happy or sad moment! Even though we have a lot of expressions, atlast they all sum up to happy or sad.

If something happy had happened we need someone to tell us that a quite few times to totally believe and indulge in that fact!! Then we'll be happy soo heartily!!!

If something sad had happened we behave soo differently and we question our instincts, try to think who we are! Although after a awful amount of time we'll be fine,nevertheless!

Why don't we question ourselves when we are happy?

Why does this happen only when we are depressed!?

I don't know honestly, I myself try to bring this change in me but u know that'd hurt us a lot!

Maybe trying to question ourself is not an answer to a problem.

Rather than questioning urself,try to focus on yourself!

Let que sera sera ! Take care of everything!!:))

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Pain demands to be felt!

We go through each and every rough patch in our life, how do we actually do?

This is not just physical scars but also the mental stability of our mind and the challenge we face to get through it! Even though it may seem soo simple and doable while speaking,it isn't! It's hurts a lot than the physical ones!

We just don't sit around blandly hoping something would happen like it's shown in movies!

But,dear No one's gonna help you get through

U yourself is the solution for it.

We just think this is temporary, something good is gonna happen to me further, while we are not stable. This Hope, This desire keeps us strong and helps us strive past our hardships.

Our Brain is build in such a way that it calms down,thinks effectively when u believe in positive vibes, when u believe in the arrival of happiness,good times!!

Set yourself free!🌼

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Moments of impact , define who you are!

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Emotional Attachment!

Humans are made in such a way that they are meant to get attached, even if that happens reluctantly!

I recently experienced major loss in my life,it hurts to let it go! I was soo emotionally attached to that person, I shared my every moment with him rightt from my childhood. He was just not my grandfather but my hero,best friend,my inspiration,mentor and anything i need in every situation! He was my go to person for any hardship in my life!

In the generation were our existence is invisible for people until n unless we do something exciting, he made me more n more alive in the way I am.

Our little talks for a few mins made my day soo better,but now I just cherish those moments. He handled his every little problem until death,with a very confident smile on his face. I'll always miss u and love u!

But sometimes things don't go our way, I know he'd be looking at me from above and I'm sure he'll be happy by the way I handled things.

Nothing is more painful than death,all of our problems,regrets,heart breaks everything is temporary and curable. REMEMBER!

I'll always be your girl.. and now we are happy that you are with us every second!!

This post is dedicated to my late grandfather!❤

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Being a good person is a curse sometimes!

Everything u do is considered fake but deep inside you know that "It is who you are" and you'll never be able to change your trueself to a person who doesn't even care for others!

People are mean,careless,selfish and what not. Sometimes being all these is necessary and in this generation only these "People" contemplate our society and we all believe that's all normal!

When people be all themselves and care for others they are the bad bitches here! They are the ones who are fake,betray their friends,hopeless!

We all are being raised in a society where being a good person is a curse, people can use us, easily available to be unfaithful to and many more! Atlast the victims are blamed cuz they are soo innocent, gave lenience too, could have cared less !

Being a good person can be a curse sometimes but that's who you are and let's not pretend to be someone else because of someone be who u are always, because u cannot be that shallow and stoop soo low!

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Say Yes To Life!?

Does this workout everytime... probably NO!

Okay then let's try saying No

Even that isn't gonna work my friend!

Soo why not go with the flow and surrender yourself to the present moment!

Sometimes even doing this may be hard. But life isn't always flowers and butterflies. Is it?

We always need some thing to make dark and gloomy. This part of the life also should be a progression and that is something we can all strive for!

Take every part of your journey as a adventure and explore it! Don't try to complicate things,that's just our way to pressurize our minds!

JUST SAY YES!

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Do we cry everytime for a reason??

That's just a random question popped into my mind!

We all do cry.

What's the point of shedding tears? Do u feel okay?

Hell yeah! Is the only ans for me.. after that reasonful or reasonless crytime.

Our brain experiences a natural urge to do things! It takes every task as a challenge and keeps up the work

This may not be some written theory but it's what I observed! No offense peeps!!

After a certain age crying seems to be awful, I don't know why people do this to youngsters. I hope that will be stopping soon.

We cry over people,things,career,conflicts and what not we even cry after seeing some romcom movie,don't we? All these are common in each person's life cause these are the similar reasons with different circumstances faced by ppl.

We do cry without a Reason too.. we just don't notice it and let it pass by! Sometimes a nice cry can just satisfy us and that's the end of the story.. but wht abt other times.. it can lead to many other serious things for example -depression.

This post is for people who fight for themselves every night and wake up strong to face the world confidently. It's just a remainder that "you are not alone!"

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' A perfect calm,brezzy evening! '

Me : let's make some tea! and go click pictures of the sky!! Yayy!

Also Me : I'm readdy! clicks 2 beautiful photos... Okay now lemme write something on it!

' The very next moment,

It's start raining 🌧'

Me : It's okayy! We'll do it some other day, Takes my tea and goes home🤧

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We are at a point in our lives nevertheless the ages!

We just wanna run away from our lives and at the same time we just wanna be calm and stress free...and don't even wanna move from our comfort zones.

We want it work both ways and that's not at all easy. We certainly will realize that someday or other.

We are yearning for a place to go where we shouldn't be scared off and just wanna be at peace for once in these years.

When there's a change in sky's colour we just feel excited cause those little things are just making us excited and helping us to just rejunuvate ourselves from our stressful and tedious lifestyle.

I hope u all are doing okayy and just keep fighting 🌼

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It’s never how pretty u look! It’s the way how u taste and how people characteristise you for being YOU Nevertheless that doesn’t mean u should change….. Be the same do not ever change for the society 💙 Being U makes u different and special 🧡🍃