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Oppositional sexism is a very useful term actually. Like, so much is better explained by the idea of “there’s a societal belief that men and women should remain opposites and should have no overlapping traits” than “this is homophobia/transphobia”. Why does society hate displays of femininity in men and masculinity in women? It’s oppositional sexism. They hate that you’re proof that masculinity and femininity aren’t inherently opposites. Thank you julia serano for another banger

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Male writers writing female characters:

“Cassandra woke up to the rays of the sun streaming through the slats on her blinds, cascading over her naked chest. She stretched, her breasts lifting with her arms as she greeted the sun. She rolled out of bed and put on a shirt, her nipples prominently showing through the thin fabric. She breasted boobily to the stairs, and titted downwards.”

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Mettaton knows his audience

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new types of flags i made

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happy june everybody i hope you get fucked and/or sucked this month

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when she says she doesn’t send nudes

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drawing people i see in the city (47/?) lil dude also had the best conversation opener:

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RIP yahoo answers

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[laziestmongoose]

trans women don't have to be extremely feminine and skinny,,, you are still a woman no matter how much you present yourself, especially if you're butch and a trans woman of color(especially if you're BOTH)

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really fucking frustrating it's a common experience for black people to be told they're aggressive and scary for being rightfully upset at white ignorance and racism, often being told we're "racist against whites"

I got told I was leaning too much into "white devil talk" and that I'm aggressive because I am extremely irritated over the anti-blackness exerted by the white/non black people in leftist spaces. I usually try to word myself in a respectful and assertive manner but ig it's not too nice and cute baby talk for White folks who infantilize themselves over the smallest criticism towards their racism

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Hello trans woman with internalized transmisogyny. In the next room is a group of people who all want to have sex with you. Not just anyone who will begrudgingly be alright with you as long as they have sex, but people who truly want to have sex with you in particular. There's no need to convince them because they will practically throw themselves at you. Your task is to pick one of them and top for at least 5 consecutive minutes without crying from feeling like you're harming them in some way. If you fail this task you will be given a copy of Whipping Girl by Julia Serano and as many therapy sessions as you need to overcome the way you view yourself, all paid by me. Wait why are you crying already it hasn't even begun yet what the fuck how hurt are you

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[laziestmongoose]

decentralize and clean up your life!!!

use overdrive, libby, hoopla, cloudlibrary, and kanopy instead of amazon and audible.

use firefox instead of chrome or opera (both are made with chromium, which blocks functionality for ad-blockers. firefox isn't based on chromium).

use mega or proton drive instead of google drive.

get rid of bloatware

use libreoffice instead of microsoft office suite

use vetted sites on r/FREEMEDIAHECKYEAH for free movies, books, games, etc.

use trakt or letterboxd instead of imdb.

use storygraph instead of goodreads.

use darkpatterns to find mobile game with no ads or microtransactions

use ground news to read unbiased news and find blind spots in news stories.

use mediahuman or cobalt to download music, or support your favorite artists directly through bandcamp

make youtube bearable by using mtube, newpipe, or the unhook extension on chrome, firefox, or microsoft edge

use search for a cause or ecosia to support the environment instead of google

use thriftbooks to buy new or used books (they also have manga, textbooks, home goods, CDs, DVDs, and blurays)

use flashpoint to play archived online flash games

find books, movies, games, etc. on the internet archive! for starters, here's a bunch of David Attenborough documentaries and all of the Animorphs books

burn your music onto cds

use pdf24 (available online or as a desktop app) instead of adobe

use unroll.me to clean your email inboxes

use thunderbird, mailfence, countermail, edison mail, tuta, or proton mail instead of gmail

remove bloatware on windows PC, macOS, and iOS X

remove bloatware on samsung X

use pixelfed instead of instagram or meta

use NCH suite for free software like a file converter, image editor, video editors, pdf editor, etc.

feel free to add more alternatives, resources or advice in the reblogs or replies, and i'll add them to the main post <3

last updated: march 18th 2025

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terfs cannot be touching my fucking meowth posting when hes literally played by a trans woman okay like hes off limits. i know that cat dabbles a little in they/them and she/her